In this compelling episode of Social Leopards, host Beth delves into the intricacies of coercive control with insights from survivor and writer Samara Knight. Samara shares her journey through emotional abuse, highlighting how victims often lose their sense of choice and autonomy in relationships where control doesn’t leave physical scars. Through testimonies and personal reflections, the episode sheds light on the profound challenges of reclaiming one’s decision-making ability and the silent battles faced by survivors.
This poignant discussion explores the ways coercive control affects everyday decisions, from mundane choices to life-altering ones, often leaving a lasting psychological impact even after the relationship ends. Samara's story is a powerful reminder of the resilience required to regain personal agency and the importance of offering support and space to those healing from such experiences.
Tune in for a deeply moving narrative that underscores the silent erosion of autonomy in abusive dynamics and emphasizes the empowering journey of reclaiming the right to decide in one’s own life.
About our featured contributor:
Samara Knight is a writer, researcher, and survivor advocating for awareness and freedom from coercive control and emotional abuse. Her personal experiences in a cult and a 12-year coercive marriage fuels her work. With a BSc in Psychology and ongoing MSc studies in the Psychology of Coercive Control, she runs a Substack page and Shadows of Control, a website dedicated to sharing personal narratives and professional insights into coercive control.
How to find Samara:
- Website: shadowsofcontrol.com
- Substack: @shadowsofcontrol
- Threads: @shadowsofcontrol
- X: shadows_control
- Facebook: shadowsofcontrol
- BlueSky: shadowsofcontrol.bsky.social
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