What happens when life doesn’t go according to plan? How do you keep hope alive when faced with unimaginable challenges?
In this episode, Justin Weidenfeld welcomes Kevin and Jeff Romer, a father and son who openly share their family’s journey after receiving Mathew’s devastating Tay-Sachs disease diagnosis. Kevin recalls the overwhelming early days—the emotional and financial pressures, the uncertainty about the future—and sheds light on the crucial role genetic testing plays in family planning.
Jeff reflects on what it meant growing up as Mathew’s brother, revealing the complex mix of isolation, guilt, and determination that shaped his childhood. Together, Kevin and Jeff explain how founding the Mathew Forbes Romer Foundation became a meaningful response to their grief and a way to help other families facing similar situations.
Their story highlights the power of preparation and awareness: Why is genetic testing essential for every family, regardless of background? How can community support transform your experience of grief?
Join this meaningful discussion to find out how the Romers turned tragedy into lasting impact, inspiring compassion, understanding, and hope along the way.
Episode Breakdown:
00:00 Introduction
06:08 Discovering Tay-Sachs Disease
10:12 Balancing Care and Family Life
13:00 Jeff’s Perspective: Growing Up with Mathew
17:04 Life After Mathew’s Passing
19:06 Kevin Reflects on Mathew’s Life
25:08 Support Systems and Community
30:01 The Role of Employers in Supporting Grieving Employees
34:04 The Importance of Bereavement Services
35:00 Kevin’s Grief Process After Mathew's Death
38:20 Jeff’s Grief Journey and Coping Mechanisms
41:03 Financial Challenges and Medical Expenses
51:32 Honoring Mathew’s Legacy: The Foundation
Links
Connect with Kevin Romer & Jeff Romer:
https://www.instagram.com/brainwave.chess/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffrey-romer/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevin-romer/
Connect with Justin Weidenfeld:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/justin-weidenfeld/
Website: https://www.ironbridgewc.com/team/justin-weidenfeld
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecurrencyofgrief_podcast
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