How Vulnerability and Purpose Can Change a Man’s Life, EP 60

In this deep and real conversation, Josh, Jonathan, and Josh P. break down why vulnerability is not weakness—it's the path to power.They dive into how masculine culture affects men, how to escape victim mentality, the role of gratitude, and why purpose is critical for resilience.If you want stronger relationships, better leadership, and a life you're proud of, this episode will hit you hard in the best way.👉 Drop a comment if you’ve been through a divorce. Let’s talk about it.🔥 LIKE & SUBSCRIBE for more real talk about growth, healing, and rebuilding your life!▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬Connect with Jonathan on instagram👇: https://www.instagram.com/jamiemlimaConnect with Josh Passchier on instagram👇: https://www.instagram.com/joshpasschier▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🔗 Join the conversation and uncover real growth and healing.👇 SUBSCRIBE HERE:https://www.youtube.com/@JoshTheDerelict𝐖𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐞𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬...?▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬👍 Like the video (it helps a ton!)💬 Comment below to share your opinion!🔗 Share the video with anyone you think might help :)▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬📧 For Business Inquiries: [e-mail]▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬Follow us on social media:YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JoshTheDerelictTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@JoshTheDerelictInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/JoshTheDerelictLinkedin: /**Josh Tomeoni, CFP®, ChFC®, CLU®, RICP®**https://www.linkedin.com/in/joshuatomeoni/▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬And also our website:https://www.thederelict.biz/podcast▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬5 Key Takeaways:🔑 1. Vulnerability Is a Strength, Not a WeaknessThe guys challenge the cultural belief that vulnerability equals weakness. They show that being open and honest is actually what builds deeper trust, connection, and long-term confidence.🔑 2. Your Mindset Shapes Your RealityJosh shares how reframing his defensiveness helped him take ownership without shame. The shift from victim to empowered starts with curiosity, not blame.🔑 3. Purpose Transforms PainThe episode explores how finding your purpose gives meaning to suffering. When your “why” is stronger than your pain, you can endure almost anything with resilience.🔑 4. Growth Happens in DiscomfortSelf-work is hard because it's unfamiliar—just like learning to ride a bike. But as you build emotional “muscle,” things like meditation, journaling, and reflection become transformative tools for change.🔑 5. Gratitude and Service Are Antidotes to SufferingJonathan emphasizes how gratitude can anchor you in tough seasons. When you focus on serving others, you shift from internal struggle to purpose-driven peace.Chapters:00:00 — The Power of VulnerabilityJosh, Jonathan, and Josh P. kick off with why men struggle to open up—and how vulnerability is misjudged as weakness.11:20 — Defensive? Here's What It Really MeansJosh shares a raw moment about being called an "asshole" and how curiosity, not shame, helped him unpack his emotional reaction.22:10 — Self-Work Is Like the GymJonathan compares meditation and emotional growth to building muscle—hard at first, but transformative with consistency.33:45 — The Danger of Outgrowing Your PartnerThe guys get brutally honest about relationships: what happens when one partner grows and the other doesn’t?44:10 — Purpose is greater than PainThe trio dives into how having a mission or purpose makes suffering tolerable—and often necessary for transformation