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June 22, 2025 • 62 mins

🎙️ Episode 10: Red Flags, Unhinged DMs & Getting Real About STIs


🔞 This podcast is for adults only. We chat openly about sex, non-monogamy, and all things spicy — so if you're under 18 or not into frank conversations, this one's not for you.


This one’s raw, real, and straight from the heart.

In this episode, we’re unpacking:
🚩 Red flags you’ve sent us from your own experiences in the lifestyle
đź“© Some of the wildest, weirdest, and downright unhinged single guy messages. This is a lesson in how NOT to message!
🧪 And — in our most honest moment yet — we’re sharing our personal experience of testing positive for an STI

Yep, we’re outing ourselves — not for sympathy, but because we believe this is the conversation that needs to be had. Most people wouldn’t admit it… but we are. Because sexual health is a part of the lifestyle. Testing, talking, and taking responsibility — it’s all part of being in this community, and we’re done with the stigma & shame.

We’re laying it all bare in our usual frank, funny, and unfiltered way. If you’ve ever wondered just how honest we’ll get — this is the one that proves it.

💌 Don’t forget to grab our FREE Lifestyle Rules & Boundaries Quiz:
https://tr.ee/beyondvanilla

đź’‹ Honest. Vulnerable. Zero shame. And always Beyond Vanilla.

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