In this practical and insightful episode, attorney Rhett Burney returns to share the top 10 things he wishes every client knew before walking into a courtroom. Rhett sheds light on the biggest misconceptions about legal proceedings, including how long cases take, why costs add up, how opposing parties affect the timeline, and what really happens when emotions run high.
From the unpredictable nature of judges’ decisions to the critical importance of following court orders and watching your behavior, this episode delivers honest advice for anyone navigating a legal case, especially in family or civil court. Whether you're about to file or already in the thick of litigation, Rhett’s tips will help you stay grounded, strategic, and focused on what really matters.
Key Timestamps:- 00:06 – Introduction to the episode
- 00:45 – Why court cases take longer than expected
- 01:34 – How discovery, experts, and mediation extend timelines
- 02:23 – Why longer cases mean higher legal bills
- 03:42 – How the opposing party can disrupt progress
- 04:30 – Common frustrations clients direct at their own lawyers
- 05:45 – Court schedules: limited time, overwhelmed dockets
- 06:46 – Average case timelines in family and civil court
- 07:11 – Why different judges can rule differently on the same facts
- 08:32 – A true story of contradictory rulings by the same judge
- 09:02 – When going to court is a gamble—and not always the best choice
- 10:42 – The clash between emotions and legal facts
- 12:05 – The consequences of ignoring court orders
- 12:46 – How your words and actions are always being watched
- 13:29 – The courtroom impact of poor behavior, especially in family court
- 14:24 – Why settling is often smarter than it seems
- 16:24 – Communication is key: tell your lawyer everything
- 17:05 – Lawyers aren’t mind readers—talk to them early and often
Welcome back to Off the Record, the legal podcast that breaks down South Carolina law so you can make smarter decisions about your future. Hosted by attorney Rhett Burney, the show draws on his years of experience helping clients across South Carolina with family law, estate planning, and civil litigation. Each episode delivers clear, practical guidance to help you navigate life’s toughest legal challenges with confidence.
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