Episode #59: The 4-Letter F-Word: FEAR (Of Disappointment)

What if disappointing others didn’t mean losing love?

In this episode of Tami Talks: Unscripted Healing, Tami explores the fear of disappointing others—and how it often stems from childhood experiences and a deep belief that love is conditional and can easily be taken away.

From childhood trauma to adult relationships, Tami explores how this fear often roots itself in the belief that disappointment equals a withdrawal of love. Through honest reflections and stories, she sheds light on how people-pleasing behaviors develop, how the ego tries to protect us, and why setting boundaries can feel so emotionally risky.

This episode is an invitation to reconnect with your inner child, speak your truth without guilt, and embrace the idea that disappointing others doesn't make you unlovable—it makes you human.

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Show Notes: 

• 00:00 Introduction and Gratitude
• 01:53 Exploring the Fear of Disappointment
• 04:00 Childhood Roots of Fear
• 06:59 People-Pleasing and Its Consequences
• 10:01 Setting Boundaries and Speaking Up
• 12:53 The Impact of Disappointment on Relationships
• 15:59 Ego and Self-Abandonment
• 19:00 Navigating Emotional Discomfort
• 21:49 The Importance of Clear Communication
• 24:57 Reconnecting with the Inner Child
• 27:51 Practicing Disappointment for Growth
• 30:53 Facing Major Life Decisions
• 34:04 Healing Generational Patterns
• 36:50 Conclusion and Call to Action