Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.

In this episode of Coming Inside OUT, hosts Brian and Mark open up about the power of community, connection, and authenticity within the LGBTQ experience. Reflecting on their time at a gay fathers retreat, they share personal stories of growth, mental health, and the role therapy has played in their journeys.

With Suicide Awareness Month as the backdrop, the conversation highlights the importance of uplifting one another, finding p...

In this episode of Coming Inside Out, hosts Mark Dembo and Brian Janes sit down with Rick Clemons (@rickclemons), coach, author, and advocate for LGBTQ+ authenticity. Together, they explore Rick’s personal journey of coming out and the unique challenges faced by gay men in midlife—from navigating modern dating dynamics to overcoming patterns of people-pleasing and fear.

Rick shares his insights on the power of community and support,...

In this episode of the Coming Inside Out podcast, hosts Brian Janes and Mark Dembo explore the importance of male friendships, the journey of coming out, and the complexities of relationships within the LGBTQ community. They share personal experiences, discuss the impact of AI on relationships, and emphasize the need for empathy and understanding in the community. The conversation also touches on the state of LGBTQ rights and the s...

In this episode, Mark and Brian discuss their recent experiences at Montreal Pride, reflecting on the joy and guilt that can accompany personal celebrations. They delve into the current political climate regarding LGBTQ+ rights in the U.S., including the challenges faced by the trans community. The conversation touches on the pervasive hate in society and the importance of community and mindfulness in personal growth. They also exp...

In this episode, hosts Brian and Mark reflect on their summer hiatus, discuss cultural icons that have influenced their understanding of sexuality, and engage with listener topics ranging from dating dynamics to mental health resources. They share personal experiences in navigating online dating, the importance of community, and the challenges of finding balance in a chaotic world. The conversation also touches on humorous and sati...

In this powerful episode of 40 Plus, Gay Men, Gay Talk Rick Clemons sits down with Mark Dembo to talk about coming out later in life, the messy beauty of self-discovery, and the liberating (and terrifying) freedom that comes with being unapologetically you.

They cover: Guilt, anxiety, and codependence in late-life coming out Why authenticity is a leadership superpower Couples counseling, redefining relationships, and facing your tr...

In this episode of the Coming Inside Out podcast, hosts Mark and Brian celebrate their 50th episode while reflecting on personal experiences and current events affecting the LGBTQ+ community. They discuss the significance of Pride Month, the importance of community support, and the complexities of navigating relationships, including open and polyamorous dynamics. The conversation emphasizes the need for vigilance in the face of adv...

In this episode of the Coming Inside Out Podcast, hosts Brian Janes and Mark Dembo discuss various themes surrounding Pride Month, including personal updates, reflections on safety at Pride events, the significance of coming out, and the current political climate affecting the LGBTQ+ community. They also explore the importance of self-reflection and healing journeys, sharing profound questions to ask oneself for personal growth.

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Coming inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you.

Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insight and a sense of belonging that we all crave. Join your hosts, Brian and Mark, as they ca...

In this episode of the Coming Inside Out podcast, hosts Mark and Brian share personal updates, including Mark's recent move and the emotional challenges that come with it. They discuss the complexities of coming out, financial struggles, and the importance of embracing change. The conversation shifts to listener questions about pride events and experiences in the gay community, revealing both the joys and challenges faced. They ref...

In this episode of Coming Inside Out, hosts Brian and Mark welcome their first guest, Shaun Williams, who shares his powerful journey of coming out as a gay man after decades of living a different life. Shaun discusses the challenges he faced, including mental health struggles and the importance of seeking help. He emphasizes the significance of community and connection among men, particularly those who identify as LGBTQ+. The conv...

In this episode of the Coming Inside Out podcast, hosts Mark and Brian explore themes of gratitude, self-discovery, and the complexities of relationships within the LGBTQ+ community. They reflect on their personal journeys of coming out, the struggles of feeling stagnant in life, and the importance of self-love. The conversation delves into the dynamics of open relationships, the impact of past relationships, and the evolving norms...

In this episode, Brian Janes and Mark Dembo explore the complexities of life changes, loneliness in the gay community, and the challenges of meeting new people. They discuss the impact of dating apps, the pain associated with coming out, and the ongoing journey of self-discovery. The conversation highlights the importance of community support and the reflections on personal growth amidst the challenges of living authentically.

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In this episode of the Coming Inside Out podcast, hosts Mark and Brian discuss various themes surrounding the LGBTQ community, including the impact of their podcast, personal coming out experiences, and the importance of building community. They explore the representation of gay men in media, the political climate affecting LGBTQ rights, and the significance of authenticity in personal and professional lives. The conversation also ...

In this episode, hosts Brian and Mark discuss their personal journeys of coming out, the importance of community support, and the challenges faced by the LGBTQ+ community. They explore the significance of vulnerability, political diversity, and the need for authentic expression in leadership. The conversation also touches on the emotional complexities of navigating relationships and the journey of self-discovery. Listeners are enco...

In this episode, Brian and Mark discuss the importance of love and acceptance in the LGBTQ community amidst a divisive political climate. They explore the challenges faced by LGBTQ individuals, particularly in relation to the Republican party and its stance on LGBTQ rights. The conversation touches on the distractions created by culture wars, the impact of misinformation, and the importance of finding joy and support within the com...

In this episode, Brian and Mark discuss the journey of coming out as gay men, the challenges they faced, and the importance of living authentically. They share their experiences with therapy, support groups, and the emotional rollercoaster that often accompanies the process of coming out. The conversation emphasizes the significance of community, self-acceptance, and the ongoing journey of personal growth and empowerment.

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In this episode, Brian reflects on the evolution of his podcast, the importance of community connections, and the current state of diversity, equity, and inclusion within the LGBTQ community. He shares personal experiences and insights on consumer choices that impact the community, encouraging listeners to engage and share their own journeys.

Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and th...

In this episode, Brian discusses the challenges of recording solo, the impact of wildfires in Southern California, and shares personal reflections on his coming out journey. He emphasizes the importance of support networks for LGBTQ individuals and highlights listener stories that resonate with the themes of self-acceptance and community. Brian also mentions the upcoming podcast-a-thon and the Trevor Project, encouraging listeners ...