Sex, Money & Marriage: The Conversation Every Christian Couple Needs [ft Budget Besties] // 11

Money and sex—two of the most avoided topics in marriages… and church. But in this wildly honest and refreshingly real episode of RIP IT OFF, host Michelle Castro sits down with Shana and Vanessa, aka The Budget Besties, to rip the shame and silence off these taboo subjects.

From naked budget meetings (yes, really) to breaking generational money mindsets, this episode dives deep into how financial intimacy can radically transform not just your bank account—but your marriage. The trio also tackle faith-based money myths, the emotional baggage we bring into our marriages, and why learning to manage your money is one of the most powerful ways to honor God’s calling.

Whether you're dealing with credit card chaos, silent financial stress, or that awkward “we need to talk” money convo with your spouse—this episode is your safe, fun, Jesus-filled permission slip to get real and get free.

🔥 What You’ll Learn:

• The surprising connection between financial and sexual intimacy

• Why budgeting isn't about restriction—it's about restoration

• How Christian women can honor God by mastering their money

• What financial peace really looks like (hint: it’s not just a bigger paycheck)

• Why “I’m just bad with money” is a lie you have to rip off

💡 Big Takeaways:

• Money is not neutral—it’s either running your life or serving your purpose.

• Shame-free systems win: Discover how The Budget Besties help couples automate their finances, reduce conflict, and reclaim peace.

• Dream again: A budget isn’t a prison—it’s a pathway to the life (and calling) you were created for.

• Get your spouse on board—even if it starts with bourbon and a budget.

📢 Mentioned in This Episode:

• The Budget Besties' life-changing budgeting system

• The parable of the talents + how stewardship is deeply spiritual

• Financial intimacy as 1 of 13 kinds of intimacy in marriage

• How to bring your husband into the money convo (without a fight)

🎁 Special Offer: Ready to ditch the money stress and start stewarding with confidence? Use code: MICHELLE to save 10% when you visit 👉 budgetbesties.com/Michelle

🔗 Connect with Today’s Guests: 👯‍♀️ The Budget Besties Website: budgetbesties.com Instagram: @thebudgetbesties Podcast: Bougie on a Budget

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