How to Get Real on Dating Apps: Online Communication, Authenticity & Attraction with Maureen Pound

In this episode of Pleasure Principles, host Sana sits down with Maureen Pound—author, TikTok creator, and bold voice in modern dating—to unpack how men can show up authentically online and actually meet great women in real life. From mindset traps and messaging mistakes to profile pics that turn women away, Maureen gives a no-fluff, real-world guide to digital dating. She also shares personal stories, including how being rated a "6" as a teen shaped her outlook on beauty and connection. Whether you're looking for love, fun, or clarity—this is an episode worth listening to.

About the GuestMaureen Pound is the author of How to Get Laid on Tinder (for Men) and host of a podcast by the same name. Known for her direct, insightful, and often humorous takes on dating, Maureen helps men communicate better, show up with confidence, and connect authentically in the digital dating world. Her work blends communication psychology, real-world experience, and a deeply human approach to relationships.

Key Takeaways

• The biggest mistake men make in online dating is entering with a defeatist mindset—not messaging style.

• Your belief system drives how you interpret digital interactions; confidence and persistence matter.

• Messages like “hey” or “sexy” won’t cut through—reference something specific from her profile.

• Authenticity doesn’t mean oversharing—trust is built gradually.

• Strong dating profiles include a clear face shot, a full-body/action photo, and minimal distractions in the background.

• Avoid dating apps when feeling low—your energy reflects in how you message.

• There's no one “perfect” type; attraction is subjective. Someone out there is looking for you.

 

Connect with Maureen PoundWebsite & Podcast: www.howtogetlaidontinder.comBook available in hard copy, Kindle, and on Amazon.

 

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