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December 26, 2025 13 mins

Episode Summary:

In this practical episode, Alix Claps debunks myths about “default” parenting plans and shares strategies for creating flexible, child-focused schedules. The discussion covers common conflict triggers, age-appropriate adjustments, and tools to maintain cooperation without constant court visits.

Key Timestamps:

00:01 - Show Introduction

00:30 - Guest Introduction

00:50 - No Default Parenting Plan Exists

01:45 - Shifting to Long-Term Cooperation

03:00 - Common Post-Plan Conflict Points

04:15 - Balancing Flexibility and Structure

05:00 - Small Adjustments Reducing Conflict

06:30 - Co-Parenting Apps and Communication

07:45 - Handling Unexpected Changes

08:30 - Introducing New Partners

09:45 - Avoiding “Play It by Ear” Schedules

10:30 - De-Escalating Rising Tensions

11:15 - Overlooked Detail to Reduce Stress

12:00 - Child’s Voice in NJ Court

13:00 - Closing Remarks

About the Show:

"For Better or for Court: Family Law in New Jersey" is a podcast that demystifies divorce, custody, and support issues across the state. Alix Claps provides practical insights and experienced guidance to help families navigate changing circumstances with clarity and confidence.

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