When Holidays Hurt: Saying No, Setting Boundaries, and Surviving

*WARNING: This podcast mentions suicide, sexual abuse & trauma and may be triggering.

 

Episode Summary

In this heartfelt conversation, Lisa and Natasha explore the complexities of navigating the holiday season, particularly for those dealing with grief and mental health challenges. They discuss the societal pressures to appear joyful, the impact of social media on self-perception, and the importance of setting boundaries. The conversation emphasizes the need for authenticity, self-care, and the significance of meaningful connections during a time that can often feel overwhelming.

 

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Takeaways

• The holiday season can amplify feelings of grief and loss.
• It's okay to not feel joyful during the holidays.
• Social media often portrays a curated version of happiness that can be misleading.
• Setting boundaries is crucial for mental well-being during the holidays.
• Family dynamics can add pressure to conform to expectations.
• It's important to honor your feelings and not feel obligated to attend events.
• Authenticity in relationships is key; true friends will support you in tough times.
• Children remember the time spent together more than material gifts.
• You don't have to perform happiness for others' comfort.
• Self-care should be prioritized over societal expectations.

 

Chapters

00:00 Navigating the Holiday Season   02:56 The Pressure to Be Joyful   05:53 Understanding Grief and Loss   08:53 The Impact of Social Media   12:02 Setting Boundaries During the Holidays   15:05 The Reality of Family Dynamics   18:03 The Struggle of Pretending to Be Fine   20:48 Parenting Through Difficult Times   23:45 Creating Meaningful Holiday Memories   27:04 Embracing Authenticity and Presence

 

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