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Speaker 1 (00:00):
What if the greatest
treasure, you know, the secret
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to lasting happiness and a trulyfulfilled life isn't found out
there in more stuff or thosefleeting pleasures or even like
checking off everything on yourcrazy long to do list? What if
it's something much deeper,something already inside you
just sort of waiting to be wokenup?
Speaker 2 (00:18):
That's a really
powerful place to start.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
Yeah. And it's right
at the heart of our deep dive
today. We're cracking open RogerWalsh's book, Essential
Spirituality, The Seven CentralPractices to Awaken Heart and
Mind. And it's not just a bookyou read. Right?
It feels more like a hands onroadmap.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
Exactly. And our
mission today for you listening
is pretty clear. Yeah. We wantedto unpack its main purpose,
explore some of those powerful,sometimes kinda insights. We'll
also dig into some of thechallenges because let's be
honest, this path isn't alwayseasy.
And then figure out how thisancient wisdom, which is
actually backed by modernscience in cool ways, can make a
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real difference in your lifetoday. We're talking about
finding that mental comfort ashe calls it.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
Yeah. That mental
comfort beyond just, you know,
physical stuff. And what I foundreally fascinating about Walsh
himself is his background. Hedidn't start here. He began as
this like super rigorousagnostic scientist degrees in
psychology, physiology,neuroscience, medicine, the
works.
He basically thought if youcouldn't measure it, it didn't
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exist.
Speaker 2 (01:23):
Right. Very
empirical.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
Then he tried therapy
himself, discovered this whole
unsuspected universe within andhad this big moment. He realized
these spiritual traditions allover the world, they actually
share this common core ofpractices for like, training
your mind. And it led him tothis key idea, something he
really wants you to get. You aremore than you think.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
Mhmm. And that's such
a crucial point separating that
direct personal experience fromdogma or just believing things.
The book really challenges us tolook beyond only chasing
material comforts. Walsh argues,yeah, we need basic physical
things for well-being. Sure.
But those alone, they're nevergonna give you that deep mental
comfort or real lastinghappiness.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
So where does it come
from then?
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Well, he says it
comes from directly experiencing
what he calls the sacred. Andit's important how we define
spirituality. It's that directexperience. He specifically sets
it apart from religion as like abelief system. It's about
exploring for yourself.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
Okay. So if we
actually do that, engage with
this direct experience, whathappens? What are the benefits?
He talks about a life changingfeast of benefits, which sounds
pretty good.
Speaker 2 (02:31):
It does sound good.
And he lays it out. Spiritual
practices can bring healing.They can genuinely reduce fear
and anger. They help growhappiness and love, cultivate
real wisdom, and even improvephysical health.
It's really holistic.
Speaker 1 (02:44):
Wow. So it touches
pretty much everything.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
Pretty much. And to
guide this transformation, he
gives us the seven perennialpractices. And these aren't just
techniques, he stresses that.They're more like disciplines
for cultivating crucialcapacities of mind. He puts a
huge emphasis on the very firstone, transform your motivation.
This isn't about getting betterat chasing what you want. It's
deeper. It's about shifting whatyou desire in the first place,
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like reducing that constantcraving and finding what your
soul really wants.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
That's interesting.
So not just getting stuff, but
why you want the stuff.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
Exactly. Because his
big insight here is that no
thing, no external object orachievement is ever going to
make us completely or lastinglyhappy. We keep thinking
happiness is out there, but hechallenges that right from the
start.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
Okay. That's a
powerful first step. So much
self help is about getting.Where does he go next?
Speaker 2 (03:33):
Well, after
motivation, number two is
cultivate emotional wisdom. Thisis all about the heart healing
it, learning to love better. Itmeans really looking at
difficult emotions,understanding them, and actively
growing things like gratitudeand compassion, knowing your
inner world.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
Makes sense. And
then?
Speaker 2 (03:51):
Then comes number
three, live ethically. His
argument is simple but profound.Doing good makes you feel good.
Because even if nobody sees it,unethical actions hurt you
emotionally, right away. It'sabout integrity for your own
sake.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
Oh yeah, totally.
That heavy feeling when you know
you've messed up. It's real.What about controlling the mind?
That feels like the big one foreveryone.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
Absolutely. And
that's practice number four,
concentrate and calm your mind.This is about taming that wild
monkey mind, know, that nonstopchatter and distraction that
makes us feel anxious andscattered. It's fundamental for
clarity.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
The monkey mind.
Yeah. I know one well.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
We all do. Then
building on that, number five is
Awaken your spiritual vision.This is about learning to see
clearly, recognizing the sacredin everything, not just the
obvious stuff, seeing beyond thesurface level.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
Okay. So seeing
differently.
Speaker 2 (04:42):
Kind of. Yeah. Then
number six
intelligence. This is aboutdeveloping real wisdom,
understanding life deeply, notjust collecting facts. Knowing
what truly matters.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Discernments.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
Exactly. And finally,
number seven brings it all
together. Express spirit inaction. This means embracing
generosity, finding the joy inserving others, not because you
have to, but because it comesfrom a place of genuine joy and
connection.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
You know, what I
really like is how practical
makes all this. For eachpractice, he explains why it's
important, the benefits, sure,but then he gives you simple and
easy daily exercises. And hehammers this point home again
and again. The transformationdoesn't come from just reading.
You have to be doing thepractices.
The exercises transform you tothe extent that they are done
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and applied. It feels reallyusable.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
Yeah. Totally
actionable. And he cleverly
weaves in the modern science andpsychology too. He talks about
how research can sometimes backup these ancient spiritual
claims.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
Mhmm.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
It's like a dual
approach, what he calls tested
faith through your ownexperience plus external
research when it's available.He's quite critical of untested
faith, just blindly believingthings. He wants you to test it
out for yourself. It's it'sreally neat blend of old wisdom
and modern validation.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
And he's also really
kind about the process, isn't
he? He he gives these generalprinciples like be gentle with
yourself. We're human. We messup.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
Right.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
And if you do slip,
his advice is just start again.
As soon as you notice, you onlyneed to succeed one more time,
then you fail, basically. I
Speaker 2 (06:11):
love that. It takes
the pressure off.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
It really does. And
here's a fun twist. He actually
says, there is nothing selfishabout enjoying yourself. He
points to research showing happypeople are often less self
focused and more helpful toothers. That really flips the
script, doesn't it?
Speaker 2 (06:27):
It absolutely does.
Yep. So, okay, we've seen the
huge potential here. But, youknow, any path this deep has its
challenges. Let's switch gears abit and talk about some of the
critiques or limitations thatWalsh himself actually brings
up, like a little book clubdiscussion.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
Yeah. Good idea. And
one of the biggest ones he makes
super clear is that thistransformation stuff, it's
gradual. He says transformingyourself in your life is a
gradual process. It's not undonein a day.
Those old habits, they take timeand specific techniques to
change. And that can be tough.Right? Especially today when we
want everything instantly, itpatience.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
Exactly. Patience
isn't exactly rewarded in our
culture. And Walsh points thisout too, society might support
you getting say a degree or apromotion, you know,
conventional stuff, but growthbeyond that, often it neglects
or even violently resists it.Because he says, post
conventional wisdom canseriously undermine conventional
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assumptions. Think about thoseshared myths our culture runs on
like money equals happiness.
He says these myths can keep usin a semi conscious trance. So
living an awakened life can feelreally countercultural. You're
kind of going against the grain.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
Yeah. You won't get a
lot of pats on the back for
meditating instead of shopping,maybe.
Speaker 2 (07:41):
Pretty much. Yeah.
And then there's just the sheer
difficulty of taming the minditself. It's not just us. Even
the great saints and sage justtalked about this.
Shankara, a huge figure inHinduism was asked what the
hardest task was. His answer tokeep the mind under constant
control. Wow. And saint Teresaof Avila apparently cried out in
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frustration about her wanderingmind. Yeah.
So that wild monkey mind wetalked about. It's a serious
opponent. It takes realsustained effort, not just a
weekend workshop.
Speaker 1 (08:09):
Definitely not a
quick fix.
Speaker 2 (08:11):
No. And another big
point, maybe less a critique of
the path and more a critique ofsociety, is how we chase
happiness through stuff. Thebook cites research showing that
once your basic needs are met,getting more money or
possessions adds remarkablylittle to how happy you feel. He
mentions research showingaverage American buying power
doubled between 1960 and 1990but reported happiness didn't
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budge, not one bit. Walsh saysthis fact just demolishes the
core idea about happiness thatour whole culture seems built
on.
Speaker 1 (08:42):
It's huge. It
challenges everything, really.
Speaker 2 (08:45):
It really does. And
one last warning he gives, feels
really relevant now withspirituality being so
commercialized sometimes. Yeah.Is about misinterpreting things
like ecstatic experiences orpsychic stuff.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
Oh, race.
Speaker 2 (08:55):
He warns that
powerful experiences are not
necessarily proof of wisdom andthings like psychic abilities.
He calls them mere sideshows,things you shouldn't actively
seek out. There's a real dangerof what he calls spiritual
materialism, getting hooked onthe flashy experiences instead
of the actual goal, which isliberation and wisdom.
Speaker 1 (09:13):
Like chasing the
fireworks instead of the inner
peace.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
Exactly. He tells
that great story about the monk
seeing the golden Buddha, andthe teacher just says, don't
worry, it will go away. Thefocus needs to stay on the real
transformation.
Speaker 1 (09:25):
Okay. That makes
sense. So, last pivot now. Let's
talk about the actionablewisdom. Those key takeaways we
can actually use.
How do these big ideas connectto our daily lives?
Speaker 2 (09:34):
Great idea. Let's do
maybe 10 key insights. First,
the core of spirituality isdirect experience, not just
belief. It's about recognizingthat divine spark inside you.
For modern life, this is soempowering, right?
It encourages you to find yourown meaning, own moments, not
just accept what you're told.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
Yeah. Taking
ownership of your inner life.
Speaker 2 (09:57):
Second insight. You
are more than you think. Your
true self isn't just your ego oryour body. It's boundless,
connected to the sacred. Thisdirectly challenges those self
limiting beliefs we all carry.
It builds real inner strengthand self acceptance, which is
gold in today's world. Yourpotential is way bigger than you
imagine.
Speaker 1 (10:14):
Love that. Okay.
Number three,
Speaker 2 (10:16):
third, this one's
tough, but crucial. Craving
feels suffering, unfulfilledattachments, wanting things
always leads to frustration andpain and his killer line, no
thing is ever gonna make usfully or lastingly happy.
Speaker 1 (10:30):
That hits home with
consumer culture.
Speaker 2 (10:32):
Totally. Think about
the endless phone upgrades,
chasing trends. Walsh says thechasing itself is the problem.
Understanding this helps youloosen the grip of consumerism,
those unhealthy obsessions, thewhole 'if only I had X' game, it
frees up so much energy.
Speaker 1 (10:47):
Okay, what's number
four?
Speaker 2 (10:48):
Fourth is simple but
deep. Awareness heals. Just
bringing conscious nonjudgmental awareness to
difficult emotions like fear,anger, even craving tends to
heal them. He says awareness perse can be curative. This is huge
for managing stress.
Just observing a feeling givesyou space from it.
Speaker 1 (11:06):
So just noticing can
change things?
Speaker 2 (11:08):
Pretty much. Fifth,
forgiveness is for you. It's
fundamentally for your own sake,he says. It's about choosing to
carry the pain of the past nolonger. This gives you a way out
of resentment, improving yourwell-being no matter what the
other person did.
It's about freeing yourself.
Speaker 1 (11:22):
Letting go of that
poison. Makes sense. What about
more physical stuff?
Speaker 2 (11:27):
Good question. Number
six highlights the powerful mind
body connection. He points outyou can't be relaxed and fearful
at the same time. And get this,changing your posture can change
your mood. Standing tall canactually make you feel more
courageous.
Speaker 1 (11:40):
Seriously, just
standing differently.
Speaker 2 (11:43):
Yeah. It's a super
practical tip you can use right
now to manage anxiety or boostconfidence. Your body and mind
are totally linked. Cool. Okay.
Number seven.
Speaker 1 (11:50):
Seventh is a big one
for today. What we concentrate
on, we become. Your mental dietmatters hugely. Paying wise
attention grows good qualities.Unwise attention, like
constantly watching violence ordoom scrolling, grows negative
ones.
This empowers you to consciouslychoose what you let into your
mind. Huge for mental health andfocus.
Speaker 2 (12:11):
So choose your inputs
carefully. Definitely. Eighth is
a lovely paradox. The joy ofservice, the helper's high. The
book notes that taking time tomake others happy makes us feel
better than devoting all ourefforts to our own pleasures.
Altruism isn't just good forothers. It's good for us. It
builds community and reducesself focus. Anonymous giving
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especially powerful.
Speaker 1 (12:33):
The secret joy of
giving. Nice nine.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
Ninth is profound.
Embrace mortality to live fully.
Realizing life is short anddeath is certain isn't morbid,
it's motivating. It inspires youto live more fully, more boldly,
and more impeccably instead ofwasting time on petty stuff. It
helps you prioritize what trulymatters every day.
Speaker 1 (12:52):
Wow. Using death as
fuel for life. Powerful.
Speaker 2 (12:55):
And the last one. And
tenth. Which builds incredible
resilience learned from allexperiences. Walsh says every
experience can be a means ofdrawing closer to God or the
sacred, however you frame it.Mistakes aren't failures.
They're simply mistakes to learnfrom. No need for harsh self
blame. This fosters a growthmindset, turning setbacks into
lessons.
Speaker 1 (13:13):
That's incredibly
freeing. Okay. So for folks
listening who really connectedwith this deep dive and want
more, we have our thematicpairing our If you liked this,
you'll love that recommendation.
Speaker 2 (13:23):
Yeah. If Roger
Walsh's Essential Spirituality
resonated, you will absolutelylove the Yoga Sutras of
Patanjali. It's an ancient text,but many modern translations
make it super accessible. LikeWalsh's book, it gives this
amazing framework forunderstanding the mind, how it
jumps around, and providessystematic practices like
ethics, concentration to achievestillness, and self realization.
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It lines up beautifully withWalsh's practice of calming the
mind, a truly timeless companionpiece.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
Excellent
recommendation. Okay. To try and
capture the heart of all this,here's a haiku. Spirit's quiet
quest, inner wisdom finds itsrest, joy fills every breast.
Speaker 2 (14:00):
Lovely. And really,
these lessons from Walsh,
drawing on millennia of wisdomand backed by science, they
genuinely point towards living abetter life. It's about waking
up from that semi conscioustrance he talks about, you know,
where we're just reacting,running on autopilot based on
old habits and what societytells us. It's about choosing
purpose over just chasingpleasure, shifting from always
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trying to get things to focusingon giving and understanding that
fundamental point. All actionsare judged by the motives
prompting them.
Your intention really matters.
Speaker 1 (14:32):
Yeah. And it's not
about floating away from
reality, is it? It's aboutengaging more fully, more
consciously, more vibrantly,becoming more aware, more
loving, more ethical, findingreal joy and meaning through
service. It's an ongoingprocess, a game worth playing,
as he says.
Speaker 2 (14:48):
Absolutely. So the
real question for you listening
is Yeah. What's one small thing,one concrete step you could take
today to start doing thepractices, not just thinking
about them? Walsh puts itbeautifully. Do you wanna kill
time or build a cathedral?
Speaker 1 (14:59):
A powerful question
to end on. Thank you so much for
joining us on this deep diveinto essential spirituality.
Until next time, keep exploring,keep questioning, and keep
diving deep into what trulymatters for you.