In Episode 9, "Relationship Intelligence: Turning Conflict into Connection," Dr. David Zierk introduces Relationship Intelligence (r.I.Q.), a powerful framework designed to transform workplace interactions and personal relationships. Learn how to recognize unmet needs beneath conflict and replace outdated relational instincts with mutuality, relatability, adaptability, and accountability. Discover practical strategies to foster deep connections, enhance communication, and cultivate an environment where teams thrive—not just comply. Join Dr. Zierk to rethink conflict and build meaningful, lasting relationships.
Episode Highlights:
➔ (04:01) "Understanding the Rethink Moment" Exploring the deeper needs beneath conflicts and how relationship intelligence can address them.
➔ (05:24) "Introducing Relationship Intelligence (r.I.Q.)" Dr. Zierk explains how r.I.Q. helps people effectively turn conflict into meaningful connections.
➔ (13:24) "The Five Primary Attachment Needs" Identifying attention, affection, acknowledgement, approval, and applause as essential human needs that underlie conflict.
➔ (18:40) "Four Essential Principles of R.I.Q." Unpacking mutuality, relatability, adaptability, and accountability as core practices for navigating relational challenges.
➔ (28:13) "Practical Application for Leaders" Real-world scenarios illustrating how r.I.Q. transforms workplace interactions from compliance to committed engagement.
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About Dr. David Zierk:
With a substantive background in psychological work with individuals and teams, Dr. Zierk enjoys bringing his experience to the stage and corporate clients by providing them with the tools and language necessary for effective outcomes. Most recently, he’s published a book called Mind Rules: Who’s In Control—You or Your Mind?
Dr. Zierk is a graduate of the University of Denver with a Master of Arts and Doctorate in Clinical Psychology. He earned his Master of Arts in Counseling Psychology at the University of Colorado. He’s affiliated with the American Psychological Association, American Psychotherapy Association, Association of Family and Conciliation Courts, and National Academy of Neuropsychology.
He currently resides in Denver, Colorado, with his wife and has three children. When he’s not on stage or working with a team, David loves to cycle in the mountains with his wife, Carol.
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