Ep 27 // Advocating Without Burnout with Dr. Destiny Huff: Navigating Public Schools, Self-Regulation, and Support as a Neurodivergent Parent

Hey Momma,

Are you heading into IEP meetings feeling like you have to fight just to be heard—and wondering how to do it without falling apart? You’re not alone.

In this week’s episode of Sensory Savvy Mama, I’m joined by Dr. Destiny Huff—mental health therapist, late-diagnosed autistic/ADHD mom, and special education consultant. Together, we unpack what it really looks like to advocate for your child and support your own nervous system in the process.

We dive into: -How nervous system regulation changes the tone of IEP meetings

-What to look for in an advocate (and red flags to avoid)

-When advocating for your child leads to discovering your own neurodivergence

-Why the system often misses what’s happening at home—and how to speak up

-What burnout really looks like for parents in the IEP process

-How to show up with clarity and confidence, even in the face of school resistance

-The three biggest takeaways for any parent navigating school-based support

Destiny shares from both sides of the table—as a therapist, a parent, and an advocate who supports families across all 50 states. Whether you're in your first IEP meeting or your fifth, this conversation will remind you that you don’t have to do it alone.

✨ You deserve to feel empowered—not exhausted—when advocating for your child.

Resources + Next Steps 📲 Connect with Dr. Destiny Huff: Website or on IG @destinyhuff_iep_advocate 🧠 Related episode: Ep 23 // Seeing the Child, Not the Data ✨ Explore The Clarity Lab → Your DIY roadmap to decoding your child’s sensory needs 💌 Flip the Switch Newsletter → weekly calm & clarity straight to your inbox

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