November 16, 2025 • 16 mins
Being a single mom or solo woman in an urban environment has unique challenges, and the thought of facing an emergency alone can feel overwhelming. But you don’t need months or years to build a solid support network - you can do it in 30 days. How? Listen to find out.
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Lynn Jordan:
Being a single woman in the city
has unique challenges, and the (00:00):
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Lynn Jordan: thought of facing an emergency alone can feel overwhelming. (00:04):
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Lynn Jordan: But you don't need months to build a solid support network. (00:07):
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Lynn Jordan: You can do it in thirty days. (00:11):
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Lynn Jordan: How? (00:13):
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Lynn Jordan: Listen to find out. (00:13):
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Lynn Jordan: Hi, I'm the urban lady prepper. (00:17):
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Lynn Jordan: I help single moms and solo (00:19):
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Lynn Jordan: women with practical emergency (00:20):
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Lynn Jordan: preparedness. (00:22):
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Lynn Jordan: But of course, all are welcome to become better prepared for (00:23):
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Lynn Jordan: whatever happens next. (00:26):
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Lynn Jordan: The idea of a real citywide crisis is terrifying. (00:30):
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Lynn Jordan: The power grid fails, grocery store shelves are bare, and that (00:33):
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Lynn Jordan: constant city buzz is suddenly gone, replaced by a silence (00:37):
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Lynn Jordan: that's way more frightening than a noise ever was. (00:40):
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Lynn Jordan: And when you're single, when you're the only one you can (00:43):
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Lynn Jordan: truly count on, that fear gets cranked up to eleven. (00:46):
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Lynn Jordan: It can feel completely overwhelming. (00:49):
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Lynn Jordan: You're thinking about having no (00:51):
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Lynn Jordan: one to literally watch your (00:53):
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Lynn Jordan: back, about facing the chaos (00:54):
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Lynn Jordan: alone. (00:56):
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Lynn Jordan: While it feels like everyone (00:56):
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Lynn Jordan: else has a partner, a family, a (00:57):
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Lynn Jordan: team. (00:59):
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Lynn Jordan: That's a heavy weight to carry. (01:01):
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Lynn Jordan: Knowing your survival rests entirely on your shoulders. (01:02):
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Lynn Jordan: But what if I told you that in just thirty days, you could (01:06):
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Lynn Jordan: build a smart network of allies that ensures that you're never (01:09):
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Lynn Jordan: really alone when it counts? (01:12):
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Lynn Jordan: This isn't about waiting for a hero or federal agency to swoop (01:14):
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Lynn Jordan: in and save you. (01:18):
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Lynn Jordan: It's about becoming the (01:19):
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Lynn Jordan: connected, resilient, and (01:20):
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Lynn Jordan: prepared woman who's ready to (01:22):
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Lynn Jordan: face anything. (01:23):
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Lynn Jordan: Not as a lone wolf, but as the (01:24):
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Lynn Jordan: calm center of a powerful (01:27):
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Lynn Jordan: support system. (01:28):
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Lynn Jordan: This is your plan. (01:30):
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Lynn Jordan: Stick with me and I'll show you (01:31):
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Lynn Jordan: exactly how to build it week by (01:33):
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Lynn Jordan: week. (01:34):
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Lynn Jordan: As I become more involved in my (01:37):
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Lynn Jordan: channel's community, two (01:38):
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Lynn Jordan: commenters brought up the need (01:40):
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Lynn Jordan: for a quick group start up (01:41):
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Lynn Jordan: guide. (01:42):
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Lynn Jordan: The reason is that there aren't many available, so it may be (01:43):
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Lynn Jordan: unclear where to begin. (01:46):
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Lynn Jordan: Additionally, how does one get to know their neighbors when (01:47):
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Lynn Jordan: everyone's working all the time? (01:50):
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Lynn Jordan: Hopefully this will help those of us who want to get going, (01:52):
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Lynn Jordan: especially now that winter. (01:55):
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Lynn Jordan: And God knows what else is on its way. (01:56):
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Lynn Jordan: Why do we need to be intentional (02:00):
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Lynn Jordan: as women about creating these (02:02):
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Lynn Jordan: connections. (02:03):
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Lynn Jordan: Well, let's first acknowledge something important. (02:04):
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Lynn Jordan: Your needs are different from those of a married couple or a (02:07):
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Lynn Jordan: family with multiple adults. (02:09):
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Lynn Jordan: You might be the sole decision maker for your household. (02:11):
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Lynn Jordan: You may work crazy hours or multiple jobs. (02:14):
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Lynn Jordan: You don't have a built in backup (02:17):
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Lynn Jordan: person, which means your (02:19):
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Lynn Jordan: external network becomes even (02:20):
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Lynn Jordan: more critical. (02:22):
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Lynn Jordan: Urban living has another layer of complexity. (02:23):
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Lynn Jordan: You might not know your neighbors well. (02:26):
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Lynn Jordan: Family could be scattered across different parts of town or (02:28):
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Lynn Jordan: different states, and the fast paced city life doesn't always (02:30):
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Lynn Jordan: encourage community building. (02:34):
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Lynn Jordan: So let's get into it. (02:35):
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Lynn Jordan: Week one the foundation. (02:39):
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Lynn Jordan: Your inner circle. (02:41):
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Lynn Jordan: All right. (02:43):
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Lynn Jordan: Week one, day one. (02:43):
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Lynn Jordan: Who would you call right now if (02:45):
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Lynn Jordan: you needed help during an (02:47):
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Lynn Jordan: emergency? (02:48):
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Lynn Jordan: We're not starting with strangers. (02:49):
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Lynn Jordan: We're starting with the people you already have your inner (02:51):
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Lynn Jordan: circle, your best friends, your most trusted family member. (02:54):
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Lynn Jordan: These are the bedrock of your survival network. (02:58):
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Lynn Jordan: We're going to take all that love and trust and forge it into (03:01):
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Lynn Jordan: something stronger than steel. (03:03):
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Lynn Jordan: Affection is great, but it isn't a plan. (03:05):
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Lynn Jordan: So let's make one. (03:07):
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Lynn Jordan: Your first step is to create a tiered communications list. (03:09):
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Lynn Jordan: This isn't just your normal contact list. (03:13):
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Lynn Jordan: Think of it as a strategic cheat sheet for a crisis. (03:15):
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Lynn Jordan: Your tier one is for your ride or die crew. (03:18):
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Lynn Jordan: These are the first people you call. (03:21):
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Lynn Jordan: You should have their number, their partner's number, and (03:23):
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Lynn Jordan: maybe even a work number stored and preferably memorized. (03:26):
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Lynn Jordan: I know, I know, no one memorizes numbers anymore, but have them (03:30):
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Lynn Jordan: in your phone and most importantly written down where (03:33):
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Lynn Jordan: you can get to it. (03:36):
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Lynn Jordan: I don't know about you, but when (03:38):
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Lynn Jordan: I'm in a panic I might forget my (03:39):
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Lynn Jordan: own name. (03:41):
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Lynn Jordan: So not being able to recall my (03:42):
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Lynn Jordan: own mama's number in a crisis, (03:43):
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Lynn Jordan: that's possible. (03:45):
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Lynn Jordan: Tier two is for your reliable (03:48):
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Lynn Jordan: friends and family who might (03:49):
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Lynn Jordan: live farther away but can offer (03:50):
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Lynn Jordan: remote support. (03:52):
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Lynn Jordan: Think of them as your evac point (03:53):
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Lynn Jordan: or bugout spot a safe place to (03:55):
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Lynn Jordan: land if you have to get out of (03:57):
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Lynn Jordan: Dodge, or someone who can make (03:58):
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Lynn Jordan: calls for you if your service is (03:59):
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Lynn Jordan: getting spotty. (04:01):
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Lynn Jordan: Days two and three are for having the talk. (04:03):
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Lynn Jordan: Don't worry, it doesn't have to (04:06):
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Lynn Jordan: be some scary doom and gloom (04:08):
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Lynn Jordan: conversation. (04:09):
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Lynn Jordan: Frame it as being practical. (04:10):
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Lynn Jordan: Say something like hey, with all (04:12):
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Lynn Jordan: the wild weather lately, I was (04:15):
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Lynn Jordan: thinking it would be smart for (04:17):
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Lynn Jordan: us to have a simple what if (04:18):
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Lynn Jordan: plan. (04:19):
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Lynn Jordan: Talk about a rally point, a (04:21):
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Lynn Jordan: primary, and a backup spot to (04:22):
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Lynn Jordan: meet. (04:24):
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Lynn Jordan: If you get separated and can't communicate, exchange important (04:24):
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Lynn Jordan: info like copies of emergency documents and spare keys. (04:27):
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Lynn Jordan: This one conversation turns all those unspoken. (04:31):
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Lynn Jordan: I hope you'll be okay feelings into a real, actionable strategy (04:34):
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Lynn Jordan: at the end of this week, you need a visibility plan. (04:39):
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Lynn Jordan: This is a simple pact with at (04:41):
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Lynn Jordan: least one person from your tier (04:43):
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Lynn Jordan: one group, and you check on each (04:44):
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Lynn Jordan: other on a regular basis, (04:46):
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Lynn Jordan: especially regarding any severe (04:48):
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Lynn Jordan: regular events or possible (04:49):
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Lynn Jordan: crises. (04:51):
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Lynn Jordan: It can be as easy as a text every morning and night during (04:52):
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Lynn Jordan: the situation, or at least a weekly check in. (04:54):
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Lynn Jordan: This simple system turns worry into action, ensuring you're (04:58):
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Lynn Jordan: never invisible, which is crucial, especially if you're a (05:00):
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Lynn Jordan: childless, introvert lady like me who's not always great at (05:04):
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Lynn Jordan: keeping in touch. (05:07):
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Lynn Jordan: This week is all about turning (05:08):
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Lynn Jordan: affection into a functional life (05:10):
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Lynn Jordan: saving alliance. (05:11):
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Lynn Jordan: Lastly, end the week by identifying your specific (05:14):
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Lynn Jordan: vulnerabilities and needs. (05:17):
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Lynn Jordan: Are you on the fifteenth floor of an apartment building? (05:19):
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Lynn Jordan: Do you have pets? (05:21):
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Lynn Jordan: Medical needs? (05:22):
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Lynn Jordan: Kids who depend on you (05:24):
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Lynn Jordan: understanding what you'll need (05:25):
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Lynn Jordan: help with? (05:27):
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Lynn Jordan: That only makes it easier to (05:27):
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Lynn Jordan: identify the right people to (05:29):
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Lynn Jordan: connect with. (05:30):
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Lynn Jordan: For the second week, but may also help you identify by (05:31):
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Lynn Jordan: situations you may need to research or get more information (05:34):
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Lynn Jordan: on now, especially if you're new to the area. (05:36):
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Lynn Jordan: Week two the Neighborhood Network. (05:40):
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Lynn Jordan: Your local lifeline. (05:43):
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Lynn Jordan: Okay, your foundation is set. (05:44):
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Lynn Jordan: Now it's time to zoom in on your immediate area and the people (05:46):
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Lynn Jordan: you see every day, such as parents from your kids school or (05:49):
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Lynn Jordan: regulars at your coffee shop. (05:52):
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Lynn Jordan: Don't overthink it. (05:54):
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Lynn Jordan: Just start noticing who's around you consistently in a crisis. (05:55):
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Lynn Jordan: The people who can help you the fastest are the ones who can (05:59):
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Lynn Jordan: hear you yell. (06:02):
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Lynn Jordan: Your neighbors are your frontline defense, but you can't (06:03):
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Lynn Jordan: exactly knock on their door for the first time during a blackout (06:06):
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Lynn Jordan: to ask for a favor. (06:08):
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Lynn Jordan: The goal of week two is to turn (06:10):
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Lynn Jordan: anonymous neighbors into (06:12):
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Lynn Jordan: friendly faces and potential (06:13):
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Lynn Jordan: lifelines. (06:15):
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Lynn Jordan: It's not about being phony. (06:16):
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Lynn Jordan: It's about establishing (06:17):
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Lynn Jordan: relationships, no matter how low (06:18):
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Lynn Jordan: key or limited, with the people (06:20):
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Lynn Jordan: who are physically closest to (06:22):
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Lynn Jordan: you, with whom you can have a (06:23):
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Lynn Jordan: mutual and immediate help and (06:25):
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Lynn Jordan: support situation. (06:27):
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Lynn Jordan: Start by just being more observant. (06:30):
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Lynn Jordan: Get a feel for the rhythm of (06:33):
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Lynn Jordan: your street or your apartment (06:34):
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Lynn Jordan: building. (06:35):
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Lynn Jordan: Who leaves for work at the crack of dawn? (06:36):
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Lynn Jordan: Who has that giant dog that barks at every passing leaf? (06:38):
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Lynn Jordan: Who's always tinkering with their car on Saturday? (06:41):
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Lynn Jordan: This isn't about being nosy. (06:44):
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Lynn Jordan: It's another example of situational awareness. (06:45):
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Lynn Jordan: That guy who's always under his car. (06:48):
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Lynn Jordan: He's got tools and probably knows how to use them. (06:50):
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Lynn Jordan: The woman with the prize winning tomatoes. (06:53):
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Lynn Jordan: She has a sustainable food source. (06:55):
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Lynn Jordan: Your mission this week. (06:58):
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Lynn Jordan: Initiate three low stakes conversations. (06:59):
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Lynn Jordan: This is where introverts like me might feel uncomfortable. (07:02):
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Lynn Jordan: But remember, you're not asking people to be your best friend. (07:04):
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Lynn Jordan: You're simply opening the door to practical mutual support. (07:07):
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Lynn Jordan: You don't even have to bring up disaster prep at all. (07:11):
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Lynn Jordan: Start with your immediate neighbors. (07:13):
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Lynn Jordan: Ask to borrow a strange sized Allen key. (07:15):
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Lynn Jordan: Compliment that dog. (07:18):
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Lynn Jordan: Offer them some extra cookies you baked. (07:19):
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Lynn Jordan: The point is to go from being strangers who share a wall or (07:21):
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Lynn Jordan: yard to being actual neighbors. (07:24):
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Lynn Jordan: People are so much more likely (07:27):
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Lynn Jordan: to help someone they know and (07:28):
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Lynn Jordan: like many people do, think about (07:29):
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Lynn Jordan: preparedness, but never take the (07:32):
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Lynn Jordan: first step. (07:33):
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Lynn Jordan: So if you prefer to get right into it, a it. (07:34):
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Lynn Jordan: A simple hi, I'm trying to be more prepared for emergencies. (07:36):
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Lynn Jordan: Do you have any experience with that? (07:40):
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Lynn Jordan: Or do you know if the town or school has a plan? (07:42):
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Lynn Jordan: This can lead to surprisingly (07:45):
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Lynn Jordan: productive conversations for (07:46):
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Lynn Jordan: apartment dwellers. (07:49):
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Lynn Jordan: Consider leaving a friendly note under your neighbor's doors with (07:50):
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Lynn Jordan: your apartment number, availability, and a brief (07:52):
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Lynn Jordan: message about wanting to connect for emergency preparedness. (07:55):
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Lynn Jordan: Don't have any expectations, and don't be disappointed if people (07:58):
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Lynn Jordan: don't respond or act as though they never got it. (08:01):
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Lynn Jordan: Taking the time to make these (08:04):
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Lynn Jordan: steps will bring out the people (08:05):
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Lynn Jordan: who are truly interested and (08:06):
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Lynn Jordan: ready to act, and therefore may (08:07):
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Lynn Jordan: be the most reliable and (08:09):
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Lynn Jordan: consistent. (08:11):
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Lynn Jordan: The more time and opportunities you have to vet your disaster (08:12):
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Lynn Jordan: network, the better. (08:14):
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Lynn Jordan: By the end of this week, try to (08:17):
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Lynn Jordan: identify at least one neighbor (08:19):
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Lynn Jordan: who seems reliable and level (08:20):
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Lynn Jordan: headed. (08:21):
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Lynn Jordan: You could even suggest creating (08:22):
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Lynn Jordan: a simple contact sheet for just (08:24):
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Lynn Jordan: in case situations like a power (08:26):
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Lynn Jordan: outage, a building water shut (08:28):
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Lynn Jordan: off notice, or a broken (08:29):
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Lynn Jordan: elevator. (08:30):
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Lynn Jordan: That includes full names, addresses, and contact numbers. (08:31):
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Lynn Jordan: This week is all about (08:35):
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Lynn Jordan: transforming your block from a (08:36):
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Lynn Jordan: collection of addresses into a (08:37):
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Lynn Jordan: real community. (08:38):
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Lynn Jordan: One hello at a time and remember to trust your gut. (08:39):
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Lynn Jordan: Not every neighbor is going to be an ally and you might not (08:43):
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Lynn Jordan: want them to be. (08:45):
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Lynn Jordan: And that's okay. (08:46):
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Lynn Jordan: We're aiming for a few solid connections, not a fan club. (08:47):
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Lynn Jordan: Now, if so far you're seeing how (08:52):
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Lynn Jordan: this plan is flowing and you'd (08:54):
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Lynn Jordan: like to read or listen to more, (08:55):
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Lynn Jordan: visit my article solo and save a (08:57):
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Lynn Jordan: simple thirty day plan to build (08:59):
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Lynn Jordan: your disaster network on my (09:00):
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Lynn Jordan: official website. (09:02):
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Lynn Jordan: Com and please hit those like, follow and subscribe buttons (09:04):
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Lynn Jordan: which helps me continue to provide content like this. (09:07):
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Lynn Jordan: Thank you. (09:10):
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Lynn Jordan: So to continue week three, the community and colleagues (09:12):
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Lynn Jordan: expanding your reach. (09:16):
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Lynn Jordan: You've got your inner circle locked down and you've made (09:18):
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Lynn Jordan: headway with your neighbors. (09:20):
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Lynn Jordan: Now let's expand your web. (09:21):
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Lynn Jordan: Think about it. (09:23):
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Lynn Jordan: You spend a huge chunk of your (09:24):
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Lynn Jordan: life at work or doing your (09:26):
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Lynn Jordan: hobbies. (09:27):
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Lynn Jordan: These places are goldmines for allies full of people whose (09:28):
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Lynn Jordan: skills you probably already know a little something about. (09:31):
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Lynn Jordan: At work. (09:34):
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Lynn Jordan: Just start paying attention to the details. (09:35):
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Lynn Jordan: Who's the person who stays (09:37):
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Lynn Jordan: freakishly calm when a deadline (09:39):
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Lynn Jordan: explodes? (09:40):
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Lynn Jordan: Who's mentioned they're (09:41):
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Lynn Jordan: volunteer EMT or has a first aid (09:42):
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Lynn Jordan: certification? (09:44):
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Lynn Jordan: Who lives close enough that you could realistically travel (09:45):
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Lynn Jordan: together if an evacuation order makes you leave town or the (09:48):
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Lynn Jordan: train shut down. (09:51):
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Lynn Jordan: You don't have to start (09:52):
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Lynn Jordan: interrogating your coworkers (09:53):
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Lynn Jordan: over coffee. (09:54):
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Lynn Jordan: Just listen. (09:55):
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Lynn Jordan: You might overhear that someone's brother is a cop, or (09:57):
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Lynn Jordan: that another person is a serious camper with all the gear. (09:59):
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Lynn Jordan: That's all valuable Intel. (10:02):
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Lynn Jordan: The goal is to pinpoint a few colleagues you could probably (10:04):
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Lynn Jordan: count on in a pinch. (10:07):
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Lynn Jordan: Now look beyond your nine to five. (10:10):
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Lynn Jordan: Are you in a book club, a hiking group, a volunteer organization, (10:12):
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Lynn Jordan: or spin class? (10:16):
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Lynn Jordan: These groups are amazing because you're already linked by a (10:18):
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Lynn Jordan: shared interest, which builds an instant foundation of trust. (10:20):
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Lynn Jordan: Think of them as pre-vetted pools of potential allies. (10:24):
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Lynn Jordan: That friend from your hiking group, they'll probably fit and (10:27):
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Lynn Jordan: know the local trails. (10:29):
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Lynn Jordan: Someone from that volunteer team (10:31):
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Lynn Jordan: has already proven they're (10:32):
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Lynn Jordan: willing to show up and help (10:34):
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Lynn Jordan: others. (10:35):
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Lynn Jordan: Your task for this week is to (10:36):
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Lynn Jordan: deepen just one of those (10:38):
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Lynn Jordan: connections. (10:39):
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Lynn Jordan: Ask someone to grab some coffee. (10:40):
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Lynn Jordan: Talk about something other than your shared hobby. (10:42):
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Lynn Jordan: Building that personal rapport is everything. (10:44):
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Lynn Jordan: This week is about realizing (10:47):
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Lynn Jordan: your support system isn't some (10:48):
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Lynn Jordan: project you have to build from (10:50):
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Lynn Jordan: scratch. (10:51):
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Lynn Jordan: You're already standing right in the middle of it. (10:52):
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Lynn Jordan: You just need to switch it on. (10:54):
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Lynn Jordan: Once you have hopefully three to (10:57):
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Lynn Jordan: five people on board, decide how (10:59):
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Lynn Jordan: your network will communicate (11:01):
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Lynn Jordan: during different types of Of (11:02):
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Lynn Jordan: emergencies. (11:03):
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Lynn Jordan: Will you text call? (11:04):
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Lynn Jordan: Use a specific app? (11:06):
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Lynn Jordan: What if cell towers are down? (11:08):
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Lynn Jordan: Having multiple communication methods planned makes your (11:10):
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Lynn Jordan: network much more reliable. (11:12):
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Lynn Jordan: Consider setting up a group chat for non-emergency communication (11:14):
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Lynn Jordan: and network maintenance. (11:17):
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Lynn Jordan: This keeps everyone connected (11:18):
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Lynn Jordan: and makes it easier to (11:20):
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Lynn Jordan: coordinate when something (11:21):
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Lynn Jordan: actually happens. (11:21):
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Lynn Jordan: Week four Strategic Alliances and Skill swap. (11:24):
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Lynn Jordan: This is the final week, and it's all about putting the finishing (11:28):
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Lynn Jordan: touches on your network. (11:30):
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Lynn Jordan: It's time to get strategic and (11:32):
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Lynn Jordan: remember that the best (11:33):
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Lynn Jordan: communities are built on what (11:34):
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Lynn Jordan: you can give, not just what you (11:35):
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Lynn Jordan: can get. (11:37):
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Lynn Jordan: So take a look in the mirror. (11:39):
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Lynn Jordan: What are your skills? (11:40):
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Lynn Jordan: Maybe you're not a Navy Seal, (11:42):
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Lynn Jordan: but are you a rock star (11:44):
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Lynn Jordan: organizer? (11:45):
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Lynn Jordan: Can you cook a meal for ten people out of basically nothing? (11:46):
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Lynn Jordan: Are you a teacher who's amazing with kids? (11:49):
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Lynn Jordan: A skill that would be considered (11:51):
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Lynn Jordan: a godsend for stressed out (11:52):
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Lynn Jordan: parents? (11:54):
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Lynn Jordan: Do you know first aid? (11:55):
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Lynn Jordan: Know what you bring to the table? (11:56):
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Lynn Jordan: If you feel you aren't bringing enough. (11:58):
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Lynn Jordan: Use the Intel you've gained over the last couple of weeks to see (12:00):
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Lynn Jordan: if there's a skill you can gain that will fill a needed gap. (12:03):
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Lynn Jordan: Next, look for gaps in your network. (12:07):
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Lynn Jordan: You've got your ride or dies for support, your neighbors for (12:09):
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Lynn Jordan: immediate help, and your community for a wider reach. (12:12):
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Lynn Jordan: But do you know a mechanic, a nurse or a doctor? (12:15):
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Lynn Jordan: Someone with a pickup truck? (12:18):
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Lynn Jordan: You don't need to become best (12:23):
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Lynn Jordan: friends with your mechanic, but (12:24):
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Lynn Jordan: building a friendly, loyal (12:26):
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Lynn Jordan: relationship means you're not (12:27):
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Lynn Jordan: just another name on a work (12:28):
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Lynn Jordan: order. (12:29):
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Lynn Jordan: When things get crazy. (12:29):
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Lynn Jordan: Be regular. (12:31):
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Lynn Jordan: Be the good customer with the friendly face. (12:32):
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Lynn Jordan: These everyday relationships can become surprisingly vital when (12:34):
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Lynn Jordan: people have to choose between helping the lady who's always (12:38):
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Lynn Jordan: calm and polite, and that Karen, who's always yelling at them the (12:40):
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Lynn Jordan: moment they walk in. (12:44):
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Lynn Jordan: Finally, you have to practice a (12:46):
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Lynn Jordan: plan on paper is just a piece of (12:48):
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Lynn Jordan: paper. (12:50):
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Lynn Jordan: Do a dry run. (12:50):
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Lynn Jordan: Again, you want to be able to count on the folks in your (12:52):
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Lynn Jordan: group, so the longer you have to do so, the better. (12:54):
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Lynn Jordan: Test your network with small, low stakes scenarios. (12:57):
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Lynn Jordan: Sending a hey, just testing our what if text chain message to (13:01):
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Lynn Jordan: your tier one people drive the route to your meet up spot. (13:05):
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Lynn Jordan: Make sure your emergency kit is (13:08):
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Lynn Jordan: where you told your friend it (13:10):
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Lynn Jordan: would be. (13:11):
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Lynn Jordan: You can even host a preparedness party. (13:12):
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Lynn Jordan: Invite a few friends or neighbors over to go through (13:14):
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Lynn Jordan: your emergency kits together. (13:16):
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Lynn Jordan: Make it social, make it productive, and make it fun. (13:17):
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Lynn Jordan: This final week solidifies your (13:21):
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Lynn Jordan: role not as someone waiting to (13:23):
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Lynn Jordan: be saved, but as the capable (13:24):
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Lynn Jordan: central hub of your own safety (13:26):
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Lynn Jordan: network. (13:27):
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Lynn Jordan: You've gone from feeling alone to being connected. (13:29):
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Lynn Jordan: You've turned that knot of (13:31):
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Lynn Jordan: anxiety in your stomach into a (13:32):
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Lynn Jordan: concrete, actionable plan that's (13:33):
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Lynn Jordan: really not taking that much out (13:35):
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Lynn Jordan: of your current lifestyle and (13:37):
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Lynn Jordan: schedule. (13:38):
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Lynn Jordan: Of course, I would be remiss if I didn't mention that building a (13:40):
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Lynn Jordan: support network requires being smart about personal safety. (13:43):
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Lynn Jordan: So here are some guidelines vet new connections. (13:46):
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Lynn Jordan: This is crucial, especially especially if you have kids. (13:50):
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Lynn Jordan: Start with people you've seen consistently in your daily life. (13:54):
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Lynn Jordan: Meet in public places initially. (13:58):
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Lynn Jordan: Trust your instincts. (14:00):
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Lynn Jordan: If something feels off, it (14:01):
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Lynn Jordan: probably is considered (14:02):
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Lynn Jordan: background checks for people who (14:05):
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Lynn Jordan: have access to your home and (14:06):
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Lynn Jordan: never share financial (14:08):
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Lynn Jordan: information. (14:10):
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Lynn Jordan: However, consider swapping your (14:11):
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Lynn Jordan: cash App or Venmo info in case (14:13):
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Lynn Jordan: someone in the group needs to (14:14):
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Lynn Jordan: make a supply run or grab items (14:15):
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Lynn Jordan: on the fly while you're handling (14:17):
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Lynn Jordan: a crisis. (14:18):
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Lynn Jordan: Remember that it's better to have only three people that you (14:20):
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Lynn Jordan: can trust, than ten you're unsure of, or if your kids feel (14:22):
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Lynn Jordan: uncomfortable around them. (14:26):
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Lynn Jordan: As far as what information is (14:29):
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Lynn Jordan: shared, you don't need to share (14:31):
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Lynn Jordan: everything immediately. (14:32):
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Lynn Jordan: Start with basic contact (14:33):
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Lynn Jordan: information and gradually (14:34):
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Lynn Jordan: provide more details as trust (14:36):
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Lynn Jordan: builds. (14:37):
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Lynn Jordan: Never feel pressured to give (14:38):
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Lynn Jordan: someone access to your home or (14:40):
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Lynn Jordan: personal information before (14:41):
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Lynn Jordan: you're comfortable. (14:42):
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Lynn Jordan: And also be clear about what kind of help you're offering and (14:45):
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Lynn Jordan: what you need in return. (14:48):
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Lynn Jordan: This isn't about becoming best (14:50):
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Lynn Jordan: friends or others knowing (14:51):
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Lynn Jordan: everything about your lifestyle (14:53):
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Lynn Jordan: and stash. (14:54):
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Lynn Jordan: It's about practical mutual support during emergencies. (14:55):
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Lynn Jordan: So in conclusion, perhaps the (15:00):
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Lynn Jordan: thought of a crisis filled you (15:02):
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Lynn Jordan: with a sense of dread and (15:03):
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Lynn Jordan: isolation. (15:04):
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Lynn Jordan: But look at you now. (15:05):
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Lynn Jordan: You have a plan. (15:06):
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Lynn Jordan: You have a multi-layered network of support. (15:08):
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Lynn Jordan: You have an inner circle ready to roll. (15:10):
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Lynn Jordan: Neighbors who know your name, and colleagues who see you as (15:12):
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Lynn Jordan: part of a team. (15:15):
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Lynn Jordan: You are not a damsel in distress. (15:16):
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Lynn Jordan: You're the architect of your own safety. (15:18):
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Lynn Jordan: And this plan isn't about living in fear. (15:20):
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Lynn Jordan: It's about owning your power. (15:21):
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Lynn Jordan: The power that comes from knowing you've done the work. (15:23):
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Lynn Jordan: You've built a connection, and you're ready. (15:25):
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Lynn Jordan: You've made yourself a hard target. (15:27):
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Lynn Jordan: Not through force, but through fierce, intelligent preparation. (15:29):
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Lynn Jordan: You are never truly alone when you're this connected. (15:32):
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Lynn Jordan: You've already taken the first step by listening to this. (15:36):
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Lynn Jordan: Now it's time to act. (15:38):
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Lynn Jordan: Drop a comment below and tell me (15:40):
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Lynn Jordan: the one thing you're going to do (15:41):
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Lynn Jordan: this week to start building your (15:43):
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Lynn Jordan: network. (15:44):
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Lynn Jordan: Are you going to have the talk with your best friend? (15:44):
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Lynn Jordan: Bake those cookies for your neighbor. (15:47):
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Lynn Jordan: Let's keep each other accountable. (15:49):
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Lynn Jordan: And if you found this valuable, please like, subscribe, follow (15:52):
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Lynn Jordan: and share it with another woman who needs this message. (15:55):
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Lynn Jordan: Because the strongest (15:57):
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Lynn Jordan: communities are the ones we (15:58):
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Lynn Jordan: build together. (16:00):
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Lynn Jordan: Thanks for listening. (16:01):
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Lynn Jordan: Until next time. (16:02):
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Lynn Jordan: This is the urban lady prepper signing off. (16:03):
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Lynn Jordan: thought of facing an emergency alone can feel overwhelming. (00:04):
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Lynn Jordan: But you don't need months to build a solid support network. (00:07):
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Lynn Jordan: You can do it in thirty days. (00:11):
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Lynn Jordan: How? (00:13):
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Lynn Jordan: Listen to find out. (00:13):
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Lynn Jordan: Hi, I'm the urban lady prepper. (00:17):
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Lynn Jordan: I help single moms and solo (00:19):
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Lynn Jordan: women with practical emergency (00:20):
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Lynn Jordan: preparedness. (00:22):
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Lynn Jordan: But of course, all are welcome to become better prepared for (00:23):
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Lynn Jordan: whatever happens next. (00:26):
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Lynn Jordan: The idea of a real citywide crisis is terrifying. (00:30):
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Lynn Jordan: The power grid fails, grocery store shelves are bare, and that (00:33):
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Lynn Jordan: constant city buzz is suddenly gone, replaced by a silence (00:37):
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Lynn Jordan: that's way more frightening than a noise ever was. (00:40):
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Lynn Jordan: And when you're single, when you're the only one you can (00:43):
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Lynn Jordan: truly count on, that fear gets cranked up to eleven. (00:46):
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Lynn Jordan: It can feel completely overwhelming. (00:49):
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Lynn Jordan: You're thinking about having no (00:51):
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Lynn Jordan: one to literally watch your (00:53):
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Lynn Jordan: back, about facing the chaos (00:54):
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Lynn Jordan: alone. (00:56):
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Lynn Jordan: While it feels like everyone (00:56):
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Lynn Jordan: else has a partner, a family, a (00:57):
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Lynn Jordan: team. (00:59):
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Lynn Jordan: That's a heavy weight to carry. (01:01):
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Lynn Jordan: Knowing your survival rests entirely on your shoulders. (01:02):
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Lynn Jordan: But what if I told you that in just thirty days, you could (01:06):
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Lynn Jordan: build a smart network of allies that ensures that you're never (01:09):
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Lynn Jordan: really alone when it counts? (01:12):
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Lynn Jordan: This isn't about waiting for a hero or federal agency to swoop (01:14):
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Lynn Jordan: in and save you. (01:18):
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Lynn Jordan: It's about becoming the (01:19):
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Lynn Jordan: connected, resilient, and (01:20):
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Lynn Jordan: prepared woman who's ready to (01:22):
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Lynn Jordan: face anything. (01:23):
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Lynn Jordan: Not as a lone wolf, but as the (01:24):
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Lynn Jordan: calm center of a powerful (01:27):
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Lynn Jordan: support system. (01:28):
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Lynn Jordan: This is your plan. (01:30):
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Lynn Jordan: Stick with me and I'll show you (01:31):
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Lynn Jordan: exactly how to build it week by (01:33):
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Lynn Jordan: week. (01:34):
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Lynn Jordan: As I become more involved in my (01:37):
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Lynn Jordan: channel's community, two (01:38):
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Lynn Jordan: commenters brought up the need (01:40):
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Lynn Jordan: for a quick group start up (01:41):
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Lynn Jordan: guide. (01:42):
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Lynn Jordan: The reason is that there aren't many available, so it may be (01:43):
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Lynn Jordan: unclear where to begin. (01:46):
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Lynn Jordan: Additionally, how does one get to know their neighbors when (01:47):
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Lynn Jordan: everyone's working all the time? (01:50):
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Lynn Jordan: Hopefully this will help those of us who want to get going, (01:52):
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Lynn Jordan: especially now that winter. (01:55):
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Lynn Jordan: And God knows what else is on its way. (01:56):
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Lynn Jordan: Why do we need to be intentional (02:00):
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Lynn Jordan: as women about creating these (02:02):
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Lynn Jordan: connections. (02:03):
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Lynn Jordan: Well, let's first acknowledge something important. (02:04):
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Lynn Jordan: Your needs are different from those of a married couple or a (02:07):
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Lynn Jordan: family with multiple adults. (02:09):
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Lynn Jordan: You might be the sole decision maker for your household. (02:11):
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Lynn Jordan: You may work crazy hours or multiple jobs. (02:14):
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Lynn Jordan: You don't have a built in backup (02:17):
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Lynn Jordan: person, which means your (02:19):
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Lynn Jordan: external network becomes even (02:20):
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Lynn Jordan: more critical. (02:22):
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Lynn Jordan: Urban living has another layer of complexity. (02:23):
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Lynn Jordan: You might not know your neighbors well. (02:26):
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Lynn Jordan: Family could be scattered across different parts of town or (02:28):
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Lynn Jordan: different states, and the fast paced city life doesn't always (02:30):
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Lynn Jordan: encourage community building. (02:34):
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Lynn Jordan: So let's get into it. (02:35):
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Lynn Jordan: Week one the foundation. (02:39):
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Lynn Jordan: Your inner circle. (02:41):
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Lynn Jordan: All right. (02:43):
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Lynn Jordan: Week one, day one. (02:43):
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Lynn Jordan: Who would you call right now if (02:45):
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Lynn Jordan: you needed help during an (02:47):
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Lynn Jordan: emergency? (02:48):
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Lynn Jordan: We're not starting with strangers. (02:49):
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Lynn Jordan: We're starting with the people you already have your inner (02:51):
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Lynn Jordan: circle, your best friends, your most trusted family member. (02:54):
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Lynn Jordan: These are the bedrock of your survival network. (02:58):
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Lynn Jordan: We're going to take all that love and trust and forge it into (03:01):
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Lynn Jordan: something stronger than steel. (03:03):
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Lynn Jordan: Affection is great, but it isn't a plan. (03:05):
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Lynn Jordan: So let's make one. (03:07):
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Lynn Jordan: Your first step is to create a tiered communications list. (03:09):
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Lynn Jordan: This isn't just your normal contact list. (03:13):
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Lynn Jordan: Think of it as a strategic cheat sheet for a crisis. (03:15):
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Lynn Jordan: Your tier one is for your ride or die crew. (03:18):
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Lynn Jordan: These are the first people you call. (03:21):
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Lynn Jordan: You should have their number, their partner's number, and (03:23):
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Lynn Jordan: maybe even a work number stored and preferably memorized. (03:26):
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Lynn Jordan: I know, I know, no one memorizes numbers anymore, but have them (03:30):
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Lynn Jordan: in your phone and most importantly written down where (03:33):
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Lynn Jordan: you can get to it. (03:36):
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Lynn Jordan: I don't know about you, but when (03:38):
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Lynn Jordan: I'm in a panic I might forget my (03:39):
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Lynn Jordan: own name. (03:41):
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Lynn Jordan: So not being able to recall my (03:42):
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Lynn Jordan: own mama's number in a crisis, (03:43):
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Lynn Jordan: that's possible. (03:45):
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Lynn Jordan: Tier two is for your reliable (03:48):
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Lynn Jordan: friends and family who might (03:49):
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Lynn Jordan: live farther away but can offer (03:50):
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Lynn Jordan: remote support. (03:52):
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Lynn Jordan: Think of them as your evac point (03:53):
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Lynn Jordan: or bugout spot a safe place to (03:55):
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Lynn Jordan: land if you have to get out of (03:57):
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Lynn Jordan: Dodge, or someone who can make (03:58):
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Lynn Jordan: calls for you if your service is (03:59):
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Lynn Jordan: getting spotty. (04:01):
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Lynn Jordan: Days two and three are for having the talk. (04:03):
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Lynn Jordan: Don't worry, it doesn't have to (04:06):
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Lynn Jordan: be some scary doom and gloom (04:08):
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Lynn Jordan: conversation. (04:09):
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Lynn Jordan: Frame it as being practical. (04:10):
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Lynn Jordan: Say something like hey, with all (04:12):
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Lynn Jordan: the wild weather lately, I was (04:15):
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Lynn Jordan: thinking it would be smart for (04:17):
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Lynn Jordan: us to have a simple what if (04:18):
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Lynn Jordan: plan. (04:19):
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Lynn Jordan: Talk about a rally point, a (04:21):
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Lynn Jordan: primary, and a backup spot to (04:22):
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Lynn Jordan: meet. (04:24):
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Lynn Jordan: If you get separated and can't communicate, exchange important (04:24):
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Lynn Jordan: info like copies of emergency documents and spare keys. (04:27):
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Lynn Jordan: This one conversation turns all those unspoken. (04:31):
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Lynn Jordan: I hope you'll be okay feelings into a real, actionable strategy (04:34):
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Lynn Jordan: at the end of this week, you need a visibility plan. (04:39):
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Lynn Jordan: This is a simple pact with at (04:41):
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Lynn Jordan: least one person from your tier (04:43):
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Lynn Jordan: one group, and you check on each (04:44):
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Lynn Jordan: other on a regular basis, (04:46):
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Lynn Jordan: especially regarding any severe (04:48):
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Lynn Jordan: regular events or possible (04:49):
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Lynn Jordan: crises. (04:51):
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Lynn Jordan: It can be as easy as a text every morning and night during (04:52):
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Lynn Jordan: the situation, or at least a weekly check in. (04:54):
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Lynn Jordan: This simple system turns worry into action, ensuring you're (04:58):
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Lynn Jordan: never invisible, which is crucial, especially if you're a (05:00):
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Lynn Jordan: childless, introvert lady like me who's not always great at (05:04):
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Lynn Jordan: keeping in touch. (05:07):
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Lynn Jordan: This week is all about turning (05:08):
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Lynn Jordan: affection into a functional life (05:10):
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Lynn Jordan: saving alliance. (05:11):
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Lynn Jordan: Lastly, end the week by identifying your specific (05:14):
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Lynn Jordan: vulnerabilities and needs. (05:17):
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Lynn Jordan: Are you on the fifteenth floor of an apartment building? (05:19):
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Lynn Jordan: Do you have pets? (05:21):
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Lynn Jordan: Medical needs? (05:22):
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Lynn Jordan: Kids who depend on you (05:24):
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Lynn Jordan: understanding what you'll need (05:25):
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Lynn Jordan: help with? (05:27):
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Lynn Jordan: That only makes it easier to (05:27):
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Lynn Jordan: identify the right people to (05:29):
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Lynn Jordan: connect with. (05:30):
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Lynn Jordan: For the second week, but may also help you identify by (05:31):
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Lynn Jordan: situations you may need to research or get more information (05:34):
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Lynn Jordan: on now, especially if you're new to the area. (05:36):
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Lynn Jordan: Week two the Neighborhood Network. (05:40):
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Lynn Jordan: Your local lifeline. (05:43):
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Lynn Jordan: Okay, your foundation is set. (05:44):
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Lynn Jordan: Now it's time to zoom in on your immediate area and the people (05:46):
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Lynn Jordan: you see every day, such as parents from your kids school or (05:49):
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Lynn Jordan: regulars at your coffee shop. (05:52):
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Lynn Jordan: Don't overthink it. (05:54):
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Lynn Jordan: Just start noticing who's around you consistently in a crisis. (05:55):
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Lynn Jordan: The people who can help you the fastest are the ones who can (05:59):
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Lynn Jordan: hear you yell. (06:02):
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Lynn Jordan: Your neighbors are your frontline defense, but you can't (06:03):
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Lynn Jordan: exactly knock on their door for the first time during a blackout (06:06):
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Lynn Jordan: to ask for a favor. (06:08):
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Lynn Jordan: The goal of week two is to turn (06:10):
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Lynn Jordan: anonymous neighbors into (06:12):
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Lynn Jordan: friendly faces and potential (06:13):
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Lynn Jordan: lifelines. (06:15):
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Lynn Jordan: It's not about being phony. (06:16):
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Lynn Jordan: It's about establishing (06:17):
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Lynn Jordan: relationships, no matter how low (06:18):
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Lynn Jordan: key or limited, with the people (06:20):
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Lynn Jordan: who are physically closest to (06:22):
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Lynn Jordan: you, with whom you can have a (06:23):
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Lynn Jordan: mutual and immediate help and (06:25):
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Lynn Jordan: support situation. (06:27):
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Lynn Jordan: Start by just being more observant. (06:30):
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Lynn Jordan: Get a feel for the rhythm of (06:33):
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Lynn Jordan: your street or your apartment (06:34):
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Lynn Jordan: building. (06:35):
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Lynn Jordan: Who leaves for work at the crack of dawn? (06:36):
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Lynn Jordan: Who has that giant dog that barks at every passing leaf? (06:38):
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Lynn Jordan: Who's always tinkering with their car on Saturday? (06:41):
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Lynn Jordan: This isn't about being nosy. (06:44):
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Lynn Jordan: It's another example of situational awareness. (06:45):
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Lynn Jordan: That guy who's always under his car. (06:48):
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Lynn Jordan: He's got tools and probably knows how to use them. (06:50):
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Lynn Jordan: The woman with the prize winning tomatoes. (06:53):
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Lynn Jordan: She has a sustainable food source. (06:55):
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Lynn Jordan: Your mission this week. (06:58):
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Lynn Jordan: Initiate three low stakes conversations. (06:59):
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Lynn Jordan: This is where introverts like me might feel uncomfortable. (07:02):
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Lynn Jordan: But remember, you're not asking people to be your best friend. (07:04):
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Lynn Jordan: You're simply opening the door to practical mutual support. (07:07):
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Lynn Jordan: You don't even have to bring up disaster prep at all. (07:11):
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Lynn Jordan: Start with your immediate neighbors. (07:13):
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Lynn Jordan: Ask to borrow a strange sized Allen key. (07:15):
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Lynn Jordan: Compliment that dog. (07:18):
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Lynn Jordan: Offer them some extra cookies you baked. (07:19):
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Lynn Jordan: The point is to go from being strangers who share a wall or (07:21):
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Lynn Jordan: yard to being actual neighbors. (07:24):
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Lynn Jordan: People are so much more likely (07:27):
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Lynn Jordan: to help someone they know and (07:28):
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Lynn Jordan: like many people do, think about (07:29):
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Lynn Jordan: preparedness, but never take the (07:32):
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Lynn Jordan: first step. (07:33):
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Lynn Jordan: So if you prefer to get right into it, a it. (07:34):
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Lynn Jordan: A simple hi, I'm trying to be more prepared for emergencies. (07:36):
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Lynn Jordan: Do you have any experience with that? (07:40):
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Lynn Jordan: Or do you know if the town or school has a plan? (07:42):
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Lynn Jordan: This can lead to surprisingly (07:45):
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Lynn Jordan: productive conversations for (07:46):
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Lynn Jordan: apartment dwellers. (07:49):
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Lynn Jordan: Consider leaving a friendly note under your neighbor's doors with (07:50):
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Lynn Jordan: your apartment number, availability, and a brief (07:52):
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Lynn Jordan: message about wanting to connect for emergency preparedness. (07:55):
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Lynn Jordan: Don't have any expectations, and don't be disappointed if people (07:58):
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Lynn Jordan: don't respond or act as though they never got it. (08:01):
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Lynn Jordan: Taking the time to make these (08:04):
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Lynn Jordan: steps will bring out the people (08:05):
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Lynn Jordan: who are truly interested and (08:06):
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Lynn Jordan: ready to act, and therefore may (08:07):
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Lynn Jordan: be the most reliable and (08:09):
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Lynn Jordan: consistent. (08:11):
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Lynn Jordan: The more time and opportunities you have to vet your disaster (08:12):
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Lynn Jordan: network, the better. (08:14):
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Lynn Jordan: By the end of this week, try to (08:17):
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Lynn Jordan: identify at least one neighbor (08:19):
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Lynn Jordan: who seems reliable and level (08:20):
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Lynn Jordan: headed. (08:21):
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Lynn Jordan: You could even suggest creating (08:22):
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Lynn Jordan: a simple contact sheet for just (08:24):
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Lynn Jordan: in case situations like a power (08:26):
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Lynn Jordan: outage, a building water shut (08:28):
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Lynn Jordan: off notice, or a broken (08:29):
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Lynn Jordan: elevator. (08:30):
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Lynn Jordan: That includes full names, addresses, and contact numbers. (08:31):
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Lynn Jordan: This week is all about (08:35):
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Lynn Jordan: transforming your block from a (08:36):
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Lynn Jordan: collection of addresses into a (08:37):
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Lynn Jordan: real community. (08:38):
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Lynn Jordan: One hello at a time and remember to trust your gut. (08:39):
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Lynn Jordan: Not every neighbor is going to be an ally and you might not (08:43):
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Lynn Jordan: want them to be. (08:45):
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Lynn Jordan: And that's okay. (08:46):
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Lynn Jordan: We're aiming for a few solid connections, not a fan club. (08:47):
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Lynn Jordan: Now, if so far you're seeing how (08:52):
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Lynn Jordan: this plan is flowing and you'd (08:54):
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Lynn Jordan: like to read or listen to more, (08:55):
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Lynn Jordan: visit my article solo and save a (08:57):
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Lynn Jordan: simple thirty day plan to build (08:59):
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Lynn Jordan: your disaster network on my (09:00):
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Lynn Jordan: official website. (09:02):
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Lynn Jordan: which helps me continue to provide content like this. (09:07):
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Lynn Jordan: Thank you. (09:10):
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Lynn Jordan: So to continue week three, the community and colleagues (09:12):
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Lynn Jordan: expanding your reach. (09:16):
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Lynn Jordan: You've got your inner circle locked down and you've made (09:18):
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Lynn Jordan: headway with your neighbors. (09:20):
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Lynn Jordan: Now let's expand your web. (09:21):
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Lynn Jordan: Think about it. (09:23):
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Lynn Jordan: You spend a huge chunk of your (09:24):
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Lynn Jordan: life at work or doing your (09:26):
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Lynn Jordan: hobbies. (09:27):
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Lynn Jordan: These places are goldmines for allies full of people whose (09:28):
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Lynn Jordan: skills you probably already know a little something about. (09:31):
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Lynn Jordan: At work. (09:34):
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Lynn Jordan: Just start paying attention to the details. (09:35):
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Lynn Jordan: Who's the person who stays (09:37):
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Lynn Jordan: freakishly calm when a deadline (09:39):
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Lynn Jordan: explodes? (09:40):
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Lynn Jordan: Who's mentioned they're (09:41):
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Lynn Jordan: volunteer EMT or has a first aid (09:42):
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Lynn Jordan: certification? (09:44):
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Lynn Jordan: Who lives close enough that you could realistically travel (09:45):
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Lynn Jordan: together if an evacuation order makes you leave town or the (09:48):
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Lynn Jordan: train shut down. (09:51):
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Lynn Jordan: You don't have to start (09:52):
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Lynn Jordan: interrogating your coworkers (09:53):
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Lynn Jordan: over coffee. (09:54):
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Lynn Jordan: Just listen. (09:55):
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Lynn Jordan: You might overhear that someone's brother is a cop, or (09:57):
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Lynn Jordan: that another person is a serious camper with all the gear. (09:59):
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Lynn Jordan: That's all valuable Intel. (10:02):
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Lynn Jordan: The goal is to pinpoint a few colleagues you could probably (10:04):
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Lynn Jordan: count on in a pinch. (10:07):
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Lynn Jordan: Now look beyond your nine to five. (10:10):
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Lynn Jordan: Are you in a book club, a hiking group, a volunteer organization, (10:12):
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Lynn Jordan: or spin class? (10:16):
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Lynn Jordan: These groups are amazing because you're already linked by a (10:18):
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Lynn Jordan: shared interest, which builds an instant foundation of trust. (10:20):
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Lynn Jordan: Think of them as pre-vetted pools of potential allies. (10:24):
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Lynn Jordan: That friend from your hiking group, they'll probably fit and (10:27):
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Lynn Jordan: know the local trails. (10:29):
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Lynn Jordan: Someone from that volunteer team (10:31):
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Lynn Jordan: has already proven they're (10:32):
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Lynn Jordan: willing to show up and help (10:34):
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Lynn Jordan: others. (10:35):
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Lynn Jordan: Your task for this week is to (10:36):
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Lynn Jordan: deepen just one of those (10:38):
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Lynn Jordan: connections. (10:39):
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Lynn Jordan: Ask someone to grab some coffee. (10:40):
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Lynn Jordan: Talk about something other than your shared hobby. (10:42):
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Lynn Jordan: Building that personal rapport is everything. (10:44):
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Lynn Jordan: This week is about realizing (10:47):
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Lynn Jordan: your support system isn't some (10:48):
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Lynn Jordan: project you have to build from (10:50):
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Lynn Jordan: scratch. (10:51):
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Lynn Jordan: You're already standing right in the middle of it. (10:52):
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Lynn Jordan: You just need to switch it on. (10:54):
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Lynn Jordan: Once you have hopefully three to (10:57):
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Lynn Jordan: five people on board, decide how (10:59):
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Lynn Jordan: your network will communicate (11:01):
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Lynn Jordan: during different types of Of (11:02):
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Lynn Jordan: emergencies. (11:03):
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Lynn Jordan: Will you text call? (11:04):
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Lynn Jordan: Use a specific app? (11:06):
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Lynn Jordan: What if cell towers are down? (11:08):
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Lynn Jordan: Having multiple communication methods planned makes your (11:10):
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Lynn Jordan: network much more reliable. (11:12):
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Lynn Jordan: Consider setting up a group chat for non-emergency communication (11:14):
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Lynn Jordan: and network maintenance. (11:17):
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Lynn Jordan: This keeps everyone connected (11:18):
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Lynn Jordan: and makes it easier to (11:20):
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Lynn Jordan: coordinate when something (11:21):
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Lynn Jordan: actually happens. (11:21):
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Lynn Jordan: Week four Strategic Alliances and Skill swap. (11:24):
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Lynn Jordan: This is the final week, and it's all about putting the finishing (11:28):
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Lynn Jordan: touches on your network. (11:30):
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Lynn Jordan: It's time to get strategic and (11:32):
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Lynn Jordan: remember that the best (11:33):
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Lynn Jordan: communities are built on what (11:34):
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Lynn Jordan: you can give, not just what you (11:35):
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Lynn Jordan: can get. (11:37):
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Lynn Jordan: So take a look in the mirror. (11:39):
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Lynn Jordan: What are your skills? (11:40):
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Lynn Jordan: Maybe you're not a Navy Seal, (11:42):
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Lynn Jordan: but are you a rock star (11:44):
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Lynn Jordan: organizer? (11:45):
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Lynn Jordan: Can you cook a meal for ten people out of basically nothing? (11:46):
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Lynn Jordan: Are you a teacher who's amazing with kids? (11:49):
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Lynn Jordan: A skill that would be considered (11:51):
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Lynn Jordan: a godsend for stressed out (11:52):
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Lynn Jordan: parents? (11:54):
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Lynn Jordan: Do you know first aid? (11:55):
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Lynn Jordan: Know what you bring to the table? (11:56):
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Lynn Jordan: If you feel you aren't bringing enough. (11:58):
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Lynn Jordan: Use the Intel you've gained over the last couple of weeks to see (12:00):
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Lynn Jordan: if there's a skill you can gain that will fill a needed gap. (12:03):
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Lynn Jordan: Next, look for gaps in your network. (12:07):
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Lynn Jordan: You've got your ride or dies for support, your neighbors for (12:09):
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Lynn Jordan: immediate help, and your community for a wider reach. (12:12):
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Lynn Jordan: But do you know a mechanic, a nurse or a doctor? (12:15):
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Lynn Jordan: Someone with a pickup truck? (12:18):
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Lynn Jordan: This is where you can be a little more deliberate. (12:20):
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Lynn Jordan: You don't need to become best (12:23):
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Lynn Jordan: friends with your mechanic, but (12:24):
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Lynn Jordan: building a friendly, loyal (12:26):
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Lynn Jordan: relationship means you're not (12:27):
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Lynn Jordan: just another name on a work (12:28):
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Lynn Jordan: order. (12:29):
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Lynn Jordan: When things get crazy. (12:29):
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Lynn Jordan: Be regular. (12:31):
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Lynn Jordan: Be the good customer with the friendly face. (12:32):
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Lynn Jordan: These everyday relationships can become surprisingly vital when (12:34):
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Lynn Jordan: people have to choose between helping the lady who's always (12:38):
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Lynn Jordan: calm and polite, and that Karen, who's always yelling at them the (12:40):
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Lynn Jordan: moment they walk in. (12:44):
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Lynn Jordan: Finally, you have to practice a (12:46):
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Lynn Jordan: plan on paper is just a piece of (12:48):
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Lynn Jordan: paper. (12:50):
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Lynn Jordan: Do a dry run. (12:50):
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Lynn Jordan: Again, you want to be able to count on the folks in your (12:52):
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Lynn Jordan: group, so the longer you have to do so, the better. (12:54):
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Lynn Jordan: Test your network with small, low stakes scenarios. (12:57):
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Lynn Jordan: Sending a hey, just testing our what if text chain message to (13:01):
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Lynn Jordan: your tier one people drive the route to your meet up spot. (13:05):
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Lynn Jordan: Make sure your emergency kit is (13:08):
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Lynn Jordan: where you told your friend it (13:10):
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Lynn Jordan: would be. (13:11):
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Lynn Jordan: You can even host a preparedness party. (13:12):
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Lynn Jordan: Invite a few friends or neighbors over to go through (13:14):
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Lynn Jordan: your emergency kits together. (13:16):
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Lynn Jordan: Make it social, make it productive, and make it fun. (13:17):
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Lynn Jordan: This final week solidifies your (13:21):
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Lynn Jordan: role not as someone waiting to (13:23):
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Lynn Jordan: be saved, but as the capable (13:24):
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Lynn Jordan: central hub of your own safety (13:26):
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Lynn Jordan: network. (13:27):
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Lynn Jordan: You've gone from feeling alone to being connected. (13:29):
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Lynn Jordan: You've turned that knot of (13:31):
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Lynn Jordan: anxiety in your stomach into a (13:32):
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Lynn Jordan: concrete, actionable plan that's (13:33):
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Lynn Jordan: really not taking that much out (13:35):
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Lynn Jordan: of your current lifestyle and (13:37):
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Lynn Jordan: schedule. (13:38):
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Lynn Jordan: Of course, I would be remiss if I didn't mention that building a (13:40):
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Lynn Jordan: support network requires being smart about personal safety. (13:43):
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Lynn Jordan: So here are some guidelines vet new connections. (13:46):
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Lynn Jordan: This is crucial, especially especially if you have kids. (13:50):
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Lynn Jordan: Start with people you've seen consistently in your daily life. (13:54):
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Lynn Jordan: Meet in public places initially. (13:58):
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Lynn Jordan: Trust your instincts. (14:00):
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Lynn Jordan: If something feels off, it (14:01):
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Lynn Jordan: probably is considered (14:02):
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Lynn Jordan: background checks for people who (14:05):
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Lynn Jordan: have access to your home and (14:06):
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Lynn Jordan: never share financial (14:08):
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Lynn Jordan: information. (14:10):
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Lynn Jordan: However, consider swapping your (14:11):
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Lynn Jordan: cash App or Venmo info in case (14:13):
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Lynn Jordan: someone in the group needs to (14:14):
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Lynn Jordan: make a supply run or grab items (14:15):
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Lynn Jordan: on the fly while you're handling (14:17):
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Lynn Jordan: a crisis. (14:18):
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Lynn Jordan: Remember that it's better to have only three people that you (14:20):
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Lynn Jordan: can trust, than ten you're unsure of, or if your kids feel (14:22):
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Lynn Jordan: uncomfortable around them. (14:26):
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Lynn Jordan: As far as what information is (14:29):
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Lynn Jordan: shared, you don't need to share (14:31):
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Lynn Jordan: everything immediately. (14:32):
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Lynn Jordan: Start with basic contact (14:33):
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Lynn Jordan: information and gradually (14:34):
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Lynn Jordan: provide more details as trust (14:36):
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Lynn Jordan: builds. (14:37):
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Lynn Jordan: Never feel pressured to give (14:38):
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Lynn Jordan: someone access to your home or (14:40):
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Lynn Jordan: personal information before (14:41):
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Lynn Jordan: you're comfortable. (14:42):
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Lynn Jordan: And also be clear about what kind of help you're offering and (14:45):
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Lynn Jordan: what you need in return. (14:48):
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Lynn Jordan: This isn't about becoming best (14:50):
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Lynn Jordan: friends or others knowing (14:51):
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Lynn Jordan: everything about your lifestyle (14:53):
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Lynn Jordan: and stash. (14:54):
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Lynn Jordan: It's about practical mutual support during emergencies. (14:55):
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Lynn Jordan: So in conclusion, perhaps the (15:00):
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Lynn Jordan: thought of a crisis filled you (15:02):
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Lynn Jordan: with a sense of dread and (15:03):
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Lynn Jordan: isolation. (15:04):
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Lynn Jordan: But look at you now. (15:05):
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Lynn Jordan: You have a plan. (15:06):
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Lynn Jordan: You have a multi-layered network of support. (15:08):
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Lynn Jordan: You have an inner circle ready to roll. (15:10):
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Lynn Jordan: Neighbors who know your name, and colleagues who see you as (15:12):
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Lynn Jordan: part of a team. (15:15):
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Lynn Jordan: You are not a damsel in distress. (15:16):
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Lynn Jordan: You're the architect of your own safety. (15:18):
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Lynn Jordan: And this plan isn't about living in fear. (15:20):
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Lynn Jordan: It's about owning your power. (15:21):
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Lynn Jordan: The power that comes from knowing you've done the work. (15:23):
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Lynn Jordan: You've built a connection, and you're ready. (15:25):
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Lynn Jordan: You've made yourself a hard target. (15:27):
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Lynn Jordan: Not through force, but through fierce, intelligent preparation. (15:29):
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Lynn Jordan: You are never truly alone when you're this connected. (15:32):
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Lynn Jordan: You've already taken the first step by listening to this. (15:36):
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Lynn Jordan: Now it's time to act. (15:38):
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Lynn Jordan: Drop a comment below and tell me (15:40):
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Lynn Jordan: the one thing you're going to do (15:41):
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Lynn Jordan: this week to start building your (15:43):
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Lynn Jordan: network. (15:44):
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Lynn Jordan: Are you going to have the talk with your best friend? (15:44):
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Lynn Jordan: Bake those cookies for your neighbor. (15:47):
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Lynn Jordan: Let's keep each other accountable. (15:49):
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Lynn Jordan: And if you found this valuable, please like, subscribe, follow (15:52):
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Lynn Jordan: and share it with another woman who needs this message. (15:55):
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Lynn Jordan: Because the strongest (15:57):
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Lynn Jordan: communities are the ones we (15:58):
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Lynn Jordan: build together. (16:00):
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Lynn Jordan: Thanks for listening. (16:01):
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Lynn Jordan: Until next time. (16:02):
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Lynn Jordan: This is the urban lady prepper signing off. (16:03):
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