Choosing to Blend Out

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Episode Description:

In this episode, Zachary Fenell joins me to talk about what it really means to live as actively as possible while navigating life with cerebral palsy. We dive into the assumptions people make about disability, the pressure to “prove” your condition, and how deeply personal the concept of struggle truly is. Zach shares stories about college, marathons, and the moment he chose to stop blending in and start owning his story.

We explore how internal validation trumps external approval, why visibility on social media can be both empowering and draining, and how everyone's path to self-acceptance looks different. From humorous moments to serious reflection, this episode highlights the importance of being seen for who you are—not just through the lens of a diagnosis, but as a full person with interests, goals, and strength.

Zach reminds us that comparison steals joy, and I couldn’t agree more. Our stories matter. Your story matters. And no matter what the world sees on the surface, only you truly know your journey. You don’t need to prove your disability to anyone. You don’t need permission to be yourself. This is about owning your truth, taking pride in your progress, and blending out.

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