Are you exhausted from always trying to save the day, fix every problem, and be everything to everyone? In this episode, I’m joined by Lydia Turner—Certified Life Coach, Trauma-Informed Leader, and Community Activist—to explore the concept of saviorism and what we affectionately call Captain SAVE A Hoe Syndrome. This mindset, where your worth feels tied to rescuing others, leaves us drained, disconnected, and far from our authentic selves.
Together, we’ll unpack the lessons from Day 2 of my book, With You in Mind: Releasing Saviorism, diving deep into why so many of us take on the role of "rescuer." Lydia brings her expertise in trauma-informed practices to illuminate how this syndrome often stems from unresolved wounds, a need for control, or a desire to feel valued.
In this heartfelt and empowering conversation, we’ll challenge the narrative that you must fix others to be worthy and embrace a new truth: saving yourself is the most powerful act of love. With practical strategies and Lydia’s expert guidance, you’ll learn how to step out of the rescuer role and step into a life where your worth isn’t tied to how much you give, but to how fully you can simply be.
Key Takeaways:
It’s time to take off the cape, let go of the need to save everyone else, and focus on saving yourself. You deserve to be whole, rested, and free.
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