09: Enneagram Type 6 Explained: Loyalty, Anxiety, and Learning to Trust God with Warren Jacobs and Josh Manuel

In this episode of Why Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the Enneagram, Paul Basden sits down with two longtime Preston Trail pastors—Warren Jacobs (Worship Pastor) and Josh Manuel (Men’s Pastor)—to explore the steady, loyal, and thoughtful nature of the Enneagram Type Six: The Loyalist.   Known as the “guardian” of the Enneagram, Sixes are faithful, reliable, and protective—always planning ahead to make sure others feel safe and supported. But beneath that loyalty lies a constant battle with fear, self-doubt, and the need for security. Together, Warren and Josh share how these traits show up in their lives, marriages, parenting, and ministry—and how faith helps them turn anxiety into trust.   Listeners will hear: How Sixes bring stability and reliability to relationships and teams. Why fear and overthinking can lead to “paralysis by analysis”—and how to break that cycle. How loyalty and problem-solving make Sixes natural leaders and teammates. What Scripture says about overcoming fear and resting in God’s security (Philippians 4:6–8, Jeremiah 29:11, and Romans 12:1). The humor, humility, and practical wisdom that help Sixes thrive at home, at work, and in faith.   Whether you’re a Six yourself or love someone who is, this conversation offers a powerful reminder: peace doesn’t come from control—it comes from trust.