The Self-Hype Podcast
Welcome to ”The Self-Hype Podcast,” hosted by Eli Vazquez – your ultimate destination for unfiltered discussions on dating, love, personal development, and relationships. Get ready for Eli’s No-BS advice, raw talk on love, and empowering insights from expert guests in the dating and personal development sphere. Join us as Eli cuts through the noise, providing practical tips, relatable stories, and transformative wisdom to navigate the modern landscape of love and self-improvement.
Episodes
This week I sit down with attachment and relationship coach Cybele Safadi where we dive into all things attachment, love and her story. We break down her style of content on dissecting pop culture and how it reflect to our every day lives while giving us valuable perspective on healing ourselves and navigating the dating game in the digital era.
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It is our first episode of 2025 and we are starting off strong with what boundaries and non-negotiables to bring into the new year for transforming your life! Eli goes into some hard truth bombs and realizations to how to hold yourself accountable in the new year to create new actions in your resolutions that stick. All to make you have the most abundant 2025 ever!
Eli reflects on his personal healing journey and the upcoming stressors of the TikTok Ban. Eli deep dives on some hard truth bombs while using his real life examples and personal experiences as examples. He shares the fears and vulnerabilities and highlights the importance of self-awareness, emotional accountability, and shedding societal pressures to create a life of fulfillment. Eli encourages listeners to embrace t...
Eli reflects on his personal journey from being a self-proclaimed bachelor to embracing the idea of settling down and building a meaningful partnership. He shares the fears and vulnerabilities that kept him from committing in the past and highlights the importance of self-awareness, emotional accountability, and shedding societal pressures to create a life of fulfillment. Eli encourages listeners to embrace growth, fa...
In Episode 35 of "The Self-Hype Podcast," Eli Vazquez sits down with Dr. Emily Jamea, a renowned sex and relationship therapist, to explore the connection between intimacy, emotional connection, and personal growth. They discuss how sexual satisfaction evolves over time, the impact of attachment styles on intimacy, and the importance of communication and vulnerability in fostering healthy relationships. Dr. Jamea intr...
This week Eli sits down with Dr. Sarah Hensley, a social psychologist and relationship expert, to discuss attachment styles and how they influence dating dynamics. Dr. Hensley shares
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In this week's episode, Eli tackles the reasons why many people keep dating the same toxic partners and emphasizes the importance of self-accountability and personal growth in the dating process. He urges listeners to examine their patterns and the love they're used to versus the love they truly need, stressing the necessity of building a fulfilling life outside of relationships. Eli discusses how understanding one's ...
Eli welcomes Kim Guera, a writer, therapist, and entrepreneur known for her brand Badass Bonita and her advocacy in self-love and community empowerment. The episode delves into themes of self-discovery and breaking silence, with Kim sharing her personal journey of overcoming the imposed silence of her childhood through the power of writing and speaking out. She discusses her evolution from feeling bound by societal ex...
In this week's episode Eli explores the age-old question, "Can a man change?" and delivers some hard truths for listeners, particularly women who hope to see their partners transform for them. He emphasizes that true change in a man must come from within, driven by self-awareness and personal growth, rather than from external pressures or relationships. Eli shares his own experiences of evolving through introspection ...
Eli sits down with his first therapist, Maritza Palacencia, a licensed marriage and family therapist, to explore the complexities of relationships, trauma, and healing. The episode delves into the challenges of navigating triggers within partnerships, the significance of radical honesty, and the importance of therapy in fostering intimacy and growth. Eli reflects on his own therapeutic journey and how Maritza's guidan...
Eli Vasquez tackles the concept of "no contact" after a breakup, passionately arguing that it's a necessary step for proper healing rather than an option to reconsider. Eli emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries, blocking ex-partners, and focusing on self-growth to avoid the pitfalls of lingering attachments. Through personal reflections and practical advice, he encourages listeners to embrace the pain of hea...
Eli dives into the world of overachievers, perfectionists, and people pleasers, welcoming Masha Kay, a nervous system and breathwork coach, as his guest. Masha shares her personal journey from being an actuarial scientist, driven by the need to overachieve, to embracing a path of wellness coaching. She discusses how a life-changing car accident and the realization that her career was unfulfilling led her to reevaluate...
Eli discusses the phenomenon of ghosting in dating, exploring the reasons behind why people ghost and how to handle it with resilience and self-respect. He emphasizes that ghosting reflects more about the ghoster's character than the recipient's worth, advocating for self-worth and proper closure from such experiences. Eli also tackles how to move forward after being ghosted, urging listeners to see it as an opportunity to affirm t...
Eli explores the complex dynamics of returning to a previous relationship, particularly focusing on the psychological aspects of reconciliation. He discusses the common reasons men return and the emotional baggage that might accompany such decisions. Eli advises listeners on how to discern whether a returning partner genuinely seeks to amend the relationship or simply finds it a convenient option. Throughout the segment, Eli emphas...
Eli answers community questions, providing candid and insightful advice on various aspects of love, dating, and personal growth. He tackles topics ranging from how to deal with trust issues on first dates to understanding whether someone you're dating is seeing other people. Eli's responses are both humorous and profound, offering practical tips and emotional wisdom to help listeners navigate their romantic lives with confidence an...
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In Episode 24 of "The Self-Hype Podcast," Eli dives into the nuances of...
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In Episode 22 of "The Self-Hype Podcast," Eli Vasquez tackles the topic...
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