If you’ve ever told yourself, “I deserve this drink after a long day,” you’re not alone. In this episode of No More Wasted Days, Sara and Heather dive into the Mom/Caregiver Drinking Trap—why so many caregivers turn to alcohol to unwind, why it doesn’t actually help, and how to break free from the cycle. Whether you’re a parent, a caregiver, or in a helping profession, this episode will help you rethink self-care and create healthier ways to recharge.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
- How caregiving roles (as a parent, teacher, nurse, etc.) contribute to stress and burnout.
- The connection between mom guilt, perfectionism, and drinking.
- Why alcohol actually makes parenting (and life) harder.
- The Rebound Effect—how alcohol increases anxiety rather than relieving it.
- Four powerful strategies to replace alcohol with real self-care.
Key Takeaways:
- Redefine Self-Care – Alcohol isn’t self-care. Real self-care means rest, connection, creativity, and movement.
- Let Go of Perfectionism – “Good enough” is enough.
- Find Community – You don’t have to navigate this alone—surround yourself with like-minded support.
- Create a New End-of-Day Ritual – Replace the “wine o’clock” habit with something that actually helps you unwind.
Call to Action:
Your next step: Reflect on how your parenting or caregiving would feel different without alcohol. If you’re looking for support, check out the Daymakers Community or 1-on-1 coaching with Heather to help guide you on your alcohol-free journey
Resources Mentioned:
- Daymakers Community: Weekly coaching calls, private messaging threads, and a supportive community. Learn more here.
- Heather’s 1-on-1 Coaching: Tailored support to help you navigate your alcohol-free life.
If this episode resonated with you, share it with a fellow caregiver and leave a comment on Spotify or YouTube. Let’s break free from the guilt trap together! 💛
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Looking for support on your alcohol free journey? Consider joining us in the Day Makers Community. CLICK HERE for all the details. Want some 1-on-1 support on your alcohol free journey? Work with Heather as your alcohol free coach. CLICK HERE to start working with Heather today.
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