God’s Sweet Providence: Gleaning from the Life of Ruth how to become a Woman of Grace and Love

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We are grateful that you deal with us in ways we cannot
imagine, and Lord, thank You that You have given us the
privilege to gather together to glean from the truth of Your
words. We pray in Jesus name that our

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hearts will be receptive and ourminds will be attentive and that
nothing in US will hinder the the entrance of Your word.
Your word says that the entranceof Your word brings light and it
brings understanding to the simple.
We thank You that in this service we receive understanding

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to live like women according to your perfect intention in Jesus
precious name. Amen.
Amen. Hallelujah.
Oh, Amen. All right.

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Are you ready? It's good to see you.
All right. This is a very important
meeting. Yesterday we had an amazing time

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with the with the guys and I, I shared very important things
with them. Don't worry, the message will be
made available. So whatever I teach you will
also be made available. I agree.
You agree. Yes, I share with them life is

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not a trial run. Or some people think that you
are here to experiment with yourlife, so you use your life as
experiments. Sleep with many people to
experiment, try many things to experiment.

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And I showed them three wonderful temptations every guy
faces, very powerful. So you should go and listen to
it. But this morning we are going to
learn something very important. You know, women are very

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important. And sometimes you might think, I
know a lot of you have inadequacy complexes, you feel
inadequate in yourself. I wish I was a man.
Society favours men. Well, that's the reason why some
ladies want to be tomboys because they feel like you are

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weak. But that's because you don't
understand who women are. Do you know that in the Bible,
in Psalm 68 verse 11, the Bible says that God gave the word and
great with the company. Psalm 68, verse 11.
Psalm 68, verse 11 says the Lordgave the word and great was the

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company of those who published it.
You know, a very interesting word.
That's not how the Hebrew renders this verse.
Maybe Passion will help us. I wanted to see what the passion
says. God Almighty declares the word
of the gospel with power and thewarning, and the warring women
of Zion deliver its message. So the company that declares

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God's word is the women and he calls them warring women.
It means fighting women. So you are not, you're not weak
when the Bible speaks of the woman as the weaker one.
The Bible was not saying the woman is weak.
He said her vessel is not as strong as compared to the man.

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Oh, first Peter, chapter 3. Second Peter chapter 3, verse 7.
I don't know if you like what I'm showing you.
Second Peter chapter 3, verse 70.
Come on, let me, let me, let me fetch it for you quickly.
Kora. Mama.
First Peter, chapter 3. Sorry.
First Peter chapter 3. I want to show you something.
Likewise. He husbands all of them

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according to knowledge, giving honor unto the wife as onto the
weaker vessel. It is her vessel.
Her frame is what is weak, not that she's weak inwardly.
Can we try message? Can we try message, message?
Look up as women, they lack someof your advantages.
But in the life in the new life of God's grace, you are equals

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in the new life of God's grace. So when we become born again, we
are equals because the Spirit within us is not male or female.
When in Genesis 1 tells us that God created man in his own image
in the image of God created he them.
Then the Bible now comes to tellus that male and female may be
them. So the spirit of man that God

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made is man. That's why in the Scriptures you
know for example, in first letter chapter 3 again go to 1st
letter chapter 3 first letter chapter 3.
I'll show you something very powerful.
Go to verse 5 verse 5. Can we do King James.
I want you to see something verse 5 says the so after this
manner in the old verse 6. No, no, no, no, no, no.

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Second Peter chapter 3 Second Peter chapter 3.
Sorry. Second Peter chapter 3 verse 5.
Wow. Go to verse one elements go to
chapter chapter. Let me let me just look for it
for you. Oh, it's in first with touch up

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with I mentioned first with chapter 3.
Let's go to 1st 2003. There's one I'm trying to show
you that your spirit is not maleor female and it shows how God
addresses men and women. So this is likewise he wise be
in subjection to your own husbands to your own husband,
own husband. It means you don't, you don't
owe any guy submission if he is not your husband, not even your

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boyfriend. You owe your own husband
submission. You don't owe everybody
submission. Oh my God.
That if they obey not in the world, they also may without the
word be won by the conversation.The word conversation is man of

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life. And this is speaking in the
context of, you know, the marriage where the man is not
born again and the woman is bornagain.
The woman doesn't have to be preaching to the husband to get
born again by the way she lives.There's two tells us that the
man will be converted to the Lord while the behold your chest
conversation, which is coupled with fear who's adorning, Let it

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not be the outward adorning of the plating of the hair.
So you are trying to win your husband say don't plate your
hair, don't waste your time wearing gold and nice apparel,
but the vest what tells us what I want to bring your mind to
says let it be the hidden man, but he's talking to women.
He should have said the hidden woman.
So your spirit doesn't have a gender, it is your container.

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So when God created man, man is the spirit God created.
Then when he picks that spirit and puts in what you have, your
frame, you become woman. Then when he picks that same
spirit of man which he puts in in a container like me, I become

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a male. So male and female is the
container, man is the spirit. I know he said what a man can
do. What can do?
I don't know if you understand what I'm saying.
So it is your frame that is weak, but not, not your spirit,

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because your spirit contains Godjust as my spirit contains God.
And you know the way you become born again, it is your spirit
man that is renewed. It's a spirit, man that has
changed, you know, so your spirit is not feminine.
And that's when they ask Jesus also, when we go to heaven, will
we marry? We'll be given to my Jesus and
we'll become like angels. So the angels don't marry.
It means the state will assume we don't have gender.

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We'll be spirits. There'll be no gender.
And Satan knows how powerful youare.
Some sexy verse 11 calls you warring women.
That's what oftentimes you go tochurches.
Women are more than men. Yesterday you should have seen
the boys. There were just two rows, 2 rows

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and it's ego. I told him yesterday, it's ego
because every man has ego. They feel like what I told is he
coming to tell us? But because the woman was
created naturally by God to be LED, women are more open to
leading than men. Men are very egoistic, very,
very egoistic. They can be failing, but do not

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agree they are failing. Don't look far.
Look at your house, There's one in your house.
Don't look far. You can see that your father is
wrong. What he's saying he has missed
that he's wrong, but he will never agree, never agree.
And it's part of the reasons whya lot of you ladies don't even
believe in yourself because evenin the domestic setting, you

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have been suppressed. But he's calling you worrying
women in Psalm 6 years. So it is the worry women that
published the message. Women are so powerful, Karen,
don't worry. Women are so powerful that in
Exodus chapter 10, Pharaoh now agreed that he led the children
of Israel go. But he said that only the men

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should go. They should leave the women and
the children. Why is that?
I don't mind. Look at Exodus 10/11, because I
don't mind the men going, but the woman should not go.
The women should stay. It means there's something about
womanhood that the devil knows that if he can lay hold of, he

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would damage. You know, that's why when women
go through things and women suffer and women it, it has an
impact in a certain sense. Can you try ESV a soft aviation
a weaker free he says no go the men among you and save the Lord

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for that is what you're asking and they were driven.
Can we try message another version puts it nicely.
Nothing doing just the men are going He's he wants the people
to listen. No, only the men should go.
They should leave the women and the children.
So Moses had to say, no, all of us are going, including our
women and our children and our livestock.

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He didn't want the livestock to go because in this, in the
wilderness, they were going to be offering animal sacrifices.
So he wanted to deny them sacrifice and he also wanted to
deny them procreative capacitiesbecause if women are not in the
wilderness, it means chances arethat there'll be no more
Israelites. You wipe them out of the face of
the earth. So you sitting here, you got,

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that's why God gave you a womb. You are multiplying factor.
Here's what I told the guys. That's when women start to deal
with things. Guys deal with it is it is more
dangerous. Guys like sex or you see a girl
who likes sex is dangerous. Guys like money.

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When you see a lady who likes money is more dangerous.
Guys like fame and power. So when you see a woman who is
power drunk like Jezebel, Jezebel can tell her husband,
Ahab, don't this battle, don't fight.
You say you want now what's via?I'll handle it like she killed

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the guy, did everything. And then she brought the vibe
she so did it that when she gavethe via to her husband, her
husband could even enjoy it. He was standing in the vineyard
and he was grieving. It's the power of a woman.
You are very powerful into you. They're very powerful and the

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way God designed you if you don't understand why God
designed you the way he designedyou.
That's why you think that when you're a man is better.
God is wise and in his sovereignty.
He knows that for your assignment in this life.
The gender you have is what to facilitate it so you don't have

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to try to change yourself to become a man before if you know
if in a man must and I'm not allowing the woman to be No, no,
no, no, no, no, no. It is clearly because you don't
understand it's clearly because you don't understand.
We read through the scriptures say God use powerful word.
Yesterday I showed the guys that's the truth of the matter
is that in my church the ladies bless me more than the guys and

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I was getting worried, but I realized that in Luke chapter 8.
Let me show you something. Luke chapter 8.
I was getting very disturbed. Why is it that the guys don't
really bless me like the way theladies and the Lord show me
something looked after 8 put it in message translation.
What is the message translation or passion passion let's do
passion face let's do passion face.
Soon after what Jesus began a ministry tour throughout the

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country. So Jesus decided that well, now
I'm going to be going from city to city to be preaching the
gospel, visiting cities and villages to announce the
wonderful news of God's Kingdom role his 12 disciples traveled
with him. There's two and also a number of
women had who have been healed of many illnesses under his
ministry sets free from demonic power.

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Jesus cast out 17 months from one woman.
Her name was Mary Magdalene for she was from the village of
Magdala. Among the women were Susanna and
Joanna, the wife of Chooser who managed King Herod's household.
Many other women who supported Jesus's ministry from their own

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personal finances. When I saw this, I became cow
because the guys who just come in their whites gowns.
What is preaching is not correct.
We the Pharisees know the law and the women were the ones
supporting Jesus's ministry fromtheir pockets.
And that's why oftentimes we go to churches.

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I realize that the number one financiers of everything the
Church does is the women. Yesterday I came to preach.
They didn't give me water to drink.
I preached for hours. There was no water to drink.
No water. It didn't cross their mind that
I would drink water. And that's all men are.

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There are some things that doesn't cross men's mind.
That's all you did for mother leaves you in the house with
your father. So come back and you have not
eaten and your father said oh, Iforgot to eat.
Oh, and your mom Now why did he he remembered to eat, but he
forgot that that children must also eat.
So God created woman. You see this thing that is

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happening here is even we see itin Genesis when God created
woman said he gave Adam a wife and said this is your help me.
So God has already designed you to be helpless, and that's when
a woman tries to occupy the place of a man, she forfeits her
primary assignment to be a helper.

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I don't know if you like what I'm saying.
I don't know if I've already debunked the theory in your mind
that you are a weak person, You are good for nothing.
No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
Think about it too. Jesus healed all the time.
Jesus healed men. It is only the madman of Gaddara
that we hear of that. He went to preach intensities,

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but when he healed the when he met the widow at the world
woman, the Samaritan woman, she went to bring a whole city.
Only one woman evangelized the whole city.
When I think about it, I'm like,wow, she brought the whole city.
And they pray that Jesus should stay for three more days because

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of one woman. That's oftentimes the devil
doesn't bother himself too much going after the men setting
because he knows that men are rational beings.
That's when the garden certainlyappear to the man, no, The man,
no. But the woman.
It means when Satan entered the garden, his priority was the

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woman. If I can get the woman to listen
to me and to submit and to and to be convinced does it.
And that's when a man is being unyielding.
They will talk to each other. So it's like all the time.
The soft spot to the man's heartis his wife.

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It's so serious that one day a woman called jail.
There was a fight in the book ofjudges.
Look for it for me. When they were fighting, one of
their enemies ran away. It was a woman that finished it.
She gave him a glass of milk andhe slept.
Bible says that she ran a tent peg through his body and pegged

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him to the The guy was so asleephe didn't feel it.
Howbeats is there a fled away onhis feet to the tent of jail.
The wife of Heba the King night,for there was peace between
jabbing the king of Hazard and the House of Heba the King Night
was 18. And I went out to meet Cesare
and said on him turn in my Lord,turn into me, fear not.

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And when he had turned in onto her into the tent, she covered
him with a mantle. And he said, give me, I pray
thee, a little water to drink, for I'm tasty.
And she opened the bottle of milk.
He asked for water, but he gave her milk.
She gave her milk, she gave him milk.
So give me water to say no, you don't need water.

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And it was an enemy who has escaped from battle.
He gave her milk to drink, and gave and covered him.
So now there's 20 Again he said unto her, Stand in the door of
the tent, and it shall be when any man does come in and call

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the and say, Is there any money that shall say no?
There's 21 Then jail. Her best wife took a nail of the
tent and took a hammer in her hand.
My God and went softly onto him and smoothed the nail into his
temples, for he was fasting and fasting it to the ground, for he

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was fast asleep and weary. So he died.
Caesar was a king and it was a woman that finished the battle
and we are seeing, we saw also in Luke chapter 8 that Jesus had

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a company of women he was movingaround with.
So even Jesus was interested in women.
So today I just want to show youa few things how to become a
woman of grace because that's the truth.
If you're not a woman, if you don't become a woman of grace, a
woman of wisdom like Abigail, the Bible says that a good woman

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is the woman of wisdom. You are wise to assure like
Abigail. You know, when David in first
Samuel chapter, you know, I think chapter 23 sent some men
to Nabal to go and ask for you know Nabal was a very rich man.
Nabal was so rude, so rude. David was going to kill.

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I was says that Abigail came with cakes cheese fix so don't
kill. So I know my husband is a
foolish man, but my question is she knew the man was foolish,
but she was still living with him because she knew and
understood. Peter had not written it yet

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that you should be subject to your own husband, but she knew
and understood it. So she had married a fool, but
she was submitted to a fool. So David said no, this is my
bag, I'm still killing. Killed him and said look just
Abigail lady, I will add her to my collection of wives.

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I need you to understand something powerful today.
You know, and we've always had and it's been said and thought
that the number one need of a man is sex and the number one
need of a woman is love and affection.
Who has ever fallen in love witha guy you didn't like but
because he kept talking to you ended up Charlie?

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I think I like the guy. Reason.
Those in the middle are very holy and you don't like the guy,
but conversation, talking conversation.
But then you realize you actually are calling the team
FM. But I think I like him.

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It's because of your makeup. So do you know what I want to
suggest to you if your number one need is love?
As I told the guys, one of the reasons why night I was reading
statistics. 94.3% of people who struggle sex or sexual related
sins are guys 5.2 or 3 is women.The gap is so more men suffer

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with sexual sins than women. That's why even in latter ages,
60s, you find more promiscuous men than women because it is not
your number one need. Your mother can be your mother.
You know your father is dead andyou nobody comes to look for

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your mother. So it's always so you ask
yourself that's because it is not a number one need.
And often times when the lady sets out to, you know, want to
get guys making advances, what is attracting you is the time he
makes for you. You're not really in for sex.
That's why the moment he starts asking for sex, a lot of ladies

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start to get why? I mean, my friend, I don't think
I waste my time on the small time we are now you are asking
me for sex. Is it true?
It's not true. So majority of women, you
realize that sex is not something on their mind because
in your makeup God didn't make it your number one need.
But when you see someone who is talking to you, so you affection

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and that's why a lot of ladies are endeared to their pastors.
So the pastor is mine is not there.
Oh, but the lady has catch feelings.
No, it's it's it's your makeup because it's not true.

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So in a ministry where the pastor is not married, you can
see the ladies are competing. That was this also.
Get close. This is me.
No, I must have the water. I must clean the washroom.
I must do this. I must do that.
You know, the person's mind is not even there.
And that's why when that's why some people think I'm rude to

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the ladies in the I'm not rude to the ladies in the chair.
Because I know that if I keep texting you, checking on you,
chatting with you, Have you eaten today?
Have you yesterday I told the guys that's why sometimes a
little tell a guy you have led me on and they go like how did I
lead you on? Your consistent communication is
doing something to her emotions and because it is her number one

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need, she's more susceptible to to it and Ivy Addison that's why
guys who are raised by their mothers are highly emotional.
You can clap to this one. You can be teasing when you
start crying. Oh, I was playing, though.

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I was playing. I was playing.
And when you see ladies who are also not raised by their
fathers, there's a crack. No matter how powerful a mother
is, she cannot be a father. And no matter how powerful a
father is, he cannot be a mother.
So in God's wisdom, he said the two must be together to raise

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the children. The two must be together.
And those of you come from Brooklyn who can agree with me,
You realize that a lady who didn't grow up around her father
is usually not confident in herself.
So the moment a guy tells her you're looking so sweet, man,
she's flat tied. Like, my God, that's what I'm
looking. She's easily moved because

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there's no man figure in her home who comments about her
looks. So if you meet a lady who has
been raised in a home where the father is also present, she's
very confident because the father keeps telling her, you
are beautiful, my daughter. So suddenly the father is
present. But if he never tells you those
things, you grow up feeling likeyou're not what?

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You feel like you're not good enough.
Is it true? So a guy shows up, pampas.
You want to. That's it, That's it.
I was going to give you an advice.

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It might not sound like what youwanted to hear because you only
hear women's how to attract a guy, how to be positioned to be
short. You want to be short.
I will show you. I will show you how to position
yourself to be short. Because when a guy who knows God
sets out to find a woman, there are things he's looking for.

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There are things it's looking for.
It goes beyond spirituality. Yesterday I discovered that a
lot of women don't even know howto receive compliments.

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Oh, you're looking so beautiful.Oh, I'm learning from you.
What is that? What is that?
What is that? What is that?
You should know how to you see. You see, They say, well, I will
show you before we end. You already like the Christian,

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but I will show you how to go about it.
You have to poster yourself in such a way.
He comes to, he says, oh, you are looking very good.
He says, oh beautiful, I recognize you're wearing John
Clarks. Are you a fan of John Clarks?
You will strike a conversation. A lot of you don't know even how
to initiate friendship or how toflow with friendship.
So you like the boy? Have you had your quiet time?

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Are you a spiritual mother? Are you a spiritual mother?
Have you prayed today? No, because you don't realize
that in your marriage, marriage goes beyond that.
When you're on a vacation with your beloved, you will not be on
a park praying. What will you talk about?
What will you talk about after you've gone for your vacation

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and you have done quiet time? It was you just be there.
That's why meaningful friendships precede meaningful
dating that will lead to powerful marriages.
So at friendship level, you should be able to know how to
sustain a conversation and how to also be friendly.
That's what the Bible says in progress about 18 the Lazarus
that a man that will have many friends must also show himself

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friendly. And you don't know if you want
to be friendly, like as a woman.And I'll show you where that
crack comes from. I'll show you.
Is it powerful? Yesterday I was telling the guys
instead of knowing how to, they are praying.

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God, give me Eliza. This is the message.
Eliza is some people's prayer point.
I'll mention the other names. I don't want to mention the
other names. There are some of you too.
Some people are praying that your relationship and the way
you are close to that brothers should dissolve so that they can
they can find themselves there. So if you're #1 need as a woman

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is love and affection, what should it be?
Because you see in Ephesians chapter 5, verse 25, Bible says
that husbands love your wives. He's showing us what the woman
needs. What the woman needs is love.
So he said, husbands love your wives even as Christ.

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So the person who you settle with should have understood what
it means to love like Christ because the proportion of love
that is supposed to channel to you should be the same way he
has loved Christ. That's what we tell you that
marry a believer, date a believer, get close to a

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believer. Because if you are dating
someone who is not born again, he doesn't know what it means to
be loved, like to be loved like.He doesn't know what it means to
have experienced Christ's love. So he cannot give it to you.
You can't give what you don't have.
Oh, my pastor, but he gives me money.
But does he know? How can he love you like Christ?

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Oh pastor, but he has a good job.
Can he love you like Christ? Oh pastor, but you don't
understand that the way he spray, he puts his legs around
his neck, that's not important. Can he love you like Christ?
So this is what you're supposed to look out for.

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But can I tell you something? I'll emphasize it more.
If you 2 as a woman, you've not learned to receive God's love,
You will not be able to identifywhen a guy can give you Christ
kind of love because you yourself, you don't know what
Christ's love looks like. I don't know if you understood
what I'm saying. So if someone is supposed to
love you like the way Christ hasloved his church, then it means

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you that's also becoming the recipient of the love you should
have so fed on God's love. When the guy is bringing
something that doesn't look likeGod's love, you can tell that
this is lust. It's not love.
Anybody who wants to touch you before he takes you to the altar
doesn't love you, doesn't. You can end the relationship

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because of that and you will notbe at a loss.
Trust me, because we chose God'sway.
A lot of you, one of your fears is that what if I leave this
person? I may not find someone like him.
I may not find someone. Maybe this is my only chance
that you don't know God's Providence.

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You don't know God's heart, You don't know God's love.
When Ruth and Naomi came back toBethlehem and Naomi, look about,
look at the storyline closely. Ruth left.
I mean, Naomi left her hometown,went to live in a strange land
in the land of Moab, and her sons married Moabites and know

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from the tournament 25 you are not supposed to have anything to
do but watch this. When they come back.
God's Providence orchestrated that a Moabite who was naturally
not a part of the lineage of Godwill enter into a certain
genealogy. And out of that genealogy, Jesus
comes. She's not.

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She's not part of the plan, but God orchestrated it.
She had lost her husband, but God orchestrated it.
It means if you're a lady, you can believe in God's Providence.
The boy you broke up with who wanted to touch you before
taking you to the altar. It is not a loss.
He may be a pastor. Trust me, it is not.
God can give you a powerful businessman who love you more

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than that pastor who wanted to touch you before he takes you to
the altar. Don't be blinded.
Oh, there is a pastor. You know.
I'll be the mother of the house.Hey, hey, hey, hey.
Turn the one behind you. Hey, Mother of which house?

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Mother of which house? When he wants to press you
before he takes you to the altar, then if he was pressing
you, hey, see how if he was pressing you before he took you
to the altar, what will he be doing to the other ladies behind
your back? Because you that he was not
committed to. He was pressing you.
You will not even be secured. That's why you'll be in the

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church and you see a baby in Sunday school service and he
looks like your husband. I'm going.
You don't like my preaching? I'm going.
You must trust God's Providence.You must trust God's Providence.

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The guy comes and all of a sudden the conversation has
become sexual. Red flag.
Because he must know you emotionally.
He must know you mentally. He must know you cycle.
There's a way to know somebody beyond sexual.
The only place the person is allowed to know you sexually is
after you are married. So you must deny him every
opportunity to know you sexually.

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Else in your marriage, there'll be nothing new and nothing fresh
because what should have been new to the two of you, he has
already given it to you in the world.
When the doctor just shared a story of a couple who got
married and when they went to their honeymoon, the man was
opening gifts and the man was wondering why he has not touched
it. So they went back for cancer and
said ah, but you are not new, the gifts are new.
So he wants to know what the gifts are because he has had sex

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with you before he married you. So the only new thing in your
marriage is the gifts you got, not you, the person that was
married. And all the time when it is like
that, the women suffer more. The women suffer more.
When a lady goes through a heartbreak and she's emotional,

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it's not really news because we're emotional creatures.
When a guy suffers book out and his cry, he knows a Berman who
sue because that's so the one who is at the suffering end a
lot of the time is the woman is the woman.

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Don't permit any guy to touch him before he marries you.
Don't permit it. Don't chip in yourself.
You are God's daughter. You are bought with a price.
You are expensive to God. You are dear to God and anybody
who cannot wait for alter. I'm sorry.
I'm sorry. It means he doesn't even
understand Christ's love. Christ's love is a patient's

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love. When you read first Corinthians,
he says love is patient. So anytime the person cannot
wait, Eulalia, he doesn't understand Christ's love and
that's why he's unable to give it to you.
I know this is not the message you signed up, but it's always
like that of times you see people struggling, people

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struggling in church, ladies struggling in church, Ladies try
and sometimes I cancel some of the ladies and I'm like, oh, you
are in a relation. They are beating you and you're
like pastor, I can't leave, you can't leave.
Listen, I was dealing with a case and the man has been
telling the wife I will kill you.
I said my dear men don't joke with Wes.

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So how many times has he said hesaid a number after I said tell
your mother to leave because oneday if I'm not careful, he will
kill her. You kill it, kill it.
A man who beat his wife. The problem is here.
He has not understood Christ's love says husbands love your

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wives, even as Christ also lovedthe church.
What was the nature of Christ's love #1 sacrificial.
He gave himself, he gave to do what next verse and this is the
context of marriage that he might sanctify and cleanse it of

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the washing of the water by the word yes, I showed this thing to
the guys. The way a woman been nourished
become what he wanted to be is by using the right words on her
and I said we the church men andwomen together are the Lord's
bride. God demonstrates it.
If we are God's bride and the bride is the one that is moved
by words. No wonder He gave us the Bible

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more words. So as we are hearing the words,
sometimes we are not what He wants us to be conditionally or
exponentially. Positionally we are already
sanctified, positionally we already cleansed, but
experientially we are not. So it is wet.
That's why a man who constantly praises his wife uses kind words

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on his wife. The woman becomes the best of
herself. That's how you see someone.
She's not married a guy, but she's washing, cleaning his
house. So that's why you are so hard
working. What will I have done if I
didn't find you? Then?
It's. How many of them were you here?
Nice. Was it?
It moves you, all of you. So what is the solution?

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What did she say? Charity.
What does it mean? That's a love language.
So what is the goal here if the person is supposed to love you
as Christ has loved you? Ladies, take this advice.
Learn to feed on God's love. When you feed on God's love and

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it has become a part of you. Anything that you experience
people define as love. Once it doesn't fall within the
borders of what you have experienced in Christ, you'll be
able to identify it. It means the reason why a lot of
ladies are handicapped is because they don't know God's
love. Meanwhile, we are saying that it
is your number one need, but thelove that you need to know first

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is the love of God before the love of a man.
But a lot of times people don't know how God's love is.
They don't know the nature of God's love.
They don't know what God has done in His love.
So they are moved by every otherthing.
Yesterday I mentioned to the guys, the Bible says that, OK,
we say that man's number one need is sex.

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That's what you know, it's been taught a lot.
So if man's number one need is sex, what does man need to know?
So if you your number one need is love and you must understand
God's love, then if the man's number one need is sex, then he
must understand intimacy with God when he understands intimacy
with God does it. And that's why when God created

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man, God put man in Eden. Eden means delight.
God kept visiting man and fellowshipping with man because
God wanted man to understand that you must understand
fellowship with me before He brings a woman.
Once I've understood fellowship with me in hallowed intimacy,
you know how to have fellowship with your wife in the right

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context. So, my dear ladies, feed on
God's love. All your insecurities will be
dissolved in the potent love of the Father.
That's the first John 4 verse 16tells us first John 4/16 and we

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have known and believed the lovethat God has to us.
God is love, and he that dwelleth in love dwelleth in God
and God in Him. Verse 17 herein is love made
perfect, not that He gave us a boyfriend.
You know the word judgment is the word crisis from what we get

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the English word crisis. So we can read it like this here
in his God's love made perfect that we may have boldness in the
day of crisis. It means when you go through
crisis, you survive it because you've understood the Father's
perfect love because as he is, so are we in this world.

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This 18 look at it. There is No Fear in love, John,
when you understand the Father'slove.
Bible says that there's No Fear in that.
Will I marry the right person? Will I get the right person?
What if this person is not the right will of God?
Then will I get a good job? I want to travel.
I want to do masters. All fears.
The word fear is the word Phobosfrom what we get the English

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word phobia. No phobias, fears of all kinds.
Fear of belly button, fear of headache, fear of marriage, fear
of war geckos, fear of heights. He said that when you
understand, and a lot of times we say women are afraid of
things, they've ascribed fear towomen.
So even when a guy is sincerely afraid of those eyes, oh, you're
bad. I don't know why it's supposed

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to be like that. Women seem to also have a lot of
fears. And the Bible is saying that
when you judge yourself in God'slove, fears of all sorts will
live your life. You will be a confident woman
because you know that you are loved and this love that you
are. You are building your life on is

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not the life from a guy, it's the love of God, the omnipotent
love of the Father. You know you you know without
any shadow of doubt that you areloved by God.
Songs of songs that are 7 tells us he says my beloved is mine
and his affection is towards me.You must know it each of the
7:15. So something to show you today.

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So my beloved is mine and his desire, his desire.
You must know that God desires you before you start looking for
a man to love you. Look for God's love, freedom,
God's love. Nobody can come and flex himself
around you with a car in the house.

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You will not be moved. Since my beloved is mine.
I am my beloved. This is, this is, it's a
revelation that should be deeplyrooted.
This is because I know that my beloved is mine or I belong to
my beloved and his desire put itin passion, Kamazura Tera, he

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says. Now I know that I am filled with
my beloved and all his desires are fulfilled in me.
I don't know if I'm liberating you.
So when you understand the Father's love, see what I see
the women who do everyone to work in church.

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It stems from Yeah, go back to King James.
I'll show you something. I don't want to do anything just
because I know that I'm my beloved and his desire is
towards me. Verse 11, I will say to my
beloved. Verse 11, come my beloved, let's
go into the field. The field is global evangelism.

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Jesus said that the fields are ready for harvest.
Since when I understand that my,my beloved is mine, me the
woman, I will say look, let's gointo the villages.
And the villages is local churchwork, local evangel, local
evangelism. That's a church work.
So I will take my beloved into the fields.
But where did it start from? I know how much He loves me.

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You will give yourself to God and His work when you know how
much you are loved. There's 12.
Look at all this. Let us get up early into the
vineyards and let us see if the vine flourish, whether the
tender grip appear and the pomegranates bad forth.

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And there I will give you my laughs, not my love, my laughs,
and everything is telling you. Here is actually a pastoral
week. The vine, as Jesus said, I'm the
vine and my father is a husbandman.
So the vine life speaks of the tendering of, you know, life.
You are the nurturing of God's people.

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Then he's saying that we'll alsosee if the tender grape appear.
The tender grape is what was crushed to produce wine.
It means that you bring people and you nurture people as a
woman into a perfect joy and ecstasy in God.
The woman who understands that she's loved by God will pastor

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people into that joy. Bible says Psalm 104, that wine
makes the heart glad. So the one he's talking about
here is the joy and the excitement you haven't got.
Then whether the pomegranates bad forth.
The pomegranate is a fruit that is full of seeds.

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It means when you understand hislove, fruitfulness is
inevitable, he says in these demonstrations.
That's why that's how I show youhow much I love you.
But it started from this thing. I am my beloved and his desire
stops me. I pray that this is deeply

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engraved in your heart that God loves you.
God love, you didn't have to do anything for him to love you.
His love for you. We said it on Saturday, there
are no conditions. And you see, that's when a guy
doesn't understand this God's love.
I'll do this for you if you giveme sex.

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God's love is not transaction. Anytime you see someone who is
loving you transactionally, it'ssimple.
He has not understood God's love.
And the reason why you are also giving in is because of also not
received and known God's love. Because if you know God's love,
you know that in God's love He loves me without a condition.
So if you are bringing terms andconditions you have, you don't

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know God's love. Get out of my life.
You don't know God's love. No, I don't know.
Don't worry, I won't go far. I'll just you don't understand
God's love. You don't understand God's love,
so settle it. If my number one need is love,
then I will master the Father's love.

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Master the Father's love. Our Master the Father's love.
I will master the Father's love.I know he loves me.
I know he loves me. Carla, more attack.
I don't know if I'm blessing youalready.

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Koran massacre mainly Kurabi andJohn tells us that this master's
love or the father's love, it will root out fear low self
esteem Sophie I I just don't know Sophie you can't even wear
high heel because you feel like you are not good enough.

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So you see people wearing nice stockings in church and they're
dressed like the the Queen of England.
They're like, hey, look at my body, my breast is too small.
My buttos is it's it is lack of God's love that makes people you
people inject yourself. So it is lack of the love of
God. When a guy tells you, I wish you

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a big baby, so you a big fool, get out.
Another one for me. Big fool, you are too big for my
life to get out. You're not the right one.
You will not feel down, you willnot feel sad, you will not feel
anywhere. Because God knows the way Bible
says He knows your frame. He says you are fearfully and
wonderfully made. So if you are not attracted to

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me, you are not meant for me. Guess close, guess close.
My buttocks is too big. And So what?
The one who is meant for me, when he sees the buttocks, he
will say God is good. God is good when he sees my
buttocks. Babu says I let the breast of
your wife satisfy you. So the one who is meant for me,

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whether my breast is big, whether my breast is small, it
will satisfy him because I know how much I'm loved and I know
God soul loves me. He will not give me what I don't
want. It is the lack of God's love
that makes you feel like God will give you a husband.
You don't like that? What if I guess what I don't?
You don't. You don't know his love, Karen.

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You don't know his love, you don't know his love the way I
see the way you have done your hair, the right man for you when
he meets you, it will be part ofhe said when I saw my wife say
it was part of that this God told me that she's the right
one. So secure your heart, secure

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your heart, secure your heart. Bible says that keep yourself in
the love of God. Just that is where to stay so
that when the guy is coming, if he doesn't smell like God's
presence and he doesn't know God's love because it is where
you live, you will be able to tell that you were a liar.

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The Bible says that. The Bible says that in Ephesians
5. So he will cleanse you with the
water of His word. It means the right person, the
person. The guy was understood God's
love. His words were filled with
grace. Every time you are done talking
to the person, there's no last, there's no slow self esteem,
there's no I wish I was better because his words are filled

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with grace, That's what it means.
But you, you've not even understood God's weight, so you
can't even appreciate it. And a lot of you are working
yourself out. I wish I was like this.
I wish, I wish if I could do heymade this hairstyle enough, it's
me, hey, it's simple. All your fears is anchored in

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the lack of understanding of your Father's love.
So we are not disputing that thewoman's number one need is love,
but let's put it in proper context.
The woman's number one need is the love of God.
It's the love of God. This.

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I've not had anybody seen it before.
It dawned on me this morning. If the woman's number one need
is love, then which love must she first, master?
And that's why if you don't evenknow God's love, you are this is
a woman are married to good men,but they are the abuse they what
the man they abuse the love is because they didn't know how to

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1st receive God's love. So you don't even know how to
receive what God is using as a channel to channel his love to
you. You don't know God's love, so
you don't know how to receive it.
That's why before you start thinking what is the right age
to get married? The right age to get married is
the age when you are master God's love.
That's the right age to marry. That's the right age tomorrow.

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And a lot of you don't know how much God loves you.
You don't know how much God loves you.
You don't know how much God loves you.
And it's a problem, so it's perfect.
Love casts out fear. And so you'll be bold in the day
of trouble, in the day of crisis.
You'll be bold because you have understood the perfect love.

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Perfect love means complete love.
It is love that you cannot do anything to perfect.
And that love is the Master's love, the Father's love person.
You don't understand if the person they said I must be

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tested before. Let me show you something today.
Do you know that when Boaz and Ruth met, they spent the night
together? Boaz and Ruth, they spent Bibles
at midnight when Boaz realized Ruth was by his side and Ruth
did not go tempting the man. OK they I will show you when I'm

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ending. What is meant for her to sleep
at his feet. Sure, sure, she went to layer
the man's feet and this letter to the guys.
Boaz also did not try to do anything to Ruth.
The man had too much integrity. He desires Ruth.
Do you know that when he met Ruth in the treashing field the

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first time, he proposed and Ruth's response in coming to
sleep at his feet was her agreement?
But you know how Ruth knew what to do.

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Naomi and all of young ladies. I don't need anybody to mentor
me. I can figure it out to myself.
Do you know if you study the whole story of Ruth, you realize
that Naomi was in Ruth's life asa pastor?
To Pastor Ruth into rest, she said don't go awake.

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This man belongs to us. He's on against my Redeemer.
So this one, we don't go working, we go resting.
And in resting all of Boaz's love is not directed to.
When Ruth came working, he didn't say anything.
Also the man don't worry her, don't abuse her, allow her to
glean, allow her to glean. But when she came resting, she
didn't go back gleaming. He said gather for her.

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It means what you have a pasta who teaches you and exposes you
to the finished works of Christ to what Christ has done for you
as a woman. You will enter your rest, you
will enter your provision, you will you will experience all
that look and what even what is so funny for me about this story
of Ruth and Naomi is that Ruth was following the woman who said

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to her God has dealt salt with me because she let's fall.
She said it herself. I let fall, but he has brought
me back empty. I've I had sons.
They are all dead and you still want to follow me.
This is someone you would have said look how come all the ones
who have married in her house. We have all lost our husbands.

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She must be dealing with a case.There should be a demonic
operation in her life, but Ruth could see beyond.
So to the one we are talking about Jesus, we can talk about
Ruth. Ruth features.
And Ruth was coming to Bethlehem.
She was a Moabite. So chances are that she's coming
into a new culture. She's not used to the people,

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she's not used to the language, she's not used to the food,
She's not used to the traditions, She's not used to
the addressing. But she was ready to adjust.
But Pastor Aaron is not married.Let me even just bring it in
this context. What does he know to say to us?
He's not a lady. No, no, no, no, no, no roots.
And Naomi, when you look at their life, Naomi's experiences

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didn't look like she could pastaRuth into her, into the will of
God for her. You, you have lost you.
You have your husband. You've lost your husband.
We have lost our husbands. You had plenty money, your money
as you are coming to coach me todo what my friend will sit
somewhere. And this woman who said God has

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doubt solely with me. Listen to what Ruth said.
She said you're going to be my God.
You are telling me that this Godhas dealt bitterly with you.
Yet Ruth is said that this God was not bitterly with you.
He will be my God. He will be my God.
He will be my God. I don't know what Ruth saw.

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You know she comes. Listen me, says Gwen, clean.
Now let's go The root chapter 2.Let me ensure No, I know you
have questions. Then we'll answer questions, he
says. And Naomi had the Kingsman of
her husband, a mighty man of wealth of the family of
Elimelech, and his name was boss.
Boss means strength. And Ruth and and Ruth, the more

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biters said on to Naomi, let me now go to the field and glean of
corn. So Ruth said to Naomi, I'm going
to glean. Let's do a softer version so
that it will help us one day. Ruth the more bite foreigner
said to Naomi, I'm going to work, I'm going to I'm going to
I'm going out to green among thesheaves following after some

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harvester who would treat me kindly.
Naomi said go ahead dear daughter like this.
So when Naomi went when Ruth went working, it was because she
said I'm going to wake. It was not Naomi who told the go
to the field. She said I'm going to wake.

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Did you see it? Am I really apocrypha is the
Bible. She didn't normally never today
get up go and look for what moreso look, I'm going to wake.
I am going to wake. That's always the emphasis of
the law is on your efforts with the end to us, but we'll see in
chapter 3 that now when Naomi realized that Charlie the way

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that is going. You don't have to wake.
You have to rest. That's what grace does.
Grace makes you rest. When you are a woman of grace,
you understand what it means to rest in the in the in Jesus
finished work. You know what eventually she

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ended up in the part of the field eventually.
That's where it seems to do something to me when I read the
scriptures in his way she was going, she didn't know she was
going to Boras field. Bible said eventually it means
God ordered his steps into Borasfield.
You should be able to trust thatGod will lead your steps to the
right place. Oh yeah, you should be able to

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trust God that you'll be at the right place at the right time
with the right people doing the right things since eventually
that's Providence. Eventually, eventually she ended
up in the part of the field owned by Boaz, her
father-in-law, a limbless relative.
Thanks Grace. A little later, Boys came out

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from Bethlehem greeting his harvest is God be with you.
And as I told the guys, I can see that boys is a godly man
even from the way he greeted hisworkers.
He greeted his workers with God says God be with you.
And they also replied and God bless you.
Wow, what a greeting. That's fine.

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Boaz asked his young servant, who was for man over the
farmland. Who is this young woman?
Where did she come from? The six, the foreman said.
Why, that is the Moabites girl, the one who came with Naomi from
the country of Moab. She asked permission.
Let me gleam, she said, and gather among the She's falling

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after your harvest. She's been at its steady ever
since, from early morning until now, without much as a break.
It means this lady was industrious.
She was not lazy. You can sleep, and I don't know
why I'm You wake up at 10:00 in the morning.

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The way you wake up and you openyour window, you spit like a
snake. A snake spits in poison and then
you wake up. You slept at 10:00 PM.
You woke up at 10 AM. Twelve hours the province that
woman the Bible says that she wakes up early in the morning,

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early in the morning. Early rising is one of the is
one of the signs of a virtuous woman early rising rap the one
sitting by and say, take heart, it's not you, it's not you.
It may be the one in front of us, but certainly not you.

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Verse 8. Please do like what I'm showing
you. Verse 8 Then Boaz spoke to Ruth.
Listen my daughter, from now on don't go to any other field to
gleam. Boaz was making the move.
Stay right here in this one and stay close to my young men.
Verse 9. Watch where they are harvesting

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and follow them and don't worry about a thing I've given others
my servants not to harass you when you get tested.
Not to harass because we would say or your potential.
Oh my God, my God. When you feel testing, feel free
to go and drink from the water buckets.
That's the servants have filled this 10.

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She dropped to her knees then bowed her face to the ground.
This is a response. She dropped to her knees.
Submission. How does this happen that you
would pick me out and treat me so kindly as a foreigner?
So how does this happen? And Boaz is a type of Christ.

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Ruth is a type of pass. She was not even an Israelite,
and she has not done anything tomerit Boaz's favor.
Into Near Causeway 11. Boaz answered.

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I've heard all about you. Hey, Randy.
My God, the boys will be asking about you.
They know. They know you don't wake up
early. They know you don't wash
regularly. Yeah, some of us say I went
yesterday's bride here. Oh, I've said it.

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I've said it. Yesterday's bride.
And that's what you're wearing when you go from your hundreds
over your bed slab and you pick it up this morning.
So I've heard all about you. I've heard the way you treated
your mother-in-law after the death of your husband and how
you left your father and mother in the land of your birth.

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And I've come to live among a bunch of total strangers.
That's 12. God reward you well of what you
have done and with a generous bonus besides from God to whom
you've come seeking protection. And I look at what he's saying.
Let me show you a scripture in Ezekiel you're not ready for.

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Let me show you a scripture. It's Boazin

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Kaluma, son. Kelly.
Kelly Kubaraba Speaking tongues.Ezekiel chapter 16, verse 8.

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Ezekiel 16/8 Now when I pass by thee, I look

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down upon thee. Behold, that time was the time
of love. That time was the time of, and I
have spread my skates over thee.Let's try Esv.
When I passed by you again, I saw you, and behold, you were at

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the age of love, And I spread the corner of my garment over
you, and I've covered your nakedness, and I've made my vow
and entered into a covenant of you, declares the Lord.
You have become mine. This maritime, this maritime and
the word for covet. The word for garment and
covering here is the same word Boaz is using in Ruth chapter 2

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for wings. So in essence God is saying that
when I covered you with my cloth, I married you.
And Boaz is saying to Ruth, you have come under the wings of
this God and Boaz is the agent of God who is going to use his
garment to over Ruth. So in go back to Roots chapter

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2, I don't know if I see what I'm showing you.
So in Roots chapter 2, when he makes this statement that you
have come under the wings of this God, Boaz knew that because
he also knew he was Elimelech's brother.
So he's also a kingsman Redeemer.
So he said to him, and Boaz is awidower, his wife is dead.
And we are seeing that the word wings is marital in Ezekiel.

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And when I cover you with my wings, I have made you my.
So he was now saying that God isgoing to reward you.
Is that outside the Word of God?Go back to message where we're
reading outside. The Word of God says you are
going to be covered with the wings of God, under whose wings

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you have come seeking protection.
But you already noticed that Boaz provided protection for now
for Ruth. So I've told my young men not to
worry. We are getting somewhere.
There's 12, there's 13, she said.

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Oh, say, such griefs, such kindness.
I don't deserve it. You've touched my heart and
treated me like one of your own.I don't even belong here.
That's 14. At the lunch break, Boaz says,
we come over here, eat some bread, dip it in the wine.
Boaz is, you know. Oh, my God.

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So she joined the harvesters. Boaz pass the roasted grains
where she ate a field and even had some leftover.
That's what Greece does. Grace gives you more than you
can carry. That's why when Benjamin was at
the table with his brother Joseph, Joseph gave him more
than he could eat. I was like, he gave him five
times more than 5 is the number of grace.
Grace gives you more than you can carry.

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I want you to become a woman of grace, a woman who loves God, a
woman who understands God's Providence that you may have a
horrible past, but God can work it into something good.
There's 15 When she got up to goback to work, Boaz ordered
disturbance. Let her glean when there's still

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plenty of green on the ground. Make it easy for her.
Better yet, pull some of the good stuff out of put.
Pull some of the good stuff out and leave it for her to glean.
Give her special treat. May God.

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May God lay on somebody's heartsto give you special treatments
in Jesus name. Please sit down and let's
continue. Is that the last?
This? Let's continue.
Ruth gleamed in the field until evening when she trashed out

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what she had guided. She ended up with nearly a sack,
nearly a full sack of Bali 18. She gathered up her gleanings
and went back to town and showedit to her mother-in-law, the
result of her this week. So she also gave her the
leftovers from her lunch. Homie asked her, so where did

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you clean today? Who's field?
God bless whoever it was who took care of you.
Who told her? mother-in-law.
The man with whom I work today, his name is Boss.
So the mother didn't even know, but wait till when she was
coming back. Remember that from the weather
stories were rude. Naomi did not even remember that

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there was a King's my Redeemer Summer who redeemed it.
So we should clearly see that itis God at work.
It was God ordering their steps.Because if she had remembered
I'm social, I am coming in Mobi,but it didn't cross her mind
because it should have told her oh you are going to blink go to
Boaz's field by living crossing my back.
God ordered the steps of roof into bosses.

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When I say cancel the report andsays that where I going today
the man is called Boaz, then nowit triggers something in Naomi.
What did she say this Naomi saidto her daughter-in-law.
Why, God bless that man. God hasn't quite worked out on
us. After all, he still loves us in
bad times, well, as good. I thought she was the same

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person who was saying God has done bitterly with me.
Yeah, I went out for. I've come back.
But now she's realizing that if there's Boaz, something
significant is going on here. That man, Ruth, he is one of our
circle of covenant redeemers, a close relative of ours, and that
is Jesus. So the principle of the Kingsman
Redeemer is that the Kingsman Redeemer should be willing to

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redeem you and able to redeem you.
So there were people who were willing.
Like we'll see one guy, he was willing, He was able, but he was
not willing. But Boaz was both willing and
able. And I said something at the
beginning that Boaz had sexual integrity.
He was a man of integrity. He didn't sleep with Ruth.

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And he also told Ruth that I'm desiring you.
But there's someone who is a near Kingsman Redeemer.
If he doesn't agree to redeem you, then I'll agree with you,
then I'll redeem you. That is integrity.
I don't know if I can put this in this context.
A guy, you see that a lady is already in a relationship with

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somebody. You must have enough integrity
to say, look, she's already withsomebody.
Let me walk away. A lot of guys don't have
integrity. So yesterday I told them, see
guys in China and they are racing three boys like the same
game. That's racing.

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That's man. Ruth is one of our second
covenant redeemers. Please, I'm taking somewhere
powerful. OK, follow me verse 21.
I'm ending. Ruth the more biter said well
listen to this. He also told me stick with my
workers until harvesting is finished.
I'll show you something. All these had messianic
implications. But not for today.

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Naomi. Such Ruth.
That's wonderful. Dear daughter.
Do that. You'll be safe in the company of
his young woman. No danger now of being raped in
some stranger's field. There's no danger.
So you'll be safe in the companyof his young women.
Dear young lady, you need a company.

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A godly company to be a godly company next race.
So Ruth did it. She stuck close to bosses, young
women, cleaning the first daily until both the ballet and wheat
harvester were finished and she continued living with her
mother-in-law. That's the last race down.

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Chapter 3, verse one passion oneday Naomi said to Ruth, I want
to see you marry so that you'll be happy and secure.
Now what's the Hebrew implication?
Implication of this is that the Hebrew implication of this is
that no one was saying to Ruth that you need to have a home,

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you need to settle down, marry, but there's two.
Let's continue reading. I'll show you some powerful
things. Now listen, a man, the man named
Moaz is our relative and after the boss is a picture of our
Lord Jesus Christ against man Redeemer.
He took upon himself flesh and blood to take away our cares and
our slavery to sin, and is the heir pointed of all things.

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So that is Boaz. Can you see it?
You worked with his servants in the field.
In the field this evening He will be at his winnowing valley
on the treason floor. Next verse.
Now take a bath. Those who don't like bathroom,

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but if we're going to put this in a in a more busy that take a
bath is the bath of salvation and put on some nice perfume.
The Holy Spirit dress in your best clothes, the clothing of
righteousness and go to the treasury floor.
But don't let him know you are there until he has had plenty to
eat and drink. So Ruth is being taught by Naomi

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how to be strategic. So this Boaz is the is the type
of Christ and we are seeing thathe's telling you that bath.
That's your salvation. The Holy Spirit, the Spirit, the
influence of the Spirit says nowgo to the treasuring floor,
verse 3. Now take a bath.

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OK, verse, verse verse. Yeah.
So you Naomi said in essence, clothe yourself in his perfect
righteousness, but don't let himsee.
He says watch closely to see where he lies down, where he
lies down. This implies the death of Christ
where Christ was late. So she said watch why he lies

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down and what do you do? Go there and uncover his feet.
What does it mean to uncover hisfeet?
His feet speaks of his walk, so going to uncover his feet was

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symbolically refer or reveal that go and learn his work of
holiness and love and and his feet.
Is that we appropriate his graceto work in his ways when we take

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our place resting beside him. So he said that when you rest at
his feet, what is going to happen is this you will learn
how to walk like he walks quickly at his feet.
Next verse. Ruth answered.

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I'll do everything you have toldme.
That evening Ruth went down to the treason floor and did all
her mother-in-law had told her to do.
After his evening meal, Boaz wasin good mood, and he went to lie
down at the far end of the pile of at the pile of what grain and

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fell fast asleep. It's really interesting that the
Bible says that in the last daysGod would gather us into his
field like you like it's ready for harvest.
So you do you think the messianic nuances that are
inside, But let me show you something it says and fell
asleep Rude quietly tiptoed. I like it, I like.
She tiptoed over to him and covered his feet and lay down.

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Around midnight, Boaz was startled and he awoke.
He was surprised to find a womanlying at his feet.
Who are you? Boaz asks.
I am Ruth, your servant girl, She answered.
Spread the corner. So you've seen that she's agreed

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to his proposal. Boss, Say my Jesus.
Now you know the very interesting thing, the garments
of a faithful Israelite man included a tassel.

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I've taught you this before, andat the tip of it was Scriptures.
And it was, it was usually a sign of a covenant of
faithfulness. So Ruth, let me show you what
Ruth is in here. Ruth is seeing this man with his
garment, and at the tip of his garments are Scriptures.

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It gives her confidence that this man knows God.
He'll do what is right. It was a sign of faithful men
who are faithful to God. So the way he's dressed alone
and the garment that he has tells me that he is faithful to
God. He'll be faithful with me or
he'll be faithful to me. That's what we tell you.

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Don't marry someone who is not faithful to God.
The guy doesn't like church Anybody team.
She knew him to be faithful to God, and so she trusted that in

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their covenant of marriage he'llbe faithful because he was
faithful to God. A guy who is not faithful to God
will not be faithful to you. I'm not talking about a
religious person. Some of the way you meet them.
I know some of the boys, Itala Boca, faithful man to God, He

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loves God and she became confident.
He says spread the corn of your garment over me, because you are
my relative by marriage, one whois my kinsman, Redeemer Vestain
Boaz said. Dear woman, may Yahweh bless you
for this act of kindness you areshowing me exceeds the kindness
you have shown to Naomi. You didn't search for a young

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man to marry either rich or poor.
You know what he's trying to say.
It means what was when he shot his shot.
He didn't know if she'll accept because he was an old man.
That's why he's thanking her forchoosing him.

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But she's also choosing him, andwe saw it because she realized
he was a man faithful to God. Faithful.
Don't choose rich guys. He's a medical doctor.
So you're happy you've not seen a depressed medical doctor
before? When do you come here?
We inject to an injection. So you are dead.

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What verse are we on? Verse 11, my daughter.
Don't worry. I promise to do everything you
ask because everyone knows you are a brave you are what say
noble character? The word noble character in the
Hebrew is the same word for virtuous woman.

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You are the Bible. I guess he then look at what boy
says. He says stay here tonight and I
will protect you in the morning.We'll see if he's no.
That's 12. It's true that I'm a Kingsman

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Redeemer, but you are, you are the closer Kingsman Redeemer
than I, The integrity I spoke about.
Stay here tonight and I will protect you in the morning.
We'll see if he's willing to redeem you.
And the word actually the Hebrewmeans we'll see if he's willing
to marry. If he does good, let him, but if

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he refuses to redeem you, then Ipromise as surely as Yahweh
leaves, I will sleep here until morning.
So Ruth stayed near Boaz's feet at night, and she awoke before
it was light enough for anyone to recognize it.
Boaz thought, No one must know that a woman visited me at the
stretching floor. As Ruth was about to leave, Boaz
said to her, Here, bring me the cloak you were wearing and hold

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it open. And she held it open.
And Boaz bought 6 measures of Bali.
Then he helped place it on her head to car and she went back to
Bethlehem. When Ruth returned to her
mother-in-law, Naomi asked her how did it go?

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My dear daughter, how did Boaz receive you?
Ruth told Naomi everything he did for her.
She added, Boaz gave me all thisbalising.
You must go home. You must not go home empty
handed without a gift for your mother-in-law.
Naomi asked. My daughter, wait here until you
see what happens. Boas will not rest until he has

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finished. No, just as Jesus finished all
that was to redeem us, Boas is the one going to do the
redeeming. Ruth didn't have to do anything,
she only had to rest. This is what it means to be a
woman of grace. You rest in his finished work.
You know what Jesus has done foryou.
You know what he has finished for you, and you rest in it.

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You know the very interesting thing, the word in the Hebrew
for finished is color and it is a human name for the word
bright. Why am I sharing what I'm

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sharing with you in conclusion we see in this story.
Let me just bring my thoughts together so I can take
questions. Have I blessed you?
It's not the kind of messages that I preached at a girls
meeting, but I'm sure you how todo a benquine and that's what

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those times women's fellowship, that's what they teach them how
to do promote soup, how to satisfy your husband in bed.
All those things are important, but you must first be a woman of
grace. So we are seeing this story.
There's a woman who has gone through a bitter experience, and

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one of her daughters in law had every right to walk away from
here. She says no, I'll stay.
Then she comes back to her hometown and then they meet a
man who is Boaz type of Christ. But what interests me, I want to
just highlight maybe two or three things #1 we see that, as

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I mentioned in the beginning, Naomi's assignment was to Pastor
Ruth to rest. So, dear young lady, receive
God's leading through whoever has appointed over your life
into your place of rest. You don't have to change

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yourself to marry the God's grace.
You are perfect just as you are.That's one of the things we are
learning from Ruth, the book of Ruth.
Now Ruth didn't have to do anything.
She had to go. Resting and rest is not
inactivity. I've said this thing before.
It is trusting in God's sweet Providence and sovereignty.

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When a woman is not saturated with grace, she seeks
fulfillment from all the wrong places.
So you look for fulfillment in your body count.
You look for fulfillment in dating.
You feel like when I'm dating three boys at the same time?
That's what. No, no, you must be saturated

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with grace. And how do you get saturated
with grace? Root was at boys feet.

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Can I show you another woman whosat at Jesus feet?
Luke chapter 10. Luke chapter 10.
Luke, 1040. Good to text.
Oh God bless you. And she had a sister called

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Mary, which also sucks at Jesus's feet and had his word.
I want to put me Mary's in this generation.
You know, you must be a Mary in a matter world.
Matter represents the business. Mary represents the one who is
sitting on the master's feet. So be a Mary in a busy world.

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Make time for Jesus, spend time at his feet, spend time knowing
his word. This is what Mary was doing.
She was sitting at Jesus feet listening to his word.
Then there's 40 the one who was not sitting at Jesus feet is the
one who now comes complaining. So my sister has left me to save

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alone. Complaining, complaining
complaining is an indication youhave left the poster and the
position of grace because she was complaining because she was
doing. She was doing and Mary was
received. Jesus interjected, says Martha.

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Martha, you know when Jesus mentions, for example, verily,
there's verily, verily. That tells you to say, verily.
I say unto you, there are times you say verily, verily, verily,
verily means that he's coming tocommunicate the truth.
You cannot do. You cannot do without, like he
says in Nicodemus, very, very. I saw on to accept a man be born
again. It means you can't run away from

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it. So when Jesus mentions her name
twice, Mata Mata is for emphasis.
So Mata Mata, you are too troubled.
All the troubles of life is because you are busy doing.
You have not first such to listen to Jesus.
You have not first such to gleanon His word.
You have not first such to receive His love, So you want to

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do when you have not received. God designed us to 1st receive
before we do. What you don't receive a lot of
power to do. So be a woman who spends her
time at the feet of her first lover, Jesus Christ.

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So you are too worried about many things, but Mary has found
the good part. What was the good part?
So it means right now, as I'm teaching you God's way and those
who are supposed to be who are not here, you have found the
good parts. And he says it shall never and
the word never. There's 43.
The word never is double negation in the Greek, sorry,

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that's what. And it shall not.
It means it shall never ever, ever, ever be taken away from
here. That's when you see a lady who
doesn't give herself to hearing the word.
Her life is some way. Jesus said it is the needful
thing. What we are doing right now

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might not look like it is important by a few years from
today. You look back and say, look,
that day when I understood that God wants me to be a woman of
grace who has drenched herself in his love that is watching my
life one day will expand on it some more.
But today I just wanted to show you that if your number one need

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is love, then drink yourself in God's love and become a woman of
grace like Ruth, who from who became a woman of grace as a
result of obeying instructions by the person God that appointed
for him. So where you go, I'll go.
Where you stay, I'll stay. Where you die, I'll die.

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So she was actually saying that,look, if we go back wherever you
go to and you die, I'm willing to die there.
It means when you die in Beth Lane, I will not go back to
Moab, I'll die in Beth Lane. So I summarized it.
Naomi's instruction roots obedience and Boaz's promises.

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If you can take Naomi's instruction and be an obedient
person to God's way. So right now we are seeing, let
me just say, the instructions are God's way.
God's way should be what defineshow you live your life as a
young lady, not society. So society tells you prick
yourself in your novel. In your novel, prick yourself in

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your novel. So we were you Pierce.
I can't mention there are pierces in certain places we
can't even mention on the prophet was preaching and there
was a lady she was watching online.
So apparently she had Pierce herclitoris.

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There were earrings there. She said she took player as the
word was coming started. Don't let society teach you how
to be a woman. It is defined in God's Word.

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So if you leave the place of theWord, you will be in trouble.
It is the Word of God. I will show you how to be a
virtuous woman. You can read powerful books and
you can follow Tonto Dickey. So you follow all kinds of

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people on Instagram. There you are sitting behind the
phone. A guy got to do what a guy got
to do, and you are not even afraid of the sight you posted
on your status, the 21st woman, the 21st century woman.
There's no 21st century one. There's the woman of the world.

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You see, the Bible says that theword of God is a mirror.
It means everything. You are looking in God's Word.
You are seeing the reflection ofwhat God created and intended
for you to be. That's it.
You have left the Word. You have left the word and you

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are doing your own thing becauseyou are wiser than God.
I don't know who this bullets belongs to.
If the boy sleeps with you, he will not marry you.

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And if he marries you? As we are saw Ben try.
Yeah. What should we say?

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Oh, Pastor, you don't understand.
I like the way he treats me. That you've not met a godly man.
You've not met a godly man. And God has given us too many
examples in September. Mamadou, come and finish what

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I'm doing. Mamadou, come and finish.
Be a woman of grace, Be a woman of grace, be a woman of grace.
Look, beauty is vain, that's what the Bible says.

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Beauty is vain, but a woman thatloves the Lord, she shall be
praised. That's what the Bible says.
It means some of you are wastingyour time changing your
hairstyle. We are not saying don't do a
nice hairstyle. Some of you it's OK, it's OK,
it's OK, Learn to look good. We are not ruling out, we are

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not ruling out such favour is deceitful.
Beauty is vain. But a woman that fears it means
what makes a woman attractive iswhen she fears.
God says that woman, she shall be praised.
How you put this impassion? France says charm can be
misleading and beauty is vain, and it's so quickly fits.

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But the virtuous woman lives in the wonder.
Oh, and the fear of the Lord says she will be praised
throughout eternity. That's what Peter said.
So don't just focus on the outward adorning of plaiting the
hair and of, you know, wearing this, he says let it be the true

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beauty from your inner personality.
There's a true beauty inside you, Daniela.
There's a true beauty. It's inside.
He says it is a meek and quiet spirit.
What is it says for lust and beauty comes from a gentle and
peaceful spirit which is precious in the sight of God.

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And it's much more important than the outward adonic.
It means when you spend time working on the inside, that is
what in the sight of God is of great price.
You are sweet spirited, you are not a bitter, but some of you
are very embedded, so you look nice.

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You have big buttocks, you have wore a heavy dress.
It has brought out all your contours.
When we come and speak with you,you speak venom because the
inside has not been transformed by the Word.
This is your true beauty. It comes from inside.
That's why you hear some women say and we are this lady has
mine. And then I want to show me.

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Foolish girl. Foolish girl.
You are not thinking correctly. Have you heard that thing
before? But look, pasta Posta, look at
me, pasta. What is wrong with me?
What is wrong with me? Because I know when I'm passing,

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people don't do, hey, are you a taxi?
That's why now we order the boat.
Boat order. We order boats.
I don't know what it means, but we order the boat.

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And because you are not spendingtime building your inner
personality, feeding yourself ofthe word vets you coming out
goodness, sweetness, grace, and you are spending time on the
outward, you are tempted to change your body.
You are cosmetic, lady. Your breast is silicon, your

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bottles is silicon. The day rapture happens into
shock, we see balloons falling because a lot of people have
changed themselves when this would have been the real focus.
I don't mind you doing makeup, but this is the real focus.
Put it in message. They don't understand.
Let me work in what I done. What matters is not your outer

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appearance, the styling of your hair, the jewelry you wear, the
cuts of your clothes, some of the cuts that you can cut up to
here, they will bring it to church.
The dancer, that's what you're wearing.
It doesn't show someone who has got a Niger at a hotel, say,

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I'll be a woman of grace. I am a woman of grace filled
with graciousness and good fruits.
Yeah. Next verse.
But your inner disposition cultivates beauty, the gentle,
gracious kind that God delights in.

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And he says, the holy women of old were beautiful before God.
That way they were good loyal wives to the other.
Since the old women, the people have gone ahead of us.
This is how they were beautiful.Their true beauty was not
necessarily in the outward, it was in the inward.

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True beauty is inside. It's inside, it's inside.
So while you're sitting behind your mirror doing your makeup,
have you made? Have you made-up your spirits?

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Your spirit has wrinkles If you were a woman and you are God's
you know that was I showed you as God speaks over you, as you
are hearing messages, as I reading the Bible, as I reading
Christian books, It is doing something to your inside.
I don't realize you're a sweet person.
Some of you, the boys have complete, you don't know how to

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talk, you don't know how to talk, you don't know how to
talk. See a lady, my dear, you a lady,
you had child of God. You had child of God.

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And the reason why your outward is not conforming is because
your inward is not transformed. And how does the transforming
come? Romans 12/2 comes by renewing
your mind. And how do we renew our minds?
By the word. Renewing your mind also means
that you have to change your thinking about your womanhood.

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The world has defined it in a certain way.
The Word of God must correct theway you think.
Maybe, maybe you are giving me two years more.

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You must be drenched in grace and all your problems be solved.
And that's why the Samaritan woman met Jesus and saw the
person of grace she was come to fetch.
What now? What's this?
Who is this? She had had five husbands.

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It means men will not satisfy you.
Hala Bala Kaya Kaya. Men will never satisfy you.
A man doesn't complete you. That was that we are complete in
him collusions, we are complete.Our completion is in God, not

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with a man. So in marriage, what do we do?
We are complementing, not completing, complementing.
And I said, take your mind of marriage.

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He said, what are you talking about?
The message was powerful. And he made that statement.
What does he mean? Oh, it was good.
When he was talking about truth,I was feeling the goosebumps.
But the moment he starts to forget about marriage, I
realized I was in the wrong place.

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Forget about marriage. He didn't know she needed a man
when God put her in the garden. So the man who saw her in the
garden in God's presence. So when Adam said bone of my
bone, it was in the presence of God because I showed the boys

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one of the trick to catch. All the patriarchs met their
wives at the Whale, and usually when they come into the world,
they are bringing their fathership.
Where is the ship you are bringing?
What it means is that you are not concerned with the Father's
work. That's why Songs Chapter 7 told

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us that because I am my beloved,His desire is to me.
I will be concerned with His work, and when I'm concerned
with the work, I will find myself at the well, taking care
and attending to my father's business.
Then God will send my husband inthe same place so my husband
also be sent. He's focused on God, dealing
with God, working with God. Then God will lead him to where

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I am. And while I'm cleaning that
chair in the church, while I'm singing in the quad, while I'm
devoting my life to God, I will find the perfect man in God's
presence. You don't want to work in
church. The way the users in the

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presence have the Miracle Cafe, when we call for parameters, you
will not show up. Doctor George met his wife on an
itinerant ministration prophet met his wife when he followed
Doctor George Gwen preached somewhere.
So it is why you are you see whyyou are concerned and lost in

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the will of God. You are not thinking will I
marry. The reason why you are so
thinking will I marry? I'm great, I'm 27 and this is
because we are not lost in God'slove and you are not lost in his
assignment. Do you know that when, according
to rabbinical writings, the woman didn't, was not put in
front of Adam and Adam woke up and saw No, the Hebrew

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connotation means that God puts the woman in another place in
the garden. And while Adam was still going,
checking, attending to God's instruction and naming the
animals, he saw that this creature and Adam, Do you know

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what Adam did? Adam said, whoa, man, I don't
say woman. Woman, so woman.
What is this? So I'll call her woman.
So woman means woman. I'm lying.
Don't say somewhere, but I don'tlike woman.

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She was also in God's presence, God's presence, God's presence.
But poster, you have to put the presence in context because are
you talking about the presence have No, no, the way he's saying

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presence is like he's forcing usto marry, say Alto and say
Eugene and say some more. And no, that's not what I mean.
That's not what I mean. What I mean is that it's like
what Moses said to the daughtersof Zelophihad.
He said they can marry whoever they will, but the person must
be in the tribes. It means you can find someone in

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another church. The ground.
The first thing to check is, is he a Christian?
Is he in a church? That's the basis before we
continue further discussion. So if the person is not born
again for Garrett, if the persondoes not belong to a church for
Garrett, then now he belongs to a church.
Then we move further. What does he believe in me, I

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believe in Titan, I believe in giving, I believe in prayer, I
believe in fasting. So the person may be job witness
not be church second chance not be checked.
But are we compatible? No say that no.
Well, are we compatible? We are not compatible because

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you said no. I've got to pray that your
spouses say we have to buy Sobolo.
We are not compatible. I have said it, Jehovah's
Witness not be don't declassify as Christians, Rosama disco
crystal don't declassify as Christians don't declassify as

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Christians. But do we agree on the same
thing? But the starting point is he a
Christian. If he's a Christian, he's part
of the body. That is when now we start.
But when the person says I'm my friend Poseidon, you don't

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understand. I'm like a Deborah in this
generation. I can't change the guy, but give
me two weeks. You may succeed in training, you
may succeed in getting him born again.
But remember, you would be marrying a spiritual infant.

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It's like when marrying a child who was born two hours ago.
You clean his pupil, you, the person will be messing up all
the time because when the personbecomes born again, if he had a
certain decision in the world, he has become born again.
It is a spirit that has changed though the soul and the
tendencies of the world that is still intact.
You have to now allow him. So the word of God is removing

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him, is removing all those things out of his heart.
The foolish, the Bible calls theword of God, Erode says it
drives foolishness far away fromyou.
So he has to sit in the meeting.He has to sit in judge long
enough for all the foolishness to be eradicated.
So what you are saying I do. You are not signing your death
warrants. You like it?

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Yeah. Is it powerful?
I don't know if I'm blessing you.
The person doesn't have prayer life.
So Pastor, we marry. We shall pray.
Hey, when last did you do devotion in your house as a
family? When last it means your parents

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didn't have a devotional life tostart with.
He doesn't know how to do quiet time.
And he's the one coming to be the leader of the house.
My Allah Curry. Hi Joe, do you know why you must

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build godly character and valuesAs a woman?
How will you raise your children?
Do you know upbringing of children is the responsibility
of the mother? Because especially from age 0 to
about 6-7, they spend more time with their mothers than the
fathers. Because you are the one
nourishing, taking care of cleaning, so that the children
spend more time with you. But you have no Christian
values. Have a sister in the Lord.

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By the time my son turned 1, he could recite some scriptures,
sing Christian songs. You know her.
That's Regina. Oh, it's before they turned 1.
So one time she she was carryingCaleb.
By the time I realized she was starting a song, My, my, my, he
was there nodding his head. Christian value only.

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That's why you see some people, they are children.
Three years, so many baby colon and they are dancing.
Yeah, Dancing. No value, no scripture.
Swimming. A woman that fears the Lord, she

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shall be praised. I'm sorry.
I know it's not what you signed up for.
Like, I know I say I shouldn't have come.
I mean, what is it talking about?
But that's the truth. How will you raise your children
unless you don't want to have some?
Unless how will you raise your children if you don't have

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Christian values? You don't know how to press a
woman. You don't know how to do quiet
time as a woman. I remember one time I was my
father in law's house. He had traveled.
Mama did walk us up for devotion.
That is not I will have the devotion.
She woke us up, I thought. I mean, I was already lying down

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in the couch when I realized. Yeah, I see.
I said, ah, it's time. It's time.
Yeah. Because she has built godly
values. You don't need a man to build
it. You don't need a man to build
it. So you have.
You are making yourself slaves to me.

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But if I don't have a boyfriend,how can you can learn it?
You don't need a guy to learn how to read Bible.
It's enough. I've been preaching it.
I think I need someone to be checking up on me regularly
after being in church for four years.

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Grundus paparazzi, you are Mama Sita in the church.
So when I see young ladies, and at this point in your life, you
are still worldly, Worldly. Well, you love the world.

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It's a red flag. It's one for 492, Ange.
Now we'll see in China. You come and post it.
And because you want to seem scriptural and spiritual, Oh the
Lord is good to me. Blessed.
Blessed is the man that loves the Lord and walks in his ways

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as I walk in His ways. You are not correct.
Some of you do it. And because you are primarily
emotional creatures, a lot of you are idolaters to your
emotion. You are emotional idolaters.

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You love your feelings. I feel like I don't want to.
I don't want to talk to anybody.So you come to Chuck Bemus
Salaam. Salaam.
No, there's some people when I preach and chat, they don't
laugh. Oh, say one time I was preaching
someone hidden, like, why are you laughing?
What is funny? Oh, when I'm breaking my back.

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I said, oh, emotional idolaters and you make everything about
because you are not happy the whole child like because you
came and you were not happy. Mommy blasted you before coming.
So then why are they happy? You know another thing that I I
find as emotional idolatry? You were able to take your

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phone, wipe the camera, set it down, click record and started
crying People you don't know.

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I'm so stressed out alive. They are reading comments, then
the hypocrites in your chat. It's going to be fine babe and
babe, you're going to have to give up.
God is going to do it. It's a lie.
They are pumpering. You are foolish.
Emotions come out of your emotions.
The emotions are not real. God's word is what is real.

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God's Word is what is real. My husband beat me today.
Mrs. Newman, Thank you for that encouraging weather.

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Am I telling lies? Emotional idolatry, Babu says.
Concerning Esther. Concerning Elkanah's wife
Hannah, when she entered into the temple, Babu says she came
sorrowful but she left excited. It means what happened is that
in that place of prayer she traded her emotion of sorrow and

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took joy from God. Not to learn to trade your
emotions, that no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
I want to read another comment, Chelsea.

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What if I catch you doing that? I'll come and insult you the
fullest dog. Go read your Bible.
Go read your Bible. Why isn't it what a lot of
people in our generation do? Our generation, Oh, emotional
idolaters. One wonderful man of God I love

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said something, said my feelingsare not God, God is God.
My feelings do not define truth.God's word is truth.
Then said every day when my feelings are out of sync with
God, and they happen in a certain degree every day, I
don't take God's word to justifymy imperfect feeling.

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I let my imperfect feeling alignto God's word.
We are not saying you are not sad.
We know you are sad because the boy bounced and broke your heart
and he took your investment away.
But you were a fool to start with that you give your
investment to a guy who is not committed to you.
You have not married. You have opened joint accounts.

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Are you not a fool for that foolish girl?
Clap for that foolish girl. It might not be you in this
building. It might be someone who watched
later. The person hasn't married you.
And you have a joint account. And I know it's something you

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will never do. Why?
But Pastor, you know, we have toshow that we are committed to
each other. That your father's house
document, you've carried it and you have given it to him one
day. One day someone came to me.

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He was dating someone. He said, oh, he has a piece of
land. He wants to give it to the
lady's mother. Fried rice.
I said, are you thinking he saidit in front of the lady?

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So I was very diplomatic. I said, oh really?
We shall talk later. So the two of you go.
We'll talk later. You alligators, We'll talk.
Can I tell you something? They've broken up.

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So imagine you give the land. How are you going to collect
your land? You have done change of
ownership to someone you are notmarried to.
How are you going to collect your land now?
That's how you hear the woman singing Adam Minsaka.

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Minsaka, your land is gone. They've broken up.
So when I give people instruction, it looks like I'm
not wise. It's like, why is he?
I mean, it should allow us to feel free then later and then
they realized that what I said was true.

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So today what I'm as I told you guys, God is so wise.
The things I'm telling you, you might not see the immediate need
now in a few years to come. Our parents, some of them, they
didn't get the privilege to hearthe things we are hearing when I
met Eliza's man. So heard a lot about you.
God bless you so much. Oh yes, please.

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Thank you. Someone told me that he has been
listening to play my message in the house.
The mother has been asked to saywho is that?
Listen to it. Well, when someone mother told
me that God bless me for the things I teach people.
You think you see, in a regular women's conference, nobody will

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tell you that. Become a woman of Greece tell
you. Amen.
Amen. Father, we thank you, Jesus.

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Amen.

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