The Female Abuser

In this episode of 'What Lies Buried,' host Karly Latham interviews Juan Ferrer, who bravely shares his experience of surviving an emotionally abusive relationship. This discussion emphasizes the often overlooked experiences of men in abusive situations, detailing manipulative behaviors, trauma bonding, and societal expectations. Juan reflects on his struggles with low self-esteem, the control exerted by his partner, and his transformative journey to self-discovery and healing. The episode underscores the importance of storytelling in reversing power dynamics and highlights the path to regaining self-worth and embracing vulnerability as pivotal in overcoming abuse.   Please support Juan's spiritual journey at https://www.instagram.com/scorpse_revival/ and his woodworking business at https://www.instagram.com/spoon.and.board/  

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  00:00 Introduction to What Lies Buried 01:18 Highlighting Male Voices in Abuse 02:10 Juan Ferrer's Story Begins 06:30 Early Signs of Abuse 13:35 The Cycle of Emotional Abuse 41:05 Finding Solace in Woodworking 49:24 Escalation of Drama and Self-Defense 51:00 Physical Abuse and Emotional Scarring 54:17 Societal Dynamics and Personal Struggles 58:12 The Breaking Point and Blackmail 01:06:59 The Final Arguments and Breakup 01:14:14 Post-Breakup Challenges and Self-Discovery 01:18:58 The Return and Final Confrontation 01:28:12 Healing and Moving Forward 01:37:25 Conclusion and Final Thoughts