Do you ever feel like a theme or lesson keeps showing up in your life on repeat—almost like déjà vu? That’s been me lately with words like honesty, integrity, and self-trust.
In this episode, I’m diving into Ryan Leak’s book Leveling Up. I thought it would be just personal development, but halfway through I realized: personal development and leadership development are the same conversation. This book held up a mirror and forced me to ask some hard questions I think every new manager needs.
We’ll cover:
- The Self-Awareness Question – “What is it like to be on the other side of me?”
- The Vision Question – “What is my definition of success?”
- The Humility and Integrity Questions – “What mistakes can I own?” and “Am I being honest with myself?”
- The Fun Question – “Am I enjoying it?”
I get really vulnerable in this one. From realizing I wasn’t being as honest with myself about small things (like tracking food) to admitting I wasn’t showing up as the mom or leader I wanted to be, this episode is all about how self-integrity connects directly to the way you lead your team.
Because leadership isn’t built on perfection. It’s built on honesty, humility, and the courage to ask better questions.
By the time you finish listening, you’ll discover:
- Why feedback is more powerful than grace when it comes to growth
- How to define your own version of success so you don’t climb the wrong ladder
- Why admitting mistakes builds more trust than pretending to be perfect
- How joy and enjoyment fuel culture more than toxic positivity ever could
Links & Resources Mentioned in This Episode:
- How to Set Boundaries, Unplug After Work, and Move Your Body Even When You're Exhausted
- Diving Into the Question around Rest
Taking Intentional Action: How to Choose the Life You Lead
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