All Episodes

November 5, 2025 โ€ข 41 mins

Send Gemma a message

If you are asking can this improve, this episode gives you a simple lens. Gemma unpacks two essential capacities that predict whether change is possible in a relationship. You will hear why the brain repeats what is familiar, how schemas drive loops and how to assess real readiness for growth in yourself and in someone you are dating.

In this episode

  • Why patterns repeat even when you want something different
  • The role of schemas in attraction, conflict and coping
  • Two essentials that predict change
  • Why avoidance blocks growth
  • Dating as data, plus a new way to date with self awareness


Are you ready to join Love Wisely? Doors open again in Feb 26.ย 

Support the show

๐ŸŽ Download Free Guide: Dating With Insight

๐Ÿฉท Love Wisely Priority list for Early March 2026

๐Ÿ’› Access Elevate You Worth: Self-Worth Healing Bundle

Connect with Me

๐ŸŒ Website: drgemmagladstone.com
๐Ÿ“ท Instagram: @drgemmagladstone

๐Ÿ“ฉhello@drgemmagladstone.com

๐Ÿšฉ The Red Flag Project - your ultimate guide to red flags! Get Instant Access

๐ŸŒป Support the Podcast
Love the show? Help us keep going with a monthly contribution: Support here

Mark as Played

Advertise With Us

Popular Podcasts

Dateline NBC

Dateline NBC

Current and classic episodes, featuring compelling true-crime mysteries, powerful documentaries and in-depth investigations. Follow now to get the latest episodes of Dateline NBC completely free, or subscribe to Dateline Premium for ad-free listening and exclusive bonus content: DatelinePremium.com

Stuff You Should Know

Stuff You Should Know

If you've ever wanted to know about champagne, satanism, the Stonewall Uprising, chaos theory, LSD, El Nino, true crime and Rosa Parks, then look no further. Josh and Chuck have you covered.

The Bobby Bones Show

The Bobby Bones Show

Listen to 'The Bobby Bones Show' by downloading the daily full replay.

Music, radio and podcasts, all free. Listen online or download the iHeart App.

Connect

ยฉ 2026 iHeartMedia, Inc.