The Self-Hype Podcast

I know you're probably hurting, worried and hard to envision a life after your partner. This is the #1 issue I deal with when coaching clients and I have built a system of hard emotional, brain shifting action and roadmapping to not only have an exciting life but an abundant one. I share with you the coaching formula I give all my paid clients for the last 5-years that transform their lives to you - completely free. W...

This week I sit down with Sarah Welch, a self-experimenting coach and content creator who helps people reconnect with their most authentic selves. She guides individuals through a journey of self-discovery, encouraging them to challenge limiting beliefs, explore new experiences, and embrace their complexity. With a multi-passionate approach, she inspires people to create peace with their past, find joy in the present, and mindfully...

The one trap I notice with my clients is wanting to find men that are "Projects". Fall for the beginning stages of how they make them feel and then on a never ending question of upgrading the guy in hope they can be more where it really just crashes and burns. Want to save time and teats? Sick of why you keep doing it and want to learn how to stop? We dive into ALL that and more boo boo! Can't wait for you to listen. 

This week I sit down Alexia Del Valle is a Puerto Rican content creator who keeps it real with funny, relatable takes on dating, culture, and everyday life. She’s all about blending humor with storytelling and making her skits both entertaining and authentic. We talk about her early days in creating content, navigating dating as your most authentic and successful self. While sharing some tips in taking up space and pa...

Black cat energy? Sprinkle sprinkle? Are all these online trends of advice really something you should apply to your life? Eli breaks down how to properly navigate dating advice online while giving practical tips and tricks to own who you are without the BS. 

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This week on the podcast, Eli breaks down the age old ratchet question of... why do men move on so quickly after the breakup? Where those actions come from on a psychological level, other common traits men do after heartbreak and more. All to give you the tools and reassurance that this is a confirmation to get started on your healing era, right now!

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This week Eli sits down with second-generation licensed acupuncturist, Chinese medicine herbalist, and licensed physical therapist, Dr. Eileen Li. With over a decade of experience in a multitude of personal health and wellness she sits down with us and talks her story of social media fame, practical steps to take for your health and how to conquer anxiety, gut health and so much more! 

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We are going LIVE! That is right. This week Eli answers real peoples, real questions, all in real time. Where he goes on answers questions on cheaters, avoidant attached men and how to re-gain self-respect after being disrespected and taken advantage of. 

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This week I sit down Ashley from Her Money Mastery who fought her way as a broke single teen mother to a 6-figure net worth through the use of lifestyle-based budgeting, and now has helped thousands of other women do the same. We talk about the importance of finances, empowerment with your money, how to get started in investing and so much more! 

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This week on the podcast, Eli breaks down the questions to ask in the early stages of dating. Why emotional self-awareness and accountability is so crucial and how not to get caught up in a someone's performative state to win you over. All so you know if he's Mr. Right. 

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This week I talk with former multi-platinum artists manager, creative werido who has helped thousands by his mental models and frameworks to help leverage divergent thinking and maximise potential. We breakdown burnout, how to be your most authentic version of you and how to take chances in life based on curiosity vs. criticism to yourself. 

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This week Eli shares about his healing era and what lessons he learned along the way that helped him fall in love with the journey. From how to take accountability, set new boundaries and create intentional memories. He walks you through how to turn your solitude into a home to building a better sense of self and confidence. 

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Eli reflects on his all things avoidant attachment. From early stages of dating, the relationship and more. Using his own personal experiences and examples to hold you accountable in navigating love w/ an avoidant man. 

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This week I sit down with renowned relationship coach and matchmaker Aleeza Ben Shalom, who shot to international fame as the star of Netflix’s Jewish Matchmaking. She is also the host of the “Matchmaker, Matchmaker” podcast. To date, she has successfully helped over 200 people make their way down the aisle, and has trained over 350 matchmakers and coaches. We talk about her latest book, hard truths to dating and so m...

This week I sit down with attachment and relationship coach Cybele Safadi where we dive into all things attachment, love and her story. We break down her style of content  on dissecting pop culture and how it reflect to our every day lives while giving us valuable perspective on healing ourselves and navigating the dating game in the digital era.

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It is our first episode of 2025 and we are starting off strong with what boundaries and non-negotiables to bring into the new year for transforming your life! Eli goes into some hard truth bombs and realizations to how to hold yourself accountable in the new year to create new actions in your resolutions that stick. All to make you have the most abundant 2025 ever! 

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Eli reflects on his personal healing journey and the upcoming stressors of the TikTok Ban. Eli deep dives on some hard truth bombs while using his real life examples and personal experiences as examples. He shares the fears and vulnerabilities and highlights the importance of self-awareness, emotional accountability, and shedding societal pressures to create a life of fulfillment. Eli encourages listeners to embrace t...

Eli reflects on his personal journey from being a self-proclaimed bachelor to embracing the idea of settling down and building a meaningful partnership. He shares the fears and vulnerabilities that kept him from committing in the past and highlights the importance of self-awareness, emotional accountability, and shedding societal pressures to create a life of fulfillment. Eli encourages listeners to embrace growth, fa...

In Episode 35 of "The Self-Hype Podcast," Eli Vazquez sits down with Dr. Emily Jamea, a renowned sex and relationship therapist, to explore the connection between intimacy, emotional connection, and personal growth. They discuss how sexual satisfaction evolves over time, the impact of attachment styles on intimacy, and the importance of communication and vulnerability in fostering healthy relationships. Dr. Jamea intr...