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It's the Debutante, with London Bambi.
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Ah, ah, ah, it's the Debutante on the mic, I'm bout to spit some spiritual shit with all my mics.
Ah, ah, yo, did I just extend my intro? Did I literally just come up with a freestyle off the top of the dome? What? I'm really that bored.
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Anywho, what's up, rock stars? Welcome to another episode of the Hood W Ton podcast with Me, your host, London Bambi, and today is episode 2023, which is titled guarding your spirit, recognizing and protecting yourself from destructive energies.
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And we're talking about how to guard your spirit, watching who you allow in your life and making sure you don't become a vessel for something destructive.
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So let's get in because it's going to be jam packed.
And I'm going to try to get through this episode as seamlessly as possible because it's It's going to be a little bit longer than previous episodes.
Okay.
So first I want to say some battles are fought with this, some with words and some without you even realizing are being fought in the spirit.
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There are forces at work, energies that move through people, through situations and through cycles in life.
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.999And if you're not paying attention, if you're not spiritually aware, you'll find yourself trapped, manipulated and drain.
And misled before you even realize what's happening.
So I'm going to talk about 20 types of spirits that can influence, manipulate, and inhabit people.
.999Spirits that can show up in those around you, but also in yourself if you're not careful.
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This episode is about discernment, self awareness, and spiritual protection.
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How do you recognize these spirits in others? How do you keep them from attaching themselves to you? And most importantly, how do you make sure that you're not the one carrying these energies into spaces and into relationships in your life? All right, let's go.
Look, some spiritual battles don't always look like exorcisms and possessions.
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As you see in the movies, sometimes they look like toxic relationships.
Sometimes they look like sudden misfortune.
Sometimes they look like cycles that repeat over and over, no matter how hard you try to break free.
Sometimes they look like the way a person move their words, their actions, the energy that they bring it to the room.
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So we're going to dive into these 20 spirits, what they look like, how they operate.
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And what, what you pretty much need to do to protect yourself from them.
Okay, so we're going to start off with the first spirit.
And this is the spirit that you guys probably have seen people talking about online.
And that spirit is the monitoring spirit.
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All right.
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This one is a silent enemy.
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It watches you.
It gathers information, but it's not there to support you.
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It's here to report back.
You ever feel like every time you share good news, something goes wrong.
Like there's always a set of eyes on you waiting for you to slip.
That's because some people in your life aren't just keeping up with you.
They're monitoring you.
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This spirit works through jealousy, fake support, and people who smile at your face but secretly wants to see you fail.
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They may not even know they're being used.
Some people just have an energy about them that attract.
Destructions.
You'll notice this spirit in people whom always want to know what's going on in your life but never share their own plans.
.999Act like they're rooting for you but never actually support your work.
.999Bring up old failures every time you take a step forward.
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Somehow they always know your business and that's because they're watching.
The worst part, some people invite this spirit into their own lives by oversharing.
And I'm guilty of this because I'm an oversharer and I'm learning not to.
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And what I am learning though is that not everyone needs to know your next move.
Now, how do you protect yourself from this spirit you may ask? Well, 1.
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Move in silence.
Period.
Just, just learn how to move in silence.
If they don't know what's coming, they can't block it.
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Stop giving access to people who don't bring value.
Ask yourself, if you stop telling them your plans, would they still be around? Three, I'm big on this one.
Pray for discernment.
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Ask the universe for discernment.
You know, sit with yourself.
.9995Some enemies don't look like enemies until it's too late.
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So discernment is really, really important.
.001And you may hear me using this word a lot during, the explanation of these spirits.
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All right, jumping into spirit number two, this is another one people are starting to talk about now, especially with this current political climate, this next spirit.
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Is the provoking spirit.
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This one thrives on conflict.
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It's not just about drama.
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It's about getting you to self destruct.
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Ever meet someone who just seems to push your buttons on purpose? Who knows exactly what to say to trigger you? Who always stirs the pot and causes tension? That's the provoking spirit at work.
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That spirit doesn't just cause fight.
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It creates patterns of emotional instability.
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It moves through people who instigate arguments just to see a reaction.
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It moves through people who say passive, aggressive things just to get under your skin.
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People who turn small disagreements into full blown wars.
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People who drain your energy by consistently pulling you into negativity.
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See This spirit wants you to react.
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It wants you to lose control and say things you regret and step out of character.
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It's a setup because the moment you lose control, the moment you lose your cool, you become the problem.
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Now, how do you protect yourself? 1.
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Master your emotions.
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Not every battle is worth your energy.
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Some people argue just to steal your peace.
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I'm learning this with a current situation of mine.
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I had to de friend somebody in real life.
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.001I tried to approach them calmly, but then when I realized that they just wanted to argue, No, no ma'am, I'm not in that space in my life.
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And so, just master your emotions and don't, literally, don't let people steal your joy.
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Two, recognize the setup.
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If someone always brings you frustration instead of peace, limit their access to you.
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Three, respond with silence.
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This is the best way to deal with the provoking spirit because it defeats the provoking spirit because you're no longer engaging.
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You're starving it of the reaction that it is looking for.
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So responding with silence.
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To me is the ultimate best way to, protect yourself from the provoking spirit.
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But yeah, this is be careful of that.
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Cause that spirit is moving around now, especially now, in today's age.
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All right.
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Spirit number three, this third spirit we need to talk about is the spirit of deception.
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This is a spirit that distorts truth, manipulates reality, and keeps people trapped in lies, illusion.
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false belief.
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This spirit is dangerous because it moves silently.
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You won't always recognize when someone is deceiving you because deception is designed to look like the truth.
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It operates through gaslighting, making you doubt your reality, telling you things didn't happen.
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The way you remember manipulation, using words, emotions, and guilt to control people, false appearances, people pretending to be something they're not.
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Toxic relationships, making you think love means suffering or that abuse is normals.
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You see the spirit in relationships where someone convinces you to ignore your own intuition.
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It's in people whom tell, have truths to make themselves look good.
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It's in leaders who lie to control their followers.
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It's even in the way society twists reality to make you accept things that go against your spirit.
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How to protect yourself? Trust your intuition.
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If something feels off, it is.
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Don't let anyone convince you otherwise.
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Two, look at patterns, not words.
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A liar can only pretend for so long.
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Watch what they do, not what they say.
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Three, pray for wisdom.
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The truth will always reveal itself, but you have to be ready to accept it.
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Now, I'm gonna hurry up and jump into spirit number four because This is one of the most dangerous spirits because it doesn't just attack your emotion.
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It paralyzes you and that is the spirit of fear.
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Fear stops people from moving forward.
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It whispers, what if you fail? What if they don't like you? What if you're not good enough? And if you listen to it long enough, you'll start believing those lies.
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This spirit moves through procrastination.
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You keep delaying things because you feel you're not ready.
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It moves through self doubt.
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Even when you're fully capable, you second guess yourself.
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Avoidance, you don't apply for opportunities, you don't take risks, you don't step outside your comfort zone because of fear and perfectionism.
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And this is the one that gets me.
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I'm speaking from some sort of experience for some of these.
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And with perfectionism, you feel as if you can't, if you can't do it perfectly, you shouldn't do it at all.
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That has stopped me from doing a lot of things.
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I have a lot of projects.
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That I haven't put out in the past because I felt like it wasn't perfect this year You will see me putting out project.
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You've seen me put out two books so far I have a sculpture project coming out because I've learned that Not everything has to be perfect and in order to grow you have to get it out there and see the response.
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Okay, no Fear will keep you in the same place for years.
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If you let it, it will convince you to settle for less than you deserve.
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It will keep you in toxic relationships, dead in jobs and miserable situation because it makes the unknown seem scarier than the pain you already know.
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.001Now, how to protect yourself move through fear.
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The only way to break free of fear is grip is to do what is trying to stop you from doing to rewrite your thinking.
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Fear thrives on lies.
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Start speaking truth over yourself.
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I am capable.
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I am strong.
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I am ready.
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You know, I'm, I'm big on speaking life of myself.
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.001Three, take a small step.
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Like, you don't have to take one big leap.
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Fear loses its power every time you prove it wrong.
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All right, now.
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Five.
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This is another one that is a big one that gets a lot of people in trouble.
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Okay.
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That is the spirit of lust.
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Now, let me be clear.
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Lust isn't just about sex.
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.001Lust is desire without discipline.
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It's craving something so badly that you're willing to sacrifice your peace, your morals.
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Or your purpose just to have it.
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This spirit operates through sexual temptation, jumping into relationships based on attraction alone and ignoring red flags, addiction, not just to sex, but to anything that gives you temporary.
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Pleasure, like substance, gambling or power and post control issues, making reckless choices just because something feels good in the moment.
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Obsessive desires, wanting something so badly that you ignore the consequences.
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Lust clouds your judgment.
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.001It makes you chase the wrong things.
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It makes you confuse infatuation with love, obsession with passion and indulgence with freedom.
It convinces you that if it feels good, it must be right.
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But that is the trap.
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This is why people end up in relationships that drain them, in cycles of addiction, in situations they regret because lust only cares about the moment.
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It doesn't care about the damage it leaves behind.
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How to protect yourself.
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Set boundaries.
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Not everything you want is meant for you.
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Two, recognize patterns.
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If you make keep making the same mistake over and over again, there's a spirit behind it.
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Three, learn discipline.
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Lust loses its power when you stop feeding it.
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Okay, that's important.
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You have to learn discipline.
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Now, I'm going to just jump into spirit number six, and that is the spirit of stagnation.
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This is the spirit that keeps you stuck.
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No matter how hard you try, you can't seem to move forward.
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Your life feels like it's on pause.
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Relationships don't last.
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Career progress.
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It's slow.
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No matter how much effort you put in, you never seem to break through anything you try to do.
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This spirit operates through cycles of failure.
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Every time you think you're making progress, something pulls you back.
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Lack of motivation.
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You know what you need to do, but you can't bring yourself to do it.
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Blocked opportunities.
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Every door that looks like it's about to open, suddenly close.
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Repetitive struggles.
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The same problem keeps coming back no matter how much you try to fix them.
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Stagnation steals your time.
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That's what this spirit does.
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It makes years go by without real growth.
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You feel like you're doing everything right, but nothing changes.
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And that's because this spirit works to make you feel hopeless, exhausted, and discouraged.
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Now, how to protect yourself.
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One, change your patterns.
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Some cycles don't break until you do.
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So stop doing the same thing expecting different results.
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.001I'm pretty sure you've heard that before.
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The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.
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Okay.
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Step number three, we're going to talk a lot about prayer.
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More so than I have any other episodes.
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I need you to pray against delays.
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If every opportunity keeps slipping through your hands, speak against the spirit of stagnation.
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Three, move with intention.
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Stagnation thrives in passivity.
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Start making bold moves.
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So this is where you need to make bold moves.
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If you've been standing still in the same place for years, years, this requires a dramatic change and that will be a All right, moving to spirit number seven.
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That is the spirit of rejection.
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This spirit doesn't just make you feel unwanted.
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.001It convinces you that you are unworthy of love, success, and happiness.
It makes you settle for less.
It makes you choose people who don't value you.
.001It keeps you stuck in a cycle of proving yourself to people who you were never meant for in the first place.
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This spirit operates through Abandonment wounds, feeling unworthy because of past rejection from parents, partners, or friends, fear of intimacy, pushing people away before they can leave you, people pleasing, overextending yourself just to be accepted.
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Settling for toxic relationships.
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A lot of people do this thinking mistreatment is normal because you don't feel deserving of better.
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Rejection makes you feel like you always have to earn love, prove yourself and fight to be chosen.
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It convinces you you're not enough.
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As you are.
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And the worst part, if you don't heal from it, you start rejecting yourself before anyone else can.
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You stop going after opportunities, you assume people won't like you, you settle for situations that don't serve you.
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.002Okay guys? Now look, this is how you protect yourself.
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Recognize your worth, and this is what my podcast is kind of built on.
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I need you guys to be your own best friend.
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That should be a tagline for my podcast.
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Recognize your worth.
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You don't need to prove yourself to people who can't see your value.
.001I need you to understand that first.
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Two, heal, heal from past wounds.
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.001If rejections have followed you all of your life, it's time to deal with it at the root.
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Okay? And three.
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This may be the simplest, but also the hardest stop chasing people who aren't for you.
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The right people won't need convincing to be in your life.
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I promise you.
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Okay.
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I promise you.
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Now this is another spirit that's going to be, popular that's kind of talked about.
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And that is the spirit of manipulation.
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It's also known as the Jezebel spirit, which.
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You guys probably know from the Bible.
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This is the spirit that controls, deceives, and dominates.
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It doesn't always use its force.
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Instead, it works through subtle manipulation, guilt, emotional control, and oftentimes seduction.
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.001This spirit operates through emotional manipulation, making you feel guilty for setting boundaries.
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Control and domination, always needing to be in charge, refusing to compromise.
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Deception and seduction, using charm and lies to influence others.
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Playing victim, twisting a narrative to avoid accountability.
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This spirit is behind toxic relationships where one person has all the control.
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It's the reason why people stay in abusive situations, because the manipulator makes them feel like they're the problem.
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It's also found in leaders who control their followers through fears and lies.
It's in friendships where someone always makes you feel like you owe them something.
It's in workplace environments where someone is always pulling the strings behind the scenes.
.998How do you protect yourself? Recognize manipulation for what it is.
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If someone always twists the truth, makes you feel guilty or control your decision, pay attention.
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Set strong boundaries.
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Manipulative people hate when you stop allowing them to control you.
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They hate it! Three, don't let guilt trick you into submission.
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If someone truly loves you, they won't have to manipulate you into doing what they want.
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All right, jumping right on in and to the ninth spirit.
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Now we're about to talk about the spirit of confusion.
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This is the spirit that disrupts clarity, clouds your judgment, and keeps you stuck in indecision.
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It makes you question yourself consistently.
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It makes you second guess every choice.
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It keeps you feeling lost, uncertain, and mentally drained.
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This spirit operates through.
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Indecisiveness, struggling to make even the simplest decision.
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Mental fog, like you can't think clearly no matter how hard you try.
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Spiritual blindness, being unable to see what's really happening in your life.
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Emotional stability, one day you're feeling confident, the next day you're doubting everything.
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Confusion is a powerful weapon.
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And I don't think people understand that, and that's because it makes you stay stuck.
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It's kind of like the spirit of stagnation.
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It convinces you that you don't know what to do, so you do nothing at all.
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It makes you miss out on opportunities.
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It keeps you from moving forward in your progress.
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It's also a major tool of manipulation.
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People will intentionally confuse you so that you rely on them for directions.
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It happens in relationships, friendships, and workplace, and even spiritual communities.
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How to protect yourself.
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Get still and seek clarity.
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Confusion thrives in chaos.
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Find quiet time to sit with yourself and meditate.
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You know I'm big on meditating, guys.
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Two, stop overthinking.
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Sometimes you already know what to do, but fear makes you doubt yourself.
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Three, pay attention to patterns.
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If you always feel confused around certain people or situation, that's a sign of manipulation.
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It's a sign of spiritual manipulation.
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Guys, again, be self aware, be more discerning, and you'll be able to recognize some of these spirits.
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All right.
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I may have to take my time with this next period.
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And this next spirit is the spirit of depression.
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It's one of the most heavy and dangerous spirits out there.
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Depression isn't just about sadness.
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This spirit drains the life out of you.
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It makes joy feels impossible.
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It steals your motivation, your energy, your hope.
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It convinces you that nothing will ever get better.
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This spirit operates through.
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Persistent sadness.
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Even when good things happen, you still feel numb.
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Lack of motivation.
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Simple tasks feel exhausting.
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Isolation.
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You don't want to be around anyone.
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And that's not meant to be confused for somebody that's just going into hermit mode, that need time to recharge.
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No, it's just like, you just don't want to be around anyone at all.
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Hopelessness.
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Feeling like nothing will ever change, like, there's no point in even trying.
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This spirit lies to you.
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It tells you that you are alone, that no one cares, that nothing will ever improve.
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And if it goes unchecked, it can make you even give up on everything, even your life.
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And let me be clear, mental health matters.
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If you're struggling, please seek professional help.
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Talk to someone you trust.
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If you need to, jump into my DMs.
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Because depression isn't something that you need to battle alone.
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All right.
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Now, how do you protect yourself from depression? And I'm going to try to keep it simple for you.
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I'm going to keep these to just three pointers on all of these spheres on three pointers on how to protect yourself.
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So the way you can protect yourself with depression is number one.
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Expose the lies.
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Depression tells you that you're alone, but you're not alone.
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It tells you nothing will change, but that is not true.
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I promise you.
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So remember, if you're starting to feel depressed, you gotta start talking to yourself, friend.
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Expose the lies.
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Two, surround yourself with light.
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Whether it's uplifting people, positive environments, or spiritual practice, stay connected to things that bring you peace.
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This is important.
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Stay connected, surround yourself with light, do your favorite things, but you have to stay connected with things that bring you peace.
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And number three may be one of the most important steps.
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of all.
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Ask for help.
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I promise you, you are not weak for needing support.
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Speak to someone whom can help you out of the darkness.
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Somebody that you trust and feel safe with.
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And again, if you don't have anybody like that in your life, jump into my DMs.
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We're going to get through this friend.
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All right.
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So I need you to understand that is one of the spirits that I see wreaking havoc all around me and people.
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And The scariest part about this spirit, I should have said this at the beginning, is I see it a lot into people, inside of people who have the warmest smile.
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These people are smiling, they seem to be the happiest people on earth, and that's how depression can deceive you.
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So this one sometimes isn't easy, as easy to see as the other spirit, because it moves just as quietly as some of the other ones.
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And some people are good at masking it.
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But that is probably one of the scariest parts of it for me.
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Alright, so again, if you need help, please just expose the lies, surround yourself with light and ask for help.
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Okay? So we're gonna jump to the next spirit.
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Okay? We getting through these friends? Alright, now this next spirit is one of the most subtle yet destructive spirits.
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And that spirit is the spirit of pride.
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And I think maybe all of us battled with this spirit at some point.
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Pride isn't just about arrogance.
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Pride is the refusal to acknowledge when you're wrong and the inability to accept help and the belief that you don't need to grow.
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It blinds people to their flaws and keep them from changing.
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This spirit operates through Refusing correction.
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Getting defensive when somebody points out an issue.
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Always needing to be right.
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Never admitting mistakes, even when it's obvious.
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Looking down on others.
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Thinking you're better than people because of your success, intelligence, or status.
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Rejecting help.
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Struggling in silence because you don't want them to see you as weak.
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I mean, pride is dangerous because it blocks growth.
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It keeps you from learning.
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It keeps you from healing.
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It keeps you from building meaningful relationships because pride, pride will not let you apologize, listen, or compromise.
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How to protect yourself.
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Learn humanity.
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Being wrong isn't weakness, refusing to admit it is.
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Okay, be open to correction.
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The people who love you aren't trying to attack you.
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They're trying to help you.
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Remember that growth requires change.
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If you refuse to evolve, you'll eventually be left behind.
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And that should be scary enough.
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All right.
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This is another spirit that I want to talk about because Um, it's, it's a spirit that really attack your mindset.
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Okay.
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Now, this spirit is the spirit of poverty.
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And it's, this isn't just about money.
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The spirit of poverty is a mindset.
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Like I just said, it convinces you that you will always lack that you would never have enough.
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And that struggling is just your fate.
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It keeps people stuck in cycle of financial, emotional, and spiritual lack.
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this spirit operates through scarity mindset.
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Always believing that there's not enough to go around.
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In other words.
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Self sabotage.
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Rejecting opportunities because you don't believe you deserve them.
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Generational struggles.
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Family patterns of financial instability and lack of growth.
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Fear of success.
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Feeling guilty about wanting more for yourself.
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The spirit of poverty doesn't just keep people broke, it keeps them small.
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It convinces them that abundance isn't for them.
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That success is for other people.
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That they should settle for less than they deserve.
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Now, how do you protect yourself? Change your mindset.
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Stop speaking lack over your life.
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Start believing you are worthy of abundance.
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Two, break generational cycles, guys.
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If poverty has been passed down in your family, be the one to change it.
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And only you know how to do that, okay? Three, take action.
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The spirit of poverty keeps people stuck in inactions.
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Start making moves, again, even small ones, towards a better future, the future you see for yourself.
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Alright, we're gonna jump into spirit number 13 because this is another huge one.
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Alright, so.
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The spirit 13, that's the spirit of addiction.
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This is a spirit that keeps people trapped in a destructive cycle.
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Addiction isn't just about substances.
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It's about anything you can't control, anything that masters you.
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It could be alcohol, drugs, food, gambling, but it can also be a toxic relationship, chaos, or even workaholism.
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This spirit operates through lack of self control, feeling powerless to stop.
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Even when you want to, escapism, using things to numb pain rather than to deal with it, repeating destructive habits, making promises to yourself to stop only to go back, shame and secrecy.
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Hiding behavior is because deep down, you know, they're harmful.
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Addiction doesn't just destroy your health.
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It destroys your peace, your relationships.
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and your potential.
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It convinces you that you need this thing to feel okay.
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When in reality, it's the thing that's really keeping you in bondage.
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Okay, so you don't need anything, but you are giving power to something that is holding you in a destructive state.
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So just think about that spirit.
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Now, how to protect yourself.
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Acknowledge the issue.
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You can't control what you won't confront.
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And it's just as simple to seek help.
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Some battles aren't meant to be fought alone.
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Again, talk to someone who can support you.
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There's lots of support groups for everything.
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Just Google it.
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Three, replace the addiction with something healing.
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You can't always just stop an addiction.
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I'm aware of that, but you do have to replace it with something that feeds your soul instead of draining it.
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I mean, that's the trade off, okay? So guys, I need you to take that spirit really, really serious.
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All right, we're jumping right in into the 14th spirit.
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Now, that's the spirit of infirmity.
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The spirit that attacks your health, both physical and mental.
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This spirit doesn't just bring sickness.
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It brings chronic struggles, unexplained illnesses, and a heaviness that doctors can't always explain.
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This spirit operates through unexplained health issues, like reoccurring sicknesses that doesn't improve, fatigue and weaknesses.
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Feeling drained and exhausted all the time.
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Generational illnesses.
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The same disease running through your family line.
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Mental and emotional heaviness.
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Feeling weighed down even when there's no clear reason.
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Sometimes this fear works alongside other spirits like depression, fear, and anxiety.
460
00:30:27,459.998 --> 00:30:32,829.998
Because when your body and your mind are under attack, it's easier to keep you in a weakened state.
461
00:30:33,629.998 --> 00:30:34,969.998
How to protect yourself.
462
00:30:35,889.998 --> 00:30:38,329.998
Again, pray for healing.
463
00:30:38,649.998 --> 00:30:41,59.998
Sit down, speak life over your health.
464
00:30:41,339.998 --> 00:30:44,149.998
Don't just accept sickness as your reality.
465
00:30:44,189.998 --> 00:30:45,259.998
You don't have to.
466
00:30:47,309.998 --> 00:30:48,759.997
Take care of your body.
467
00:30:49,359.997 --> 00:30:50,29.997
Rest.
468
00:30:50,169.998 --> 00:30:50,979.998
Eat well.
469
00:30:51,69.997 --> 00:30:52,909.998
Move your physical self.
470
00:30:53,389.997 --> 00:30:56,409.998
Like, Health is tied to your spiritual well being.
471
00:30:56,409.998 --> 00:30:58,559.998
So you have to do all these type of things.
472
00:30:58,619.998 --> 00:31:02,729.998
Again, you have to rest, you have to eat, you have to move your physical body.
473
00:31:03,59.998 --> 00:31:05,869.997
Like you need to get up and around.
474
00:31:05,949.998 --> 00:31:06,359.998
All right.
475
00:31:06,509.998 --> 00:31:09,219.998
And three, this is going to be one of the most important ones.
476
00:31:09,809.998 --> 00:31:11,969.998
Break generational cycles.
477
00:31:12,349.998 --> 00:31:14,679.998
That's the era we are in in life right now.
478
00:31:15,9.998 --> 00:31:18,559.998
Just because something runs in your family doesn't mean you have to accept it.
479
00:31:18,779.997 --> 00:31:20,919.997
And it's like, well, you know, it just runs in the family.
480
00:31:21,159.997 --> 00:31:23,659.997
And then that's when I say, and it stops with me.
481
00:31:23,789.997 --> 00:31:25,969.997
Okay? So keep that in mind.
482
00:31:26,899.997 --> 00:31:32,39.998
Jumping into Spirit number 15.
483
00:31:32,129.998 --> 00:31:35,419.998
Now this one is the spirit of unforgiveness.
484
00:31:35,619.997 --> 00:31:38,469.998
One of the heaviest burdens a person can carry.
485
00:31:38,769.998 --> 00:31:41,919.997
I know because I have done this at times as well.
486
00:31:41,949.997 --> 00:31:53,319.998
I used to be big on like just know a personal what they did whatever I don't have to forgive them, but I've learned that forgiveness doesn't mean you have to let a person back into your life.
487
00:31:53,329.998 --> 00:31:55,779.998
So I would say this spirit.
488
00:31:56,239.998 --> 00:31:58,29.998
Doesn't just keep you angry.
489
00:31:58,59.998 --> 00:31:59,579.998
It keeps you trapped in the past.
490
00:31:59,849.998 --> 00:32:02,899.998
It makes you relive pain over and over again.
491
00:32:02,919.998 --> 00:32:06,429.998
It convinces you that holding on to resentment is somehow protecting you.
492
00:32:06,719.998 --> 00:32:08,859.998
When in reality, it is poisoning you.
493
00:32:09,239.997 --> 00:32:15,179.997
This fear operates through bitterness, feeling angry towards someone long after the situation is over.
494
00:32:15,519.998 --> 00:32:19,649.998
Emotional walls, refusing to trust or let people in because of past hurt.
495
00:32:20,109.998 --> 00:32:25,599.998
Revenge mindset, wanting to see others suffer for what they did to you.
496
00:32:26,174.998 --> 00:32:27,544.998
Self sabotage.
497
00:32:27,784.998 --> 00:32:32,384.998
Staying stuck in a negative cycle because you won't let go of past pain.
498
00:32:33,334.998 --> 00:32:34,374.998
Unforgiveness.
499
00:32:35,474.998 --> 00:32:39,424.997
Unforgiveness doesn't just hurt the other person, it hurts you.
500
00:32:39,714.998 --> 00:32:45,394.998
It weighs down your spirit, blocks your blessings, and keeps you emotionally tied to the person who hurt you.
501
00:32:46,294.998 --> 00:32:50,424.998
How to protect yourself? Well, this is what I learned from personal experience.
502
00:32:51,24.998 --> 00:32:53,434.998
Forgiveness is for you, not for them.
503
00:32:53,794.998 --> 00:32:58,14.998
Let go, not because they deserve it, because you deserve peace.
504
00:32:58,514.998 --> 00:33:00,294.998
Stop replaying the pain.
505
00:33:00,634.998 --> 00:33:03,944.997
The past only have power if you keep bringing it into the present.
506
00:33:04,514.997 --> 00:33:05,524.997
Move forward.
507
00:33:05,525.097 --> 00:33:11,154.998
This is the simplest, uh, one of the simplest ways to protect yourself against, the spirit of non forgiveness.
508
00:33:11,854.998 --> 00:33:18,584.998
Like Again, if you're dealing with the spirit of unforgiveness, you are continually replaying a pain in your mind.
509
00:33:18,874.998 --> 00:33:22,354.998
If you move forward, you break free.
510
00:33:22,894.997 --> 00:33:24,554.998
Unforgiveness keep you stuck.
511
00:33:24,734.998 --> 00:33:26,294.998
Choose freedom instead.
512
00:33:26,454.998 --> 00:33:27,114.998
Now.
513
00:33:28,364.998 --> 00:33:29,194.998
16.
514
00:33:29,234.998 --> 00:33:31,474.998
I see this one a lot as well.
515
00:33:31,514.998 --> 00:33:31,904.998
Okay.
516
00:33:32,504.998 --> 00:33:34,934.998
And 16 is the spirit of distraction.
517
00:33:35,464.998 --> 00:33:39,364.997
That's the spirit that keeps you busy, but never productive.
518
00:33:39,734.997 --> 00:33:42,84.998
This spirit doesn't just waste your time.
519
00:33:42,114.997 --> 00:33:46,584.998
It keeps you off track, unfocused, and disconnected from your purpose.
520
00:33:46,954.998 --> 00:33:53,759.998
This spirit operates through, again, Procrastination, always delaying what you know you should be doing.
521
00:33:54,49.998 --> 00:33:57,669.998
Unnecessary drama, getting you caught up in things that doesn't matter.
522
00:33:57,939.998 --> 00:34:04,709.998
Overconsumption, scrolling, binge watching, overindulging in entertainment instead of working on your goals.
523
00:34:05,89.997 --> 00:34:09,339.898
Lack of clarity, always feeling like you don't know where to start.
524
00:34:09,759.998 --> 00:34:13,379.998
The spirit of destruction is dangerous because it feels harmless at first.
525
00:34:13,609.998 --> 00:34:18,279.998
You tell yourself, I'll do it tomorrow, but tomorrow gets, gets here and you do nothing.
526
00:34:18,279.998 --> 00:34:23,499.998
It keeps getting pushed back and before you know it, years have passed and you're still in the same place.
527
00:34:24,199.997 --> 00:34:29,139.998
How do you protect yourself? Prioritize what matters.
528
00:34:29,249.998 --> 00:34:33,839.998
Every day ask yourself, is this getting me closer to my purpose? This is what I started doing.
529
00:34:34,379.998 --> 00:34:36,59.998
Two, limit distractions.
530
00:34:36,369.998 --> 00:34:40,799.998
If something consistently pulls you away from your goals, cut it down.
531
00:34:41,479.997 --> 00:34:42,499.998
Take action.
532
00:34:42,519.997 --> 00:34:50,139.998
And this is another one where you can just take small steps and it will stagnation.
533
00:34:51,684.998 --> 00:34:52,84.998
All right.
534
00:34:52,194.998 --> 00:34:58,304.998
So let's jump into another spicy one that they're showing on reality TV a lot.
535
00:34:58,344.998 --> 00:35:00,604.997
And that is the spirit of betrayal.
536
00:35:00,614.998 --> 00:35:04,184.998
One of the most painful spirits to experience.
537
00:35:04,294.998 --> 00:35:04,374.998
Oh.
538
00:35:06,944.998 --> 00:35:20,294.998
Okay, now, the spirit of, the spirit of betrayal, this spirit moves through people who breaks trust, abandon you when you need them most, and turn against you after benefiting from your kindness.
539
00:35:21,34.998 --> 00:35:31,504.998
This spirit operates through backstabbing friends, people who smile in your face but talk behind your back, disloyal partners, those who betray your love and your trust.
540
00:35:32,189.998 --> 00:35:33,379.998
Family betrayal.
541
00:35:33,379.998 --> 00:35:37,319.998
Relatives who uses you, manipulate, or turn against you.
542
00:35:37,909.998 --> 00:35:38,719.998
Opportunists.
543
00:35:38,769.998 --> 00:35:42,559.998
People who only stay close when they can gain something from you.
544
00:35:42,979.998 --> 00:35:44,999.997
Betrayal can shake your faith in people.
545
00:35:45,99.997 --> 00:35:47,769.997
It can make you feel like you can't trust anyone.
546
00:35:47,999.998 --> 00:35:51,449.997
And if you let them in, they're going to re inhabit in your life.
547
00:35:51,689.997 --> 00:35:56,479.998
This spirit will, this spirit, if you let it, will make you cold.
548
00:35:56,579.998 --> 00:36:02,89.998
Guarded and unwilling to connect with others, right now, how to protect yourself.
549
00:36:03,389.998 --> 00:36:08,409.997
It's going to sound simple, but this protection may be a little hard for some of y'all.
550
00:36:08,709.998 --> 00:36:12,29.998
All right, one, except that not everyone is meant to stay.
551
00:36:12,349.998 --> 00:36:14,789.998
Some people are only meant for a season.
552
00:36:14,979.997 --> 00:36:15,929.998
I always say.
553
00:36:16,679.998 --> 00:36:20,969.998
People come into your life for a reason, season, or lifetime.
554
00:36:21,369.998 --> 00:36:26,79.998
You have to accept the reasons and the seasons just as much as you accept the lifetime people.
555
00:36:26,519.997 --> 00:36:30,749.998
Alright? Two, learn from betrayal, but don't let it harden you.
556
00:36:30,759.998 --> 00:36:34,429.998
Just because someone hurt you doesn't mean everyone will.
557
00:36:34,599.998 --> 00:36:38,14.898
Alright? Three, be mindful of who you let go.
558
00:36:39,384.998 --> 00:36:41,14.998
Watch patterns, not words.
559
00:36:41,364.998 --> 00:36:43,74.998
Loyalty is shown in actions.
560
00:36:43,414.998 --> 00:36:44,24.998
Trust me.
561
00:36:45,44.998 --> 00:36:46,944.998
Now, jumping on in.
562
00:36:46,944.998 --> 00:36:48,884.998
Let's talk about the spirit of death.
563
00:36:48,984.998 --> 00:36:54,94.998
One of the most serious and dangerous spirits that can attach itself to a person.
564
00:36:54,864.998 --> 00:36:58,34.997
This spirit doesn't just deal with physical death.
565
00:36:58,704.999 --> 00:37:04,509.998
It deals with The death of dreams, hopes, purpose, and life itself.
566
00:37:04,769.998 --> 00:37:06,429.998
It makes people feel like giving up.
567
00:37:06,479.998 --> 00:37:11,479.998
It convinces them that there is no future, no way out, no reason to keep going.
568
00:37:12,19.998 --> 00:37:14,979.998
This fear operates through suicidal thoughts.
569
00:37:15,169.997 --> 00:37:16,959.998
Feeling like life has no meaning.
570
00:37:17,399.998 --> 00:37:19,139.998
Despair and hopelessness.
571
00:37:19,519.998 --> 00:37:22,269.998
Losing all motivation to keep pushing forward.
572
00:37:22,619.998 --> 00:37:28,379.998
Sudden destructions, car accidents, freak accidents, unexpected tragedies happening often.
573
00:37:28,979.997 --> 00:37:30,739.998
Darkness and isolation.
574
00:37:31,29.998 --> 00:37:35,239.998
Being drawn to things that are lifeless, heavy, or destructive.
575
00:37:35,789.997 --> 00:37:40,99.998
This spirit is serious because it preys on people in their lowest moment.
576
00:37:40,524.998 --> 00:37:43,274.998
It whispers that life isn't worth living.
577
00:37:43,474.998 --> 00:37:48,884.998
It convinces people that there is no hope, no second chance, no way out of their pain.
578
00:37:49,214.998 --> 00:37:55,134.997
If this period has been attacking you, I need you to know this, okay? You are needed.
579
00:37:55,954.997 --> 00:37:57,114.997
You are valued.
580
00:37:57,374.998 --> 00:37:58,664.997
You have a future.
581
00:37:58,984.998 --> 00:38:01,164.998
Your life is worth living.
582
00:38:01,794.998 --> 00:38:02,634.998
Hear me.
583
00:38:02,834.998 --> 00:38:04,544.998
And I'm dead ass with you right now.
584
00:38:04,584.998 --> 00:38:09,124.998
And this is if you feel this spirit is connecting with you in the way I just spoke about it.
585
00:38:09,404.998 --> 00:38:11,354.998
I'm going to say it again.
586
00:38:11,634.998 --> 00:38:12,664.998
You are needed.
587
00:38:12,894.998 --> 00:38:13,964.998
You are valued.
588
00:38:14,194.998 --> 00:38:15,254.998
You have a future.
589
00:38:15,274.998 --> 00:38:17,454.998
And your life is worth living.
590
00:38:17,674.998 --> 00:38:19,334.998
Don't believe the fucking lies.
591
00:38:19,704.998 --> 00:38:20,934.998
I've never lied to you.
592
00:38:21,154.998 --> 00:38:27,484.998
I tell you a story, but I won't tell you a lie, okay? I'm sorry if that came off aggressive, but it needs to be.
593
00:38:28,154.998 --> 00:38:33,314.997
Now, how do you protect yourself from the spirit? Speak life over yourself.
594
00:38:33,314.998 --> 00:38:36,684.997
I'm gonna reiterate this as many times as I need to.
595
00:38:37,14.998 --> 00:38:39,214.998
The spirit of death thrives on negativity.
596
00:38:39,514.998 --> 00:38:42,274.998
Fight it with words of power.
597
00:38:42,374.998 --> 00:38:44,974.998
Okay? Look in the mirror if you need to.
598
00:38:45,54.998 --> 00:38:46,204.998
I am love.
599
00:38:46,294.998 --> 00:38:47,314.998
I am light.
600
00:38:47,394.997 --> 00:38:48,514.998
I am worthy.
601
00:38:48,554.997 --> 00:38:49,514.998
I am needed.
602
00:38:49,574.998 --> 00:38:51,604.998
Okay? I need you to understand that.
603
00:38:52,14.998 --> 00:38:53,474.998
Seek support.
604
00:38:53,514.998 --> 00:38:54,364.998
That's number two.
605
00:38:54,374.997 --> 00:38:55,804.9975
Don't suffer in silence.
606
00:38:55,804.9975 --> 00:38:57,314.997
Talk to somebody who helps.
607
00:38:57,574.997 --> 00:39:00,764.998
I'm big on you reaching out when you need to.
608
00:39:00,784.998 --> 00:39:02,664.998
I've discovered, I'm not a person meant to suffer.
609
00:39:03,104.998 --> 00:39:04,674.997
My friends will tell you, There's something going on.
610
00:39:04,675.097 --> 00:39:16,929.998
Ah! I hit my wrist! This happened! Look, surround yourself with people who you love, and again, if you don't have any support system, you can jump in my DMs.
611
00:39:17,864.998 --> 00:39:19,754.998
Three, reject the lies.
612
00:39:19,784.998 --> 00:39:21,194.998
This is one of the most important ones.
613
00:39:21,224.998 --> 00:39:25,974.998
No matter how bad it feels, this moment is not the end of your story.
614
00:39:26,134.998 --> 00:39:29,854.998
Because believe it or not, this too shall pass.
615
00:39:30,114.998 --> 00:39:34,964.998
Okay? Just like good times don't last always, bad times don't last always.
616
00:39:34,974.997 --> 00:39:36,984.998
Baby, life is about the ebb and flows.
617
00:39:37,24.998 --> 00:39:37,824.998
That's what make it.
618
00:39:38,84.998 --> 00:39:39,24.998
It's exciting.
619
00:39:39,314.998 --> 00:39:39,664.998
All right.
620
00:39:39,664.998 --> 00:39:44,14.998
So again, no matter how bad it feels, no, this ain't the end of your story.
621
00:39:44,24.998 --> 00:39:45,84.998
This is a chapter.
622
00:39:45,104.998 --> 00:39:47,664.997
This is what's giving your story spice actually.
623
00:39:47,754.998 --> 00:39:48,754.997
I need you to know that.
624
00:39:48,754.998 --> 00:39:51,414.998
So please take that spirit seriously.
625
00:39:52,24.998 --> 00:39:52,444.998
All right.
626
00:39:52,454.998 --> 00:39:54,554.998
Jump into spirit 19.
627
00:39:55,794.998 --> 00:39:58,394.998
This is the spirit of false accusation.
628
00:39:59,524.998 --> 00:40:05,24.998
This is a spirit that attacks your reputation, causes misunderstanding and turn people against each other.
629
00:40:05,424.998 --> 00:40:08,844.998
This spirit operates through lies and rumors.
630
00:40:09,574.998 --> 00:40:28,744.998
People spreading false stories about you, being blamed for things you didn't do, consistently being misunderstood or scapegoated, twisted narratives, the truth being manipulated to make you look bad, betrayal through gossip, people you trust turning against you based on lies.
631
00:40:29,189.998 --> 00:40:35,919.998
This spirit is dangerous because it can ruin your name, damage your relationship, and isolate you from people who once supported you.
632
00:40:36,199.998 --> 00:40:38,799.998
It makes others see you in a distorted light.
633
00:40:39,69.997 --> 00:40:41,859.998
And sometimes, you don't even know where the rumor started.
634
00:40:41,869.998 --> 00:40:43,639.998
You just feel the weight of them.
635
00:40:44,209.998 --> 00:40:45,469.998
How to protect yourself.
636
00:40:46,214.998 --> 00:40:47,184.998
Stand in truth.
637
00:40:47,354.998 --> 00:40:49,94.998
Lies can only last for so long.
638
00:40:49,404.998 --> 00:40:52,404.998
The truth always comes out in the end.
639
00:40:52,414.998 --> 00:40:56,394.997
I used to, I have a friend that told me, she said, Lies run on short legs.
640
00:40:57,229.998 --> 00:41:00,959.998
Two, don't waste energy defending yourself to those who committed to understanding you.
641
00:41:00,989.998 --> 00:41:07,969.998
That one is the most important one, don't waste energy on defending yourself to those whom is committed to misunderstanding you.
642
00:41:07,979.998 --> 00:41:09,869.998
The right people will see through the lies.
643
00:41:10,309.997 --> 00:41:11,429.998
Three, stay focused.
644
00:41:11,679.997 --> 00:41:15,639.997
The spirit of false accusation wants you to be distracted by drama.
645
00:41:15,909.998 --> 00:41:17,99.998
Don't feed into it.
646
00:41:17,884.998 --> 00:41:20,594.998
Now guys, thank you for following me this long.
647
00:41:20,604.998 --> 00:41:22,154.998
We are on the last spirit.
648
00:41:22,404.998 --> 00:41:23,144.998
Stay with me.
649
00:41:23,144.998 --> 00:41:26,164.998
I told you this podcast was going to be a little longer than the other ones.
650
00:41:26,244.998 --> 00:41:28,964.998
I'm seeing that it's maybe quite longer than the other ones.
651
00:41:29,14.997 --> 00:41:34,824.997
Maybe we're going on probably a good 20 minutes longer than my previous podcast, but we're going to continue.
652
00:41:34,824.997 --> 00:41:35,834.998
We're going to finish this.
653
00:41:36,194.998 --> 00:41:36,574.997
All right.
654
00:41:37,224.997 --> 00:41:41,594.998
The last spirit I'm going to talk about is, the spirit of division.
655
00:41:42,104.998 --> 00:41:47,444.998
That's the spirit that destroys relationships, friendships, families, and even entire communities.
656
00:41:47,574.998 --> 00:41:54,454.998
We're kind of seeing the spirit, and I would say even countries, we're seeing the spirit of division happen now with this political climate.
657
00:41:54,804.998 --> 00:41:58,164.997
Alright, this spirit works by turning people against each other.
658
00:41:58,174.998 --> 00:42:02,554.998
It thrives on chaos, misunderstanding, and broken connections.
659
00:42:02,984.998 --> 00:42:22,964.898
This spirit operates through gossip and backbiting, people spreading negativity to cause division, jealousy and envy, creating unnecessary competition between people, broken relationships, family members, close friends or business partners turning against each other, miscommunication, small misunderstandings turning into a fight.
660
00:42:22,964.998 --> 00:42:24,674.998
Full blown conflicts.
661
00:42:25,14.998 --> 00:42:28,344.998
This spirit loves to tear down what was meant to be strong.
662
00:42:28,674.998 --> 00:42:32,654.997
It works over time and families breaking generations apart.
663
00:42:32,814.998 --> 00:42:37,404.998
It's the reasons why people who once loved each other now move like enemies.
664
00:42:37,604.997 --> 00:42:40,514.997
And the worst part, it often works in secret.
665
00:42:40,544.998 --> 00:42:45,104.998
You don't even realize the vision is happening until the damage is already done.
666
00:42:45,414.998 --> 00:42:47,944.998
So here's how we're going to protect ourselves.
667
00:42:48,784.998 --> 00:42:49,204.998
1.
668
00:42:49,484.998 --> 00:42:51,564.998
Recognize when division is being planted.
669
00:42:51,574.998 --> 00:42:55,4.998
If someone is always bringing negativity, question their motives.
670
00:42:55,264.998 --> 00:42:55,684.998
2.
671
00:42:55,924.998 --> 00:42:57,644.998
Communicate clearly.
672
00:42:57,964.998 --> 00:43:02,734.998
A lot of division happens because it's a simple misunderstanding.
673
00:43:03,54.998 --> 00:43:03,544.998
3.
674
00:43:03,654.997 --> 00:43:05,334.997
Be mindful of who you trust.
675
00:43:05,394.998 --> 00:43:09,824.998
Not everyone that brings you news has good intention.
676
00:43:10,64.998 --> 00:43:13,249.898
So always question the person that is bringing you the bone.
677
00:43:13,459.998 --> 00:43:24,429.998
All right, now, whew, baby, now we've talked about these 20 spirits, how they move through others, how they can show up in your life and how to protect yourself from them.
678
00:43:24,779.998 --> 00:43:28,39.998
But now I need to ask you the hardest questions of all.
679
00:43:28,109.998 --> 00:43:31,729.997
Okay, so don't be mad friend, but I'm about to ask you a hard question.
680
00:43:33,199.998 --> 00:43:37,749.998
Are you carrying one of these spirits? It's easy to point fingers at others.
681
00:43:37,809.998 --> 00:43:40,249.998
It's easy to say, that's them, not me.
682
00:43:40,259.998 --> 00:43:44,739.998
But the truth is, we all have moments where we allow these spirits to operate in our lives.
683
00:43:44,819.998 --> 00:43:45,619.997
And that's facts.
684
00:43:45,949.998 --> 00:43:47,459.998
So let's do a self check.
685
00:43:47,809.998 --> 00:44:16,719.998
Have you ever spread gossip that divided people? Have you ever let fear hold you back from your own destiny? Have you ever manipulated the situation to work in your favor? Have you ever held unforgiveness, letting it, like, have you ever held onto unforgiveness, letting it harden in your heart? Have you ever let jealousy poison your relationship? The hardest thing to do is to be honest with yourself, but real change starts when we recognize what needs to go in us.
686
00:44:17,189.998 --> 00:44:22,849.999
If you've been carrying any of these spirits, this is your wake up call, you don't have to stay in that energy.
687
00:44:22,849.999 --> 00:44:24,969.999
You don't have to keep repeating these cycles.
688
00:44:24,969.999 --> 00:44:30,399.999
You can break free, but you have to be willing to do the work.
689
00:44:31,9.999 --> 00:44:35,299.999
Now, how do you protect yourself again? Because we need to know and learn.
690
00:44:35,964.999 --> 00:44:38,34.999
Tips on how to avoid this.
691
00:44:38,34.999 --> 00:44:43,754.999
I know I went through a few for each, but I'm just about to give you guys some general tips because we're about to wrap this up.
692
00:44:43,764.999 --> 00:44:45,864.999
This podcast is getting, getting long.
693
00:44:46,644.998 --> 00:44:55,354.999
So how do you make sure these spirits don't attach to you or influence your life? One, this is, I'm going to say, this is what you need to know.
694
00:44:55,594.999 --> 00:44:56,44.999
One.
695
00:44:57,319.999 --> 00:44:58,409.999
Protect your energy.
696
00:44:58,439.999 --> 00:45:00,569.999
Be mindful of who you allow in your space.
697
00:45:00,589.999 --> 00:45:06,69.998
If someone consistently bring you negativity, manipulations, or chaos in your life it might be time to cut them out.
698
00:45:06,179.999 --> 00:45:07,129.999
I had to do that.
699
00:45:07,609.999 --> 00:45:10,59.999
Two, watch what you consume.
700
00:45:10,109.999 --> 00:45:12,89.999
And this one is equally as important.
701
00:45:12,339.998 --> 00:45:17,79.999
The things you watch, listen to, and are entertained by affects your spirit.
702
00:45:17,434.999 --> 00:45:20,294.999
Be just as selective as people in your life.
703
00:45:20,484.999 --> 00:45:24,64.999
Be selective, about the things that you are consuming.
704
00:45:24,434.999 --> 00:45:28,454.999
Music, movies, social media, conversations, everything carry energies.
705
00:45:28,484.999 --> 00:45:30,564.999
Pay attention to what's feeding your soul.
706
00:45:31,319.999 --> 00:45:31,759.999
3.
707
00:45:31,769.999 --> 00:45:40,149.998
Strengthen your spirit by prayer, meditation, fasting, self awareness, whatever your spiritual practice is.
708
00:45:40,179.999 --> 00:45:41,529.999
Make it consistent.
709
00:45:42,79.998 --> 00:45:44,419.999
A strong spirit is hard to manipulate.
710
00:45:45,449.999 --> 00:45:45,889.999
4.
711
00:45:46,109.999 --> 00:45:47,649.999
Cut off toxic connections.
712
00:45:47,709.998 --> 00:45:53,390.0418572
If someone present in your life feels draining, chaotic, or manipulative, trust that feeling.
713
00:45:53,390.0418572 --> 00:45:57,192.4132857
Not everyone is meant to go where you're going.
714
00:45:57,192.4132857 --> 00:45:57,614.899
5.
715
00:45:58,944.999 --> 00:46:00,84.999
Stay in alignment.
716
00:46:00,574.999 --> 00:46:04,414.999
When you walk in your purpose, certain spirits can't even reach you.
717
00:46:04,714.999 --> 00:46:08,474.998
Stay focused on your growth, your healing, and your elevation.
718
00:46:09,254.998 --> 00:46:12,614.999
Listen, you don't have to let these spirits dictate your life.
719
00:46:12,934.999 --> 00:46:16,144.998
You don't have to let them live in or around you.
720
00:46:16,614.998 --> 00:46:21,554.999
Pay attention, protect your energy, and move with wisdom.
721
00:46:22,604.999 --> 00:46:28,24.999
You don't have to let these spirits dictate anything around you, okay? So, I think that's important.
722
00:46:29,279.999 --> 00:47:03,129.999
Now this is a long episode guys, I didn't expect it to be this long But Yeah, so we're just gonna I'm just gonna feel like I'm we're gonna have to come to the end of this All right, so I want to say thank you for listening to me this far because this is wild Um, this is been an interesting episode, but I felt like now and going forward that is more important for us to all know what type of energies we're dealing with in this world.
723
00:47:03,179.999 --> 00:47:07,999.998
And I think I hope I was able to point you.
724
00:47:08,474.999 --> 00:47:17,64.999
In some type of direction and give you clarity to energies that may be happening in your own life or you see happening around people in your life.
725
00:47:17,64.999 --> 00:47:22,234.9985
So you're able to protect yourself and stay aware and stay clear of any of this.
726
00:47:22,234.9985 --> 00:47:22,494.998
Okay.
727
00:47:23,894.999 --> 00:47:57,24.999
Yeah, so with that being said again, thank you guys for listening to me I know this episode was long if you listen to this episode straight through you are the real g you are the real rockstar Thank you And yeah, i'm going to just sign off because I said just about as much as I I could say So again, this has been the hood debutant Remember, take care of yourself, love yourself, be your own best friend, and most importantly, protect yourself.
728
00:47:57,64.999 --> 00:48:01,284.999
I love you, and I will see you next week, friend.
729
00:48:01,584.998 --> 00:48:02,874.999
I'm signing off.
730
00:48:03,84.999 --> 00:48:03,804.999
Peace.