Before You Divorce: Essential Things to Know

Episode Summary: In this episode of Counsel and Community, Brett and Sarah from Nelson Law Group explore the critical factors to consider before deciding to divorce. They discuss emotional readiness, financial implications, the lasting impact on children, and the complexities of co-parenting after separation. The conversation also highlights how new relationships affect family dynamics, why communication often becomes harder post-divorce, and the importance of reflecting on personal behavior before making life-changing decisions. Sarah closes with a mindful moment of showing appreciation for your partner to strengthen your relationship before it reaches a breaking point.

 

Key Timestamps: 00:00 – Show introduction 00:42 – Emotional considerations before deciding to divorce 02:36 – Financial realities and the true cost of divorce 04:10 – Co-parenting challenges and increased communication needs 07:28 – How adversarial divorce impacts trust and communication 09:35 – The role of new partners and their influence on children 12:45 – When staying together is more harmful than separating 15:22 – Breaking generational cycles of dysfunction 17:40 – Mindful moment: Practical ways to appreciate your partner

 

About the Show: Counsel and Community combines practical legal guidance with real-life wisdom to help individuals navigate complex family and financial challenges. Each episode offers actionable insights to support healthier relationships, better decision-making, and long-term personal growth.