How to become your dog’s best friend.mp3

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Hey there, dog lover! Welcome to this episode of the Unconventional Dog Trainer. We hope you enjoy our battle tested, relationship based solutions for helping your unconventional dog shine, with your host, Luzelle Cockburn. Let's dive in.

In this episode, I'll be sharing with you the checklist, the mental checklist I go through with every dog I work with, because every dog is different. Hi, I'm Luzelle, the unconventional dog trainer, and you can find this workbook at thedogtraininglab. com. I think it's called how to become your dog's best friend. It is free so you can go grab it now. I will share the link below so you can do this and get to know your dog a whole lot better and get far better results and enjoy your dog a whole lot more. Because to have a friend you have to be a friend.

And how can you be a friend if you don't know your friend? Okay, so how I explain this to my clients is what kind of chocolate do you like? Do you like white chocolate, milk chocolate or dark chocolate? Now, I'm a dark chocolate girl And so if anybody gives me white chocolate I will feel like they don't know me at all.

And in fact, it's an insult. Why did they give me white chocolate? I should know better And so, if you think, if you want to call yourself your dog's best friend and so on and so forth, and your dog likes white chocolate, figuratively, because dogs can't eat chocolate, and you constantly give your dog dark chocolate, your dog will go, this human just is oblivious, they don't know me at all, like, why am I even bothering?

Because they obviously don't care about me. So you do need to pay attention to who your dog is, their likes and dislikes, their learning styles, their personal preferences, so that you can be your dog's best friend. All right, now that we've got that out of the way, I, one of the first things I go through is whether the dog is introverted or extroverted.

You cannot make an extrovert an introvert and you cannot make an introvert an extrovert, right? You need to understand this and Extroverts are the ones that should change. The introverts cannot change. And it's just rude for us extroverts to expect that they do. Now, in one of my jobs, I actually, this is, I'm an extrovert.

And so I went to give a workmate a hug and she was like, no, I don't like hugs. And I was like, what's wrong with you, you freak. Just give me a bloody hug, man. Um, so that was really rude of me because as an introvert, she's entitled. Not to like hugs and not everybody does like hugs. Now, I didn't actually realize this until my very first puppy Kaz German Shepherd, she didn't like hugs.

She actually didn't, she liked hanging out by your feet But she didn't really want any attention on her. She liked to observe and watch but she didn't She liked interacting, but that interaction didn't need to include touching. She tolerated it, but she didn't like it. She was never aggressive towards people, but she did become aggressive towards dogs, and that was all my fault.

But that's for a future episode on dog reactivity.

There was one person she really loved and that was somebody who didn't like dogs. Now, she didn't hate dogs She was never mean to the dogs, but she just didn't like them. She doesn't and that's Everybody is entitled not to like a dog. That is fine Um, so what happened was when she came to visit Kaz would go up to her and lick her This is like the only person Kaz was happy to see because this is the only person who when they visited didn't put any pressure on this poor dog. So this is where I learned all about introverted dogs and how to get the best out of them.

If that person decided to take on Kaz and to train her, Kaz would have been putty in her hands and they