Coach Fireside Chat Podcast - EP 4
The Hidden Link between Avoidance and Overworking with Lucie Tomkinson
In this insightful episode of Coach Fireside Chat, host Karl Sandland sits down with Lucy Tomkinson, a self-love coach, to explore the hidden link between avoidance and overworking.
They delve into how unresolved childhood wounds and unmet emotional needs can lead to using work as a coping mechanism, contributing to burnout and emotional disconnection. The conversation covers various attachment styles, the formation of these styles, and their lifelong impacts on relationships and self-esteem. Practical strategies for recognising and addressing avoidant attachment are discussed, offering listeners valuable insights into improving their personal and professional lives.
Key Topics/Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Coach Fireside Chat
01:15 Exploring Avoidance and Overworking
02:22 Understanding Attachment Styles
05:01 Impact of Insecure Attachments
09:04 Avoidant Attachment and Burnout
17:18 Recognising and Addressing Burnout
19:12 Healing and Coping Mechanisms
37:17 Final Thoughts and Contact Information
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Webpage: https://stan.store/lucietomkinsonlifecoaching
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Hey, I'm Karl Sandland – AI & Automation Strategist.
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