November 29, 2024 • 47 mins
Embracing Winter's Energy: Astrological Insights and Seasonal Reflections
In this combined episode of Practically Magick, Courtney Pearl and co-host Kambria Davis delve into the significance of winter and Scorpio season. They discuss the importance of embracing the natural rhythms of the season, including rest and transformation. Kambria highlights how the astrological energies of death and rebirth are especially pertinent during this time, influencing many aspects of life, from personal growth to societal changes. The discussion emphasizes the need to resist the hustle culture, allowing for rest and reflection, and aligning with nature's cycles for better mental, emotional, and physical well-being. They also share personal anecdotes, offer practical advice, and invite listeners to embrace the upcoming winter season intentionally. The episode concludes with insights on birth chart readings and a reminder to make magic in everyday life.
00:00 Introduction and Welcome
00:53 Election Day Energy
02:57 Scorpio Season Insights
05:31 Navigating Change and Transformation
11:03 Embracing Winter and Letting Go
16:32 The Importance of Rest and Reflection
26:09 The Importance of a 'Do Nothing' Day
26:36 Finding Space and Asking for Help
28:24 Managing Client Relationships and Personal Time
29:01 Challenging the Hustle Culture
30:11 The Benefits of Rest and Digest
31:56 Embracing Seasonal Changes
33:41 The Struggle with Doing Nothing
34:28 Astrology and Life Transitions
42:50 Final Thoughts and Contact Information
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Ride The
Podcast
Network [00:01.455] Croeso,welcome, this is Tactically Magic.
We are doing a combined episode today.
I am here with my co-host.
Would
co-host.
Would
you like to introduce yourself?
Kambria
[00:12.866]
Hello everybody,
Davis with
I'm Cambria Davis with the
astrologer.
Ride The Wave
Kaya podcast, Daybreak's local astrologer.
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Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [00:21.998]
Mine with Daybriggs
Mine with Daybriggs Local
Witch.
At the time that we'rerecording this, it is election
day.
So we're just going toof talk about the energy
around that
and what's
looking forward.
But we're going to start this episodeas I do on my podcast Practically Magic.
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I'm Courtney Pearl, by the way, incase you didn't know that already.
I'm going to pull a card.
So I'm using my Samhain Seasons of theWitch deck because we just switched into
the season of Samhain or in Welsh it is orin the Celtic calendar it's Calan Gaeff.
Calan Gaeff November 1st starts winter.
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The Celtic calendar didn't reallyrecognize like the in-between
seasons of like spring and fallbut just the dark half of the year
and the light half of the year.
So we're celebrating winter.
Kambria [01:07.534]
No,
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [01:22.869]
Especially here in Utah today.
It's pretty much snowing outside I haven'tspent a lot of time out there, but I
people walk past my window with theirhats on and coats and gloves and scarves
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and I'm like I'll stay inside today
Welcome winter So
I pulled a card and actually AppropriatelyI pulled the coming winter card.
I'm gonna show it in the camera
coming of
winter.
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She's looking out her window too.
She's not outside in it.
She's just looking out herwindow and that's me today.
I'm just like,
I'll stay here inside.
Look at all you folks out there.
Walk it
around.
I gotta go pick up my kids.
So I'm gonna be out
in it.
But I'll read what it
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says.
It says, It comes in lock
and Kambria [01:53.774]
Perfect timing.
Kambria [02:11.374]
Good?
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [02:20.123]
within your mirrored flesh.
Alas, it is time to lay your quiveringchest upon the winter's coming.
And that leads us right into
Scorpio season,
which Camry is the expert on.
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Let's talk about what that means.
What would you say about
that?
Kambria [02:32.526]
expected.
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man, yeah, I mean think, I thinkScorpio season, well Scorpio is the
most intense sign of the zodiac.
And
sign of
think most people are feelingthat intensity, right?
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are feeling that
me, and not like really funny,but the irony, right, of election
season in the United States is.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [02:58.662]
For sure.
Kambria [03:11.348]
always placed in Scorpio season andScorpio energy is the energy of death and
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like
again astrology doing its thing.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [03:19.127]
huh.
Kambria [03:24.846]
right, bringing in the energyof transformation, shedding the
old, new birth, new beginning.
So regardless of how every electionturns out, is like an ending
season
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term or presidency or previouskind of energetic four years
United
a lot of things that are intensehappen in Scorpio season.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [03:44.183]
Hmm.
Kambria [03:49.77]
right?
I mean we have multiple holidays thatkind of anchor the season and if some
people consider Thanksgiving a holiday,which I do not, but you know there's
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kind of intense you know things that comeup if you happen to live in different
hemispheres or parts here like you do with
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right daylight savings time whichfeels like it might be just an hour
but i know for me personally andmany people that i talk to it feels
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like some kind of like huge reset
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [04:23.975]
Mm-hmm.
Kambria [04:25.294]
Like everything, and then for me, havean epileptic dog, so he gets medicine
at certain hours, three times a day.
So even a one hour shift for the nextweek, every day I have to adjust his
medicine about five or 10 minutes, fiveor 10 minutes, five or 10 minutes to
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get to the actual timing that works.
So there's a lot that's happening.
doing
season and it all lendsto, you know, what's our
Ride The Wave
will always be there.
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The question is, do we fight it?
Do we resist against it?
Or, you know, do we know how to movewith it and accept it and surrender?
Ride
kind of anchor the season and if somepeople consider Thanksgiving a holiday,
which I do not, but you know there'skind of intense you know things that come
up if you happen to live in differenthemispheres or parts here like you do with
the falling back of the clocks rightdaylight savings time which feels like
it might be just an hour but i know forme personally and many people that i talk
to it feels like some kind of like hugereset Ride The Wave Media Podcast Network
[04:23.975]
Mm-hmm.
Kambria [04:25.294]
Like everything, and then for me, havean epileptic dog, so he gets medicine
at certain hours, three times a day.
So even a one hour shift for the nextweek, every day I have to adjust his
medicine about five or 10 minutes, fiveor 10 minutes, five or 10 minutes to
get to the actual timing that works.
So there's a lot that's happening.
and Scorpio season and it all lends to,you know, what's our ability, what's our
willingness to transform because changeand transformation will always be there.
The question is, do we fight it?
Do we resist against it?
Or, you know, do we know how to movewith it and accept it and surrender?
Ride The Wave Media PodcastNetwork [05:12.112] Yeah.
Yeah.
And I think that's a great pointto bring up even during this
election season, because when thiscomes out, we'll know the result.
We don't
know today, but we're
like not going
into
voting with fear andcontention, but rather,
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you know, not
resisting that
being able to trust
like,
I cast my vote, I
do my part
as and then just trust
that I got to go with, you know, what
comes of
it.
That it's going to be okay.
Not
afraid of the future.
My husband and my momare both Scorpio's sons.
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So I'm getting more
familiar with what that means for me
as far as like how wecan connect with each
other being like, I'm a Pisces,they're Scorpios and like,
it's such a different emotional
kind of energy, but both like
very emotional.
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[That makes sense.
Would you say
Yeah, yeah.
yeah, mean, but scorpions are like,again, they're like a scorpion.
They're also what we would, youknow, they're also the phoenix.
So, phoenix has...
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [06:28.008]
Mm-hmm.
Kambria [06:29.454]
have to, in order for a phoenixto rise, there has to be a
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burning, has to be ashes, right?
And so that can apply to so many things.
like if we just look at, you know, again,because it's election day, and I think
that there's so much intensity surroundingit, there are a lot of people living
in fear on, you know, the either side,if you will, of a two party system that
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Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [06:38.106]
Thank you.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [06:54.757]
Mm-hmm.
Kambria [06:58.382]
personally I think islong over working, right?
So, you know, there's a lot hereout there and there's, and these are
very real things for a lot of people.
And that being said, understanding,you know, where we are forced to
transform, where we are forced to likeshed the old and begin something new.
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And that happens when we,
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [07:04.199]
Yeah.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [07:11.269]
Hmm
Kambria [07:24.93]
have a relationship, have a new job, buya new house, move to a new place, right?
So many of our life passes onto thenext world, like literally dies.
We're constantly shedding and
Podcast
pair of pants that you have for twoyears, like that process, and some
feels more intense than others.
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Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [07:36.109]
Mm-hmm.
Kambria [07:45.294]
But yes, Scorpio isdefinitely deeply feeling.
You and I were talking a little bitbefore we started recording about
like, I'm like, man, everything, likea little thing right now feels bigger.
And there's a point for that.
There's a reason for that.
And that's what I love aboutastrology is there's kind of a reason
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and a season for each thing, but
intense than others.
Ride The Wave Media
it's still a water sign.
So it's still emotionaland it still has feelings.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [07:56.168]
Yeah.
Kambria [08:13.102]
It's just fixed water.
So maybe, you know, the feelings might notbe as flowing up and down as a Pisces or a
Cancer, but it's still going to be there.
It's just going to feel a littlebit rougher in those feelings.
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Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [08:28.655]
Yeah, yeah, I've noticed that too, justin how we interact with each other, but.
And then again, like you alwaystalk about like this season right
now and like how we're all Scorpioright now a little bit or knowing
that season is really important too.
Cause yeah, I felt all of thosethings like the, I don't know, kind
of like the universe highlightingcertain things that I be holding onto.
This is going to be the time whenit's like, how's that working for you?
Kambria [08:43.239]
yeah.
Network [08:28.655]
Yeah, yeah, I've noticed that too, just
in how we interact with each other,
but.
And then again, like you always
talk about like thisseason right now and like
how we're all Scorpioright now a little bit or
knowing that season isreally important too.
Cause yeah, I felt all of those
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things like
the,
I don't know, kind of like theuniverse highlighting certain
things that I be holding onto.
This is going to be the time whenit's like, how's that working for you?
Kambria
[08:43.239]
yeah.
Ride the
Wave Media Podcast Network [09:02.681]
Let's take a real hard look at that.
And even I've been doing a lot more ofthese tarot readings and things lately.
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And I find it so interesting howmuch different themes come up.
No matter who's doing the readingor like who's coming to me with
my client is, I see a lot morelike the top, the tower card
is coming up a lot for people lately.
Like whether you like it or not, it's timeto decide if you're going to jump ship.
Kambria [09:16.622]
No.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [09:32.073]
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or if you're gonna go down with the ship,but the ship's going down either way.
This power is burning.
So are you gonna hang on or are you gonna
go find something else that works?
And then the nine and 10 words arecoming up a lot of people I've noticed.
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That's like
either on the cusp or on
Kambria [09:32.728]
you
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [10:01.576]
finality of saying that you'reholding on to on your life.
That's like,
this is real hard.
Like right now you're experiencingall the hard about everything
that you've done before.
You've made certain choices andyou're on this path, but like you're
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in a moment right now where you caneither decide I am so done with this.
I'm done with the way I do thingsbecause it's so not working.
And the 10 of swords would be like, I'm
done, it's dead, I'm
leaving behind, it's got 10swords in its back and I'm out.
Kambria [10:38.798]
Cool, cool.
Yeah, I mean,
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cool.
Yeah, I mean, that's happening currentlyin Scorpio season and something too,
like a good metaphor that I like tothink of Scorpio season is like, you
know, we're heading into winter, right?
We're going into winter, at least inthis hemisphere where we live in Utah.
And you you think about it, like ifyou had to pack up and leave a place,
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right, for the term of winter, whatwould you choose to take with you?
That's the energy of Scorpio.
Like we're heading into winter, we'regoing into a season where we have
less energy, we have less resources.
Yeah, I was talking to my barberdude, was like, I'm taking these
pills, they'll shed a few pounds.
And I was like, wrong season, man.
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Kambria [11:24.622]
going
Ha ha.
Kambria [11:24.622]
going into winter your body knows whatit's supposed to do your body actually
wants is meant to gain weight and puton some pounds to last through right
the the dead of winter and potentiallynot having enough food and warmth so
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [11:40.596]
Mm-hmm.
Kambria [11:42.324]
It's like we have been so taught andso conditioned to fight against the
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natural rhythms of what's happening.
This is the season of saying,let go of what you don't need.
Leave behind what you cannotcarry into this winter season.
and slow
And that's the season to rest andreflect and just cozy up and get and slow
do.
I
down because.
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Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [12:08.324]
Kambria [12:09.824]
We don't have the same energy as we do.
I like what you said.
In Celtic, it's like the light side ofthe year and the dark side of the year.
And that just makes it really simple.
you know, we're in a transitionalphase astrologically, but, you
know, we're going into that.
So what can you let go of?
What can't you carry?
And maybe you really want to, but youhave to start making choices, right?
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Or if I really want to take thisthing, I can't also carry this.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [12:36.223]
Yeah.
Kambria [12:37.586]
And we're seeing that, right?
We're seeing that on a global level.
We're seeing that on a national level.
We're seeing that on an individual levelof like, things are shifting and changing.
And it's my hope, like, I just am like,it'll be really interesting whenever
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this airs and once there becomessome quote unquote result, you know,
are people able to shift and change?
regardless and I know astrologicallythat this election is a big deal
and I also know that other thingsare happening in the cosmos for the
next 20 years that this almost feelslike really just the beginning.
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Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [13:17.378]
Uh-huh,
yeah.
Yes.
I hesitate
to say how
we've
like corresponded this with a
feminine awakening and I
don't mean to bring that up as
like because this electionhas a woman running.
But the energy I'm talking about
more than anything is that
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a lot of people respond tothe coming into winter and the
rest period as a feminine time.
Not to say that that'sjust like about women.
It's about The feminineaspect of all of us.
Like what does it mean to embracethe idea that, well actually, that
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actually makes a lot of sense.
Kambria [13:45.806]
Right.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [13:58.548]
now that I think about it.
I just pulled before our recording.
Kambria [13:59.105]
out.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [14:03.904]
these cards that we talk about,these are like a certain deck that I
have that are just words and they'resupposed to be connecting with spirit.
And I did this little mini readingwhere I just like, wonder what's
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going to come up for this episode.
And we were kind ofjoking about it because I
said, is there anything to do withpregnancy that you can think of?
Like why that would be coming up?
Cambria's like, not me.
And I'm like, not me, but.
Kambria [14:12.174]
Okay.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [14:32.956]
I always bring up pregnancy incertain readings or in certain healing
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sessions when it comes up for peoplein the healing work of the sakra
or the creative center of the body.
Because to me,
wintertime and femininityand that feminine energy, it
corresponds a lot with pregnancy
because
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Kambria [14:39.598]
Thank you.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [15:00.478]
not in a literal sense, but in more of
like energy of not
being physically productivein a project or something,
but being like letting the project just
build itself in like, thought and mind.
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So I always
like, I always tell
clients who are kind of stuck in thatenergy of like, I've got to do, do,
do, do, I've got to be productive.
I've got to be like,
Kambria [15:02.722]
more.
Kambria [15:20.952]
Yeah.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [15:29.45]
hustle culture, right?
Like I gotta hustle.
And I say, nobody's ever tellinga pregnant woman to hurry up.
and make that baby, right?
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Like
you would never like yell at apregnant woman for sitting on the
couch
and be like, you're supposedto be making a brain
today.
You're supposed to belike developing a baby.
What are you doing sitting on the couch?
You would never do that.
And that is the energy of like what Isee going in the winter is like, you
cannot hustle your way through it.
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This is a time to still yourself,your mind and your body.
Kambria [15:54.722]
way.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [16:09.536]
to be able to then produce whatyou're going to be producing in the
more physically productive times.
Am I making any sense here?
For me, that's pregnancy energy.
Kambria
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yeah, and it's birth.
It's birthing, right?
So think pregnancy can be,really like pregnancy is very
direct, which that could be.
Maybe somebody listening to this,this will resonate something for them.
When we talked about it too, wekind of brought it up and I was
like, no, that's not tracking.
But if we, if we expand that intojust birth, again, what needs to die?
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Right?
We all only have so much energy,so much space, so much bandwidth.
And so, you know, the people who can be,who can be aware of their own energetic
field, own bandwidth, to me are the peoplewho, you know, are really learning how
to set those boundaries and understandingthat the go, go, go is not how we're
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built and that there's a period of
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [16:47.846]
Mm-hmm.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [17:06.775]
Just station.
Yes.
Kambria [17:14.858]
know, birthing, there's a period ofbuilding, there's a period of creating,
you're literally molding something,birthing something, providing nutrients,
just, you know, all these things thatare happening in that process, you know.
So what, you know, thatis, that is winter.
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Yeah.
You know, because it's not, itdoesn't mean you can't go start
something new or whatever, but
to this,
It's the season, again, we look outside,it's snowing, the leaves are down and
things are starting to really die andthen they become very dormant for a
period of time, which is ultimatelythe season for us to do the same.
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And that's when some of thecreativity, know, there's so many
studies about the brain and how
know, kid children or people, adultsin general as well, have lost their
creativity because we don't find boredom.
not, we never haveopportunities to slow down.
We don't just sit around.
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If we're sitting, we're reading,watching a show on our cell phones,
on our laptops, on the phone, youknow, it's rare that's like, I'm
just going to sit to sit, you know?
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [18:14.379]
Yeah.
my God.
Kambria [18:25.23]
There are a of people, me personally,like so many of my creative or intentional
or intuitive ideas often come in theshower or the tub or something like that.
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Well, what am I doing?
I'm bored and I'm present.
know, that is, that is winter.
Yeah.
You know, because it's not, itdoesn't mean you can't go start
something new or whatever, but
It's the season, again, we look outside,it's snowing, the leaves are down and
things are starting to really die andthen they become very dormant for a
period of time, which is ultimatelythe season for us to do the same.
And that's when some of thecreativity, know, there's so many
studies about the brain and how
know, kid children or people, adultsin general as well, have lost their
creativity because we don't find boredom.
not, we never haveopportunities to slow down.
We don't just sit around.
If we're sitting, we're reading,watching a show on our cell phones,
on our laptops, on the phone, youknow, it's rare that's like, I'm
just going to sit to sit, you know?
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [18:14.379]
Yeah.
my God.
yeah, so that's the season.
So yeah, I think like from apregnancy standpoint, great.
Everybody take, you know,five, six months to give birth.
take the time to really feed andnurture and learn about this thing that
you're birthing and then come springequinox, know, boom, now you're gonna
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have energy, the sun's back out, nowyou give it life and give it action.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [19:03.325]
Yes.
And that's so important because weas a society in like, like I said,
hustle culture, which we are all partof, it's so focused on if I've got 10
minutes between, I don't know, washor something, I'm going to fill it
with, you know, emailing contacts and,you know, make a social media clip.
I'm guilty of it probablymore than anybody.
I'm like, what can I dowith that 10 minutes?
But I often find myself beingjealous of my past self.
When I was in college, Ihad a job at a certain home
improvement store as a cashier.
And I was in the lumber side of the store.
And for those of you who've ever worked orknow what store I'm talking about, nobody
hardly ever goes to the lumber cashier.
Lumber cashier stands there forlike hours with no customer.
Sometimes those commercial sales peoplewill come through, but it's the lowest
of the low in the authority lineup ofcashiers and you start lumber cashier.
So you're just over thereby yourself for hours.
I remember they wouldn't evenlet me have reading material or
Kambria [20:04.354]
Yeah.
Kambria [20:10.574]
you
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [20:27.359]
Obviously you couldn'thave your phone with you.
Those were like the rules.
And I would have, I mean, justliterally like two, three hours
sometimes that I didn't see asoul on that part of the store.
I would stand there.
we weren't allowed to sit either.
That's a whole thing.
But I had to stand there atthe counter and I had nothing
but my own minds to keep me.
I came up with the most elaborate
Kambria [20:31.576]
Yeah.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [20:56.663]
fantastical stories to entertainmyself and I used to think it was
so awful, like just so boring.
But now I'm so busy as a mom, asa business owner, as a podcast,
or as a everything that I am.
I'm like, when do I have time to standthere for hours and just think thoughts?
I don't even allow it for myself.
Kambria [21:20.748]
Yes.
And that's so important because we
as a society in like like I said,hustle culture, which we are all
part of, it's so focused on
if I've got 10 minutesbetween, I don't know,
wash or something, I'mgoing to fill it with,
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you know, emailing contacts and,
you know, make a social media clip.
I'm guilty of it probably
more than anybody.
I'm like, what can I dowith that 10 minutes?
But I often find myself being
jealous of my past self.
When I was in college, Ihad a job at a certain home
(20:07):
improvement store as a cashier.
And I was in the lumber side of the store.
And for those of you who've ever worked or
know what store I'm talking about, nobodyhardly ever goes to the lumber cashier.
Lumber cashier stands therefor like hours with no
(20:29):
customer.
Sometimes those commercialsales people will come through,
but it's
the lowest of the low in
the authority lineup of cashiersand you start lumber cashier.
So you're just over thereby yourself for hours.
I remember they wouldn'teven let me have reading
material or
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Kambria [20:04.354]
Yeah.
Kambria [20:10.574]
you
Ride the Wave MediaPodcast Network [20:27.359]
Obviously you couldn'thave your phone with you.
Those were like the rules.
And I
would have, I mean, justliterally like two, three hours
sometimes that I didn't see a soul
on that part of the store.
I would stand there.
we weren't allowed to sit either.
That's a whole thing.
But I had to stand there at the counter
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and I had nothing butmy own minds to keep me.
I came up with the most
elaborate
Kambria [20:31.576]
Yeah.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [20:56.663]
fantastical stories to entertain myself
and I used to think it was soawful, like just so boring.
But now I'm so busy as a mom, asa business owner, as a podcast,
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or as a everything that I am.
I'm like, when do I have time tostand there for hours and just think
thoughts?
I don't even allow it for myself.
Kambria
[21:20.748]
Yeah, totally.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [21:24.277]
And it's so important.
So yeah, I have been goingthrough a transition period just
these last few months where I'm
like, summer was busy.
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I definitely filled my schedule.
I continue to do that.
Still I go, okay, what, whatcan I do with the time I have?
I'll fill it up.
And I had, I was in a study group.
we read a book called the Wander Society.
I don't know if you've ever heard of that.
But the Wander Society is kind of ananti-capitalist movement of people
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who basically use rest and wanderingas a form of activism against
hustle culture kind of thing,where instead of having a plan,
you actually have time in yourschedule that's totally unplanned.
And you're supposed to go wandering.
You're supposed to go outfor walks or for whatever.
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You're supposed to wander about the city.
Kambria [22:03.434]
Woo hoo.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [22:18.721]
wander about the countryside,wherever you are.
And there's a whole book that gives yousuggestions on how to do that, how to,
what are different ways you can wander,
all kinds of things.
But we decided as a book club that it'snot just about walking around, it's
also about time spent doing nothingelse, like having no schedule, no
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plan,
listening to your own body and saying,what does my body wanna do right now?
Like, what do I feel like doing?
Kambria [22:31.246]
Bye!
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [22:49.315]
So I'm trying to clear my schedule a
little more for winter.
And
I'm trying to preservethat sacred space in my
life
for wandering.
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And for me, I said, I needto have time to read books.
I haven't had time forany of that all summer.
There's
some studying And reading I want to do.
And I want
time to talk to her
about
the house.
Kambria [23:15.114]
What?
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [23:18.222]
That's what I call it.
That's what they call it in English.
They say like,
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I'm just pottering at the house, you
know, just a little this and a littlethat and just walk around and, you know,
adjust place or whatever.
And I
realized if I have time to do that, then
I know,
that I'm kind of
making space for myself.
Like there's time to think thoughts
And
just pay attention to my space, my
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home.
Like the TV is off.
Kambria
[23:30.734]
Sure.
Ride The Wave Media PodcastNetwork [23:48.728] There's
no phone in my hand.
I'm just going about my
[house and paying attention to whatever happens to be around.
my house and paying attention towhatever happens to be around.
Kambria [23:58.86]
Yeah, no, that's so...
A few years ago, I would say probably,I don't know, probably four-ish years,
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maybe five, I started being reallyintentional about a do-nothing day.
And I, for a couple years, I would sayI was really intentional once a week.
But I would schedule it, right?
And like with a partner at the time, likewe would put in our calendar, we would
do it together, we had the opportunityand the privilege to be able to do so.
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Not everybody has that availableto them, I understand that.
And maybe not everybodyhas a do nothing day.
And then I would say maybe a coupleyears ago, I was really committed to this
like 10 minutes a day of doing nothing.
I'd set it along, I'd scheduleit, and it was just no phone,
no talking to, just 10 minutes.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [24:22.965]
Yeah.
Kambria [24:51.334]
And because I know itfeels overwhelming, right?
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Like I know there's so much.
So
all these things and just really it's been
I had a do nothing day on Sunday,my partner and I had that.
And it's so interesting because I'vebeen doing this like whole overhaul
of slowing down, this whole overhaulof like the amount that I produce is
not my personal value and like havingto learn, having to work through
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like the guilt and the shame and
the...
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [25:18.28]
Mm-hmm.
Kambria [25:19.062]
back to people and if I don't text peopleback then they're going to think that I
hate them but I don't really hate themand people who are like well how can you
post on social but not text you know likeall these things and just really it's
been a long journey of just being like mytime is my own and you know if I post or
if I take my kids on a walk or whateverand I can't get back to people I mean I
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think currently I have like 30 somethingmessages in my phone and it's not that
that's not important to me it's that
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [25:32.466]
Yeah.
Kambria [25:46.062]
I don't have the literally energeticcapacity anymore to manage it all.
And so the do nothing day, so onSunday, right, I was like, I told my
girlfriend, I was like, I need to donothing day, we would have been nonstop.
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It was a non kid weekend.
So it's always easier.
Again, we're very privileged tolike be able to figure that in but
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [25:51.986]
Yeah.
Kambria [26:10.698]
Just that reset, you know?
So I totally invite people overthe next between now and March.
Right?
So let's see, November,December, January, February.
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So basically four-ish, five-ish monthsto find that space, you know, to ask
for help with a partner or a friend.
Swap it out, right?
Hey, if you take my kids for twohours on this Sunday, I'll do
the next Sunday for two hours.
So you can just do nothingand I can do nothing.
And we were able to do like a whole day.
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So there's no...
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [26:34.345]
Yeah.
Kambria [26:47.29]
It doesn't mean you do nothing.
It just means that there's, you know,the phones are away for the most part.
And so being able to find that time,even if it's just 10 minutes a day,
you know, or social media, but like,whatever feels right to people, people
can figure that out for themselves.
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But having space, intentionalspace, and now I have to like
schedule it, which is also okay.
Ride The Wave Media
Podcast Network 27:15.264]Yep, you got to.
Yeah.
Kambria [27:17.368]
But
it's like, woo, know, able to do it.
And I'm kind of like you, where Iwas like initially today, I had a
pretty free day, and then, you know,life happens and you're like, I've
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got time here and I can do thisand I can meet up with this person.
And I'm like, wrong, camera, slow.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [27:36.56]
Yes.
Yeah.
And
I mean, even
as I've been clearing myschedule, certain projects, aka
the witch movie project, weregetting finished up, right?
And I was like, that took
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a lot of my time I was very busy with
all that.
And I
didn't have time to really text clients
back
for prism healing.
And that's hard for me because
And I know you know this, like whenyou're trying to build something new,
I want to
build clients for Prism Healing.
I want to check in with my clients.
I want to
have a personal relationshipwith my clients.
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I want people to, know I'm there for them.
And so you think, well, at least I do.
I think in my mind, like, okay, Ihave to be available all the time.
I have to,
you.
know, have this to-do list that I doevery week and I have to get it done.
And yeah, being able to like kind
of Kambria [28:02.414]
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you.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [28:32.302]
move from
that
space into the season we're
coming into right now.
I
had to be Like I have to fight my
own belief systems about
hustle and about
what, you know, building something or
like, this is what I want to achieve.
These are
my goals.
That means
I
have to not stop untilI achieve those goals.
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It's about, you know,go, go, go, work hard.
And then I
remembered
that's a lie.
that we've all been taught.
We've all been taught
that.
Like you don't give up, you
don't
rest,
you know, hit it hard.
This is what success looks like.
This is the recipe for success.
You've got to
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go, And I'm like, who says, right?
Like I had to stop and be like,
what if I become just as successful ormore so because I have Kambria [29:05.474]
Yes.
Ride The
Wave Media Podcast Network
[29:31.528] remains in a
less stressed state of mind
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and a less stressed body And less
you know, I'm trying tothink of the word for it.
It's like a fight, flight, fighter flight,
right?
Because your body and mind cannotoperate at that level for very long.
And it actually doesn't condoneto creative solutions and creative
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pathways to get your goal met.
But when staying in the rest anddigest state, you can you can be
creative, you can be like, I have
Kambria [29:49.006]
Good, Ernie.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [30:09.156]
idea I'm gonna try orI'm gonna do you know
so I had to be like wait
that's not actually howsuccess is created I just
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I just bought into that at somepoint and you know in life I
bought into it I believethat's what I needed to do
when actually working twohours a day maybe on this stuff
could get me the sameresults it's possible why
not
Kambria [30:36.622]
All right.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [30:37.404]
you know, checking in with my clientsand just being like, Hey, how you doing?
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And maybe doing that once in awhile And just making sure that I'm
doing it at my leisureor at a good time for me.
That's just as good as like,I've got to make sure I
hit this month.
I have to hit this at this
time.
And I'm stressing about it.
Doesn't, doesn't work.
Kambria [31:02.766]
I mean, when people
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mean, when people study about the actualbrain and how much energy our brain takes,
right, it requires, yeah, whenwe build, mean, again, nobody
understands the hustle and bustle.
You know, I get it, right?
80 plus hours a week forthe better part of 10 years.
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So
later after trying to
undoing those narrow pathwayshas taken a long time.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [31:11.216]
Yeah.
Kambria [31:32.118]
And it's still, right?
I would say eight years laterafter trying to retrain myself and
decondition myself from that mindset.
And that is a big part, you know, that'sa big part of when I'm going to these
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business owners or these networking groupsor talking to people about astrology.
It's not like, guys, come believein the stars because it's cool.
You know, like that's great.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [31:37.96]
Another way.
Kambria [31:58.04]
But I'm like, y'all, there is somethingelse here and I'm here to tell you,
somebody who's lived on both sides,it doesn't have to be that way.
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fail.
I'm gonna,
But it does.
And anybody who's out there like, my gosh,
I hustle and bustle, I feelevery minute of my schedule.
Yeah, I love what I do, butI'm feeling exhausted, right?
And they're like, wait, I can'ttake, I can't slow down performance.
If I slow down, I'm gonna,my business is gonna fail.
I'm gonna, you know, like that.
yes, when you
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your brain literally saying, right?
Because we've all wired our brains,not all of us, but you know, our
brains are wired, a lot of us,believe that if that happens,
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [32:17.271]
Yeah!
Kambria [32:44.13]
We will die.
So it is work.
But yes, when you free that up, whenyou build new narrow pathways, right?
And you work with clients who alignand you work in the seasons and
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you work with the energetic energy.
If you have extra help,you're not out there depleting
yourself nearly as quickly.
And that's a big part of, you know,
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [32:51.063]
Yeah.
Kambria [33:12.384]
what I do and how I move throughthe world energetically is like okay
have
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you know even it's funny like even mypartner like do nothing days are kind of
a struggle for her not that she doesn'tlove them appreciate them but there's
like this level of you know she's likeI gotta I'm gonna go for a speed like
there's still a part that's like Ican't lean into this all the way right
big
(34:01):
sometimes for me, I'm like, okay, cool,then again, well, I should change.
maybe, know, no, it's just like, there's
The
conditioning there.
We already, we could do a wholeepisode about capitalism and different
things and how the systems arein place to keep us safe, right?
Yeah.
Kambria [33:37.486] And it
that's across the board, but also froman astrology standpoint, come November
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19th, the next 20 years beyond that,
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [33:54.953]
Yeah.
Yeah.
Kambria [34:05.23]
So much of that's coming crashing tothe ground and going to burn from an
astrology standpoint and I will standby that and people can get rid of it
and people can be willing to be okaywith things crumbling that are not
working or they can just hold on,
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Okay.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [34:24.68]
I have.
you know?
I
I don't know?
another way.
This is all I know.
And we all know what that feels like.
That's the healing work that I doin a nutshell, is all of the people
coming to me going, this isn't working.
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I'm so stressed out or I'm sotraumatized or I'm so stuck.
And they don't know whatthey need to let go of.
They don't see it.
They only know
Kambria [34:33.678]
Uh-huh.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [34:57.189]
one way because that is theirbrain telling them this is how I
met.
So you want to know more about that.
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go,
back to my episode about thebrain, the amazing brain.
And we talk about neuro-pathology,how to reprogram your brain.
So I will post a link to that in my
blog of that episode if you want tolike dive into more of that, because
that is a huge, huge part of it.
And it coincides really well
with The changes and youknow what the astrology
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is telling
us is going to happen.
It's like yeah November
19th
everybody's gonna face
their one way of doing things and haveto ask themselves does that really work?
That really going to get mewhat I want and need and that's
what
you know we joke
about
family vacations because in ourfamily again this is going back
(36:15):
to like generational trauma
but We talk about
like how much my mom always
talks about going toHawaii and she's like,
I'm not going to plan
anything.
I just want to go to
Hawaii and sit on the beach
the whole
time.
And my dad's
like, you say that, but that's not
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what we're going to
do.
like,
by the time we get there, you're going
to be like, but I also want to do thisone excursion And we can't miss this, this
is going on.
And
you know,
Kambria 36:13.227]
Thank
Ride
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but It's in our nature.
We're like, we don't want to
miss these opportunities.
There's all these
things to do or whatever.
And we're all like that in some capacity.
It's hard for us to be like,what if we went to Hawaii just to
(36:58):
sit on the beach for the entire
week and get
nothing out, play the
waves, enjoy the
sand.
But you get there and you're
like, but there's this littletown I want to go see and there's
this excursion I want to
go
do.
Kambria
[36:22.99]
Yeah.
Ride The Wave
Media Podcast Network[36:49.567] Whatever.
So you end up
planning a
bunch
of stuff and then you're like, do
we really do nothing and enjoy the waves?
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I don't know.
Kambria [36:59.64]
Totally.
Ride The Wave Media PodcastNetwork [37:00.661] Fight it.
Yeah, we fight that.
Do nothing.
It's hard.
I mean, I think just about anybody,especially if you're taking phones
and setting phones with that.
I'm like, who can do that?
I struggle with that.
I have to put my phone like in anotherroom when it's a certain time of night.
(37:46):
And then I go get the nextmorning and I've got messages.
And I just let peopleknow, I'm sorry, I don't
Kambria [37:05.026]
Mm-hmm.
Kambria [37:11.53]
Yeah!
Yeah!
Ride The Wave Media Podcast Network[37:30.86] have my phone with me
after a certain time of night.
So if it was an emergency orsomething like that, you probably
should have contacted somebody else.
Kambria [37:39.65]
I love that.
That's great.
Yeah.
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Media Podcast Network [37:40.632]
Like I'm not available.
Yeah.
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Cause if my phone is aroundwithin arms reach, I'm on Facebook
scrolling, I'm on Instagram andI'm like, how did I get here?
How did I do this?
I have those, those,
those reels that you see that they're
making fun of when they're likelaughing and they're going to show
their spouse or partner something
and, they're like fallingdown stairs and they're like,
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Kambria [37:54.734]
Cool anyway.
I know.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [38:08.903]
shoot, that's right.
was calling 911.
I'm like, that would
I'd be
like,
this
I pick up
my
I'm the worst.
Yeah.
I, I need to take my ownadvice when it comes to that.
So yeah.
Well, I will say that over thelast couple of years, when I
have embraced the winter energy,
Kambria [38:12.046]
Kambria [38:20.45]
It's hilarious.
Kambria [38:28.878]
I need to take my own advicewhen it comes to that.
So
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the much easier to give itthan take it though, right?
yeah.
Yeah.
I will say that over the lastcouple of years, when I have
embraced the winter energy,
Kambria [38:12.046]
Kambria [38:20.45]
It's hilarious.
Kambria [38:28.878]
And the much easier to giveit than take it though, right?
Yeah.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [38:37.92]
and embraced what that sort of fuga,cozy contentment, clear your schedule,
give yourself time to rest and readbooks and do more indoor things.
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When I embraced that energy instead of
fighting it, it kind of cured myseasonal depression because...
Kambria [38:40.494]
Yeah.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [39:04.361]
Last year, I remember it cominginto springtime and I was getting
depressed thinking about summer comingup, which I've never felt before.
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I always felt depressedgoing into winter, but this
time I
was like, no, I'm not reallyready to be that busy.
I kind of like, I kind of likethis winter feeling, you know, and
this rest and this time for myself.
So
it's hard to go back.
It's hard to go from one tothe other and be like, need
Kambria [39:11.627]
(39:57):
yeah.
Yeah.
change is hard, man, change is hard.
is hard.
Regardless of
Regardless of what form it's in, you know?
So yeah, I definitely see that.
I think the more present we are inthe spaces that we're in, easier
the transitions and change can be.
present you are with your
And that's also, that takesa lot of practice too, right?
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It's the more present you are withyour kids when you're with them.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [39:34.431]
Yeah.
Kambria [40:00.994]
The less guilt you feel when you'reaway from them, the more present we
are in winter and we can really takein the rest and take in the slowness
and absorb that time to slow down
down and kind of reset.
Then when it comes totake action, you know, but
and kind of reset.
Then when it comes to take action,you know, but I think that's a, that's
really cool information for you oflike, look, look how once I kind of
(40:44):
got into that and then it was like, myGod, I don't want go back to that busy.
I feel you.
now I
need to like
now I need to get into it and actuallylike put into action all the things
that I have been planning and thinking
about putting you knowduring the pregnancy time
I'm like spring is coming.
It's time to give
birth and now it's the real work Kambria
(41:05):
[40:32.854]
Sure.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yep
Ride The Wave Media Podcast Network[40:44.315] which I actually know little
bit something about because before mytwins were born when I was pregnant
I spent two months in the hospital
not being able to leave because theywanted to be there like you know with the
complications and stuff they were like wewant you to be on campus I wasn't in on
(41:26):
bedrest thankfully but I was like we needyou to live here and be admitted so yeah I
remember thinking
Kambria [40:45.038]
Thank
Kambria [40:52.546]
Whoa.
Kambria [41:07.201]
Okay.
Yeah.
Ride The Wave Media PodcastNetwork [41:12.105] Everybody
kept telling me like, my gosh,this must be so hard for you.
You just have to sit around atthe hospital all day every day.
This is so rough.
And I remember being kindof like, actually, I'm good.
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I I spent all day reading books, drawing
pictures,
walking
around The
hospital
grounds.
People bring me my
food.
Kambria [41:20.11]
So.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [41:41.897]
Someone comes and cleans my room.
yeah,
I mean, I really kindof, yeah, I enjoyed it.
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Cause I thought to myself, when Ileave here, I'm leaving with two
babies that I have to take care of.
Kambria [41:44.77]
Yeah!
Let's go!
Kambria [41:53.934]
Yeah, so you just...we'regonna soak that up,
Ride The Wave Media
Yeah,
Like I knew what that was
gonna soak that up,
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [41:57.781]
Right?
Like I knew what that was about.
Yeah.
So when
people were
like,
you
poor thing, I was like,
yeah.
bad.
Awful.
Not really.
I like, I kind of lovedit, but that's just me.
So
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bad.
yeah, I'm looking forward to this winter.
I'm looking forward togoing into hibernation mode.
And I think my
Kambria [42:11.079]
I love that.
Not really.
I like, I kind of lovedit, but that's just me.
So yeah, I'm lookingforward to this winter.
I'm looking forward togoing into hibernation mode.
And I think my
Kambria [42:11.079]
I love that.
Yeah.
Kambria [42:22.434]
you
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [42:27.403]
final thought would be to peoplelike you were saying about
(42:54):
square pieces, don't resist it.
I think when we resist what is natural
is when we feel
you
Ride The Wave
and depressed.
Network
trying to fit in a summer
day's worth of
work
to
people like you
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boy.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [42:53.045]
And I mean, that doesn't work.
So like, don't resist the seasons, work
and depressed.
Cause you're trying to fit in a summerday's worth of work into a winter day.
Kambria [42:52.05]
boy.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [42:53.045]
And I mean, that doesn't work.
So like, don't resist theseasons, work with them.
Would you have a finalthought with that in mind?
Kambria [43:00.917]
Would you have a finalthought with that in mind?
Kambria [43:00.917]
Yeah, and also, mean, yeah, tothat point, and then we think
about our bodies and how they
bodies and how
work and the daylight and the sunlight andreleasing cortisol and the function of our
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actual bodies that are timed by the lightof the sun and the length of the days.
So even if you don't want tojump in on this woo-woo energy of
astrology, just listen to naturein your body, because they know.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [43:20.567]
You
Kambria [43:31.308]
You know what saying?
They know.
And so that is the time.
The body is
(43:59):
know.
And so
meeting.
We're not programmed physiologicallyto produce the way that we're
meant to produce mid-summer.
a huge imitation
And yeah, I think that's a hugeimitation and just allowing that,
allowing that shift and change.
And it's not gonna be easy too, justso asterisk for everybody there that's
(44:21):
like, I'm gonna do that this season, knowthat there will be so much resistance
because we're programmed, you know?
That it's gonna feel,it's going to feel wrong.
It's going to feel likeyou're going to die.
Right?
And then sooner or later, youdon't die, and you just start to
reprogram your brain and yeah.
dead, you know?
Then
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Astrologically, the wholeseason is not dead, you know?
Then we get into aSagittarius season, which is,
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [44:09.912]
Yeah.
Kambria [44:23.086]
actually the light in
Podcast Network [44:09.912]
Yeah.
Kambria
the darkness aka Christmas lightsin the middle of winter so you know
of winter
so
on about but yeah I think that'sgood and hopefully you know just
regardless of of what transitionsthe next 24 48 hours for the United
(45:03):
States you know it's just an energy of
The Wave
change regardless so yeah
Media Podcast Network [44:48.873]
All right, good reminder.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [44:27.099]
Yeah.
Ride The Wave
Media Podcast Network [44:48.873]
All right, good reminder.
We can do
All right, well,
let's let people
know how
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they can find you, especially
if they're looking to do
Kambria [44:49.738]
Right now.
Totally.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [45:03.457]
birth chart readings or what events
and things are comingup for Kaya community.
Can you let
us
you let us
know?
Kambria [45:09.442]
Yeah, so the easiest way to book abirth chart is through my website,
TheCambryAdivis and Cambry is
with a K, TheCambryAdivis.com.
I'm actually increasing mybirth chart pricing in December.
(45:46):
So if people are interested and have beeninterested, now is the time to do it.
And so those are so powerful andhonestly such a cool Christmas
gift, a cool gift to people.
Or just on Instagramtoo at Kaya Community,
is with K's or Cambry Davis onInstagram also Cambry with a K.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [45:45.278]
Perfect, yes.
And I'm on Prism Healing.
So my website prism-healing.comwhere you can book any of my healing
services, including card readingssessions, which are super helpful
for those moments when you're like,
Kambria [45:58.584]
Bye.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [46:01.166]
What's going on andwhat do I need to know?
So I offer a lot of different kindsof spreads and card reading sessions
(46:06):
and you can book there on my website.
Follow me on Instagram at prismunderscore healing or on TikTok for
now for as long as TikTok is aroundat prism healing and I'm on Facebook
Courtney Pearls prism healing.
So check out
The Kaya podcast, the PracticallyMagic podcast, follow, subscribe,
and share if you have an episode thatparticularly resonates with you and
you think that someone could use thatinformation in their lives to help them.
It would only improve our quality ofrecording episodes for you and to be
able to keep providing you with thehelp and information that you need.
So I guess that's it for today.
Please.
Reach out to us on our DMs and say hello.
We'd love to hear from you.
Right?
Go make magic.
Kambria [47:02.902]
Yeah, thank you.
[45:09.442]
Yeah, so the easiest way to book abirth chart is through my website,
TheCambryAdivis and Cambry iswith a K, TheCambryAdivis.com.
I'm actually increasing mybirth chart pricing in December.
So if people are interested and have beeninterested, now is the time to do it.
And so those are so powerful andhonestly such a cool Christmas
gift, a cool gift to people.
Or just on Instagramtoo at Kaya Community,
is with K's or Cambry Davis onInstagram also Cambry with a K.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [45:45.278]
Perfect, yes.
And I'm on Prism Healing.
So my website prism-healing.comwhere you can book any of my healing
services, including card readingssessions, which are super helpful
for those moments when you're like,
Kambria [45:58.584]
Bye.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [46:01.166]
What's going on andwhat do I need to know?
(46:27):
So I offer a lot of different kindsof spreads and card reading sessions
and you can book there on my website.
Follow me on Instagram at prismunderscore healing or on TikTok for
now for as long as TikTok is aroundat prism healing and I'm on Facebook
(46:48):
Courtney Pearls prism healing.
So check out The Kaya podcast,the Practically Magic podcast,
follow, subscribe, and share if youhave an episode that particularly
resonates with you and you think thatsomeone could use that information
in their lives to help them.
It would only improve our quality ofrecording episodes for you and to be
(47:11):
able to keep providing you with thehelp and information that you need.
So I guess that's it for today.
Please.
Reach out to us on our DMs and say hello.
We'd love to hear from you.
Right?
Go make magic.
Kambria [47:02.902]
Yeah, thank you.
Ride The
Podcast
Network [00:01.455] Croeso,welcome, this is Tactically Magic.
We are doing a combined episode today.
I am here with my co-host.
Would
co-host.
Would
you like to introduce yourself?
Kambria
[00:12.866]
Hello everybody,
Davis with
I'm Cambria Davis with the
astrologer.
Ride The Wave
Kaya podcast, Daybreak's local astrologer.
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Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [00:21.998]
Mine with Daybriggs
Mine with Daybriggs Local
Witch.
At the time that we'rerecording this, it is election
day.
So we're just going toof talk about the energy
around that
and what's
looking forward.
But we're going to start this episodeas I do on my podcast Practically Magic.
(01:10):
I'm Courtney Pearl, by the way, incase you didn't know that already.
I'm going to pull a card.
So I'm using my Samhain Seasons of theWitch deck because we just switched into
the season of Samhain or in Welsh it is orin the Celtic calendar it's Calan Gaeff.
Calan Gaeff November 1st starts winter.
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The Celtic calendar didn't reallyrecognize like the in-between
seasons of like spring and fallbut just the dark half of the year
and the light half of the year.
So we're celebrating winter.
Kambria [01:07.534]
No,
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [01:22.869]
Especially here in Utah today.
It's pretty much snowing outside I haven'tspent a lot of time out there, but I
people walk past my window with theirhats on and coats and gloves and scarves
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and I'm like I'll stay inside today
Welcome winter So
I pulled a card and actually AppropriatelyI pulled the coming winter card.
I'm gonna show it in the camera
coming of
winter.
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She's looking out her window too.
She's not outside in it.
She's just looking out herwindow and that's me today.
I'm just like,
I'll stay here inside.
Look at all you folks out there.
Walk it
around.
I gotta go pick up my kids.
So I'm gonna be out
in it.
But I'll read what it
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says.
It says, It comes in lock
and Kambria [01:53.774]
Perfect timing.
Kambria [02:11.374]
Good?
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [02:20.123]
within your mirrored flesh.
Alas, it is time to lay your quiveringchest upon the winter's coming.
And that leads us right into
Scorpio season,
which Camry is the expert on.
(03:00):
Let's talk about what that means.
What would you say about
that?
Kambria [02:32.526]
expected.
[02:43.929]
man, yeah, I mean think, I thinkScorpio season, well Scorpio is the
most intense sign of the zodiac.
And
sign of
think most people are feelingthat intensity, right?
(03:22):
are feeling that
me, and not like really funny,but the irony, right, of election
season in the United States is.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [02:58.662]
For sure.
Kambria [03:11.348]
always placed in Scorpio season andScorpio energy is the energy of death and
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like
again astrology doing its thing.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [03:19.127]
huh.
Kambria [03:24.846]
right, bringing in the energyof transformation, shedding the
old, new birth, new beginning.
So regardless of how every electionturns out, is like an ending
season
(04:02):
term or presidency or previouskind of energetic four years
United
a lot of things that are intensehappen in Scorpio season.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [03:44.183]
Hmm.
Kambria [03:49.77]
right?
I mean we have multiple holidays thatkind of anchor the season and if some
people consider Thanksgiving a holiday,which I do not, but you know there's
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kind of intense you know things that comeup if you happen to live in different
hemispheres or parts here like you do with
[03:11.348]
right daylight savings time whichfeels like it might be just an hour
but i know for me personally andmany people that i talk to it feels
(04:44):
like some kind of like huge reset
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [04:23.975]
Mm-hmm.
Kambria [04:25.294]
Like everything, and then for me, havean epileptic dog, so he gets medicine
at certain hours, three times a day.
So even a one hour shift for the nextweek, every day I have to adjust his
medicine about five or 10 minutes, fiveor 10 minutes, five or 10 minutes to
(05:06):
get to the actual timing that works.
So there's a lot that's happening.
doing
season and it all lendsto, you know, what's our
Ride The Wave
will always be there.
(05:27):
The question is, do we fight it?
Do we resist against it?
Or, you know, do we know how to movewith it and accept it and surrender?
Ride
kind of anchor the season and if somepeople consider Thanksgiving a holiday,
which I do not, but you know there'skind of intense you know things that come
up if you happen to live in differenthemispheres or parts here like you do with
the falling back of the clocks rightdaylight savings time which feels like
it might be just an hour but i know forme personally and many people that i talk
to it feels like some kind of like hugereset Ride The Wave Media Podcast Network
[04:23.975]
Mm-hmm.
Kambria [04:25.294]
Like everything, and then for me, havean epileptic dog, so he gets medicine
at certain hours, three times a day.
So even a one hour shift for the nextweek, every day I have to adjust his
medicine about five or 10 minutes, fiveor 10 minutes, five or 10 minutes to
get to the actual timing that works.
So there's a lot that's happening.
and Scorpio season and it all lends to,you know, what's our ability, what's our
willingness to transform because changeand transformation will always be there.
The question is, do we fight it?
Do we resist against it?
Or, you know, do we know how to movewith it and accept it and surrender?
Ride The Wave Media PodcastNetwork [05:12.112] Yeah.
Yeah.
And I think that's a great pointto bring up even during this
election season, because when thiscomes out, we'll know the result.
We don't
know today, but we're
like not going
into
voting with fear andcontention, but rather,
(05:51):
you know, not
resisting that
being able to trust
like,
I cast my vote, I
do my part
as and then just trust
that I got to go with, you know, what
comes of
it.
That it's going to be okay.
Not
afraid of the future.
My husband and my momare both Scorpio's sons.
(06:16):
So I'm getting more
familiar with what that means for me
as far as like how wecan connect with each
other being like, I'm a Pisces,they're Scorpios and like,
it's such a different emotional
kind of energy, but both like
very emotional.
(06:36):
[That makes sense.
Would you say
Yeah, yeah.
yeah, mean, but scorpions are like,again, they're like a scorpion.
They're also what we would, youknow, they're also the phoenix.
So, phoenix has...
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [06:28.008]
Mm-hmm.
Kambria [06:29.454]
have to, in order for a phoenixto rise, there has to be a
(06:57):
burning, has to be ashes, right?
And so that can apply to so many things.
like if we just look at, you know, again,because it's election day, and I think
that there's so much intensity surroundingit, there are a lot of people living
in fear on, you know, the either side,if you will, of a two party system that
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Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [06:38.106]
Thank you.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [06:54.757]
Mm-hmm.
Kambria [06:58.382]
personally I think islong over working, right?
So, you know, there's a lot hereout there and there's, and these are
very real things for a lot of people.
And that being said, understanding,you know, where we are forced to
transform, where we are forced to likeshed the old and begin something new.
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And that happens when we,
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [07:04.199]
Yeah.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [07:11.269]
Hmm
Kambria [07:24.93]
have a relationship, have a new job, buya new house, move to a new place, right?
So many of our life passes onto thenext world, like literally dies.
We're constantly shedding and
Podcast
pair of pants that you have for twoyears, like that process, and some
feels more intense than others.
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Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [07:36.109]
Mm-hmm.
Kambria [07:45.294]
But yes, Scorpio isdefinitely deeply feeling.
You and I were talking a little bitbefore we started recording about
like, I'm like, man, everything, likea little thing right now feels bigger.
And there's a point for that.
There's a reason for that.
And that's what I love aboutastrology is there's kind of a reason
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and a season for each thing, but
intense than others.
Ride The Wave Media
it's still a water sign.
So it's still emotionaland it still has feelings.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [07:56.168]
Yeah.
Kambria [08:13.102]
It's just fixed water.
So maybe, you know, the feelings might notbe as flowing up and down as a Pisces or a
Cancer, but it's still going to be there.
It's just going to feel a littlebit rougher in those feelings.
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Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [08:28.655]
Yeah, yeah, I've noticed that too, justin how we interact with each other, but.
And then again, like you alwaystalk about like this season right
now and like how we're all Scorpioright now a little bit or knowing
that season is really important too.
Cause yeah, I felt all of thosethings like the, I don't know, kind
of like the universe highlightingcertain things that I be holding onto.
This is going to be the time whenit's like, how's that working for you?
Kambria [08:43.239]
yeah.
Network [08:28.655]
Yeah, yeah, I've noticed that too, just
in how we interact with each other,
but.
And then again, like you always
talk about like thisseason right now and like
how we're all Scorpioright now a little bit or
knowing that season isreally important too.
Cause yeah, I felt all of those
(09:10):
things like
the,
I don't know, kind of like theuniverse highlighting certain
things that I be holding onto.
This is going to be the time whenit's like, how's that working for you?
Kambria
[08:43.239]
yeah.
Ride the
Wave Media Podcast Network [09:02.681]
Let's take a real hard look at that.
And even I've been doing a lot more ofthese tarot readings and things lately.
(09:34):
And I find it so interesting howmuch different themes come up.
No matter who's doing the readingor like who's coming to me with
my client is, I see a lot morelike the top, the tower card
is coming up a lot for people lately.
Like whether you like it or not, it's timeto decide if you're going to jump ship.
Kambria [09:16.622]
No.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [09:32.073]
(09:55):
or if you're gonna go down with the ship,but the ship's going down either way.
This power is burning.
So are you gonna hang on or are you gonna
go find something else that works?
And then the nine and 10 words arecoming up a lot of people I've noticed.
(10:19):
That's like
either on the cusp or on
Kambria [09:32.728]
you
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [10:01.576]
finality of saying that you'reholding on to on your life.
That's like,
this is real hard.
Like right now you're experiencingall the hard about everything
that you've done before.
You've made certain choices andyou're on this path, but like you're
(10:42):
in a moment right now where you caneither decide I am so done with this.
I'm done with the way I do thingsbecause it's so not working.
And the 10 of swords would be like, I'm
done, it's dead, I'm
leaving behind, it's got 10swords in its back and I'm out.
Kambria [10:38.798]
Cool, cool.
Yeah, I mean,
(11:02):
cool.
Yeah, I mean, that's happening currentlyin Scorpio season and something too,
like a good metaphor that I like tothink of Scorpio season is like, you
know, we're heading into winter, right?
We're going into winter, at least inthis hemisphere where we live in Utah.
And you you think about it, like ifyou had to pack up and leave a place,
(11:26):
right, for the term of winter, whatwould you choose to take with you?
That's the energy of Scorpio.
Like we're heading into winter, we'regoing into a season where we have
less energy, we have less resources.
Yeah, I was talking to my barberdude, was like, I'm taking these
pills, they'll shed a few pounds.
And I was like, wrong season, man.
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Kambria [11:24.622]
going
Ha ha.
Kambria [11:24.622]
going into winter your body knows whatit's supposed to do your body actually
wants is meant to gain weight and puton some pounds to last through right
the the dead of winter and potentiallynot having enough food and warmth so
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [11:40.596]
Mm-hmm.
Kambria [11:42.324]
It's like we have been so taught andso conditioned to fight against the
(12:11):
natural rhythms of what's happening.
This is the season of saying,let go of what you don't need.
Leave behind what you cannotcarry into this winter season.
and slow
And that's the season to rest andreflect and just cozy up and get and slow
do.
I
down because.
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Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [12:08.324]
Kambria [12:09.824]
We don't have the same energy as we do.
I like what you said.
In Celtic, it's like the light side ofthe year and the dark side of the year.
And that just makes it really simple.
you know, we're in a transitionalphase astrologically, but, you
know, we're going into that.
So what can you let go of?
What can't you carry?
And maybe you really want to, but youhave to start making choices, right?
(12:56):
Or if I really want to take thisthing, I can't also carry this.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [12:36.223]
Yeah.
Kambria [12:37.586]
And we're seeing that, right?
We're seeing that on a global level.
We're seeing that on a national level.
We're seeing that on an individual levelof like, things are shifting and changing.
And it's my hope, like, I just am like,it'll be really interesting whenever
(13:19):
this airs and once there becomessome quote unquote result, you know,
are people able to shift and change?
regardless and I know astrologicallythat this election is a big deal
and I also know that other thingsare happening in the cosmos for the
next 20 years that this almost feelslike really just the beginning.
(13:39):
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [13:17.378]
Uh-huh,
yeah.
Yes.
I hesitate
to say how
we've
like corresponded this with a
feminine awakening and I
don't mean to bring that up as
like because this electionhas a woman running.
But the energy I'm talking about
more than anything is that
(14:00):
a lot of people respond tothe coming into winter and the
rest period as a feminine time.
Not to say that that'sjust like about women.
It's about The feminineaspect of all of us.
Like what does it mean to embracethe idea that, well actually, that
(14:20):
actually makes a lot of sense.
Kambria [13:45.806]
Right.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [13:58.548]
now that I think about it.
I just pulled before our recording.
Kambria [13:59.105]
out.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [14:03.904]
these cards that we talk about,these are like a certain deck that I
have that are just words and they'resupposed to be connecting with spirit.
And I did this little mini readingwhere I just like, wonder what's
(14:40):
going to come up for this episode.
And we were kind ofjoking about it because I
said, is there anything to do withpregnancy that you can think of?
Like why that would be coming up?
Cambria's like, not me.
And I'm like, not me, but.
Kambria [14:12.174]
Okay.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [14:32.956]
I always bring up pregnancy incertain readings or in certain healing
(15:02):
sessions when it comes up for peoplein the healing work of the sakra
or the creative center of the body.
Because to me,
wintertime and femininityand that feminine energy, it
corresponds a lot with pregnancy
because
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Kambria [14:39.598]
Thank you.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [15:00.478]
not in a literal sense, but in more of
like energy of not
being physically productivein a project or something,
but being like letting the project just
build itself in like, thought and mind.
(15:44):
So I always
like, I always tell
clients who are kind of stuck in thatenergy of like, I've got to do, do,
do, do, I've got to be productive.
I've got to be like,
Kambria [15:02.722]
more.
Kambria [15:20.952]
Yeah.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [15:29.45]
hustle culture, right?
Like I gotta hustle.
And I say, nobody's ever tellinga pregnant woman to hurry up.
and make that baby, right?
(16:05):
Like
you would never like yell at apregnant woman for sitting on the
couch
and be like, you're supposedto be making a brain
today.
You're supposed to belike developing a baby.
What are you doing sitting on the couch?
You would never do that.
And that is the energy of like what Isee going in the winter is like, you
cannot hustle your way through it.
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This is a time to still yourself,your mind and your body.
Kambria [15:54.722]
way.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [16:09.536]
to be able to then produce whatyou're going to be producing in the
more physically productive times.
Am I making any sense here?
For me, that's pregnancy energy.
Kambria
(16:47):
yeah, and it's birth.
It's birthing, right?
So think pregnancy can be,really like pregnancy is very
direct, which that could be.
Maybe somebody listening to this,this will resonate something for them.
When we talked about it too, wekind of brought it up and I was
like, no, that's not tracking.
But if we, if we expand that intojust birth, again, what needs to die?
(17:10):
Right?
We all only have so much energy,so much space, so much bandwidth.
And so, you know, the people who can be,who can be aware of their own energetic
field, own bandwidth, to me are the peoplewho, you know, are really learning how
to set those boundaries and understandingthat the go, go, go is not how we're
(17:34):
built and that there's a period of
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [16:47.846]
Mm-hmm.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [17:06.775]
Just station.
Yes.
Kambria [17:14.858]
know, birthing, there's a period ofbuilding, there's a period of creating,
you're literally molding something,birthing something, providing nutrients,
just, you know, all these things thatare happening in that process, you know.
So what, you know, thatis, that is winter.
(17:55):
Yeah.
You know, because it's not, itdoesn't mean you can't go start
something new or whatever, but
to this,
It's the season, again, we look outside,it's snowing, the leaves are down and
things are starting to really die andthen they become very dormant for a
period of time, which is ultimatelythe season for us to do the same.
(18:16):
And that's when some of thecreativity, know, there's so many
studies about the brain and how
know, kid children or people, adultsin general as well, have lost their
creativity because we don't find boredom.
not, we never haveopportunities to slow down.
We don't just sit around.
(18:37):
If we're sitting, we're reading,watching a show on our cell phones,
on our laptops, on the phone, youknow, it's rare that's like, I'm
just going to sit to sit, you know?
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [18:14.379]
Yeah.
my God.
Kambria [18:25.23]
There are a of people, me personally,like so many of my creative or intentional
or intuitive ideas often come in theshower or the tub or something like that.
(18:58):
Well, what am I doing?
I'm bored and I'm present.
know, that is, that is winter.
Yeah.
You know, because it's not, itdoesn't mean you can't go start
something new or whatever, but
It's the season, again, we look outside,it's snowing, the leaves are down and
things are starting to really die andthen they become very dormant for a
period of time, which is ultimatelythe season for us to do the same.
And that's when some of thecreativity, know, there's so many
studies about the brain and how
know, kid children or people, adultsin general as well, have lost their
creativity because we don't find boredom.
not, we never haveopportunities to slow down.
We don't just sit around.
If we're sitting, we're reading,watching a show on our cell phones,
on our laptops, on the phone, youknow, it's rare that's like, I'm
just going to sit to sit, you know?
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [18:14.379]
Yeah.
my God.
yeah, so that's the season.
So yeah, I think like from apregnancy standpoint, great.
Everybody take, you know,five, six months to give birth.
take the time to really feed andnurture and learn about this thing that
you're birthing and then come springequinox, know, boom, now you're gonna
(19:21):
have energy, the sun's back out, nowyou give it life and give it action.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [19:03.325]
Yes.
And that's so important because weas a society in like, like I said,
hustle culture, which we are all partof, it's so focused on if I've got 10
minutes between, I don't know, washor something, I'm going to fill it
with, you know, emailing contacts and,you know, make a social media clip.
I'm guilty of it probablymore than anybody.
I'm like, what can I dowith that 10 minutes?
But I often find myself beingjealous of my past self.
When I was in college, Ihad a job at a certain home
improvement store as a cashier.
And I was in the lumber side of the store.
And for those of you who've ever worked orknow what store I'm talking about, nobody
hardly ever goes to the lumber cashier.
Lumber cashier stands there forlike hours with no customer.
Sometimes those commercial sales peoplewill come through, but it's the lowest
of the low in the authority lineup ofcashiers and you start lumber cashier.
So you're just over thereby yourself for hours.
I remember they wouldn't evenlet me have reading material or
Kambria [20:04.354]
Yeah.
Kambria [20:10.574]
you
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [20:27.359]
Obviously you couldn'thave your phone with you.
Those were like the rules.
And I would have, I mean, justliterally like two, three hours
sometimes that I didn't see asoul on that part of the store.
I would stand there.
we weren't allowed to sit either.
That's a whole thing.
But I had to stand there atthe counter and I had nothing
but my own minds to keep me.
I came up with the most elaborate
Kambria [20:31.576]
Yeah.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [20:56.663]
fantastical stories to entertainmyself and I used to think it was
so awful, like just so boring.
But now I'm so busy as a mom, asa business owner, as a podcast,
or as a everything that I am.
I'm like, when do I have time to standthere for hours and just think thoughts?
I don't even allow it for myself.
Kambria [21:20.748]
Yes.
And that's so important because we
as a society in like like I said,hustle culture, which we are all
part of, it's so focused on
if I've got 10 minutesbetween, I don't know,
wash or something, I'mgoing to fill it with,
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you know, emailing contacts and,
you know, make a social media clip.
I'm guilty of it probably
more than anybody.
I'm like, what can I dowith that 10 minutes?
But I often find myself being
jealous of my past self.
When I was in college, Ihad a job at a certain home
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improvement store as a cashier.
And I was in the lumber side of the store.
And for those of you who've ever worked or
know what store I'm talking about, nobodyhardly ever goes to the lumber cashier.
Lumber cashier stands therefor like hours with no
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customer.
Sometimes those commercialsales people will come through,
but it's
the lowest of the low in
the authority lineup of cashiersand you start lumber cashier.
So you're just over thereby yourself for hours.
I remember they wouldn'teven let me have reading
material or
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Kambria [20:04.354]
Yeah.
Kambria [20:10.574]
you
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Obviously you couldn'thave your phone with you.
Those were like the rules.
And I
would have, I mean, justliterally like two, three hours
sometimes that I didn't see a soul
on that part of the store.
I would stand there.
we weren't allowed to sit either.
That's a whole thing.
But I had to stand there at the counter
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and I had nothing butmy own minds to keep me.
I came up with the most
elaborate
Kambria [20:31.576]
Yeah.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [20:56.663]
fantastical stories to entertain myself
and I used to think it was soawful, like just so boring.
But now I'm so busy as a mom, asa business owner, as a podcast,
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or as a everything that I am.
I'm like, when do I have time tostand there for hours and just think
thoughts?
I don't even allow it for myself.
Kambria
[21:20.748]
Yeah, totally.
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And it's so important.
So yeah, I have been goingthrough a transition period just
these last few months where I'm
like, summer was busy.
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I definitely filled my schedule.
I continue to do that.
Still I go, okay, what, whatcan I do with the time I have?
I'll fill it up.
And I had, I was in a study group.
we read a book called the Wander Society.
I don't know if you've ever heard of that.
But the Wander Society is kind of ananti-capitalist movement of people
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who basically use rest and wanderingas a form of activism against
hustle culture kind of thing,where instead of having a plan,
you actually have time in yourschedule that's totally unplanned.
And you're supposed to go wandering.
You're supposed to go outfor walks or for whatever.
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You're supposed to wander about the city.
Kambria [22:03.434]
Woo hoo.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [22:18.721]
wander about the countryside,wherever you are.
And there's a whole book that gives yousuggestions on how to do that, how to,
what are different ways you can wander,
all kinds of things.
But we decided as a book club that it'snot just about walking around, it's
also about time spent doing nothingelse, like having no schedule, no
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plan,
listening to your own body and saying,what does my body wanna do right now?
Like, what do I feel like doing?
Kambria [22:31.246]
Bye!
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [22:49.315]
So I'm trying to clear my schedule a
little more for winter.
And
I'm trying to preservethat sacred space in my
life
for wandering.
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And for me, I said, I needto have time to read books.
I haven't had time forany of that all summer.
There's
some studying And reading I want to do.
And I want
time to talk to her
about
the house.
Kambria [23:15.114]
What?
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [23:18.222]
That's what I call it.
That's what they call it in English.
They say like,
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I'm just pottering at the house, you
know, just a little this and a littlethat and just walk around and, you know,
adjust place or whatever.
And I
realized if I have time to do that, then
I know,
that I'm kind of
making space for myself.
Like there's time to think thoughts
And
just pay attention to my space, my
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home.
Like the TV is off.
Kambria
[23:30.734]
Sure.
Ride The Wave Media PodcastNetwork [23:48.728] There's
no phone in my hand.
I'm just going about my
[house and paying attention to whatever happens to be around.
my house and paying attention towhatever happens to be around.
Kambria [23:58.86]
Yeah, no, that's so...
A few years ago, I would say probably,I don't know, probably four-ish years,
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maybe five, I started being reallyintentional about a do-nothing day.
And I, for a couple years, I would sayI was really intentional once a week.
But I would schedule it, right?
And like with a partner at the time, likewe would put in our calendar, we would
do it together, we had the opportunityand the privilege to be able to do so.
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Not everybody has that availableto them, I understand that.
And maybe not everybodyhas a do nothing day.
And then I would say maybe a coupleyears ago, I was really committed to this
like 10 minutes a day of doing nothing.
I'd set it along, I'd scheduleit, and it was just no phone,
no talking to, just 10 minutes.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [24:22.965]
Yeah.
Kambria [24:51.334]
And because I know itfeels overwhelming, right?
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Like I know there's so much.
So
all these things and just really it's been
I had a do nothing day on Sunday,my partner and I had that.
And it's so interesting because I'vebeen doing this like whole overhaul
of slowing down, this whole overhaulof like the amount that I produce is
not my personal value and like havingto learn, having to work through
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like the guilt and the shame and
the...
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [25:18.28]
Mm-hmm.
Kambria [25:19.062]
back to people and if I don't text peopleback then they're going to think that I
hate them but I don't really hate themand people who are like well how can you
post on social but not text you know likeall these things and just really it's
been a long journey of just being like mytime is my own and you know if I post or
if I take my kids on a walk or whateverand I can't get back to people I mean I
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think currently I have like 30 somethingmessages in my phone and it's not that
that's not important to me it's that
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [25:32.466]
Yeah.
Kambria [25:46.062]
I don't have the literally energeticcapacity anymore to manage it all.
And so the do nothing day, so onSunday, right, I was like, I told my
girlfriend, I was like, I need to donothing day, we would have been nonstop.
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It was a non kid weekend.
So it's always easier.
Again, we're very privileged tolike be able to figure that in but
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [25:51.986]
Yeah.
Kambria [26:10.698]
Just that reset, you know?
So I totally invite people overthe next between now and March.
Right?
So let's see, November,December, January, February.
(26:48):
So basically four-ish, five-ish monthsto find that space, you know, to ask
for help with a partner or a friend.
Swap it out, right?
Hey, if you take my kids for twohours on this Sunday, I'll do
the next Sunday for two hours.
So you can just do nothingand I can do nothing.
And we were able to do like a whole day.
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So there's no...
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [26:34.345]
Yeah.
Kambria [26:47.29]
It doesn't mean you do nothing.
It just means that there's, you know,the phones are away for the most part.
And so being able to find that time,even if it's just 10 minutes a day,
you know, or social media, but like,whatever feels right to people, people
can figure that out for themselves.
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But having space, intentionalspace, and now I have to like
schedule it, which is also okay.
Ride The Wave Media
Podcast Network 27:15.264]Yep, you got to.
Yeah.
Kambria [27:17.368]
But
it's like, woo, know, able to do it.
And I'm kind of like you, where Iwas like initially today, I had a
pretty free day, and then, you know,life happens and you're like, I've
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got time here and I can do thisand I can meet up with this person.
And I'm like, wrong, camera, slow.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [27:36.56]
Yes.
Yeah.
And
I mean, even
as I've been clearing myschedule, certain projects, aka
the witch movie project, weregetting finished up, right?
And I was like, that took
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a lot of my time I was very busy with
all that.
And I
didn't have time to really text clients
back
for prism healing.
And that's hard for me because
And I know you know this, like whenyou're trying to build something new,
I want to
build clients for Prism Healing.
I want to check in with my clients.
I want to
have a personal relationshipwith my clients.
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I want people to, know I'm there for them.
And so you think, well, at least I do.
I think in my mind, like, okay, Ihave to be available all the time.
I have to,
you.
know, have this to-do list that I doevery week and I have to get it done.
And yeah, being able to like kind
of Kambria [28:02.414]
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you.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [28:32.302]
move from
that
space into the season we're
coming into right now.
I
had to be Like I have to fight my
own belief systems about
hustle and about
what, you know, building something or
like, this is what I want to achieve.
These are
my goals.
That means
I
have to not stop untilI achieve those goals.
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It's about, you know,go, go, go, work hard.
And then I
remembered
that's a lie.
that we've all been taught.
We've all been taught
that.
Like you don't give up, you
don't
rest,
you know, hit it hard.
This is what success looks like.
This is the recipe for success.
You've got to
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go, And I'm like, who says, right?
Like I had to stop and be like,
what if I become just as successful ormore so because I have Kambria [29:05.474]
Yes.
Ride The
Wave Media Podcast Network
[29:31.528] remains in a
less stressed state of mind
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and a less stressed body And less
you know, I'm trying tothink of the word for it.
It's like a fight, flight, fighter flight,
right?
Because your body and mind cannotoperate at that level for very long.
And it actually doesn't condoneto creative solutions and creative
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pathways to get your goal met.
But when staying in the rest anddigest state, you can you can be
creative, you can be like, I have
Kambria [29:49.006]
Good, Ernie.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [30:09.156]
idea I'm gonna try orI'm gonna do you know
so I had to be like wait
that's not actually howsuccess is created I just
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I just bought into that at somepoint and you know in life I
bought into it I believethat's what I needed to do
when actually working twohours a day maybe on this stuff
could get me the sameresults it's possible why
not
Kambria [30:36.622]
All right.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [30:37.404]
you know, checking in with my clientsand just being like, Hey, how you doing?
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And maybe doing that once in awhile And just making sure that I'm
doing it at my leisureor at a good time for me.
That's just as good as like,I've got to make sure I
hit this month.
I have to hit this at this
time.
And I'm stressing about it.
Doesn't, doesn't work.
Kambria [31:02.766]
I mean, when people
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mean, when people study about the actualbrain and how much energy our brain takes,
right, it requires, yeah, whenwe build, mean, again, nobody
understands the hustle and bustle.
You know, I get it, right?
80 plus hours a week forthe better part of 10 years.
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So
later after trying to
undoing those narrow pathwayshas taken a long time.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [31:11.216]
Yeah.
Kambria [31:32.118]
And it's still, right?
I would say eight years laterafter trying to retrain myself and
decondition myself from that mindset.
And that is a big part, you know, that'sa big part of when I'm going to these
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business owners or these networking groupsor talking to people about astrology.
It's not like, guys, come believein the stars because it's cool.
You know, like that's great.
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Another way.
Kambria [31:58.04]
But I'm like, y'all, there is somethingelse here and I'm here to tell you,
somebody who's lived on both sides,it doesn't have to be that way.
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fail.
I'm gonna,
But it does.
And anybody who's out there like, my gosh,
I hustle and bustle, I feelevery minute of my schedule.
Yeah, I love what I do, butI'm feeling exhausted, right?
And they're like, wait, I can'ttake, I can't slow down performance.
If I slow down, I'm gonna,my business is gonna fail.
I'm gonna, you know, like that.
yes, when you
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your brain literally saying, right?
Because we've all wired our brains,not all of us, but you know, our
brains are wired, a lot of us,believe that if that happens,
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Yeah!
Kambria [32:44.13]
We will die.
So it is work.
But yes, when you free that up, whenyou build new narrow pathways, right?
And you work with clients who alignand you work in the seasons and
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you work with the energetic energy.
If you have extra help,you're not out there depleting
yourself nearly as quickly.
And that's a big part of, you know,
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [32:51.063]
Yeah.
Kambria [33:12.384]
what I do and how I move throughthe world energetically is like okay
have
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you know even it's funny like even mypartner like do nothing days are kind of
a struggle for her not that she doesn'tlove them appreciate them but there's
like this level of you know she's likeI gotta I'm gonna go for a speed like
there's still a part that's like Ican't lean into this all the way right
big
(34:01):
sometimes for me, I'm like, okay, cool,then again, well, I should change.
maybe, know, no, it's just like, there's
The
conditioning there.
We already, we could do a wholeepisode about capitalism and different
things and how the systems arein place to keep us safe, right?
Yeah.
Kambria [33:37.486] And it
that's across the board, but also froman astrology standpoint, come November
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19th, the next 20 years beyond that,
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [33:54.953]
Yeah.
Yeah.
Kambria [34:05.23]
So much of that's coming crashing tothe ground and going to burn from an
astrology standpoint and I will standby that and people can get rid of it
and people can be willing to be okaywith things crumbling that are not
working or they can just hold on,
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Okay.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [34:24.68]
I have.
you know?
I
I don't know?
another way.
This is all I know.
And we all know what that feels like.
That's the healing work that I doin a nutshell, is all of the people
coming to me going, this isn't working.
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I'm so stressed out or I'm sotraumatized or I'm so stuck.
And they don't know whatthey need to let go of.
They don't see it.
They only know
Kambria [34:33.678]
Uh-huh.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [34:57.189]
one way because that is theirbrain telling them this is how I
met.
So you want to know more about that.
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go,
back to my episode about thebrain, the amazing brain.
And we talk about neuro-pathology,how to reprogram your brain.
So I will post a link to that in my
blog of that episode if you want tolike dive into more of that, because
that is a huge, huge part of it.
And it coincides really well
with The changes and youknow what the astrology
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is telling
us is going to happen.
It's like yeah November
19th
everybody's gonna face
their one way of doing things and haveto ask themselves does that really work?
That really going to get mewhat I want and need and that's
what
you know we joke
about
family vacations because in ourfamily again this is going back
(36:15):
to like generational trauma
but We talk about
like how much my mom always
talks about going toHawaii and she's like,
I'm not going to plan
anything.
I just want to go to
Hawaii and sit on the beach
the whole
time.
And my dad's
like, you say that, but that's not
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what we're going to
do.
like,
by the time we get there, you're going
to be like, but I also want to do thisone excursion And we can't miss this, this
is going on.
And
you know,
Kambria 36:13.227]
Thank
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but It's in our nature.
We're like, we don't want to
miss these opportunities.
There's all these
things to do or whatever.
And we're all like that in some capacity.
It's hard for us to be like,what if we went to Hawaii just to
(36:58):
sit on the beach for the entire
week and get
nothing out, play the
waves, enjoy the
sand.
But you get there and you're
like, but there's this littletown I want to go see and there's
this excursion I want to
go
do.
Kambria
[36:22.99]
Yeah.
Ride The Wave
Media Podcast Network[36:49.567] Whatever.
So you end up
planning a
bunch
of stuff and then you're like, do
we really do nothing and enjoy the waves?
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I don't know.
Kambria [36:59.64]
Totally.
Ride The Wave Media PodcastNetwork [37:00.661] Fight it.
Yeah, we fight that.
Do nothing.
It's hard.
I mean, I think just about anybody,especially if you're taking phones
and setting phones with that.
I'm like, who can do that?
I struggle with that.
I have to put my phone like in anotherroom when it's a certain time of night.
(37:46):
And then I go get the nextmorning and I've got messages.
And I just let peopleknow, I'm sorry, I don't
Kambria [37:05.026]
Mm-hmm.
Kambria [37:11.53]
Yeah!
Yeah!
Ride The Wave Media Podcast Network[37:30.86] have my phone with me
after a certain time of night.
So if it was an emergency orsomething like that, you probably
should have contacted somebody else.
Kambria [37:39.65]
I love that.
That's great.
Yeah.
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Media Podcast Network [37:40.632]
Like I'm not available.
Yeah.
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Cause if my phone is aroundwithin arms reach, I'm on Facebook
scrolling, I'm on Instagram andI'm like, how did I get here?
How did I do this?
I have those, those,
those reels that you see that they're
making fun of when they're likelaughing and they're going to show
their spouse or partner something
and, they're like fallingdown stairs and they're like,
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Kambria [37:54.734]
Cool anyway.
I know.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [38:08.903]
shoot, that's right.
was calling 911.
I'm like, that would
I'd be
like,
this
I pick up
my
I'm the worst.
Yeah.
I, I need to take my ownadvice when it comes to that.
So yeah.
Well, I will say that over thelast couple of years, when I
have embraced the winter energy,
Kambria [38:12.046]
Kambria [38:20.45]
It's hilarious.
Kambria [38:28.878]
I need to take my own advicewhen it comes to that.
So
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the much easier to give itthan take it though, right?
yeah.
Yeah.
I will say that over the lastcouple of years, when I have
embraced the winter energy,
Kambria [38:12.046]
Kambria [38:20.45]
It's hilarious.
Kambria [38:28.878]
And the much easier to giveit than take it though, right?
Yeah.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [38:37.92]
and embraced what that sort of fuga,cozy contentment, clear your schedule,
give yourself time to rest and readbooks and do more indoor things.
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When I embraced that energy instead of
fighting it, it kind of cured myseasonal depression because...
Kambria [38:40.494]
Yeah.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [39:04.361]
Last year, I remember it cominginto springtime and I was getting
depressed thinking about summer comingup, which I've never felt before.
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I always felt depressedgoing into winter, but this
time I
was like, no, I'm not reallyready to be that busy.
I kind of like, I kind of likethis winter feeling, you know, and
this rest and this time for myself.
So
it's hard to go back.
It's hard to go from one tothe other and be like, need
Kambria [39:11.627]
(39:57):
yeah.
Yeah.
change is hard, man, change is hard.
is hard.
Regardless of
Regardless of what form it's in, you know?
So yeah, I definitely see that.
I think the more present we are inthe spaces that we're in, easier
the transitions and change can be.
present you are with your
And that's also, that takesa lot of practice too, right?
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It's the more present you are withyour kids when you're with them.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [39:34.431]
Yeah.
Kambria [40:00.994]
The less guilt you feel when you'reaway from them, the more present we
are in winter and we can really takein the rest and take in the slowness
and absorb that time to slow down
down and kind of reset.
Then when it comes totake action, you know, but
and kind of reset.
Then when it comes to take action,you know, but I think that's a, that's
really cool information for you oflike, look, look how once I kind of
(40:44):
got into that and then it was like, myGod, I don't want go back to that busy.
I feel you.
now I
need to like
now I need to get into it and actuallylike put into action all the things
that I have been planning and thinking
about putting you knowduring the pregnancy time
I'm like spring is coming.
It's time to give
birth and now it's the real work Kambria
(41:05):
[40:32.854]
Sure.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yep
Ride The Wave Media Podcast Network[40:44.315] which I actually know little
bit something about because before mytwins were born when I was pregnant
I spent two months in the hospital
not being able to leave because theywanted to be there like you know with the
complications and stuff they were like wewant you to be on campus I wasn't in on
(41:26):
bedrest thankfully but I was like we needyou to live here and be admitted so yeah I
remember thinking
Kambria [40:45.038]
Thank
Kambria [40:52.546]
Whoa.
Kambria [41:07.201]
Okay.
Yeah.
Ride The Wave Media PodcastNetwork [41:12.105] Everybody
kept telling me like, my gosh,this must be so hard for you.
You just have to sit around atthe hospital all day every day.
This is so rough.
And I remember being kindof like, actually, I'm good.
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I I spent all day reading books, drawing
pictures,
walking
around The
hospital
grounds.
People bring me my
food.
Kambria [41:20.11]
So.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [41:41.897]
Someone comes and cleans my room.
yeah,
I mean, I really kindof, yeah, I enjoyed it.
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Cause I thought to myself, when Ileave here, I'm leaving with two
babies that I have to take care of.
Kambria [41:44.77]
Yeah!
Let's go!
Kambria [41:53.934]
Yeah, so you just...we'regonna soak that up,
Ride The Wave Media
Yeah,
Like I knew what that was
gonna soak that up,
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [41:57.781]
Right?
Like I knew what that was about.
Yeah.
So when
people were
like,
you
poor thing, I was like,
yeah.
bad.
Awful.
Not really.
I like, I kind of lovedit, but that's just me.
So
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bad.
yeah, I'm looking forward to this winter.
I'm looking forward togoing into hibernation mode.
And I think my
Kambria [42:11.079]
I love that.
Not really.
I like, I kind of lovedit, but that's just me.
So yeah, I'm lookingforward to this winter.
I'm looking forward togoing into hibernation mode.
And I think my
Kambria [42:11.079]
I love that.
Yeah.
Kambria [42:22.434]
you
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [42:27.403]
final thought would be to peoplelike you were saying about
(42:54):
square pieces, don't resist it.
I think when we resist what is natural
is when we feel
you
Ride The Wave
and depressed.
Network
trying to fit in a summer
day's worth of
work
to
people like you
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boy.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [42:53.045]
And I mean, that doesn't work.
So like, don't resist the seasons, work
and depressed.
Cause you're trying to fit in a summerday's worth of work into a winter day.
Kambria [42:52.05]
boy.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [42:53.045]
And I mean, that doesn't work.
So like, don't resist theseasons, work with them.
Would you have a finalthought with that in mind?
Kambria [43:00.917]
Would you have a finalthought with that in mind?
Kambria [43:00.917]
Yeah, and also, mean, yeah, tothat point, and then we think
about our bodies and how they
bodies and how
work and the daylight and the sunlight andreleasing cortisol and the function of our
(43:39):
actual bodies that are timed by the lightof the sun and the length of the days.
So even if you don't want tojump in on this woo-woo energy of
astrology, just listen to naturein your body, because they know.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [43:20.567]
You
Kambria [43:31.308]
You know what saying?
They know.
And so that is the time.
The body is
(43:59):
know.
And so
meeting.
We're not programmed physiologicallyto produce the way that we're
meant to produce mid-summer.
a huge imitation
And yeah, I think that's a hugeimitation and just allowing that,
allowing that shift and change.
And it's not gonna be easy too, justso asterisk for everybody there that's
(44:21):
like, I'm gonna do that this season, knowthat there will be so much resistance
because we're programmed, you know?
That it's gonna feel,it's going to feel wrong.
It's going to feel likeyou're going to die.
Right?
And then sooner or later, youdon't die, and you just start to
reprogram your brain and yeah.
dead, you know?
Then
(44:41):
Astrologically, the wholeseason is not dead, you know?
Then we get into aSagittarius season, which is,
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [44:09.912]
Yeah.
Kambria [44:23.086]
actually the light in
Podcast Network [44:09.912]
Yeah.
Kambria
the darkness aka Christmas lightsin the middle of winter so you know
of winter
so
on about but yeah I think that'sgood and hopefully you know just
regardless of of what transitionsthe next 24 48 hours for the United
(45:03):
States you know it's just an energy of
The Wave
change regardless so yeah
Media Podcast Network [44:48.873]
All right, good reminder.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [44:27.099]
Yeah.
Ride The Wave
Media Podcast Network [44:48.873]
All right, good reminder.
We can do
All right, well,
let's let people
know how
(45:23):
they can find you, especially
if they're looking to do
Kambria [44:49.738]
Right now.
Totally.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [45:03.457]
birth chart readings or what events
and things are comingup for Kaya community.
Can you let
us
you let us
know?
Kambria [45:09.442]
Yeah, so the easiest way to book abirth chart is through my website,
TheCambryAdivis and Cambry is
with a K, TheCambryAdivis.com.
I'm actually increasing mybirth chart pricing in December.
(45:46):
So if people are interested and have beeninterested, now is the time to do it.
And so those are so powerful andhonestly such a cool Christmas
gift, a cool gift to people.
Or just on Instagramtoo at Kaya Community,
is with K's or Cambry Davis onInstagram also Cambry with a K.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [45:45.278]
Perfect, yes.
And I'm on Prism Healing.
So my website prism-healing.comwhere you can book any of my healing
services, including card readingssessions, which are super helpful
for those moments when you're like,
Kambria [45:58.584]
Bye.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [46:01.166]
What's going on andwhat do I need to know?
So I offer a lot of different kindsof spreads and card reading sessions
(46:06):
and you can book there on my website.
Follow me on Instagram at prismunderscore healing or on TikTok for
now for as long as TikTok is aroundat prism healing and I'm on Facebook
Courtney Pearls prism healing.
So check out
The Kaya podcast, the PracticallyMagic podcast, follow, subscribe,
and share if you have an episode thatparticularly resonates with you and
you think that someone could use thatinformation in their lives to help them.
It would only improve our quality ofrecording episodes for you and to be
able to keep providing you with thehelp and information that you need.
So I guess that's it for today.
Please.
Reach out to us on our DMs and say hello.
We'd love to hear from you.
Right?
Go make magic.
Kambria [47:02.902]
Yeah, thank you.
[45:09.442]
Yeah, so the easiest way to book abirth chart is through my website,
TheCambryAdivis and Cambry iswith a K, TheCambryAdivis.com.
I'm actually increasing mybirth chart pricing in December.
So if people are interested and have beeninterested, now is the time to do it.
And so those are so powerful andhonestly such a cool Christmas
gift, a cool gift to people.
Or just on Instagramtoo at Kaya Community,
is with K's or Cambry Davis onInstagram also Cambry with a K.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [45:45.278]
Perfect, yes.
And I'm on Prism Healing.
So my website prism-healing.comwhere you can book any of my healing
services, including card readingssessions, which are super helpful
for those moments when you're like,
Kambria [45:58.584]
Bye.
Ride The Wave MediaPodcast Network [46:01.166]
What's going on andwhat do I need to know?
(46:27):
So I offer a lot of different kindsof spreads and card reading sessions
and you can book there on my website.
Follow me on Instagram at prismunderscore healing or on TikTok for
now for as long as TikTok is aroundat prism healing and I'm on Facebook
(46:48):
Courtney Pearls prism healing.
So check out The Kaya podcast,the Practically Magic podcast,
follow, subscribe, and share if youhave an episode that particularly
resonates with you and you think thatsomeone could use that information
in their lives to help them.
It would only improve our quality ofrecording episodes for you and to be
(47:11):
able to keep providing you with thehelp and information that you need.
So I guess that's it for today.
Please.
Reach out to us on our DMs and say hello.
We'd love to hear from you.
Right?
Go make magic.
Kambria [47:02.902]
Yeah, thank you.
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