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September 1, 2025 34 mins

In this episode of Tearin’ Up My Heart, we sit down with Nicole Lopez-Bettendorf, a Special Education Teacher and educational equity advocate, to explore the leadership value of adaptability.

With over a decade of experience in the classroom, and in roles that stretch far beyond it, Nicole shares how flexibility, humor, and honesty have become her core leadership tools. From individualized education plans (IEPs) to union boardrooms, she opens up about what it means to shift again and again and again… and still show up with heart.

We talk about what it’s like to advocate for BIPOC and LGBTQ+ educators in Nebraska, how to lead in ever-changing systems, and why being able to laugh (and breathe) through the chaos is sometimes the best leadership move of all.

Whether you’re a fellow educator or simply navigating a leadership role in a world that just won’t sit still, this conversation is a reminder that adaptability is not just a skill, it’s a mindset.

💡 What You’ll Learn:
  • How to lead with flexibility in high-stakes environments
  • Why adaptability is essential in equity and advocacy work
  • Tools for managing constant change without burnout
  • The role of humor and honesty in building trust
  • How to model emotional adaptability for students
Nicole Lopez-Bettendorf (she/her)

Special Education Teacher | Equity Advocate | Education Leader 📍 Lincoln, Nebraska 📱 Instagram: @baby_brown 📘 Facebook: Nicole Lopez-Bettendorf 📧 Email: bnl1220@gmail.com

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