Carl and Heather Present...

Carl and Heather Present...

Carl and Heather are taking on the humor, challenges, highs and lows of staying married to someone who is nothing like you, while holding out some hope that marriage is worth it all.

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July 22, 2025 27 mins

In the 4th week of our 5 week James series we discuss James chapter 4. It's all about humility and recognizing the sin of pride that can wreak havoc on oneness in marriage. Take the journey with us because it's hard to do alone and let's grow together!

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In Week 3 of our couple's journey through the book of James, we talk about the difficult but necessary discipline of taming the tongue. If you need help with watching your words and building a world of blessing, this one could be a huge benefit. To get a guide to study the book of James with your spouse, head to carlandheather.com, enter your email address to get the guide sent straight to your inbox.

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In week 2 of our 5 week journey through the book of James we talk about how to make faith move beyond hearing to action and impact. If your marriage feels stuck, maybe it's time to take action on what you already know to do.

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This is week 1 of our couples-walk through the book of James. We get into the reality of suffering and the promise of what it could accomplish as we try and endure some of life's most difficult stuff without losing each other. This episode has a study guide you can use to have your own conversation with your spouse. Get it at carlandheather.com

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June 24, 2025 33 mins

We got in a fight and it felt real familiar to a fight that landed us in counseling a few years ago, so we decided to break it down and talk about it. If you find yourself having the same fight over and over, this episode can help.

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After four decades of marriage, Marty and Lora Schweiterman still look at each other like newlyweds—but with a whole lot more wisdom. In this episode, they share time-tested habits, spiritual rhythms, and intentional choices that help you build a marriage that is built to last.

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Our friend Jill Forbes joins the podcast this week and tells her story of suddenly losing her spouse Heath to a heart attack at 47. She shares openly with us about trying to hold the hope of the Gospel in one of the hardest seasons of life.

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Marriage and family experts Ben and Janet Burns join us this week to talk about how to put empathy into action. Understanding each other on an emotional level can accelerate our connection and help us move towards purpose together!

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In this episode we talk with our friends Steve and Amber Alverson, an incredible couple working hard to stay connected to each other through busy schedules and 4 small kids.

Here is a link to find a ReEngage in your area...this is one of the things Steve and Amber attribute to helping their marriage grow: https://www.reengage.org/locations

Here is a link to the fancy salt Steve says they put on their steaks: https...

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In this episode we encourage people to tap the breaks before throwing in the towel on their marriage. Just because it's seems dead does not mean it's over. Don't throw in the towel yet.

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This week we talk about loss, grief and healing with Daniel and Jamie Heard. The Heards share the story of losing their young son William in a choking accident and how it's brought them to the depths of despair and understanding that our pain can be our place of greatest impact.

Daniel and Jamie lead Faithfully Restored, a ministry that through hope in Jesus, lifts up women who need care, encouragement and community. ...

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May 6, 2025 30 mins

In this episode, we dive into the importance of having real, meaningful conversations about sex in marriage. We’ll share why honest conversations about your desires, needs, and fears can lead to a stronger bond and a more fulfilling sex life. If you’ve ever struggled to find the words, this episode will help you start the conversation that could change everything.

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April 29, 2025 35 mins

Struggling to communicate with your spouse? You’re not alone — but you don’t have to stay stuck. In this episode we’re breaking down how to fix broken communication, listen to truly understand, and speak with clarity that actually connects. This conversation is full of practical wisdom and real-life insight to help you talk with each other — not just at each other.

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In the conclusion of their story, Myles and Carrie Murphy share what life looks like on the other side of addiction—where healing comes through engaging the Spirit, trust is rebuilt, and God's grace writes a new chapter. 

Here is the message that Myles references from Pastor John Piper about Romans 8 that helped him engage the Spirit in a way that led to his deliverance from alcohol addiction.

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In this powerful and vulnerable conversation, Myles and Carrie Murphy share their journey through the dark valley of addiction—and the miraculous deliverance that changed everything. Myles opens up about his battle with alcoholism and the toll it took on their marriage. Carrie shares what it was like to walk through those years beside him, praying, hoping, and holding on. This episode is a testament to the power of God to restore w...

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April 8, 2025 33 mins

This episode offers help for those struggling to forgive the things they can't forget.

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In this episode we talk about our month-long fast from social media and screens in the month of March. It dramatically helped us reconnect to our family and each other. It might be something you didn't know you need. It was for us!

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In this episode we asked Heather's friends for their best marriage advice. Here's what they said.

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Carl asked his friends for their best marriage advice. Here's what they said...

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This week's special guests are Craig and Molly Sanborn (The Cheeseball Chick) who share their story of conflict, going in opposite directions and how to get back on the same page after drifting apart.

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