Can I Borrow Your Skin

Can I Borrow Your Skin

Can I Borrow Your Skin is a conversational culture and lifestyle podcast exploring self-support, fetish identity, and relationships through the lens of people of color. Blending personal stories with insights from expert guests, the show dives into the complexities of intimacy, body autonomy, and emotional growth. Real, unfiltered, and thought-provoking, it’s a space for listeners to connect, reflect, and embrace their full selves

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June 5, 2026 29 mins

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62 million visit and so few victims know or come forward. Sex trafficking and how hard to be believed when you escape. Why must you fight to be heard? Discussing her journey to become a forensic nurse after not being believed. Part 2 of 3

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TRIGGER WARNING

62 million visit and so few victims know or come forward. Sex trafficking and how hard to be believed when you escape. Why must you fight to be heard? Discussing her journey to become a forensic nurse after not being believed.

Part 1 of 3

TRIGGER WARNING

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May 22, 2026 18 mins

Maturity is not just contraception.

What about not being able to communicate wants? Needs? Desires? Why exploring what you love in sex is bad? What about one-sided sex shaming where being community dick is ok, but having multiple partners?2

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May 15, 2026 13 mins

There is this glorious construct of Black love – a Black man finding a Black woman and pair bond and raise a family. It was always something that I saw growing up around my family and the foundation of my childhood.

A theme in my book, Can I Borrow Your Skin, was that as an industrious woman focused on career was does the idea of Black love fade for an older, driven woman?

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May 8, 2026 11 mins

Is your sex evolving over time? If not, you may be cheating yourself out of a great time

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May 1, 2026 11 mins

Even for those not in the sex industry, Good Sex is a currency and peopel are naïve to think that it is not .Sex is transactional. Why not turn that orgasm into an opportunity?

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April 24, 2026 10 mins

In the medical field, we need to foster equity of a diverse group of identities including race especially in leadership, and education. It is crucial for validation, belonging, and breaking stereotypes. For the next generations to seek medicine as a field they need visible role models

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Real threat for health care is how insurance companies define pre-existing conditions now. There are many ways to protect yourself while also getting the needed information.

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The old stereotypes about minorities in medicine still have not been dispelled. When we are not participating in the system, then how is the system going to get better care?

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April 3, 2026 15 mins

April is National Minority Health Month. I started this podcast, this year with encouraging people to go to the Damn Doctor. I understand that there is a lot of mistrust in the health care system. And for good reason. As a minority, we do not get viewed well - we are saw as drug seeking, or are not listened to and mistreated. We have options for our community and we need to invest in them

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March 27, 2026 11 mins

There are those deaths that remove the rose colored glasses. I experienced that with my parents. I was in my 40s and I felt that I was an adult, but I learned very quickly that many of things that I thought that grief and life in general was very wrong. It was a total slap in the face. I found my entire life turned upside down, but not for the typical, I feel like an orphan reasons. I was no longer rationalizing the things shown to...

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March 20, 2026 27 mins

The grief that is a haunting…where the song, painting, place, event sparks the most painful, but also glorious memories. This grief can be both by a death, but also a relationship ending

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March 13, 2026 7 mins

Rolling like tide, rough and engulfing. Grief can be unexpected and suffocating

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March 6, 2026 31 mins

How we all picture grief when we first think of it

(to celebrate my birthday tomorrow, let's get into something heavy, but necessary)

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February 27, 2026 17 mins

Whether we are discussing dressing scantly, in something painted on, or transparently...or more - it can be raw, I need it now passion or the thrill of being caught or pure attention.

(also my engineer did not tell me I had a whole buckwheat)

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February 20, 2026 18 mins

The escapism of being someone else and seeing your partner in another light can be a turn-on for many. To leave the responsibility of everyday for one night of passion

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February 13, 2026 20 mins

Do you love they way silk or satin feel upon your skin?

Does your partner in lace make you smile?

How do you think warm cotton should made to be used?

Is it a nicely tailored suit? Or maybe something a little flirty?

People rank clothing or the material of clothing as the second biggest fetish. It, also, like a foot fetish is very easy to practice in the world. Let's discuss

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February 7, 2026 27 mins

Here are some hockey basics so you can enjoy the Duel in the D today

Michigan won game 1 in OT last night. Hopefully today is entertaining, as well

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February 6, 2026 9 mins

Let's step right into it...looking at all the celebrations for February I had options of chocolate, showering with a friend, cleaning out your computer, wine, hangovers....sounds like fetishes to me. So let's just take some taboo out of sex. So we will focus on fetishes this February

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February 5, 2026 10 mins

In response to the Reddit post, without female gentials there would not be male gentials as the male gential is just outside female gentials

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