In this episode of Why Do I Do What I Do?, we explore the vibrant, possibility-driven world of the Enneagram Type 7—The Enthusiast. Host Paul Basden interviews Natalie Wells, Parent Communications Director at Preston Trail Community Church, who shares how the Seven’s love of fun, spontaneity, and freedom shapes her family life, marriage to an Enneagram One, and her spiritual walk.
Natalie opens up about her upbeat “YOLO” mindset, her legendary costume carpool line, and the challenge Sevens face in sitting with sadness—especially through the loss of her father. She also shares practical ways she’s learned to pause, savor, and stay present.
If you're an Enneagram 7 (or love one), this episode offers relatable stories, faith-based insight, and a deeper look at the unique gifts and struggles of The Enthusiast.
Show Notes-
What defines an Enneagram 7
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Strengths and shadow sides of The Enthusiast
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How Sevens navigate marriage with an Enneagram One
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The role of spontaneity, FOMO, and planning the next adventure
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How Sevens avoid sadness—and how Natalie learned to face it
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The spiritual journey of an Enneagram 7: joy, gratitude, and open-handed living
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Natalie’s famous “costume carpool line” tradition
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Scripture that resonates with Type 7s: John 10:10, Ecclesiastes 8:15
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