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March 6, 2025 51 mins

What if everything holding you back is just a story you’ve been telling yourself? In this powerful podcast, mindset expert Ian Inguanez joins us to discuss limiting beliefs, personal transformation, and how to break free from the patterns that keep you stuck. We dive deep into the psychology of self-sabotage, the power of forgiveness, and how to create the future you truly want.If you’re struggling with anger, resentment, or feeling lost in your journey, this episode will give you the mindset shifts and practical tools to take control of your life. Watch until the end for life-changing insights!5 key takeaways:1. You Are Not Stuck – The idea that who you are today is set in stone is false. You have the power to evolve and redefine yourself at any time.2. Forgiveness Frees You – Holding onto resentment only harms you. If you can acknowledge that you would have done better if you knew better, extend that same understanding to others.3. Your Mindset Shapes Your Reality – The stories you tell yourself, whether about relationships, success, or failure, dictate your outcomes. Changing your internal dialogue can change your life.4. Act as If – If you want to become a better version of yourself, start acting like that person today. Your future self is shaped by the habits and mindset you adopt now.5. Anger and Resentment Keep You Trapped – Letting go of blame and shifting focus to growth and acceptance is the only way to move forward and create a better future.▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬Follow Ian Inguanez on Instagram👇:https://loom.ly/-_A49HA▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🔗 Join the discussion and gain insights into self-growth, boundaries, and the art of recovery.👇 SUBSCRIBE HERE:https://www.youtube.com/@JoshTheDerelict𝐖𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐞𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬...?▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬👍 Like the video (it helps a ton!)💬 Comment below to share your opinion!🔗 Share the video with anyone you think might help :)▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬📧 For Business Inquiries: info@thederelict.biz▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬Follow us on social media:YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JoshTheDerelictTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@JoshTheDerelictInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/JoshTheDerelictLinkedin: /**Josh Tomeoni, CFP®, ChFC®, CLU®, RICP®**https://www.linkedin.com/in/joshuatomeoni/▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬And also our website:https://www.thederelict.biz/podcast▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬Chapters:00:00 - 01:30 | Introduction – Welcome to the podcast and today’s guest01:31 - 05:00 | Why most people feel stuck and how to break free05:01 - 08:30 | The illusion of being "boxed in" and redefining yourself08:31 - 12:00 | How resentment and anger hold you back12:01 - 16:00 | The power of forgiveness – Letting go to move forward16:01 - 20:00 | "Blaming effectively" – Turning pain into personal growth20:01 - 24:00 | How limiting beliefs control your life without you realizing it24:01 - 28:00 | Why men struggle with vulnerability and emotional growth28:01 - 32:00 | The two paths after a major life change – growth or resentment32:01 - 36:00 | How your subconscious mind keeps you stuck in the same patterns36:01 - 40:30 | Why most people sabotage their own success40:31 - 44:30 | Practical steps to reprogram your mindset and beliefs44:31 - 48:00 | The power of acting "as if" to become the person you want to be48:01 - 50:00 | Final thoughts – Breaking free from self-imposed limits50:01 - 51:00 | Outro – Where to find Ian and next steps for listeners

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