Breaking the Silence: S*x, Shame & Raising Brave Daughters // Solo // 5

In this powerful solo “rip,” Michelle Castro dives into a topic every mama knows is necessary but often feels totally unprepared for: how to talk to your daughters about sex. With raw honesty, biblical wisdom, and her signature real-talk humor, Michelle walks us through why these conversations matter, how to start them early, and how to keep them going in a way that’s age-appropriate, truthful, and full of grace.

If you’ve ever broken into a cold sweat at the thought of “the talk,” this episode will equip and encourage you to open up meaningful, ongoing dialogues with your girls—without shame, fear, or weirdness.

🎧 What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

• What is a “solo rip” and why Michelle’s flying solo today

• The big, awkward topic: how to talk to your daughters about s*x

• Why silence isn’t an option: the world is talking, whether we like it or not

• Biblical foundation: sex is holy, good, and God’s idea

• Teaching your kids about anatomy—why real names matter

• A funny “teachable moment” with a dog named Riley

• Start young, build layers, and don’t wait for “the talk”

• How to stay calm when your kid drops a bombshell question

• Proverbs 31:26 parenting—wise and warm words in tough moments

• Not just a “don’t”—teaching the why behind God’s design for sex

• Purity is about saying YES to God’s best, not just saying no

• Song of Solomon and why pleasure is part of God's good design

• Your daughter is holy ground—not a commodity

• God chose you to be your daughter’s guide in this journey

• Two prayers every mama should pray: for wisdom & discernment

• Real-life moments, messy convos, and why starting is the win

• Car talks: your new favorite place for “the talk”

Key Takeaways:

• 💬 Silence speaks volumes—don’t let the culture shape your daughter’s beliefs.

• 🧠 Start early and speak at their level. Use real terms and keep it simple.

• 🙏 Pray for wisdom and discernment. You don’t have to have all the answers—just be available and willing.

• ❤️ Create a safe space for questions, even the awkward ones.

• 📖 God’s design is intentional. Sex is not shameful—it’s sacred, powerful, and worth waiting for.

• 🚗 Hot tip: Have the hard convos in the car. Less eye contact = more honesty!

Resources & References:

• Genesis 2:24–25

• Proverbs 31:26

• 1 Corinthians 6:18–20

• Song of Solomon (Michelle’s fave version? The New Living Translation!)

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New episodes drop every Thursday. Until next time, rip off the lies, speak the truth in love, and raise those daughters like the warrior mama you are. 💪💖

Keywords: Christian parenting, biblical sexuality, mother-daughter talks, how to talk to