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Hello friends.
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It's Debbie Dobbins and this is another episode of Radical Responsibility Revolution, and I am coming to you with a heart both heavy and lit up.
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This isn't just another episode.
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This is my open heart, my full throated tribute, and my raw call for something better because in the aftermath of Charlie Kirk's assassination, something really unexpected is happening.
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Something extraordinary and my first thought when I heard that Charlie had passed was absolute heartbreak.
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My second was a quiet, terrified whisper who will carry on what he started.
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But I didn't realize just how wrong that second thought was because what has unfolded over the past week? On social media across nations, in people's living rooms and local churches, and even in the streets of the United Kingdom, as something I can only describe as miraculous.
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Charlie's Instagram following exploded from 1.2
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million to over 12 million in the uk, they say a hundred thousand people gathered.
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I think it's closer to a million, but they gathered in a vigil for free speech in Charlie's Honor.
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That is not just a ripple, that's a global tsunami of truth rising up.
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The vigil was not just for Charlie, it was for the idea that he represented freedom of speech, love over hate and truth over tribalism.
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So what happens when a single voice ignites a global chorus? You're hearing a rallying cry to research what you believe, to talk to someone you disagree with, and to carry on the legacy of civil discourse and freedom.
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This is not just a tribute, it is a call to remember what Charlie stood for and who we can become because of it.
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In the wake of Charlie's tragic assassination, there's been this tidal wave of I am Charlie Kirk.
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There's posts, there's vigils, and millions of new supporters have emerged proving that you can kill a man, but not a mission.
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People everywhere are saying, I am Charlie Kirk, and that's not really my mantra.
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I don't say I am anybody because I am Debbie.
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I do say I'm love because in that way we are all Charlie Kirk, at least the essence of his faith and love and forgiveness, because what's rising from the ashes of this horrific tragedy is exactly what the world needed.
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The other day I said and did a blog, Charlie Kirk was the Martin Luther King of this generation.
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I didn't realize this was not an original idea, of course, until I, until I saw a whole lot of posts saying the same thing, primarily because of the impact on the world is why they were saying it, and the impact that has happened as a result of this assassination.
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When I made that statement, I was making the analogy about him and Martin Luther King being driven by non-violence and more importantly, their values.
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Because as they were both driven by values so deeply ingrained in themselves and so anchored in spirit, they could not be bought or bullied or broken.
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And just like Martin Luther King, Charlie Kirk paid the ultimate price for refusing to be silenced.
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But Charlie was not Martin Luther King.
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He was one of one, as we all are.
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He was irreplaceable.
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As so many have coined that phrase lately, irreplaceable.
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Just like you are irreplaceable, as we all are irreplaceable.
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So I wanna confess something vulnerable.
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I knew of Charlie.
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I knew he was reaching out to youth speaking truth in places that it's no longer welcomed college campuses, churches, TikTok.
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I had seen some clips and I admired his courage, but I hadn't taken the time to study him, and what I found in the past week has stunned me.
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It has inspired me and has called me higher as I've watched his videos from question and answer sessions between college students and himself dressed in his typical T-shirt garb to speaking to students at Oxford University in a suit, and he was comfortable in all of these settings.
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Speaking 10 feet from a college student or on a podium with the president of the United States.
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Charlie was one of one.
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But did you know during an interview not too long ago, a podcaster asked him how did he want to be remembered? And first of all, he was shocked.
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He had a little shock look on his face.
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He said, you mean if I die? And then he paused and he said.
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I would want to be remembered for my courageous faith, not his media reach, not his sharp debating skills, his courageous faith, because that was his north star, his core value, which was his love for his God, his total commitment to truth, even when it meant standing alone.
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And the more I listened, the more I watched, the more I realized Charlie Kirk is the Martin Luther King of this generation, A symbol of freedom, of love, of nonviolence.
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Yep.
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I said it again, and I'm gonna say it again because like Dr.
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King, Charlie stood on faith.
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He walked in love and believed in the divine spark within every human being.
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Yes.
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You and even the ones who hated him he was articulate, oh my God, he was so articulate.
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He was fierce.
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He was an amazing debater.
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He was a thinker, and he knew more history than most professors.
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Probably all of them actually.
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But above all, he was driven by love and faith.
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So I wanna tell you a funny little story that my brother has told over the years, and it reminded me of this experience one day.
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His kids found a spider in their house, and like dads do, he said, I'll, I'll kill the spider.
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You know, kids screaming and all.
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They were freaking out because it was a spider.
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And when he struck the spider, it was clear that she was pregnant, but the second it was smashed, hundreds of baby spiders scattered everywhere.
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Now I know it's a little bit of a weird analogy, but I think it's perfect.
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What happened when Charlie died? Millions of baby Charlies emerged literally millions around the world.
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New leaders, new voices, people waking up, rising up, speaking up, not in anger, but in conviction.
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And the best case scenario has happened despite the hatred that is being spilled onto our streets.
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Because my greatest fear has been that Charlie's assassination would be another nine 11 moment where we feel fire in the belly for a few days and then forget, but this time feels different.
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We have thousands of hours of Charlie's own voice, his words, his convictions, his heart.
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He left us a roadmap, and now it's up to us to carry the torch because when they tried to silence Charlie, they unknowingly multiplied his voice.
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They didn't kill a man.
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They ignited a movement.
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So I wanna be clear, for those of you who are still entrenched in hate, whether you agreed or disagreed with Charlie and his values, he was a model for standing in our truth and values in a nonviolent way.
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They may not be your truth in your values, but if you stand in your truth, in your values, in a nonviolent way.
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You will make a difference.
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I don't agree with every single thing Charlie stood for far from it, but I do hold him in the highest esteem for bringing open debate, which was the biggest thing that he was able to do.
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Critical thinking and new ideas to our youth, which have been so stagnated.
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We cannot create a world of happiness, peace, prosperity, and allow the pursuit of happiness if we cannot talk to one another.
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So I have a plea.
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And anyone who knows me, I'm a do hard country music fan.
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I was country before.
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It was cool.
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And one of the reasons I love country so much is because it's simple poetry and oftentimes a message in a very succinct package.
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I was walking in the park yesterday and I always live as I listen to country and I heard these words and I wanna share them with you.
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By Luke Bryan most people are good.
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Turn off the screen.
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Go climb a tree, forgive and make amends friday nights are better under Neon Stadium Lights.
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Love who you love.
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This world ain't half as bad as it looks.
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And if you go to the nightly news, your faith in all mankind could be the first thing you lose.
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So here's my call to anyone listening.
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Have a conversation with someone you disagree with.
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Support your beliefs, not by yelling louder, but by doing the research so that you know why you have those beliefs.
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Learn how to critically think, how to debate, how to stand grounded in values, not soundbites.
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More importantly, get off your screens and stop watching the news so that you don't lose your faith in mankind.
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Go outside.
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Hug a tree.
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Run, skip, jump into your life and if really wanna know what Charlie stood for, go watch his videos because his legacy is recorded.
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Thousands of hours are available to all of us.
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And even if you disagree, watch how he was open to every idea, especially those he disagreed with.
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We don't have that luxury of listening to the legacy of Jesus or MLK or JFK, but with Charlie we do so study him.
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Don't just quote him.
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Don't just repost him.
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Embody him in the way that he was open to debate.
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He was open to conversation.
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He was open to love.
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He was open to nonviolence, and the real call here is to talk and listen and learn.
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So whether you're conservative or liberal, spiritual or atheist, unsure or afraid.
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Go watch Charlie's videos, not the memes, not the headlines, not the out of context quotes, his actual words, his debates, his heart, and then talk to someone you disagree with.
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Have a conversation not to win, but to understand.
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This was Charlie's deepest message and my new favorite quote by him.
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When people stop talking, really bad stuff starts when marriages stop talking, divorce happens.
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When civilizations stop talking, civil war ensues, and when you stop having a human connection with someone you disagree with, it becomes a lot easier to want to commit violence against them or that group.
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What we as a culture have to get back to is being able to have a reasonable disagreement where violence is not an option.
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Charlie Kirk.
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So we are on that edge, my friends, and it's not too late.
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Don't be just another post, don't be just another meme.
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Don't try to get likes.
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Be viral over this.
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Be a person of resolve.
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Learn how to defend what you believe without degrading someone else.
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Do your own research.
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Read the Constitution.
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Learn from history.
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Plato Aristotle.
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MLK, Reagan.
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JFK, Gandhi.
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Charlie did all of that and has inspired me to do more of it.
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And above all, stand firm in your values.
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Please let Charlie's death be the catalyst for a new generation of thinkers, feelers, debaters, and doers of people who live in integrity with what they say they believe.
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But most of all.
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Charlie believed in conversation, not shouting, not canceling, listening.
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Charlie Kirk wasn't perfect.
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No human is, but he was devoted to his family, to his God, and to his values, and in that devotion, he awakened something in millions.
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Us around the world and now it's our turn.
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Not to agree on everything, but to love anyway.
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To speak anyway, to listen anyway.
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So wherever you are, however you vote, whatever you think, ask yourself this.
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When we stop having a human connection with someone we disagree with, it becomes a lot easier to want to commit violence against that group.
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Charlie Kirk said that.
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So to those gloating, mocking, or spewing venom online.
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I say this with love.
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This is your moment to pause, to get curious, to examine why someone standing in faith and freedom triggered you so deeply.
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And to those who feel the ache like I do, this is our moment to carry the flame, not just for Charlie, but for truth, for freedom, for a better future.
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Let's not let this be another nine 11, another fleeting hashtag moment.
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Let it be a pivot point, a turning point, if you will, a rebirth.
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So what am I willing to stand for, even if I stand alone? For Charlie, for free speech, for love.
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I am not Charlie Kirk.
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I am Debbie Dobbins, and I vow to carry the legacy forward, the legacy of love, tolerance, and conversation with love, with discipline, and with my voice, and I hope you'll join me.
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This is Debbie Dobbins.
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I love you.
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Stay sovereign, stay kind, and stay in the knowingness.
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That light will shine through the darkness because when one man is taken too soon, thousands must rise.
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See, on the next episode.