In the final part of the Feminine Freedom series, we’re talking about the one thing that all the other pillars—health, home, and wealth—are ultimately in service of: happiness. But here’s the catch—joy isn’t something you “earn” once you’ve done enough healing, hired help, or hit your income goals. It’s something you choose in the here and now.
This episode is a loving truth bomb for the woman who’s done everything right… and still doesn’t feel lit up. If you’ve been living in anticipation of “one day,” this conversation will bring you back to today. I unpack the real science of joy (dopamine vs. presence), why we’ve been taught to chase happiness outside of ourselves, and the simple mindset shift that brings your energy, creativity, and fulfillment back online.
Whether you're on the edge of a big life transition or just tired of the hustle, this is your reminder: joy isn’t the result—it’s the path.
Inside this episode:
- The real reason your achievements haven’t brought lasting joy
- Why “the pursuit of happiness” is misleading
- How to rewire your nervous system to feel alive again
- My shift to bi-weekly episodes and what’s next while I’m in Europe
Let this be your permission slip to stop chasing and start choosing.
Stay bold, stay balanced, and I’ll see you next week.
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