Red Pills and Mansplaining: The Scourge of Men with Microphones

Ladies, right now we are facing a five-alarm fire. As our rights diminish and awful men become more emboldened, it's easy to become disheartened and a little frightened, especially if we have kids. But half the battle is understanding how we got here. Listen for some perspective to help you decide how to prepare and even thrive.

Two of my earliest episodes, from June 2024, were "Men with Mics-The New He-Man Women Haters Club" and "Why Women Are #TeamBear." As a newbie, the audio quality was not good (you can check that out and see how much my audio has improved, LOL), and I eventually wanted to redo them. But, since the Toxic Masculinity epidemic has only gotten worse, it was time for an overall update on the topic. Enjoy and let me know what you think in the comments!

 

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Episode Transcript

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Ladies, right now we're facing afive alarm fire.
As our rights diminish and awfulmen become more emboldened.
It's easy to become disheartenedand a little frightened,

Lynn Jordan: especially if we have kids. (00:10):
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Lynn Jordan: But half the battle is understanding how we got here. (00:12):
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Lynn Jordan: Listen for some perspective to help you decide how to prepare (00:15):
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Lynn Jordan: and even thrive. (00:18):
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Lynn Jordan: Hi, I'm the urban lady prepper. (00:21):
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Lynn Jordan: I help single moms and solo (00:23):
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Lynn Jordan: women with practical emergency (00:24):
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Lynn Jordan: preparedness. (00:26):
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Lynn Jordan: But of course all are welcome to (00:27):
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Lynn Jordan: be better prepared for whatever (00:29):
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Lynn Jordan: happens next. (00:31):
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Lynn Jordan: I'm old enough to remember the Little Rascals reruns. (00:33):
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Lynn Jordan: The boys had their little club in a treehouse called the He-Man (00:36):
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Lynn Jordan: women Hater's club. (00:39):
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Lynn Jordan: No girls were allowed, likely because girls weren't paying (00:41):
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Lynn Jordan: attention to them. (00:44):
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Lynn Jordan: Remember that this show was filmed back in the late nineteen (00:45):
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Lynn Jordan: twenties early thirties. (00:47):
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Lynn Jordan: Fast forward to twenty twenty four. (00:50):
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Lynn Jordan: Not much has changed since (00:52):
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Lynn Jordan: alfalfa pined over Darla and (00:54):
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Lynn Jordan: Spanky was begging on the Flory Dorys (00:56):
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Lynn Jordan: Except today's men have microphones, (00:58):
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Lynn Jordan: cameras and the internet. (01:00):
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Lynn Jordan: Their (01:02):
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Lynn Jordan: failures with women have led them to gross opinions that display (01:02):
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Lynn Jordan: how they would love nothing more than The Handmaid's Tale (01:05):
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Lynn Jordan: be a thing, or to have their very own Stepford Wife. Unfortunately, (01:08):
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Lynn Jordan: those dreams are coming closer to reality. There (01:12):
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Lynn Jordan: are two groups of men. The (01:16):
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Lynn Jordan: first group consists of men from (01:17):
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Lynn Jordan: wealthy families or those who, (01:19):
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Lynn Jordan: through education or specialized (01:21):
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Lynn Jordan: training, have well-paying (01:22):
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Lynn Jordan: careers. The (01:23):
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Lynn Jordan: second group is what I call middling (01:25):
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Lynn Jordan: man, a man who did not come (01:27):
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Lynn Jordan: from money, who is poorly educated, (01:28):
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Lynn Jordan: has no degree or specialized (01:30):
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Lynn Jordan: skill, and is stuck in (01:32):
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Lynn Jordan: a blue collar or low to mid white (01:33):
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Lynn Jordan: collar job with average pay. (01:35):
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Lynn Jordan: Maybe (01:37):
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Lynn Jordan: it was the same job his father had as part of the boomer generation, (01:37):
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Lynn Jordan: but it will not allow today's middling man to secure (01:40):
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Lynn Jordan: the same lifestyle. The (01:43):
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Lynn Jordan: boomers created a solid middle class due to union protections, (01:45):
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Lynn Jordan: good salaries and lower living costs. This (01:49):
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Lynn Jordan: doesn't exist now. That (01:51):
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Lynn Jordan: lever pulling job in a factory will not allow the average (01:53):
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Lynn Jordan: guy to raise a family without the wife having to work. If (01:55):
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Lynn Jordan: you're fortunate enough to have a wife, she's working. She (01:59):
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Lynn Jordan: may still make less because women (02:02):
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Lynn Jordan: still tend to make less than (02:03):
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Lynn Jordan: men, even if doing the same job. (02:05):
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Lynn Jordan: But (02:07):
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Lynn Jordan: you both have to work to achieve the same things. Our (02:07):
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Lynn Jordan: parents and grandparents did and still find it nearly impossible (02:10):
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Lynn Jordan: to get ahead, especially if you have children. However, (02:14):
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Lynn Jordan: these days women have advanced, earning more money and having (02:17):
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Lynn Jordan: more resources than ever. No (02:21):
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Lynn Jordan: longer constrained by most societal (02:23):
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Lynn Jordan: and financial roadblocks, (02:25):
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Lynn Jordan: we can now live the life (02:26):
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Lynn Jordan: we want without a man who expects (02:27):
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Lynn Jordan: his wife or partner to work (02:29):
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Lynn Jordan: full time, do all the housework, (02:31):
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Lynn Jordan: cook, take care of the (02:33):
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Lynn Jordan: kids, and cater to him in all (02:34):
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Lynn Jordan: ways. On (02:36):
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Lynn Jordan: top of paying fifty percent of (02:36):
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Lynn Jordan: the house expenses for the displeasure. (02:38):
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Lynn Jordan: Needless (02:41):
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Lynn Jordan: to say, many women are realizing (02:42):
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Lynn Jordan: that deal sucks and increasingly (02:43):
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Lynn Jordan: want nothing to do with (02:45):
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Lynn Jordan: it. It's (02:46):
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Lynn Jordan: giving us something that the (02:47):
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Lynn Jordan: Middling Man wishes we didn't (02:48):
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Lynn Jordan: have. And (02:49):
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Lynn Jordan: that's choices. And (02:50):
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Lynn Jordan: these men are livid because fewer women are choosing them. We (02:52):
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Lynn Jordan: don't have to settle for them now. They (02:55):
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Lynn Jordan: don't like it. And (02:57):
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Lynn Jordan: they're letting the whole world know, while at the same time (02:58):
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Lynn Jordan: poisoning young men, boys and impressionable young women, hoping (03:01):
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Lynn Jordan: that the next generation will return to what life was like (03:05):
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Lynn Jordan: in the nineteen fifties when men ruled everything, including (03:07):
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Lynn Jordan: their women. Aside (03:11):
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Lynn Jordan: from the fact that the nineteen fifties in general gives (03:13):
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Lynn Jordan: me the ick. There's (03:15):
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Lynn Jordan: a problem with this pining for that fifties life where (03:16):
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Lynn Jordan: men work, and women stayed home with the kids while he slept (03:19):
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Lynn Jordan: with other women and may have slapped her around without repercussion (03:22):
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Lynn Jordan: when even if she ran the budget, she was on a short (03:26):
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Lynn Jordan: leash and there was no money for her unless it involved staying (03:28):
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Lynn Jordan: pretty for him. Not (03:31):
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Lynn Jordan: only is there no going back to (03:33):
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Lynn Jordan: that life, the average man, these (03:34):
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Lynn Jordan: middling men can't afford it (03:36):
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Lynn Jordan: now. These (03:39):
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Lynn Jordan: men should be angry. They (03:40):
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Lynn Jordan: should be mad at the powers that be who made life as a middle (03:41):
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Lynn Jordan: class person back then. Impossible (03:44):
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Lynn Jordan: to achieve now. But (03:45):
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Lynn Jordan: they kept voting for people who (03:47):
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Lynn Jordan: shipped their barely enough to (03:49):
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Lynn Jordan: survive jobs to another country (03:50):
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Lynn Jordan: and continue to strip away (03:51):
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Lynn Jordan: the things that allowed them (03:53):
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Lynn Jordan: to provide for their families (03:54):
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Lynn Jordan: in the traditional sense. (03:55):
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Lynn Jordan: And (03:57):
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Lynn Jordan: what did they do? Just (03:58):
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Lynn Jordan: this past November, voted in (03:59):
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Lynn Jordan: the most extreme version that will (04:01):
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Lynn Jordan: strip them to the bone, leaving (04:03):
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Lynn Jordan: them both penniless and powerless. (04:05):
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Lynn Jordan: But (04:07):
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Lynn Jordan: there's still so drunk on the idea that women will be thrown (04:07):
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Lynn Jordan: back to a time where they have to choose any man to survive, (04:10):
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Lynn Jordan: that they're willing to lose it all for a chance to have a (04:13):
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Lynn Jordan: woman as a piece of property. It (04:16):
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Lynn Jordan: doesn't matter that women have (04:20):
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Lynn Jordan: been instrumental in inventing (04:21):
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Lynn Jordan: or developing many of the (04:22):
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Lynn Jordan: essential things in our lives. (04:24):
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Lynn Jordan: It (04:26):
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Lynn Jordan: doesn't matter that many intelligent women could run things (04:26):
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Lynn Jordan: more efficiently, such as the woman we could have had as president, (04:28):
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Lynn Jordan: a woman who might find a cure for cancer. Since (04:34):
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Lynn Jordan: we've been deeply involved in the advancement of medicine. Women (04:36):
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Lynn Jordan: can continue to bring so much to all of our lives. But (04:40):
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Lynn Jordan: these men are so disgusting and selfish. They (04:43):
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Lynn Jordan: don't care about any of that (04:46):
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Lynn Jordan: as long as his stupid sandwich (04:47):
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Lynn Jordan: is made and his drawers are washed (04:49):
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Lynn Jordan: because chances are he doesn't (04:51):
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Lynn Jordan: wipe his butt after he poops. (04:53):
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Lynn Jordan: The protections (04:55):
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Lynn Jordan: that help keep a woman safe (04:56):
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Lynn Jordan: from an abusive husband gone (04:57):
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Lynn Jordan: gave her the means to escape (05:00):
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Lynn Jordan: a soul and health sucking marriage. (05:01):
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Lynn Jordan: Gone. Women (05:03):
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Lynn Jordan: will (05:05):
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Lynn Jordan: be forced to suffer in silence because those hard fought rights (05:05):
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Lynn Jordan: and resources are gone, because they'll have to allow the (05:09):
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Lynn Jordan: newly emboldened patriarchal oligarchy and cherry picked snippets (05:12):
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Lynn Jordan: from the Bible to rule their lives, because the only power (05:15):
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Lynn Jordan: middling men will have will be over her. To them, (05:19):
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Lynn Jordan: they don't see the forced labor, (05:24):
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Lynn Jordan: both manual and childbirth, as (05:25):
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Lynn Jordan: fodder for the corporate machine. (05:28):
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Lynn Jordan: A new (05:29):
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Lynn Jordan: generation to exploit and drain. Instead, they (05:30):
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Lynn Jordan: see it as a way to leave a legacy, or to spread his seed willy (05:33):
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Lynn Jordan: nilly, leaving more of the category of women they claim to (05:38):
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Lynn Jordan: despise the most. Single mothers. (05:41):
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Lynn Jordan: But don't (05:44):
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Lynn Jordan: worry, they have a backup plan. And if (05:45):
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Lynn Jordan: you have daughters, you should be horrified. They seek (05:47):
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Lynn Jordan: barely legal girls with no life experience. And if (05:50):
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Lynn Jordan: you're wondering if some of them aren't even coy about dipping below (05:53):
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Lynn Jordan: legal age seeking trainable virgins ding ding ding, you (05:56):
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Lynn Jordan: would be correct. Our current (05:59):
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Lynn Jordan: lawmakers have no issue trying (06:01):
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Lynn Jordan: to legalize marriage for (06:03):
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Lynn Jordan: fourteen year olds, and there's (06:04):
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Lynn Jordan: a reason for that as they roll (06:06):
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Lynn Jordan: back the other protections that (06:07):
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Lynn Jordan: keep children safe. We (06:08):
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Lynn Jordan: won't (06:10):
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Lynn Jordan: have to worry so much about getting kidnapped at the mall and (06:10):
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Lynn Jordan: trafficked in another state or country. When our (06:13):
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Lynn Jordan: fathers and husbands can do it to us from home. And we (06:15):
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Lynn Jordan: can't discuss the nineteen fifties without mentioning the (06:20):
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Lynn Jordan: subset of women known as tradwives. To be (06:22):
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Lynn Jordan: clear, I have no issue with the (06:25):
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Lynn Jordan: traditional wife lifestyle. It's (06:27):
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Lynn Jordan: great (06:28):
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Lynn Jordan: if you can find the man who (06:29):
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Lynn Jordan: can provide it, and you're content (06:30):
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Lynn Jordan: for that to be your existence. (06:31):
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Lynn Jordan: Which, by (06:33):
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Lynn Jordan: the way, is the beauty of having the right to choose the life (06:33):
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Lynn Jordan: you want. Just a (06:36):
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Lynn Jordan: reminder, the issue I have with the whole tradwife trend isn't (06:37):
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Lynn Jordan: the concept itself, but rather the reality of it. These girls (06:41):
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Lynn Jordan: and young women are looking for (06:46):
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Lynn Jordan: love and trying to figure out (06:47):
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Lynn Jordan: what men find attractive. They (06:48):
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Lynn Jordan: clearly (06:50):
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Lynn Jordan: didn't have a living female relative who was an adult (06:50):
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Lynn Jordan: during the hallowed fifties to let them know what it was really (06:52):
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Lynn Jordan: like. And just (06:56):
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Lynn Jordan: like the men they're hoping to attract, don't seek advice from (06:57):
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Lynn Jordan: women. They seek (07:01):
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Lynn Jordan: the advice of men. These angry (07:02):
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Lynn Jordan: men and decide to become sourdough (07:04):
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Lynn Jordan: baking pick-me's believing (07:06):
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Lynn Jordan: they're the ones to (07:08):
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Lynn Jordan: save these whiny man babies who (07:09):
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Lynn Jordan: want the life of a bygone era. (07:11):
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Lynn Jordan: They have (07:13):
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Lynn Jordan: no drive, skills, or education to finance. Who wants (07:13):
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Lynn Jordan: what the Twitters have called a bang mom. Someone who (07:17):
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Lynn Jordan: does everything their mom did, but with the added benefits (07:20):
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Lynn Jordan: of being able to ejaculate in her. Because let's (07:24):
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Lynn Jordan: face it, any man who thinks (07:26):
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Lynn Jordan: it's a great idea to have a (07:28):
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Lynn Jordan: child for a wife has no interest in (07:29):
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Lynn Jordan: wanting to be a good lover. A (07:31):
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Lynn Jordan: fourteen (07:33):
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Lynn Jordan: year old doesn't know what she's missing. And these (07:34):
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Lynn Jordan: men know they can mold these impressionable young girls into accepting (07:38):
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Lynn Jordan: the lowball offer of a life. Now, I'm (07:41):
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Lynn Jordan: not talking about wealthy men (07:43):
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Lynn Jordan: who can truly afford a tradwife. (07:44):
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Lynn Jordan: Good for (07:46):
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Lynn Jordan: you and good for her. I'm talking (07:46):
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Lynn Jordan: about the Middling Men, and you know who you are. The problem (07:48):
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Lynn Jordan: potential Tradwives face is that the men they're content to (07:52):
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Lynn Jordan: settle for continue to chase women. They claim (07:56):
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Lynn Jordan: they don't want liberated women. These men (07:58):
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Lynn Jordan: want to make a woman conform to their ideal, rather than seeking (08:01):
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Lynn Jordan: someone who already fits the bill. They lie (08:04):
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Lynn Jordan: on dating sites and hide their (08:07):
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Lynn Jordan: political leanings and agendas (08:08):
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Lynn Jordan: as long as they can, because the (08:10):
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Lynn Jordan: women who challenge them, who (08:12):
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Lynn Jordan: do what they want and speak their (08:14):
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Lynn Jordan: mind, who enjoy their rights (08:15):
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Lynn Jordan: and freedom, will run away (08:17):
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Lynn Jordan: screaming when they find out (08:18):
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Lynn Jordan: he's a graduate of the Alpha bro (08:20):
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Lynn Jordan: hotep school of douche. Even (08:22):
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Lynn Jordan: the (08:24):
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Lynn Jordan: conservative women who are doing their level best to push the (08:24):
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Lynn Jordan: Stepford Wife agenda are enjoying the very rights they're helping (08:27):
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Lynn Jordan: these men to destroy, becoming apex pick-me's But they're (08:30):
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Lynn Jordan: not making sandwiches and babies. They hold (08:34):
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Lynn Jordan: public office corporate positions, news anchor slots, and (08:37):
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Lynn Jordan: are social media influencers telling other women they should (08:40):
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Lynn Jordan: do it if it sounds sick and hypocritical. It is. (08:44):
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Lynn Jordan: So instead (08:49):
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Lynn Jordan: of seeking these nubile, tradie (08:50):
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Lynn Jordan: women who are doing their (08:51):
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Lynn Jordan: best to look like living Barbie (08:52):
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Lynn Jordan: dolls, they're saying they're (08:54):
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Lynn Jordan: facing a loneliness epidemic. (08:55):
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Lynn Jordan: And leave (08:57):
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Lynn Jordan: out what they bring to the table. Besides, an (08:58):
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Lynn Jordan: attitude demands and a swinging appendage. Rather than (09:00):
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Lynn Jordan: admitting they're probably a filthy, lazy, low IQ jackass that (09:03):
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Lynn Jordan: nobody wants to deal with, and maybe making some changes to (09:06):
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Lynn Jordan: make themselves more of a catch. But they're (09:09):
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Lynn Jordan: not doing it. And more (09:11):
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Lynn Jordan: and more women are noping out. We're clearly (09:13):
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Lynn Jordan: doing this in droves. If we (09:16):
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Lynn Jordan: weren't, there wouldn't be so many (09:18):
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Lynn Jordan: angry men with microphones. One (09:19):
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Lynn Jordan: guy (09:23):
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Lynn Jordan: had, as my Nana would often say, (09:23):
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Lynn Jordan: the unmitigated gall to post (09:25):
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Lynn Jordan: a video saying that at some point (09:27):
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Lynn Jordan: the women who have opted out (09:29):
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Lynn Jordan: of dating have to settle. That (09:30):
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Lynn Jordan: we (09:32):
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Lynn Jordan: need to lower the bar and grab up men like him. My dude. (09:32):
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Lynn Jordan: The bar (09:38):
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Lynn Jordan: is already in hell. Many ladies (09:38):
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Lynn Jordan: are weary of the heat and tired of the smoke. but I'm (09:41):
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Lynn Jordan: not here to lay the blame at (09:46):
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Lynn Jordan: the feet of just conservative men. (09:47):
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Lynn Jordan: There are (09:49):
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Lynn Jordan: plenty of non-conservative men who may not hold such (09:50):
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Lynn Jordan: extreme views, but they're still men. a woman (09:53):
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Lynn Jordan: was asked if she would prefer to (09:57):
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Lynn Jordan: be in the woods alone with a (09:58):
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Lynn Jordan: man or a bear, and she replied that (09:59):
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Lynn Jordan: she would take the bear. Other (10:01):
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Lynn Jordan: women (10:03):
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Lynn Jordan: who were asked this question overwhelmingly (10:03):
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Lynn Jordan: chose the bear. (10:05):
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Lynn Jordan: Of course, (10:06):
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Lynn Jordan: many men were very offended by (10:07):
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Lynn Jordan: this because they refused to (10:09):
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Lynn Jordan: believe women actually felt (10:10):
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Lynn Jordan: safer with the wild animal. (10:12):
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Lynn Jordan: What's wild (10:14):
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Lynn Jordan: is that men constantly accuse (10:15):
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Lynn Jordan: women of being emotional, crazy, (10:16):
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Lynn Jordan: and incapable of leading. (10:18):
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Lynn Jordan: So we (10:20):
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Lynn Jordan: should just leave it up to them. Creatures who (10:20):
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Lynn Jordan: are apparently slaves to their most base impulses, who (10:22):
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Lynn Jordan: can't navigate a simple conversation, distilling it down (10:25):
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Lynn Jordan: to whether a woman is interested in them and then having the (10:29):
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Lynn Jordan: maturity to just walk away if she isn't. Some of (10:31):
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Lynn Jordan: the men upset that women chose the (10:34):
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Lynn Jordan: bear have been so nasty, condescending (10:36):
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Lynn Jordan: and aggressive, it's (10:38):
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Lynn Jordan: proving our point. They (10:39):
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Lynn Jordan: too (10:40):
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Lynn Jordan: often think they're being a (10:40):
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Lynn Jordan: nice guy, even when they're being (10:42):
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Lynn Jordan: tacky, rude, or creepy. Often (10:44):
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Lynn Jordan: that (10:47):
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Lynn Jordan: nice guy facade crumbles when they realize they're not (10:47):
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Lynn Jordan: getting sex as a reward for temporarily acting like a (10:50):
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Lynn Jordan: decent human being. If we're (10:52):
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Lynn Jordan: being nice to them because we're afraid they might get angry (10:54):
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Lynn Jordan: and attack, if we don't, we're leading them on. If we're (10:57):
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Lynn Jordan: assertive and let them know we're not interested in engaging at (11:01):
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Lynn Jordan: all, we're being a bitch and wonder if we're going to get (11:04):
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Lynn Jordan: attacked. Too many (11:07):
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Lynn Jordan: of us are attacked, regardless of (11:08):
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Lynn Jordan: our answer, sometimes not (11:10):
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Lynn Jordan: making it out alive. They (11:12):
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Lynn Jordan: fail (11:15):
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Lynn Jordan: to understand that unless we bum rush the bear or walk upon (11:15):
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Lynn Jordan: it unexpectedly, it'll leave us alone. A lone (11:18):
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Lynn Jordan: man with us in the woods probably won't. The bear (11:21):
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Lynn Jordan: won't feel the need to catcall. Try to (11:25):
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Lynn Jordan: force an uncomfortable conversation, grab (11:27):
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Lynn Jordan: her butt, or randomly punch (11:29):
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Lynn Jordan: us in the face when we're (11:31):
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Lynn Jordan: walking by minding our business. (11:32):
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Lynn Jordan: A bear (11:34):
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Lynn Jordan: won't follow us home, spike our (11:34):
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Lynn Jordan: drinks, or get nasty or physically (11:36):
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Lynn Jordan: abusive if we don't provide (11:38):
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Lynn Jordan: the response they want. The (11:39):
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Lynn Jordan: bear (11:41):
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Lynn Jordan: won't stalk us. The bear (11:41):
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Lynn Jordan: won't tell us we'll be prettier if we smiled. A bear (11:43):
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Lynn Jordan: can be scared off. A man (11:46):
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Lynn Jordan: who can't take no for an answer may not be. When we (11:48):
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Lynn Jordan: venture out of those woods we leave the bear behind. But men (11:52):
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Lynn Jordan: have cell phones and can still find (11:56):
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Lynn Jordan: ways to make us cringe with (11:58):
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Lynn Jordan: their creepy comments and (11:59):
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Lynn Jordan: DMs, their rage texts, unsolicited (12:00):
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Lynn Jordan: d pics, and threats. The (12:03):
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Lynn Jordan: chances (12:05):
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Lynn Jordan: of being injured by a bear (12:06):
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Lynn Jordan: are one in two point one million. In (12:07):
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Lynn Jordan: the (12:10):
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Lynn Jordan: US, a woman is attacked by a man every nine seconds, every nine (12:10):
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Lynn Jordan: seconds. The phrase (12:16):
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Lynn Jordan: a man is afraid of being rejected, (12:19):
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Lynn Jordan: a woman is afraid of (12:21):
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Lynn Jordan: being killed is not an exaggeration. In (12:22):
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Lynn Jordan: the (12:25):
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Lynn Jordan: presence of men, whether trying to (12:25):
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Lynn Jordan: get our attention or just taking (12:27):
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Lynn Jordan: up space because they can. (12:28):
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Lynn Jordan: They continually (12:30):
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Lynn Jordan: make it clear that they're (12:31):
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Lynn Jordan: unpredictable and dangerous. No (12:32):
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Lynn Jordan: right (12:34):
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Lynn Jordan: response will guarantee our safety, or at least get the guy to (12:34):
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Lynn Jordan: leave us alone. And should (12:37):
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Lynn Jordan: the laws that empower and protect women be completely taken away, (12:40):
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Lynn Jordan: the men will be free to abuse us. To be (12:43):
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Lynn Jordan: free from consequences even more than they are now. And make (12:46):
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Lynn Jordan: no mistake. Too many (12:49):
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Lynn Jordan: of them are excited about it. The verbal (12:51):
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Lynn Jordan: abuse they hurl online or in the street takes on a whole (12:53):
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Lynn Jordan: new level of ugly. Until the (12:55):
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Lynn Jordan: day comes when he can shop for the wife he wants, who can't say (12:57):
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Lynn Jordan: no and he can do whatever he wants to her. But until (13:00):
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Lynn Jordan: then, if using our best judgment, (13:04):
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Lynn Jordan: we get with the man we (13:05):
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Lynn Jordan: later break up with because they (13:06):
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Lynn Jordan: ended up being horrible. We (13:08):
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Lynn Jordan: should (13:10):
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Lynn Jordan: have chosen better instead of (13:10):
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Lynn Jordan: the men choosing to be better. (13:12):
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Lynn Jordan: They never (13:14):
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Lynn Jordan: seemed to want to do that based (13:14):
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Lynn Jordan: on the current climate. They (13:17):
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Lynn Jordan: won't (13:18):
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Lynn Jordan: ever have to. Ladies, if (13:18):
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Lynn Jordan: there was ever a time to pack a firearm, take a self-defense class (13:22):
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Lynn Jordan: and shore up your security plans. It's right (13:25):
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Lynn Jordan: now. Even though (13:28):
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Lynn Jordan: it appears that the racist, the (13:29):
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Lynn Jordan: rapists, and the misogynists have (13:31):
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Lynn Jordan: won, it doesn't mean that (13:33):
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Lynn Jordan: we can't find a way to make the (13:34):
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Lynn Jordan: most of our lives while staying safe. (13:36):
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Lynn Jordan: Check out (13:38):
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Lynn Jordan: earlier episodes of my articles on (13:39):
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Lynn Jordan: my website for all kinds of (13:40):
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Lynn Jordan: personal safety information. Thanks (13:43):
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Lynn Jordan: for (13:46):
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Lynn Jordan: listening. Until next (13:46):
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Lynn Jordan: time. This is (13:47):
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Lynn Jordan: the urban lady prepper signing off. (13:48):
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