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October 21, 2024 38 mins

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In this episode, Gemma explores the emotional and psychological barriers that often arise when dating. Whether you’re re-entering the dating scene or currently navigating it, this episode will help you identify and manage common sources of anxiety.

Topics discussed:

  1. Fear of rejection or judgment
  2. Pressure to make a good impression
  3. Attachment styles and schemas
  4. Overthinking and self-criticism
  5. Fear of repeating past patterns
  6. Cultural and societal expectations
  7. Uncertainty of the unknown
  8. Physical and mental effects of anxiety

Throughout the episode, Gemma offers mindset shifts and practical tips to help you feel more calm, confident, and authentic in your dating journey.

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