You can't 'protect' your mental health by setting boundaries - yes, it might seem like the obvious way to avoid burnout, but what if I told you that this strategy could actually run you right into it? The best way to avoid burnout isn't to shield yourself from stress but to expose yourself to it. Let me explain...
In this episode, we dive deep into the counterintuitive approach to building resilience and avoiding burnout. You'll discover why embracing your stressors is the key to long-term mental health and how rigid boundaries can backfire. We'll explore the science behind resilience, the dangers of avoidance, and practical steps you can take to build a stronger, more resilient you.
Join us as we apply the concept of 'friendship' to stressors and how it reframes tension to 'I-can-deal-with-this' attitude.
You'll learn how to turn challenges into opportunities for growth and how to nourish your mental health in a way that truly protects you from burnout.
Don't miss out on this game-changing episode that could save your sanity. Tune in now and let's start building your resilience together.
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