In this episode, Dr. David Zierk explores the profound impact that empathy—and its absence—has on leadership, teamwork, and personal relationships. Introducing the novel concept of "dysempathy," Dr. Zierk explains how missed empathetic opportunities can harm connections and how recognizing and addressing these moments can dramatically improve interactions. Discover where you fall on the empathy spectrum and learn practical strategies to move from disconnect to deep connection, strengthening your relational intelligence in the process.
Episode Highlights: ➔
(02:13) "Defining Empathy and Introducing Dysempathy" Understanding empathy as real-time relational responsiveness and identifying its opposite, dysempathy.
➔ (04:36) "Empaths vs. Empathy": Exploring differences between highly sensitive empaths and effective empathy in everyday leadership and relationships.
➔ (06:34) "Repairing Dysempathy Moments" Actionable strategies for addressing missed empathetic opportunities and rebuilding connections.
➔ (09:02) "Understanding Neuro-Atypicals" Insights into why some individuals struggle more frequently with empathy and how leaders can effectively engage them.
➔ (11:21) "The Danger of Apathy": Exploring apathy’s destructive impact on teams and relationships and how leaders can counteract this damaging mindset.
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About Dr. David Zierk:
With a substantive background in psychological work with individuals and teams, Dr. Zierk enjoys bringing his experience to the stage and to corporate clients by providing them with the tools and language necessary for effective outcomes. Most recently, he’s published a book called Mind Rules: Who’s In Control—You or Your Mind?
Dr. Zierk is a graduate of the University of Denver with a Master of Arts and Doctorate in Clinical Psychology. He earned his Master of Arts in Counseling Psychology at the University of Colorado. He’s affiliated with the American Psychological Association, American Psychotherapy Association, Association of Family and Conciliation Courts, and National Academy of Neuropsychology.
He currently resides in Denver, Colorado with his wife and has three children. When he’s not on stage or working with a team, David loves to cycle in the mountains with his wife, Carol.
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