Episode Summary: In this eye-opening episode of The Surrogate’s Corner, surrogacy attorney James Mahan discusses one of the most important parts of the surrogacy journey—finding the right match. James breaks down the personal and legal considerations every surrogate should think about before signing a contract, how to spot red flags early, and the critical role agencies and attorneys play in protecting gestational carriers (GCs). Whether you're a first-time surrogate or a returning GC, this episode provides empowering legal insights and real-world guidance for ensuring a healthy, successful match.
Key Timestamps:
00:00 – Introduction to James Mahan & today’s topic 00:30 – Why choosing the right match is critical 01:00 – Legal and personal factors surrogates should consider 01:50 – Local vs. long-distance and international intended parents 02:30 – Language barriers and communication expectations 03:00 – Early red flags to watch for during matching 03:45 – Setting boundaries with communication and control 05:00 – The role of contracts in protecting surrogates 06:10 – What to do when the match feels wrong 07:00 – Interviewing intended parents: Why surrogates have the power 08:00 – The pressure to settle: How timing impacts decision-making 09:00 – The agency’s role in ethical and compatible matches 10:00 – Legal questions to ask early in the process 11:00 – Avoiding inflexible or controlling contracts 12:00 – Navigating high-conflict or rushed matches 13:00 – Real conflict stories and lessons learned 14:00 – The importance of early communication and disclosure 15:00 – How attorneys advocate for first-time GCs 17:00 – When to involve the agency or legal counsel for support 18:00 – Using support groups and other surrogate communities
About the Show:
The Surrogate’s Corner with James Mahan is a legal podcast designed for surrogates, donors, and intended parents navigating third-party reproduction. Hosted by experienced surrogacy attorney James Mahan, the show offers practical legal tips, red flag warnings, and compassionate guidance to help everyone involved in a surrogacy journey feel informed, protected, and empowered.
Learn more: SurrogatesCorner.com
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