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This myth is the flip side of the “glamorous and easy” narrative—the belief that all sex work and pornography are simply harmless fun, no different than any other form of adult entertainment. On the surface, it’s a comforting idea, especially for consumers who want to enjoy without questioning the conditions under which porn or sex work is produced. But the truth, as always, is more complicated. Sex work and porn are forms of labor...

This myth frames laws against sex work as protective shields for vulnerable populations. It suggests that arrests, raids, and crackdowns are acts of compassion—that by criminalizing sex work, the state is keeping people safe from exploitation. On the surface, this framing feels persuasive because it appeals to both morality and fear: who wouldn’t want to “protect” women, children, and marginalized people from harm? But in practice,...

From city zoning boards to neighborhood watch meetings, sex work is often blamed for everything from falling property values to rising crime. The stereotype of the “red light district” as a breeding ground for danger and disorder is deeply ingrained in public imagination, and its influence stretches far beyond dinner-table gossip or neighborhood complaints. This myth has directly shaped legislation and policy: city councils pass ex...

The idea that every client is a predator is one of the most persistent myths about sex work. While violence against sex workers is real and must be taken seriously, painting all clients with the same brush is inaccurate and harmful. This stereotype distracts from the real structural risks sex workers face and fuels policies that make their work more dangerous. From TV dramas to crime podcasts, the “violent john” trope is everywhere...

Heads up: this one’s messy, hard, and urgent. Charlie Kirk - 31, political firebrand and cofounder of Turning Point USA - was fatally shot at Utah Valley University while doing a Q&A about, of all things, gun violence. His last words to a crowd of 3,000 were literally “gun violence” before a single shot from a rooftop ended his life. It’s almost too on-the-nose, like the universe writing satire in real time. Kirk, who spent yea...

For survivors, safety isn’t a destination or a set of rules. It is not found in the locks on the doors, the cameras on the walls, or the paperwork at intake. Those may create a sense of control for institutions, but they rarely create comfort for survivors.

Safety is a feeling that grows in the body over time. It comes when someone listens without judgment, when choices are honored, when identities are respected, and when support d...

She was twelve the first time the bruises should have mattered. The teacher noticed. The nurse filed a report. A caseworker visited the home. But nothing stuck. Each institution touched her life just long enough to shuffle her along, like a plate passed around a crowded table. The bruises faded, the paperwork filed away, and the cycle resumed—because each system acted as though acknowledgment was enough.

By fourteen, the abuse had ...

When sex work shows up in mainstream culture, it’s rarely depicted as the ordinary, complex labor that it is. Instead, it’s boxed into one of two caricatures: the tragic victim or the glamorous hustler. Tabloid headlines, reality TV, and glossy magazine profiles often play up stories of women who supposedly “made it big,” while crime shows and news specials focus on “fallen” women to be rescued. These dueling myths - pity on one en...

This myth comes from a mix of moral judgment and economic denial. For generations, society has drawn a sharp line between “respectable work” and “immoral work,” framing sex work as a failure of character rather than a rational response to economic need. Media stereotypes and anti-trafficking campaigns reinforce the idea that sex workers are simply choosing the “easy way out” instead of pursuing “honest jobs.” At the same time, this...

We want to give credit where it’s due: More To Her Story, a youth-led feminist platform, was one of the first to sound the alarm on a deeply disturbing change in the 2023 U.S. State Department Human Rights Reports - the complete erasure of any dedicated section on women’s rights. Not a single mention of gender-based violence, maternal mortality, or structural inequality facing half the global population. While mainstream media outl...

Reality: Men, nonbinary, and trans people also do sex work, and ignoring them erases real needs, advocacy, and data from the conversation.

This myth isn’t just about who people imagine when they hear the words “sex worker”—it’s about who feminism has historically chosen to see, and who it has chosen to leave out. Much of mainstream feminist rhetoric around sex work has centered cisgender women, casting them either as victims in nee...

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Each month, SWOP Behind Bars will pull back the curtain on some of the most stubborn myths and misconceptions in our movement, armed with facts, figures, and a healthy dose of righteous indignation. This is where tired narratives come to die, and where we bring the receipts—cold, hard data you can quote at the next dinner table debate. Written and narrated by Alex Andrews, an internationally recognized sex worker rights advocate, c...

There’s a familiar narrative that follows mega sporting events in the U.S.—that they spark an inevitable rise in human trafficking, especially the ever salacious sex trafficking. The Super Bowl is the most common example: reports of thousands of underage sex workers flood headlines, but the evidence doesn’t back that up. While adult-oriented online ads may tick up modestly, rigorous studies consistently debunk the notion of dramati...

Being in the sex industry started for me at the age of 20. I was raised in one of the most dangerous cities, Camden, New Jersey. I was a single mother of 2 daughters at the time whose fathers were both absent, one was incarcerated and the other was absent by default. I was raised with family violence and my children and I were kicked out of my mother's house and sent to a women's shelter. At the time I wasn't bothered much emotiona...

Violence and incarceration are everyday realities for people who trade sex. Fear of police encounters. Fear of arrest. Fear of being assaulted, exploited, or ignored. These aren’t side notes. They’re central to our lives—and yet they’re often brushed aside in public policy debates.

We talk about the intersections of p...