E39: Aspire to Be Better (ft. James Smith Williams) - Real Men, Real Conversations

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In this week’s episode of Aspire, former NFL defensive end James Smith Williams joins Gabriel Viscogliosi and Hugh Eastman for a powerful discussion about masculinity, accountability, and what it means to be a "good man" on and off the field. Known for his advocacy work through Set the Expectation and partnerships with survivor advocate Brenda Tracy, James has made it his mission to challenge the culture of silence and complacency around sexual and domestic violence.​

James shares how a single question — “If you are a good man, what are you doing to be a good man?” — changed the course of his life while at NC State, sparking a journey that has taken him from college athletics to the NFL and into national leadership in violence prevention. The conversation explores the realities of locker room culture, the balance between empathy and accountability, and how athletes can use their platforms to drive systemic change.

Tune in to a candid conversation on redefining what real strength and leadership look like. James offers a message that’s both challenging and hopeful: ending gender-based violence isn’t a women’s issue - it’s everyone’s responsibility.​

For guidance on what to do after an incident of sexual violence, how to support a survivor, and where to find additional resources, visit ihavetherightto.org/get-info