Finding the Right Support:
How to Get Help After Betrayal and Addiction
In this episode of the Human Intimacy Podcast, Dr. Kevin Skinner and MaryAnn Michaelis discuss the crucial topic of seeking help after experiencing sexual betrayal, addiction, or trauma. They explore the different types of support available—family, friends, support groups, sponsors, therapy, and coaching—highlighting the importance of finding the right kind of help for each individual’s healing journey.
Dr. Skinner shares research on the effectiveness of various support systems, emphasizing that meaningful support significantly improves recovery outcomes. MaryAnn adds insights on the power of connection in healing and why structured support, such as therapy and specialized groups, can be more effective than informal conversations with friends and family. They also discuss the growing role of coaching and the key differences between coaching and therapy, cautioning listeners to seek professional support for trauma-related issues.
Additionally, they introduce the upcoming Human Intimacy Conference, featuring over 20 experts with a collective 400 years of experience in helping individuals and couples heal from betrayal and relationship challenges. The episode concludes with an invitation to explore available resources, including Dr. Skinner’s online support groups, courses, and the Human Intimacy Conference.
Resources Mentioned:
1. Support Groups & Recovery Programs: - 12-Step Groups (S-Anon, SA, SAA, SLAA, etc.) - CPTT betrayal trauma through IITAP - APSATS (Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists) - NAMI (National Alliance on Mental Illness) for general mental health support
2. Professional Help: - Certified Sex Addiction Therapists (CSATs) - Trauma-focused Therapists (EMDR, ART, Somatic Therapy) - Finding a specialized therapist via humanintimacy.com
3. Educational Resources & Online Support: - *Treating Trauma from Sexual Betrayal* by Dr. Kevin Skinner - *Help Her Heal* by Carol Juergensen Sheets - Dr. Skinner’s online courses and support groups (humanintimacy.com/supportgroup) - The 100-Day Course: *100 Days to Healing from Sexual Betrayal* - The 100-Day Course for Partners Who Acted Out Sexually
4. The Human Intimacy Conference (March 2025): - Pre- and post-conference expert interviews - Live and recorded sessions from leading experts - Free access to the 100-Day Healing Courses for registrants - Registration at humanintimacy.com
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This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating the complexities of healing from betrayal or addiction. It provides valuable guidance on choosing the right support system and highlights the importance of surrounding oneself with trusted, informed voices.
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