In this profound episode of Healthy Mind, Healthy Life, host Aanya welcomes Tommy Hines (known as Perfect Home Guy), a 50-year transformation veteran, mortgage expert, and upcoming author. Tommy shares a life-changing framework built on scriptures, personal responsibility, and unconditional agape love. Using The Wizard of Oz as a powerful spiritual allegory, he reveals how to move from the Kingdom of Fear to the Kingdom of Love, break free from lifelong victimhood, and step into personal power through forgiveness, discernment, and conscious thought and speech.
Key Takeaways :
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There are only two kingdoms on earth: the Kingdom of Fear (which creates victims) and the Kingdom of Love (which sets us free).
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Fear is False Evidence Appearing Real (F.E.A.R.). We cannot erase fear; we can only replace it with love — specifically agape (unconditional, forgiving) love.
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The Wizard of Oz is a spiritual allegory: Dorothy = the searching soul, Scarecrow = mind, Tin Man = heart, Cowardly Lion = spirit/bullies who secretly hate themselves because they’ve never known real love.
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You always control one thing no one can take: what you choose to think and speak. Every thought and word either blesses or curses you.
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Victimhood ends the moment you take responsibility for your thoughts — even Thomas Edison “failed” 5,000 times and called it success because he learned 5,000 ways that didn’t work.
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Shame and guilt keep us stuck; the Gospel’s core message of forgiveness and unconditional love dissolves both.
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True spiritual growth requires becoming an eternal student + a servant to others, regardless of political or religious labels.
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Bullies (modern “Cowardly Lions”) are wounded people who have never experienced real love — compassion and boundaries, not retaliation, are the response.
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Coming in 2026: Tommy’s book The Wizard’s Don’t Know – A Yellow Brick Road from Fear to Perfect Love and Truth.
Connect with Tommy Hines:
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Brand & Website: https://www.perfecthomeguy.com
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Upcoming Book (2026): The Wizard’s Don’t Know – A Yellow Brick Road from Fear to Perfect Love and Truth
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