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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hey there, beautiful people, it's your girl, Jessica Lane coming
at you live with another dose of bold and balanced,
your daily shot of empowerment delivered straight to your ears. Today,
we're diving headfirst into a topic that's as crucial as
it is often misunderstood. Setting boundaries in our relationships. Ever,
feel like you're constantly giving, giving, giving, but never quite
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getting that same level of respect or consideration back. You
know that feeling when someone just walks all over your time, energy,
or emotional space without batting an eyelid. Yeah, me too,
We've all been there, trust me. Setting boundaries isn't about
being selfish or a control freak. It's about self love
and creating healthy, fulfilling connections. Think of it like this.
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Boundaries are the invisible fences that keep your energy, time,
and emotions safe and protected. They let people know what
you're comfortable with, what you won't tolerate, and what kind
of respect you deserve. Let's get down to the nitty
gritty with five rock solid takeaways that will have you
saying no with confidence and owning your power first up,
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knowing your worth. You are a freaking masterpiece, a unique
and valuable human being. Deserving of respect and admiration. When
you understand your inherent worth, it becomes easier to say
note to things that drain you or compromise your values. Remember,
saying yes all the time can lead to burnout, resentment,
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and feeling taken advantage of, So start valuing your time
and energy. They are precious commodities. Next, identify your needs
and limits. What makes you feel uncomfortable? What are your
deal breakers? Take some time to reflect on what truly
matters to you in your relationships. Are there certain topics
you'd rather not discuss? Do you need alone time to recharge?
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Figure out what energizes you and what depletes you, and
communicate those needs clearly. Communication is key. This one might
seem obvious, but it's so important. Don't expect others to
read your mind. They won't be direct, assertive, and respectful.
When expressing your boundaries, use I statements like I feel
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uncomfortable when or I need some space right now. This
helps avoid blame and keeps the conversation focused on your
feelings and needs. Be consistent. Boundaries aren't one time conversations.
They're ongoing agreements that require consistency. When someone pushes your
limits gently but firmly remind them of your boundary. Don't
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be afraid to repeat yourself. It reinforces your commitment and
shows that you're serious about respecting your own needs. Finally,
practice self compassion. Setting boundaries can feel uncomfortable at first,
especially if you're used to people pleasing or prioritizing others
needs above your own. Be kind to yourself during this process.
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Acknowledge your courage for stepping into your power, and celebrate
your wins along the way. Picture this, You've finally landed
that dream job, but there's a catch. Your boss expects
you to be always on, readily available even outside of
work hours. Ever feel that pressure you know what I'm
talking about, That nagging feeling like you have to constantly
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check emails, answer calls, and prove your worth even when
you're trying to unwind. Well, guess what, that's a boundary violation.
You deserve to switch off, recharge, and maintain a healthy
work life balance. So how do you set the boundary?
Start by communicating clearly, while I'm dedicated to my role,
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I value my personal time outside of work hours. I'll
be checking emails and messages during designated working hours. Then
stick to it. Resist the urge to constantly answer calls
or respond to messages after hours. It sends a powerful
message about your priorities and self respect. Trust me, setting
this boundary will empower you to show up fully at
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work and enjoy your personal time guilt free. Remember, beautiful Souls,
boundaries are not meant to keep people out. They're meant
to let the right people in, those who respect your values,
your needs, and your energy. So take these insights to heart,
embrace your power, and start setting those boundaries like a boss.
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Remember you deserve to be treated with respect and have healthy,
fulfilling relationships. Now go out there and own your brilliance.
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