In this episode Bilal and Shaeeda stars of 90 Day Fiancé and friends to the room, open up about what it really takes to create balance in modern relationships. From navigating gender roles and cultural expectations to elevating each other in marriage and family life, they share how mutual support and understanding can transform a partnership.
Grounded in their Islamic faith, Bilal and Shaeeda discuss what Islam teaches about the structure of marriage and how couples can find harmony between leadership, love, and respect. Bilal offers real advice to young brothers on how a man can lead and support his family—even when his wife earns more, while Shaeeda reflects on her journey to motherhood after 35 and the joys of blending family life with her creative pursuits.
Together, they explore the power of shared values, humor, and teamwork in overcoming challenges, while touching on how social media and cultural identity shape modern love. Whether you’re inspired by faith, passionate about relationships, or simply seeking better balance in your own life, this conversation is a refreshing and insightful listen.
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CHAPTERS: 01:08 - Intro
01:59 - Pregnancy After
35 03:33 - DMing Your Husband
06:25 - Being a Mom After
40 07:11 - Blending Families
08:17 - Gender Roles in Relationships
09:55 - Special Guest
18:33 - Money Management
24:33 - Money and Women
27:10 - Balancing Life and Relationships
32:36 - Who Comes Up with The Social Content
36:21 - Update on TV Show Love InshaAllah
40:07 - What’s Next 42:16 - Final Words
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