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June 11, 2025 40 mins

If you’ve been shattered by betrayal, you may be asking: Where do I even begin?

This episode takes you to the very first step in betrayal trauma recovery—the phase of safety and stabilization. Before you can move toward forgiveness, reconciliation, or even understanding, you need something much more urgent: ground beneath your feet.

In this episode, we explore what safety actually means in the context of betrayal. We talk about the importance of emotional, relational, and practical stabilization—and how this phase can’t be rushed. You’ll learn why partners often feel overwhelmed, lost, or disconnected from themselves during this stage, and how to begin reclaiming your voice and power in the midst of relational chaos.

We’ll look at:
• Why safety is non-negotiable for betrayed partners
• What “stabilization” actually looks like (emotionally, relationally, and practically)
• Why rushing the healing process leads to deeper pain
• How betrayed partners can reclaim their voice and autonomy in this crucial early stage

This is the groundwork. The place you return to when everything else feels like too much. Whether you’re in the middle of the chaos or just starting to understand what happened—this episode is for you.
 
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